Identifying Emotions: Step 1: Read Through The List of Emotions Below. Highlight or Underline Any Emotions That You
Identifying Emotions: Step 1: Read Through The List of Emotions Below. Highlight or Underline Any Emotions That You
Step 1: Read through the list of emotions below. Highlight or underline any emotions that you
feel commonly.
Step 3: Which emotions feel primary or secondary to you? Keep in mind that primary emotions
are your initial reactions to events, interactions, or internal experiences. Secondary emotions
are the feelings you have in reaction to your feelings. For example, you may feel ashamed of
feeling angry, guilty about feeling happy, or furious at being hurt. A secondary emotion often
covers up a more vulnerable primary emotion. Distinguishing between primary and secondary
emotions is helpful, because we tend to find particular relief from expressing our primary
emotions. It is helpful to remember that emotions that become more intense over time or
make us feel “stuck” tend to be secondary emotions.
List your most common primary and secondary emotions below. (Note: Some emotions may
appear in both categories.) If certain primary and secondary emotions feel linked to you, for
instance if you often feel angry after feeling hurt, you can draw lines connecting them.
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