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Last year, the #WeRemember campaign
reached 250+ million people around the world.
It was the largest Holocaust remembrance event in history.
Yet, we still have more to do.
O
ver the last several years,
members of Temple Emeth in
Teaneck have grown increas-
ingly concerned about the plight
of refugees.
“I think the issue of refugees came to the
world’s attention around 2013, as we became
aware of the refugee crisis that was generated
by the Syrian civil war,” Steven Sirbu, the con-
gregation’s rabbi, said. “Some children were
losing their lives in perilous Mediterranean
crossings, and countless more were losing
their childhoods in refugee camps. It was the
largest displacement of people since World
War II, and there was something about this
crisis that resonated with me and with others
in my congregation.”
Community events focused on immigra-
tion stirred the synagogue community as
well. And they noticed that the name HIAS
appeared over and over again.
“The 2015-16 selection for JFNNJ’s One
Book, One Community program was ‘A Back-
pack, A Bear, and Eight Crates of Vodka: A
Memoir,’ by Lev Golinkin,” Rabbi Sirbu said.
“The author tells his experience leaving the
Soviet Union as a young boy with his family From left, Karen Misler, Joy Sapin, Lee Paskind, Lainie Rosen, Paul Resnick, and Bernie Rous are among the members of
in 1989. HIAS plays a crucial role in their jour- Beth Sholom’s Tzedek Tirdof committee.
ney to the United States.”
“When Temple Emeth held its event about And then last February, members of a neighboring synagogue, Con-
the book, Mark Hetfield, the president and Temple Emeth members gregation Beth Sholom. “While Reform and
CEO of HIAS, was our guest speaker. He Laura and Daniel Kirsch Conservative Jews have disagreements on
began by asking for a show of hands as to arranged for a bus to bring prayer and the role of Jewish law, on the issue
how many people’s families were assisted congregants to lower Man- of refugees, we found common cause,” Rabbi
by HIAS. About half the room raised their hattan for an immigration Sirbu said.
hands.” rally. Both congregations have found ways to
One reason HIAS’s work resonates with so “Temple Emeth has long address the issue of immigration. While
many Jews, “even though we disagree about been in the forefront of the Temple Emeth has joined the HIAS Welcome
so much, is that the refugee experience is so social justice movement, Campaign — on January 26, the congrega-
fundamental to Jewish identity,” Rabbi Sirbu dating back to the civil rights tion will host Rabbi Rachel Grant Meyer,
said. “Abraham and Sarah are wanderers. movement of the 1960s,” HIAS’ director of education, who will speak
Jacob has to leave his home under the threat Rabbi Rachel Grant Meyer Rabbi Stephen Sirbu Mr. Kirsch said. “Many of on Welcoming Refugees: Learning from the
of violence. The Israelites need to escape our members have personal Past, Rising to the Moment — Beth Sholom
Egypt in such haste that their bread does not community to help the vulnerable and to ties to HIAS through their own histories, or has taken another approach and is helping a
have time to rise. And of course the Holo- share our blessings of freedom.” those of family members, and many more specific refugee family.
caust shapes this perception too. Whether Current events have focused the congre- know that they would not be here today if Describing HIAS, founded as the Hebrew
it was the preventable tragedy of the [steam- gation on the immigration issue even more the United States had not admitted refugees Immigrant Aid Society, as a global Jewish
ship] St. Louis or the slanders against Jewish directly. in the past.” organization for refugee resettlement and
refugees who were accused of being danger- “The 2016 election cycle featured the Temple Emeth has signed up as a HIAS wel- advocacy, Rabbi Meyer said the group is
ous anarchists, it is instinctive to the Jewish unabashed scapegoating of refugees,” Rabbi coming congregation. It joins more than 380 “growing a huge constituency of American
Sirbu said. “I could tell that many of our synagogues around the country that have Jews taking action for refugees.” Her talk at
Who: Rabbi Rachel Grant Meyer members were distressed that the United pledged to take at least one action to support Temple Emeth is the synagogue’s first such
What: Will talk about “Welcoming States might shut its doors — doors through refugees. “It’s a way to stand together with action since signing on to become a welcom-
Refugees: Learning from the Past, which our ancestors passed in the last cen- other Jewish institutions against the hateful ing congregation.
Rising to the Moment” tury — to refugees, abandoning one of its rhetoric and attacks against immigrants gen- Is this our grandparents’ HIAS? Yes, Rabbi
When: On January 26 at 8 p.m. central humanitarian programs. I responded erally and refugees in particular, and makes Meyer said. “The work we do today grew out
by choosing HIAS to be the beneficiary of an affirmative statement in support of wel- of the 137-year work we have done bringing
Where: At Temple Emeth, 1666
our Yom Kippur appeal in 2016. One of our coming refugees to the United States,” Mr. Jewish refugees to this country and helping
Windsor Road, Teaneck
members, a Holocaust survivor named Peter Kirsch said. them here. In many ways, the services we
For more information: Go to www.
Adler, spoke about his experience with HIAS To illustrate the importance of unity, are now providing are same ones provided
emeth.org
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land — including Ms. Burkeman — through
ana Post Adler of Tenafly was her involvement in Young Presidents Orga-
sitting on a train to Washington, nization, a global network of young chief
D.C., when she got a call from executives.
Lesley Burkeman, an old friend “These women became like my sisters,”
in London. “Dana, have you heard of the Ms. Adler said. “They had a huge impact
Lions of Judah?” Ms. Burkeman asked. on me as a young woman and as a Jew liv-
Ms. Adler smiled as she touched the Lions ing in Britain. They really embraced my hus-
of Judah pin on her chest. band and me and our son and included us in
Indeed, not only had she heard about the their Jewish lifecycle events. In my view, they
global Jewish philanthropic organization, never took their Judaism for granted; they
but she already was one of the 17,500 women always insisted on Friday night dinners with
around the world who are proud Lions of family even if they were not religious.”
Judah. They earn that status by donating at In 2002 the family returned to New Jersey,
least $5,000 to their local Jewish federation and Ms. Adler was invited to become a Lion
every year, funds that go toward charitable of Judah. At the dinner in London, she talked
projects at home, in Israel, and in Jewish about her experiences over the past 16 years,
communities abroad. including the opportunity to accompany 71
So when Ms. Burkeman told Ms. Adler Ethiopian Jews on their journey to a new life
that she was involved in the United Jewish Caroline, Dana, and Eliana Adler celebrate the birth of the Lions of Judah UK at in Israel.
Israel Appeal’s revival of the Lions of Judah its inaugural dinner in London. MARC MORRIS PHOTOGRAPHY “Being a Lion of Judah has taken me on
UK chapter, which had been dormant for both a physical and philanthropic journey
a decade, Ms. Adler decided to fly to Lon- really taking the future into our own hands,” Ms. Adler, her husband, Jim, and their son, that has enriched my life in so many ways,”
don with her two teenage daughters for the Ms. Adler said. “Lions of Judah is about Harrison, went to live in London in 1998. she said. “I have been to the exotic reaches
group’s inaugural dinner, which was held women empowering themselves by making They stayed there for 4 1/2 years, during of eastern Africa, met with the Jewish com-
over the Martin Luther King Jr. Day weekend. a gift in their own name to strengthen Jew- which time their daughter Caroline was born; munities of Berlin, Argentina, and Chile,
“I wanted to set an example for my girls ish continuity and inspiring others to do the Eliana was born once the family came back and have made personal relationships in
about spreading the strength of women and same.” to the United States. Ms. Adler became close Israel and at home. I consider myself so
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mixed,” said Scott Tesser of Englewood. Mr. “If you had a certain level of scholarship
hat does a glittering eve- Tesser is married to Joseph and Arlene Taub’s — your grades had to be up to a certain
ning with leaders of the daughter Michelle; Scott and Michelle Tesser level — and you were involved in sports,
Kaplen JCC on the Pali- are sponsoring the evening. he’d help. He funded programs that got
sades in Tenafly, the Sports “There was a Jewish community and kids off the streets. And as they moved
Night of Champions — which will feature as there was a black community; my father-in- up through the ranks, those who excelled
its speakers the football legend Phil Simms law grew up next to Larry Doby,” Mr. Tesser ended up with scholarships to private
and his son Chris — have to do with inner- said. Mr. Dobie was the first African-Amer- high schools or colleges. As they contin-
city Paterson? ican to play in the American League — he ued to excel, he wanted to get them out
Phil Simms, of course, retired from his played for the Cleveland Indians — and the of the community.
15-year career playing for the New York two men stayed close throughout their lives.
Giants to become a football analyst on CBS Together, they started the Taub-Doby Bas- What: The Kaplen JCC on the
and a contributor — talking about football, ketball League, among many other philan- Palisades’ first annual Sports Night
natch — to Showtime. Chris Simms was an thropic endeavors. of Champions
NFL quarterback for 8 years, playing for “I know it’s a cliché, but my father-in-law When: On Tuesday, February 13,
three teams, and now is a co-host on NBC, never forgot his roots,” Mr. Tesser said. “He at 6 p.m.
where he talks about — what else? — football. always remembered when he had nothing, Where: At the Kaplen JCC on the
On Tuesday, February 13, the two Joseph Taub and he just wanted to help people in Pat- Palisades, 411 East Clinton Ave. in
Simmses will be part of a full evening that erson. Obviously, the community changed Tenafly
includes a strolling dinner, an auction, hon- co-owner of the New Jersey Nets, grew up dramatically over the years, but he never How much: Until January 31, it costs
ors, and scholarship awards. very poor in Paterson. Although ADP made really left it.” In fact, he added, Mr. Taub $180 per person; after that, it’s $250
So where does Paterson come in? him very rich, he managed not only not to often would go back to visit, a dramatically each. Students pay $50.
Here. The evening will include a tribute to forget where he came from but to devote a visible figure, a tall man with a great shock For more information: Call Michal
Joseph Taub, who lived in Tenafly and died great deal of money, time, energy, and imagi- of bright white hair. Kleiman at (210) 408-1412 or go to
on October 27. Mr. Taub, a co-founder of nation to offering children in Paterson oppor- “He obviously had the means to help, jccotp.org/sportsnight.
Automatic Data Processing and a one-time tunity and hope. “My father-in-law grew up and he did it through a combination of
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lucky to have traveled to see my dollars in action.”
As a board member of the Jewish Federation of North-
ern New Jersey and co-president of its Women’s Philan-
n d a ch e c
S u S
thropy Board, Ms. Adler takes an active role in how Lions
of Judah contributions are allocated. (She also sits on the
National Women’s Philanthropy Board of Jewish Federa-
tions of North America.)
The 44 guests at the dinner in London also heard from
Israeli Lions of Judah Ruth Oren and Sigal Bar-On. The
event raised £111,000, and 37 British women pledged to
form a cabinet of founder members.
UJIA trustee and Lions of Judah UK Chairwoman Karen
Goodkind announced that in its first year, Lions of Judah
UK will fund a UJIA-supported mentoring program in
Israel called Youth Futures, for at-risk children ranging
from 8 to 18 years old. Founding members also will allo-
cate financial support to another project of their choice.
Ms. Adler told them how philanthropic activities far
from home can have a very personal impact. Two years
ago, when her son, Harrison, joined the Israel Defense
Forces as a lone soldier, she was unable to attend his
induction ceremony. So she asked women from the JFN-
NJ’s partner city of Nahariya to go in her place.
“Five incredible women drove to Harrison’s base with
candy, chocolates, smiles, and love,” she said. “They were
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able to send photographs and videos in real time, and
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although I could not be there myself, they made me feel
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not just a Lion of Judah, I was a recipient of the incredible
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“He didn’t talk about it much. The family all knew (Gre
about it, but he didn’t talk about it. He didn’t want any
credit for it. He just wanted to do it.” Sunday
There weren’t very many athletic stars to come
out of this program, Mr. Tesser said. There was Vic- January 28 | 10-11:30 AM
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families who could not afford the JCC’s programs without
the help, and whose children benefit from it. program.
A mother in Ridgefield — she’s the Russian-born sin-
gle mother of two sons — went through an acrimoni-
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to acquire a lot of debt to defend myself,” she said. (She
requested anonymity; she does not want her ex-husband Find out about our inquiry-based approach
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decision was correct to contact the White
local pro-Israel organization House with words of support. It will take
Dear Students,
sent out a call for action — a approximately 2 minutes of your time.”
request to thank President The email included a sample letter thank- The organization NORPAC has launched a campaign that directs individu
als
Donald J. Trump for recogniz- ing the president “for the courageous lead- to personally thank President Trump for his decision to declare Jerusalem
ing Jerusalem as Israel’s capital. ership you demonstrated by formally pro- the capital of Israel and to begin the process of moving the embassy there.
A local yeshiva high school passed it on claiming Jerusalem as Israel’s capital and This move was heavily criticized and it is therefore important that each
to its students. initiating steps to move the US Embassy. person who believes that the president made the right decision have their
Nobody involved expected that would This action fulfills the commitment made voice heard. We are therefore encouraging every student who believes that
be deemed newsworthy by the Jewish by Congress in the Jerusalem Embassy Act the president’s decision was correct to contact the White House with words
Standard. Let alone the Jewish wire ser- of 1995. President Trump, you have dis- of support. It will take approximately 2 minutes of your time.
vice JTA. Let alone Haaretz. Let alone played leadership and strength among the
Newsweek. nations by formally recognizing Jerusalem Step 1: Follow the link
They forgot one thing: In the era of as the eternal capital of the State of Israel.” https://www.whitehouse.gov/contact/
Trump, everything is different. Even, or The model letter continued, “We appre-
perhaps especially, support for Israel. ciate your commitment to follow the wishes Step 2: Fill out the information on the form. Feel free to use your Frisch
Israel advocacy often involves flatter- of the American people and your faithful email address and the Frisch street address of
ing politicians. But given America’s sharp service as our nation’s leader. We are grate- 120 West Century Road
political polarization, is it still unquestion- ful for your unwavering support of Israel, Paramus, NJ 07652
ably bipartisan to send an email thank- America’s greatest ally.”
ing the president for his “faithful service For Norpac’s president, Dr. Ben Chouake, Step 3: Write a message. If you’d like, please feel free to copy the message
as our nation’s leader”? Can pro-Israel the letter-writing campaign simply was below. Just remember to sign your name on the bottom.
engagement with a partisan politician be a thank you to a politician who had sup- Dear Mr. President,
nonpartisan in this environment? ported Israel and a policy that the Jewish
So how did a request to send a prewrit- community and Congress had advocated Thank you for the courageous leadership you demonstrated by formally
ten emailing thanking Mr. Trump for his for more than 20 years. Norpac is nonparti- proclaiming Jerusalem as Israel’s capital and initiating steps to move the
announcement recognizing Jerusalem san; Dr. Chouake noted that Norpac leaders US Embassy. This action fulfills the commitment made by Congress in the
make headlines around the world? serve as finance chairs for both Democratic Jerusalem Embassy Act of 1995. President Trump, you have displayed lead-
The answer tells much about the ten- and Republican politicians. ership and strength among the nations by formally recognizing Jerusalem
sions roiling beneath the surface of the “I’m not worked up,” said one Frisch as the eternal capital of the State of Israel. We appreciate your commitment
area’s modern Orthodox community — and parent who is opposed to Trump but did to follow the wishes of the American people and your faithful service as
perhaps the particular perils of being the not want his name used. “In all honesty, our nation’s leader. We are grateful for your unwavering support of Israel,
Frisch School in this particular moment. schools do this stuff all the time. I remem- America’s greatest ally.
The Paramus high school, after all, is ber being asked to write letters when I was
Respectfully yours,
famous now in the world beyond Bergen in high school.”
County as the high school of Jared Kush- Frisch’s principal, Rabbi Eli Ciner,
ner, the president’s son-in-law, who has emphasized in a statement to JTA that such
been tasked with solving problems as var- advocacy on behalf of a policy affecting
ied as Middle East peace and the Ameri- Israel was standard operating procedure at
can opioid epidemic. The other Orthodox the school. (Rabbi Ciner did not reply to the
Jew close to the White House, Jason Green- Standard’s efforts to contact him. Frisch Students at the Frisch School received this email from Rabbi David Sher,
blatt of Teaneck, who heads Trump’s team was closed this week for winter vacation. ) the school’s director of Israel education, promoting a NORPAC campaign to
negotiating for Israeli-Palestinian peace, “As a religious Zionist school, we congratulate President Trump on his Jerusalem decision.
was a board member at Frisch until he encourage our students as civic-minded
took this post. American citizens to write to the admin- voluntary and should be done only if you NorthJersey.com proclaiming: “Critics
But there is a minority of parents who istration when they agree or disagree with agree with President Trump.” say Jared Kushner’s Paramus alma mater
are, often privately, not on Team Trump. the government’s policies regarding the That might have been the end of the story ‘unfairly targeted’”
And to many of them, Frisch crossed the State of Israel,” Rabbi Ciner said in the had the anger been shared in emails and The paper quoted Jason Shames, CEO of
line from pro-Israel to pro-Trump last week statement. “In this particular case, many private conversations. But Judy Maltz, who the Jewish Federation of Northern New Jer-
when Rabbi David Sher, Frisch’s director of our students strongly supported the is a reporter for Haaretz and also was one sey, as saying Frisch “was unfairly targeted.
of Israel education and advocacy, emailed president’s decision recognizing Jerusalem of the nearly 2,000 members of the secret The reports in the media were political.”
students about a campaign launched by as Israel’s capital.” Facebook group, published a story about But one parent who opposed the origi-
NORPAC, the Englewood-based pro-Israel But for some Frisch parents, this the local controversy, headlined, “Kids at nal email insisted that there was no effort
political action committee, asking them crossed the line into pro-Trump behavior. Kushner’s Old High School Were Urged to to target the school.
“to personally thank President Trump for One of them posted her upset on a secret Write Letters Sucking Up to Trump — and “Nobody wanted to hurt the school,” she
his decision to declare Jerusalem the cap- Facebook for Orthodox Trump oppo- Parents Are Fuming.” said, speaking on condition of anonymity.
ital of Israel and to begin the process of nents. Other parents joined in. Some made From there, the story jumped to News- “That is why we were having the discussion
moving the embassy there. their displeasure known to the Frisch’s week, which beneath the headline “Jared in the secret group. People in the group
“This move was heavily criticized and it is administration. Kushner’s High School Is Making Chil- were having a principled discussion about
therefore important that each person who Ninety minutes after the email from dren Write Letters Of Support To Don- what to do. That is why we were so upset
believes that the president made the right Rabbi Sher, a second one went out, this ald Trump” referred to the coed, modern the journalist didn’t tell us she was basically
decision have their voice heard,” he contin- one from Rabbi Ciner, emphasizing that Orthodox high school as “ultra-Orthodox.” lurking in the discussion, taking our com-
ued. “We are therefore encouraging every writing to the White House was “entirely The next day came the backlash, with ments without asking us.”
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near the Gaza
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30, 2017.
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This parent said the outrage at the Obama years was people speaking out
something to stir your soul.
letter-writing-request, which she said about the Iran deal, criticizing Obama.
extended beyond the people who directly “And these are unusual circumstances.
contacted the school, reflected dismay at This is not just any president. This is the Join us to celebrate Kabbalat Shabbat and
two other recent incidents. president who a week ago made these
The first was a talk Mr. Greenblatt gave horrific comments” about immigrants
rejuvenate your spirit as we welcome
at Frisch last month, after the Jerusalem from other countries. guest Rabbi Adina Lewittes and
declaration. “It was supposed to be apo- “Schools can’t say we’re apolitical so
litical, but it’s hard for that not to look like we’re not going to address the presi- members of Sha’ar Communities,
Trump support,” she said. dent’s bullying and lying and racism, with live music, and a warm, inviting,
She was particularly offended by Mr. and at the same time ask the kids in your
Greenblatt telling the Frisch students school to write emails of gratitude for innovative approach to Jewish worship.
that “they couldn’t believe everything faithful service to the country. Some-
they read in the media.” She said that he thing’s wrong with that. The message ~~~~~~~~~~
repeated the mantra of “fake news” with to the kids is that all those things don’t
which the president has brushed aside really matter because all we care about is Enjoy time with friends at our
allegations and investigation. that Jerusalem is the capital. If that’s all
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Rockland
Fourth-generation rabbi
Joshua Finkelstein comes to the Montebello Jewish Center with history and hope
JOANNE PALMER
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here is a stained-glass window at the top of the
wall behind the bima at the Montebello Jewish
Center in Suffern.
It’s round and set deeply into the white of
the wall; there is a foot or so of white surrounding it,
providing it with depth and space, and room for the light
from outside to play.
It’s new, but doesn’t look particularly modern, or par-
ticularly dated, for that matter. Its colors are delicate but
not muted.
It’s lovely.
When you look at it from the back of sanctuary, you see
the whole thing; when you get closer, the view changes.
Joshua Finkelstein, the synagogue’s new rabbi, says that
he understands that people prefer to sit toward the back of
the sanctuary so they can see it in full, but he prefers the
view from up close, and hopes that the congregation will
come closer to it as well. It is in the interplay of the light and
the space, the colors and the light, the permanence of the
window and the shifting of the light, that he can most easily
find God, he says.
That’s another striking thing about Rabbi Finkelstein.
Unlike many rabbis, he talks about
God. He’s comfortable with his faith,
and he wants to inspire others to
explore their own, and in the context Three generations of Finkelstein — Rabbi Louis, not-yet-rabbi Joshua, and Rabbi Ezra —
of the Conservative movement, into sit together.
which he was born, in which he has
generations-deep roots, with whose At first, Rabbi Louis Finkelstein It isn’t as if Joshua Finkelstein didn’t have Jewish connec-
principles he resonates. “served at a congregation in the Bronx, tions. At Columbia, he studied with the talmudist Rabbi
So who is he? off the Grand Concourse,” Rabbi Fin- David Weiss Halivni. And he had his grandfather, who
Joshua Finkelstein is a fourth-gen- kelstein said. “Kehillat Israel. It no lon- had retired by then but still lived in the neighborhood. “I
eration rabbi; he has major yichus ger exists, but it’s sort of funny; coinci- spent every Shabbes at my grandfather’s table for 10 years,
in the Conservative movement and dentally, my wife’s grandfather used to through college and rabbinical school,” except for the year
a 16-year history in northern Bergen daven there.” he spent in Israel, Rabbi Finkelstein said.
County, right over the state line from Joshua Finkelstein’s grandfather was He has many stories from that time of his life. Asked to find
Montebello. not just any Louis Finkelstein, though; just one, he talked about how, on Shmini Atzeret, he would
To begin with his background, “my he was the Rabbi Louis Finkelstein have the talmudist Rabbi Saul Lieberman “come over to cel-
great-grandfather, Simon Finkelstein, Rabbi Joshua Finkelstein who became first an academic and ebrate his coming to America. Every Friday night my grandfa-
came to this country in 1885, from then, for more than 30 years, JTS’s ther would ask me to lead the Birkat haMazon,” the grace after
Kovno, in Lithuania,” he said. “He studied at the Slabodka chancellor. “When he was leaving the pulpit to work full meals, “but he always had Elie Wiesel also on Shmini Atzeret,
Yeshiva,” a prominent and important institution, “and he time at the seminary, his father said to him, ‘What is a rabbi and he would ask Elie Wiesel to lead it that day.
got his smicha from Yitzhak Elchanan Spektor,” the major without a pulpit?’” Rabbi Finkelstein reported. “Elie Wiesel had a beautiful, soulful voice, and when he got
figure who is the namesake of Yeshiva University’s rabbini- Louis Finkelstein’s son, Ezra, perhaps unsurprisingly, to the part of harachaman about Shabbat, he would sing a
cal school, the Rabbi Isaac Elchanan Theological Seminary, also became a Conservative rabbi. His son, Joshua, was wonderful niggun from Sighet,” the Hungarian town he came
perhaps better known as RIETS. “He didn’t get smicha from born in Brooklyn, grew up in Whitestone, Queens, from. “It was a very soulful melody, and it would go on and
the place, he got it from the person,” Rabbi Finkelstein said. where his father was the rabbi of the Whitestone Hebrew on. He would sing it for a long time.” Rabbi Finkelstein sang it;
“He served congregations in Baltimore, Cincinnati, and Syr- Center, and then, when Joshua was going into his junior it’s beautiful and haunting.
acuse, and then, for the last 30 years of his life, in Brownsville.” year in high school, moved to Syosset, on Long Island, “So my grandfather said, ‘You know, I asked Elie Wiesel to
Simon Finkelstein’s son, Louis, who grew up in Brooklyn, to become the rabbi of the Midway Jewish Center. Joshua sing it for you, because it is from Sighet, and I don’t want it to
earned his undergraduate degree at CCNY and a doctorate had graduated from middle school at the Schechter in be forgotten. I know you will be a rabbi, and you will teach it.’
at Columbia University. Those were fairly easy choices, but Queens and was in high school at Bronx Science — a “And I felt the awesome weight of the Holocaust on my
he had to decide where to get smicha — RIETS or the Jew- challenging subway ride from Queens, although he did shoulders. I knew that I would be a rabbi, not a chazzan, but
ish Theological Seminary. “My great-grandfather said to go not make the commute alone, he reported — when he I would go on to teach it, but I always felt that I was failing.”
to JTS,” Rabbi Finkelstein reported -- “because JTS required transferred to Syosset High School. And then Rabbi Finkelstein heard someone else — a
a bachelor’s degree, and at the time YU did not. My great Joshua Finkelstein went to Columbia for his under- song leader in the Reform movement — sing that melody.
grandfather, the Orthodox rabbi, thought it was more aca- graduate degree. He decided not to go to the joint pro- He learned that it’s a standard among Reform Jews. Later,
demically rigorous. He respected that.” gram between Columbia and JTS; “my father said that I after Mr. Wiesel died, a CD of his talking and singing at the
Although the borders were more porous then, JTS was then should be sure what I wanted, because with our back- 92nd Street Y included the melody. It was no longer just
as it is today the flagship institution of the Conservative move- ground, it would be too easy to fall into the rabbinate.” Rabbi Finkelstein’s responsibility to pass it on, and that
ment, as YU is of American modern Orthodoxy. It should be a conscious choice, Ezra Finkelstein said. was a huge relief to him, but it remains his responsibility
to continue to teach it, he said. In fact, he’s already Emanuel of North Jersey during that time; in fact, he was at As for the Conservative movement, “I know that people are
talked about it at Montebello, at Selichot services. Emanuel when it moved from Paterson to Franklin Lakes. wringing their hands about the future of Judaism, and about
It all goes back to the first time he heard it, at his Their three children, Sarah, now a doctoral student in biol- the movement, but I also see how other movements are emu-
grandfather’s Shabbat table. ogy at Columbia, Elie, a rabbinical student at Chovevei lating what we do,” he said. “Federations have Havdalah pro-
While his father’s family taught him about Jewish Torah, and Rebecca, a freshman at Wellesley, grew up there. grams, and Chabad is opening Jewish centers.
L ’ Shana
life, his mother taught him about how to teach and The family moved to central Jersey for some time, but now “People are looking for Jewish connections, for meaningful
L ’ Shana
treat and love children, and how to notice and encour- Joshua and Elana are in Rockland, and it feels like home. Judaism, for a sense of the greater good, and for a sense of God
age their individuality. “My mother, Elaine Samuels The Conservative movement also feels like home for in the world. If we can create a mindful, meaningful Judaism,
Finkelstein, was a teacher in the New York City pub- Rabbi Finkelstein, both for its history and for its promise, where people are reflective about their lives, where they can
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special state-funded preschool. She used to make sure shires, where his parents worked for many summers. His lives — and transform the world.
that she’d bring us to visit the classroom at least once wife also was a lifelong Ramahnik — but she grew up in “And that brings me back to the Montebello Jewish Center,”
a year. She was very much into early intervention. She Princeton, so she went to Ramah in the Poconos. Her par- he said. “I have come to a place where people are committed
said that we could always make a difference, and that ents were deeply committed to their shul, and thinking and loving. It is a wonderful place.
carried through to all of us and to our children.” about them led Rabbi Finkelstein to talk about how impor- “I believe the focus of the rabbinate is to work with the com-
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agery. They did not only want
to exterminate the Jews, along
with other peoples and groups they con-
sidered inferior; it seems that they also
wanted to extract every last drop of extra
physical and emotional pain they could
out of those murders.
Much as they loved their dispassionate
lists of the dead, it seems that they loved
the act of killing them even more.
Some of what they did, though, was a
little more subtle, though not less cruel.
Sometimes, instead of inflicting physical
pain — or before inflicting physical pain —
they demanded soul-wrenching work.
But sometimes the Jews were able to
fight back, and sometimes in the end they
won.
Take, for example, what happened to
a small group of intellectuals who were
herded into the Vilna Ghetto.
Dr. David Fishman, who teaches history
at the Jewish Theological Seminary, special-
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tisans, Poets, and the Race to Save Jewish Slave laborers sort through Jewish books for the Nazis. YIVO Institute
tasks. Of course, to be realistic, they had from the Soviet Union to Poland, and then
little choice but to show up to the destruc- eventually it reached the United States
tion, but they continued with the very and Israel, so this really is a story about
dangerous work of saving whatever they two rescues.
could. They did it, Dr. Fishman said, “The materials that survived are signifi-
because “they believed that there would cant in two ways,” Dr. Fishman said. “They
continue to be a Jewish people, and that are important in their own right. And then
they would need these Jewish treasures. the fact that these materials exist at all is
testimony to the amazing heroism of the
ghetto inmates who risked their lives so
that it would reach future generations.”
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things that were emotionally powerful, like poems by Sutz- this material. ers will donate a set of the Talmud to the yeshiva.
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And then that big new trove came to light, too late for the there are hundreds and hundreds of photographs, in good tury. There are shared values and bonds between the
book, but certainly not too late for Dr. Fishman. He went to shape, in good condition. yeshiva — the top elite — and the water carriers, who
Lithuania to look at it — as if anyone or anything could have “And there are autobiographies, especially by young are the poorest of the poor.
kept him away — and “I saw so many things,” he said. people, teenagers and children. YIVO had asked them to “It is very poignant, and very beautiful,” Dr. Fish-
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Lubavitch” — that is, from one of the three rival sons of the insight into daily life.” and evocative for Dr. Fishman. “I became part of the
reigning Chabad rabbi at the time — “and other Chabad- One of his happiest discoveries was “a contract from 1853 story, in a sense,” he said. “I became part of the chain
related manuscripts. We found a manuscript by the rosh of between the main yeshiva in Vilna and the Association of of the people who hid it, the people who found it. I
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their Indiana home for years, and then had hung over
the fireplace in the governor’s mansion in that state.
Now it hangs over the mantle at the vice president’s
residence at the Naval Observatory in Washington D.C.
The words, from the Book of Jeremiah, read: “For I
know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you,
and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope, and
a future.”
The “you” is the people of Israel, and Pence, an
evangelical Christian, makes that clear when he
addresses pro-Israel audiences. “They’re words to
which my family has repaired to as generations of
Americans have done so throughout our history, and
the people of Israel through all their storied history
have clung,” Pence said last August at the annual con-
ference of Christians United for Israel.
Pence took that message to Israel this week, on a
trip ostensibly aimed in part at reviving the prospects
for Israeli-Palestinian peace. He is seen as a key Trump
administration figure when it comes to Israel policy
and reportedly helped nudge the president to recog-
nize Jerusalem as Israel’s capital
Pence’s first visit to Israel as vice president led some
to ask to what degree his views — and the administra-
tion’s policies — are shaped by the brand of evangelical
Christianity that invests his faith.
Pence, a convert to evangelical Christianity from
Roman Catholicism, has spooked some liberals with
his insistence on rooting his pro-Israel bona fides
in faith as much as realpolitik considerations of the
United States’ national security. Their fear is that a
messianic outlook might run riot over one of the most
delicate dilemmas facing successive U.S. governments,
namely stability in the Middle East.
“Trump has handed Israel policy to Evangelicals,”
the Forward’s Jane Eisner wrote last week in an edito-
rial as Pence headed to Israel. “That’s terrifying.” Like
many liberals, she worries that policy will be driven by
evangelical beliefs that certain conditions — like Jewish
control over the West Bank and sovereignty in Jerusa-
lem — fulfill biblical prophecies.
Republicans and conservatives say that it is reduc-
tive to believe that Pence shapes his views solely
according to the tenets of his faith.
“They always highlight the fact that he’s an evan-
gelical, as if that’s a pejorative when in fact [Pence and
other evangelicals] are motivated first and foremost by
shared values with Israel,” said Matt Brooks, the direc-
tor of the Republican Jewish Coalition, who has known
Pence for years. “And not just by the shared values,
but the important efforts of collectively standing up
to threats of Iran, pushing back on Isis, and on radical
Islam, or whether it’s being a critical democratic foun-
dation in a very dangerous place. There are so many
places where U.S. and Israel’s interests intersect.”
Pence began his speech to the Knesset by outlining
the shared values Brooks described.
“We stand with Israel because your cause is our
cause, your values are our values, and your fight is
our fight,” he said. “We stand with Israel because we Seidemann said. “Jerusalem has been witnessing over the “The United States decided to go through these hollow
believe in right over wrong, in good over evil, and in last 20 years the ascendancy of faith communities that wea- gestures on Jerusalem rather than advancing its own inter-
liberty over tyranny.” ponize religion.” ests and the interests of Israel and the Palestinians by engag-
But he quickly pivoted to depict support of Israel Pence proudly stood with Trump in the White House ing in a sober attempt to resolve the issue,” Seidemann said.
as both biblical (Deuteronomy 30:4, to be exact) and when the president announced the recognition of Jerusalem Pence’s trip, by including only Jewish sites and skipping
rooted in an American strain of Christianity. as Israel’s capital, and he appears to have accelerated the meetings with other faith leaders, was contributing to the
“Down through the generations, the American peo- planned move of the U.S. embassy. Last week, Trump said weaponization, Seidemann said.
ple became fierce advocates of the Jewish people’s that it would take at least three years to move the embassy, Christian faith leaders declined to meet with Pence during
aspiration to return to the land of your forefathers, to but in Israel this week, Pence said that it would be in place his visits to Egypt and Israel; various reports framed their
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homeland,” he said to applause. “The Jewish people
held fast to a promise through all the ages, written so
long ago, that ‘even if you have been banished to the
most distant land under the heavens,’ from there He
would gather and bring you back to the land which
your fathers possessed.”
Pastor John Hagee, the founder of Christians United
for Israel, described a natural trajectory for evangeli-
cal supporters of Israel from biblical belief to the more
practical modern reasons for supporting the state.
“The promises of the Hebrew Bible are the founda-
tion of Christian Zionism, but our motivations for sup-
porting Israel do not end there,” he wrote in an email.
“We see in Israel a democracy that shares Western val-
ues and is a force for stability in the Middle East. While
standing with Israel is a Biblical mandate, it is also a
moral imperative and in the national security interests
of the U.S. I am confident that all three of these consid-
erations inform the Vice President’s approach to the
Middle East and I believe that is perfectly appropriate.”
Since the outset of his political career, Pence has
made it clear that his support for Israel is grounded
first in biblical precepts. “My support for Israel stems
largely from my personal faith,” he told Congressio-
nal Quarterly in 2002, a year after he was first elected
to Congress. “God promises Abraham, ‘those who
bless you, I will bless, and those who curse you, I
will curse.’”
Sarah Posner, a journalist who has tracked evangeli-
cals for years, said that Pence’s faith seemed to be pre-
eminent in his consideration of Israel. “I don’t think he
is thinking about that in terms of shared democracy or
not shared democracy, he’s thinking about it in provi-
dential terms, that these missions are God’s plans for
Israel,” said Posner, a reporting fellow at the Nation
Institute’s Investigative Fund.
It’s hard not to see Pence’s belief as an impetus
driving Trump’s recognition of Jerusalem, said Daniel
Seidemann, an Israeli expert on Jerusalem who advo-
cates for including all the city’s sects and groupings in
considering its permanent status.
“It would be fine for him to have those beliefs, if
he weren’t the vice president and shaping policy,”
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VIENNA — If Stephan Templ’s trial and imprisonment in Austria of expertise. Wiesenthal Center, said about the case: “It looks like
were meant to silence his criticism of the country’s Holocaust The result is a new book that for the first time chron- revenge, like they wanted to get back at him for his criti-
restitution system, then his prosecution clearly was a failure. icles how modern-day Austria gave its seal of approval cism. I’m not a jurist but it looks like an injustice.” Templ
Templ is an Austrian-Jewish historian of the Holocaust who for flawed restitution practices that were overseen by now is facing a civil libel suit by Claire Fritsch, a legal
has written critically about his country since 1995. former Nazis. Those practices, Templ shows, in essence adviser to the restitution authority who served as the
In 2015, he was sent to jail for nearly a year on controversial validated Nazi-era policies that were used to rob Austrian main witness in his criminal court case. She claims she
fraud charges tied to his family’s own claim for compensation. Jews of what little compensation they sought to receive was libeled by his defense team’s attempts to undermine
He spent his time in prison diving even deeper into his area for vast assets that they had been forced to sell to Aryans. her testimony.
“The wrongly imprisoned experience a special kind of In Templ’s English-language book — which is titled
frustration: Your thoughts get into a cycle about where “Austria’s Living Ghost” and is scheduled for publication
you are and who put you there,” Templ, 57, said. His sen- online before International Holocaust Remembrance
tence was decried as a miscarriage of justice by dozens Day on January 27 — he examines the work of Austria’s
WE RCBC of leading Holocaust historians. Arbitration Panel for In Rem Restitution, a body set up
DELIVER Templ was convicted of fraud for not listing an aunt on in 2002 to review the restitution work done immediately
his survivor mother’s restitution claim, which he filled after World War II on properties that were in the state’s
out for her. Neither Templ nor his mother wrote that they possession in 2001.
were the only claimants to the property. Austria has no Until the 1990s, Austria had claimed that it was princi-
law requiring restitution applicants to list other relatives. pally a victim, not a perpetrator, of Nazism. No one has
In previous official correspondence about the claim, been convicted of Nazi war crimes in Austria for more
Templ did list his aunt, which he argues means he had than 35 years, according to the Simon Wiesenthal Cen-
indeed informed the Republic of Austria of her existence. ter. And whereas people with a Nazi past were removed
The 75 historians, including Americans Deborah Lip- from positions of influence in neighboring Germany,
stadt and Michael Berenbaum, suggested in a joint state- in Austria they were allowed to serve as judges, teach-
ment that Templ’s prosecution looked like a vendetta by ers, and even restitution officials. (Walther Kastner, for
the Austrian judiciary, which the Freedom Barometer example, was a former Nazi official who was entrusted
index of 2016 ranked as the least independent in West- with advising on restitution issues in the 1940s.)
ern Europe. Austria even had a former Nazi, Kurt Waldheim, as its
The Anti-Defamation League also protested Templ’s president until 1992 — the year when Austrian officials
sentence, as did the human rights lawyer Robert Amster- began to drop the victim attitude, which now is described
dam and Stuart Eizenstat, a former U.S. deputy secre- as a myth on official Austrian government websites.
tary of the Treasury who helped set up Austria’s restitu- But that myth has had far-reaching implications for
tion system. Austria, said Templ, who led groups around Vienna on
Efraim Zuroff, Eastern Europe director for the Simon tours of stolen Jewish property in 2001. He pointed out
the second time already, a party that was 2015, Templ has spent most of his time
founded by an SS officer,” he said of the in his Prague home, in what he terms
far-right Freedom Party, which joined self-exile.)
the coalition last month. The findings, he said, surprised even
Austria’s victim myth also tainted how him.
the Austrian state handled the return of One case deemed fair by the arbitra-
Jews from concentration camps, pros- tion panel involved an apartment build-
ecuted Nazi war criminals, and settled ing in Vienna’s Alserbach Street that had Adjustment to
restitution issues. Concerns about this been owned by the Stianssy family. The Chronic Illness
process led to a 2002 review by the Aryan buyers paid only 38 percent of
Arbitration Panel, as part of a restitu- its real worth in 1939. Of that sum, the Stress Management
tion treaty that Austria signed with the Nazi state stole 80 percent through rac- Anxiety
United States in 2001. ist “emigration taxes” devised to defund
Depression
Thanks to the treaty, Austria has paid Jewish sellers. The other 20 percent went
at least $670 million in compensation. to a frozen account and from there to the Life Transitions
But even that may have been the tip of coffers of the Third Reich, his research Relationship Issues
the iceberg in a country that had at least shows. In 1951, Austrian restitution offi-
200,000 Jews before the Holocaust, cials declined to return the “emigration Conflict Resolution
many of them wealthy. taxes” to the Stianssy family, essentially Grief & Loss
Templ’s research shows that out of validating their extraction. Temima Danzig, LCSW Work/Career Issues
nearly 2,000 restitution cases handled Yet in its 2014 review the arbitration
in the 1940s and 1950s, the Arbitration panel said that it “cannot conclude that Psychotherapist Social Challenges
Panel reopened and declared unjust a the settlement reached in 1951 repre- LGBT Issues
total of only nine cases. It intervened in sents an extreme injustice.” In so doing,
another 18 cases that had not been the Templ writes, “the Panel confirms the
subject of a claim, he said. injustice.”
“This seemed to me like an astonish- Leopold Stiassny died in Prague on
ingly low number, considering the preva- Nov. 20, 1939. His wife, Martha Stiassny,
lence of injustice that went on in 1940s was murdered in Auschwitz. Three of
and 1950s restitution,” Templ said. their close relatives were murdered by
Take, for instance, the case of Anna 1945.
Freud, the daughter of the famed Vien- Among the dozens of reviews flagged
nese psychoanalyst. Following her claim by Templ is a 2012 case concerning the
for restitution for a handsome estate that sale of a forest 45 miles southwest of
the Nazis stole from her family in 1938, in Vienna by the Hartenstein family. It
the 1950s she received a sum equivalent too was not found to be “an extreme 121 Cedar Lane, Suite 2B
to $80, Templ’s research shows. How- injustice,” even though by 1957 the fam-
ever, that property was not reviewed in ily received less than half of the land’s Teaneck, NJ 07666
2002, because the estate was privately
owned and therefore not in the purview
value, according to the panel. Templ’s
research suggests that they only got 10
TemimaDanzig.com
of the Arbitration Panel on state-held
properties.
percent of the property’s real value.
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ple guarded by Ukrainian soldiers with
rifles.… There was no way they could have A holographic image of Sam Harris is on
run. I crawled behind the people on my display at the Illinois Holocaust Museum
stomach. They didn’t see me.” Aaron Elster is filmed on a set in Los Angeles. COURTESY OF THE USC SHOAH FOUNDATION and Education Center in Skokie, Ill.
The testimony was remarkable. It was
moving. But Elster wasn’t in the room. Maio, who is married Smith said. “But the point to which they
Instead the audience was interacting to Stephen Smith, the say, ‘So tell me about the psychological
with a holographic image of the Holo- executive director of the consequences of slave labor,’ or some-
caust survivor that had been created two USC Shoah Foundation, thing like that, then you have a more
years before. thought that an exhibit nuanced question, for which [the holo-
The Illinois Holocaust Museum and Edu- that allowed people to graphic display] has an answer.”
cation Center, in this suburb about 15 miles casually walk up to Holo- Elster, now 85, is pleased with the final
north of Chicago, is the first to showcase caust survivors and ask product, and he is confident that his tes-
the New Dimensions in Testimony oral his- them questions could cre- timony will resonate with younger gen-
tory project permanently. The project has ate a powerful experience. erations. On its own, the Illinois Holo-
created holographic images from exten- “This kind of visual caust museum, the third largest in the
sive interviews of 15 Holocaust survivors. imagery and interactiv- world and created partly in response to
They are shown on rotation. Seven of the ity will be the norm for an attempt by neo-Nazis to march in this
survivors are from Chicago. the next generation, and heavily Jewish suburb in the late 1970s,
The images are produced by the Uni- that’s what we’re prepar- welcomes 60,000 students and educa-
versity of Southern California’s Institute ing for,” Smith said. tors annually.
for Creative Technologies, along with the The project took a toll on “As survivors, we’re concerned and
USC Shoah Foundation — a nonprofit that Elster, an insurance agency afraid that our pain, our loss, our surviv-
famed director Steven Spielberg founded owner who has lived in ing will be forgotten or homogenized,” he
in 1994 to preserve Holocaust and other Chicago since 1947. He said. “They’ve created something that’s
RON GOULD
genocide survivor testimonies. The had to fly to Los Angeles going to live on much after we’re gone.”
museum’s new $5 million center, called two years ago for a gruel- A New York Times documentary about
Take A Stand, opened in October. ing week of interviews, in the project, called “116 Cameras” and
(The images now on display techni- Aaron Elster stands in front of his hologram. which he wore the same making the rounds of film festivals, shows
cally are not true holograms — they are clothes every day and sat the space-age contraption in which they
the product of two-dimensional technol- to audience questions by picking up on still in a chair for hours at a time under film the survivors.
ogy and a ghost-illusion technique — but key words. bright lights and cameras, answering diffi- The Museum of Jewish Heritage in
they still are vivid.) After asking her question, Suri Johnson cult questions — two thousand in all — that Manhattan began piloting the project in
At the Illinois museum, visitors can said that she found the experience very brought up a painful past. July. Its two holograms will be on display
find the holographic displays in a theater “cool,” partly because she had no idea “It was very emotional. I cried initially, for the public through April.
dedicated to the exhibit. Before any con- how it worked. and I don’t take to crying,” Elster said of Additional pilots, open to the public,
versation happens, viewers are shown a “It enables the most lifelike conversa- the first time he saw his testimony played are being tested at the Sarah and Chaim
five-minute introductory video narrated tional opportunity that you can possi- back for him. Neuberger Holocaust Education Centre
by the featured survivor. After the video, bly imagine,” the museum’s CEO, Susan Smith said the project could have been in Toronto and the Holocaust Museum
which tells the survivor’s individual story, Abrams, said. successful even if each survivor were in Houston. The U.S. Holocaust Memo-
the image leans forward and says, “But I The project was envisioned by Heather asked fewer questions. But the compre- rial Museum in Washington, D.C.,
have so much more to tell you. Now I’d Maio, the managing director of Con- hensiveness gave each testimony extra ended its pilot on Labor Day after sev-
like you to ask me questions.” Then it science Display, which specializes in character depth. eral months. The Candles Holocaust
switches to interactive mode. exhibition design and interactive story- “If you were just going to ask the ques- Museum and Education Center in Terre
The hologram of each survivor con- telling. Her company typically creates tion, ‘where were you born?’ or ‘what Haute, Indiana, also has piloted the
ceivably can answer thousands of ques- realistic combat scenes, complete with camps were you in,’ or ‘what did you feel project and plans to install a permanent
tions. Much like Apple’s Siri technology, visuals and dialogue, for military person- like when you were liberated,’ we could display that will open this fall.
the voice-recognition system responds nel to drill with. do that quite easily in 200 questions,” JTA WIRE SERVICE
guarantee we will continue to do it, and cleansing and the Jews, they’re chant-
frankly, we do it better with anti-Semi- ing ‘Jews will not replace us.’ That is not Forman noted the violence of the Golden Rabbi David Saperstein, the former
tism than with anti-Muslim rhetoric and something commonly heard at previ- Dawn, a Greek fascist group, which has tar- ambassador-at-large for international reli-
with racism.” ous events.’” geted mostly Roma. “It has a street mili- gious freedom under the Obama administra-
Forman cited American communities Beirich added that social media and tia,” he said. “Jews haven’t got hit,” despite tion and the director emeritus of the Reform
that rallied spontaneously to counter the internet made it easier to dissemi- Golden Dawn’s anti-Semitic rhetoric. “The movement’s Religious Action Center, moder-
anti-Semitism in their midst, notably the nate hate. Extremists may be based in Roma have.” ated the panel. JTA Wire Service
citizens of Whitefish, Montana, who a Europe, but their messages are getting
year ago demonstrated before a planned through to Americans. “We now have
neo-Nazi march targeting the town’s tiny certain websites that have 750,000 views
Jewish community, and Oklahoma civic a month among Americans,” she said.
leaders who called on a state lawmaker The panelists agreed that social media
to apologize for using the phrase “jew giants like Facebook and Google had
down” in 2013 become more receptive to keeping hate
In those cases and in many others, off their networks, in part because of
he said, the drive to counter anti-Jewish laws in some European countries that
rhetoric came in communities with few hold them accountable for incitement.
Jews and seemed driven by non-Jews “Both France and Germany have prom-
who were repelled by the rhetoric. ised to prosecute Facebook and Google if
Heidi Beirich, the director of the Intel- they don’t act,” Whine said.
ligence Project at the Southern Poverty Beirich noted that expressions of anti-
Law Center, added to that list the nation- Semitism had spiked during Donald
wide drive among Muslims last year to Trump’s 2016 presidential campaign and
raise funds to pay for vandalized Jew- since he was elected.
ish cemeteries. Forman, a Democrat who helmed
Michael Whine, the government and the National Jewish Democratic Council
international affairs director for the Brit- for decades, cautioned against making
ish Jewish community’s Community anti-Semitism a partisan issue. He noted
Security Trust, said leaders on his con- Trump’s equivocation after the Charlot-
tinent were doing the necessary work tesville march, which included a deadly
in speaking out against bias crimes, but attack by an alleged white suprema-
he agreed with Forman that the mes- cist on counterprotesters. But he also
sage was not trickling down to the aver- stressed that calls on Trump to speak out
age European. more forcefully came from both sides of
“There are a lot of European states the aisle.
where civil society is not at all devel- “I don’t want to make it about ideol-
oped,” he said. This was in part because ogy, I don’t want to make it about parti-
in countries that emerged from autoc- sanship — that’s a very, very bad path to
racy just in recent decades, suspicions go down,” he said in response to a ques-
of government lingered, and they ham- tion about Trump’s role in the increase
pered efforts to join civilians and author- of biased rhetoric.
ities in countering hate crime. It is critical, panelists said, not to treat
“Often, civil society is reluctant to deal anti-Jewish bias in isolation. Whereas
with the government,” Whine said. Jews in Europe faced an intensification
On Friday, the World Zionist Orga- of anti-Semitic rhetoric and hate speech,
nization released a survey compar- other minorities in Europe, including
ing perceptions of anti-Semitism in the Muslims, Roma, and the LGBTQ commu-
United States and Europe showing that nities, all were facing spikes in violence,
Jerusalem,
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e all want a doctor who is very smart — scary both their own humanity and the humanity of their patients.
smart — and absolutely up-to-date on the latest To remember that each patient is a human being, and there-
science, diagnostics, and medications. Good,
in the objective sense.
fore each patient is a world, entire and complete, and also a
bridge to other people, other worlds. Jewish law
I
We also all want a doctor who is kind, warm, open, decent, The students are taught that they will learn awesome
and non-judgmental. Good, in the subjective sense. skills and techniques, but that they must never mistake n mid-November 1967, I was features edi-
Today, we mourn the death of Dr. Arnold Gold of Engle- themselves for gods. Like their patients, they are human tor of a weekly newspaper, the Jewish Press.
wood, who was good in both those senses, and who under- beings. When they remember that, they, their patients, The United Nations Security Council was
stood the importance of both. and the world not only will begin to be cured, they, their debating Resolution 242 (the post-Six-Day
Dr. Gold, a pediatric neurologist (and just think of the tough- patients and the world will be ennobled by the effort. War resolution designed to achieve “a just and
ness and dedication and stomach and love such a career Dr. Gold also was a founding member of much of what we lasting peace in the Middle East”), and I was asked
choice demands) was an extremely well respected physician. now take for granted in the local community in northern New to write an analysis of the prospects for peace pre-
With his wife, Dr. Sandra Gold, another absolute power- Jersey. He and Sandra were in at the founding of just about sented by the resolution. My analysis concluded
house, he was the founder of the Arnold P. Gold Foundation, everything, Sandra in her big hat and flowing scarves, Arnold that peace never would be achieved between
which spearheaded what the Golds call humanistic medicine. at her side, smiling. And unlike the other community found- Israelis and Palestinians because one key issue
Together, they developed the White Coat ceremony, which ers, who often hid their goodness under gruffness — and at would remain insolvable: the status of Jerusalem.
now is practiced in medical schools throughout the country. times hid it extremely well — Dr. Gold let it shine. That conclusion
In that ceremony, brand new medical students are given not Next week, we’ll write a proper obituary. But we wanted to was true then, and it
only their white coats, a physical reminder of the role they are write about him as soon as we heard about his death. remains true today.
undertaking, but they also are given a charge, to remember We will miss him. — JOANNE PALMER Usually, however,
the Jerusalem issue is
shoved off to the side
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Middle East. The likely
o there we are, dining at the Garden State Plaza some reason is that they
time ago with Arnold and Sandra, when the manager adhere to the belief Shammai
approaches our table. that if all other issues Engelmayer
“There is a report of a shooter in the mall and we are resolved, a solu-
are waiting for further instructions from the police.” tion to Jerusalem will
Suddenly there are police responding everywhere and the present itself.
shades on the restaurant’s windows are closed. The issue is front and center at the moment,
We all look at each other like there is some kind of protocol however, because of a cynical political decision in
for this event. early December on the part of President Trump.
Arnold to the rescue. That decision has sparked a myriad of reactions,
“Can we at least get dessert?” he says to the manager. “If this everything from a controversial request of stu-
has to be my last meal, what better way to go then to be with dents at Frisch High School, to a disruptive Knes-
my dear friends.” set meeting earlier this week during a speech by
Arnold could even make a highly stressed manager crack Vice President Mike Pence.
a smile. Dr. Arnold Gold and Jamie Janoff share one of their There are halachic issues embedded here, but
That was Arnold’s power. The world was a better place many meals together. before discussing them, I need to clarify three
when you were in his company. You looked into his eyes points.
and you would see his beautiful smile. He might even have and no doubt these talks helped shape me into the person First, Jerusalem is, was, and always will be the
grabbed your hand — and you felt at peace. I am today. eternal capital of the Jewish people, and thus the
Sandra often reminded me of how much Arnold loved me Arnold was a giant. We all know that. A gentle giant. He capital of the Jewish state. That was true even
and how much he valued the work we do on these very pages. received countless awards, but he would be the first to tell when the United States did not formally recognize
He would just call me out of the blue and ask how I was doing. you that kind of stuff was part of the package. What was Jerusalem as Israel’s capital. If anything, President
I would remind him that he was the one in great demand and most important to him was to see the faces of the children he
that he had better things to do then to check on me. “At this helped live a better life and to know that doctors were a bit
moment, there is nothing more important than to know how kinder because of his initiatives for humanism in medicine. Shammai Engelmayer is rabbi of Temple Israel
you’re doing,” he would say. But nothing was more important to him than to know that Community Center | Congregation Heichal
I never forgot that. he had Sandra by his side. “Jamie, she’s my greatest blessing,” Yisrael in Cliffside Park and Temple Beth El of
There was always a lesson I learned from our conversations, he would tell me. — JAMIE JANOFF North Bergen.
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brought the world’s powers to their to the Palestinians for their capital)
feet in protest of that truth. His deci- would be worth the price, too, if the e should all be very proud Young activists like Miriam Waghalter are
sion also completely derailed any peace offered is a true peace. Any and grateful to Miriam living proof that standing up for your rights
prospect for a peace process going agreement would have to battle ter- Waghalter. and dignity, that not becoming invisible is
forward. Almost certainly, his deci- rorism with vigor, it would have to Here’s why. the best way for Jewish students to defend
sion will cause the various terrorist include all the states now opposed Miriam is a student at Rutgers University, themselves.
entities in the region to rev up their to Israel, and it must provide ways to home to Dr. Michael Chikindas, a professor There are other young leaders worth
efforts to take Jewish lives (especially put peace into practice through such of microbiology who recently and belatedly knowing about. Isabelle DeBrabanter and
of young Jews, the Palestinian terror- means as trade and tourism. was demoted for his anti-Semitic social media Justin Feldman both were participants in
ist’s favorite target). Much of this seems unlikely for postings. It also is home to an adjunct pro- the Simon Wiesenthal Center’s Government
Second, what happened at Frisch — now. Nevertheless, Jewish law looks fessor of international law, Dr. Mazen Adi, a Advocacy Internship Program last summer.
teachers instructing students to write warily at actions taken that could Syrian who had been a spokesman for Bashar While Justin wrote many editorials relating
letters to the White House supporting endanger even so tenuous a peace Assad when he accused Israeli officials of traf- to anti-Semitism both at home and on cam-
Trump’s action, without their parents’ process — including actions regard- ficking children’s organs. It also is pus, Isabelle led the charge
knowledge or consent — is indefensi- ing the status of Jerusalem. home to Professor Jasbir Puar, to present an anti-BDS reso-
ble on a number of grounds. No school Entering into this consideration are whose latest book accuses the lution from the center at
has a right to impose political views on two sins often discussed in this space: Israeli Defense Forces of strategi- her hometown, Caldwell; it
its students, which is why a number of pikuach nefesh (threat to life) and cally maiming Palestinians. passed there this fall. I lis-
parents who oppose Trump on moral sh’fichut damim (causing the need- Miriam, a 19-year-old sopho- tened to Isabelle’s testimony
and ethical grounds loudly objected to less spilling of blood). Pikuach nefesh more, was not intimidated as before the governing body as
what had been done. is considered to be pre-eminent in swastikas appeared on campus. she said that knowing that
The parents had every right to religious Judaism. Almost nothing Instead, she stood up to those peo- her own town is on her side
object. Consider the terrible sub- — not even Shabbat or the laws of ple who were targeting the Jewish in voicing public opposition
liminal message that was sent to kashrut — takes precedence when life student body — a targeting that we Michael to BDS and to the anti-Israel
the Frisch teenagers in that request. is threatened. Sh’fichut damim runs a have seen happen time and again Cohen and anti-Semitic rhetoric
They were told (albeit obliquely) to close second. on college campuses across the leveled against her and her
ignore as irrelevant Trump’s behav- Putting people’s lives in danger country. This brave young woman, peers on college campuses,
ior toward women, his repeated violates pikuach nefesh. Almost cer- along with a small group of her peers whom allows her to feel proud and empowered to
lapses into blatant racism, his often tainly, violence will erupt and blood she recruited, started a petition to have Chi- do even more.
disgraceful tweets denigrating those almost certainly will be spilled on kindas suspended pending an investigation. To help empower the younger generation,
who disagree with him (including his both sides because of the Jerusalem She looked reporters in the eye and spoke we must support and educate them. My col-
chief of staff and several cabinet sec- pronouncement. This is sh’fichut directly to the camera, asking what the leagues tell me about the reactions on uni-
retaries), and his role as dispenser-in- damim. Thus, both sins are hala- response would be from anyone in New Jer- versity campuses that have hosted the Simon
chief of fake news and false facts. The chic factors that must be taken into sey if such vitriol were spewed against their Wiesenthal exhibit, “Book, People, Land
students also were told that the only account. own communities. — the 3,500 Year Connection Between the
issue that ever matters is Israel. No Even if halacha would seem not to Miriam’s name should be known to us all, Jewish People and the Land of Israel.” The
matter how wrong a politician is on support trading land for peace, how- because she has sent a message to Jewish stu- exhibit ignites a sense of pride in our his-
everything else, if he or she supports ever, sometimes the law needs to dents, telling them not to be cowed in the tory and values and in all of the incredible
Israel, he or she must be supported. be set aside in order to protect the face of the anti-Semitic and anti-Israel rheto- feats accomplished in our ancestral home-
Third, halacha is not monolithic, national interest. The consequences ric on their campuses. land in the modern day State of Israel. I hear
and it is not closed to interpretation. of an action always must be consid- Just last year Hillel asked me to be the key- how such demonstrations of Jewish activism
Different people may see a particular ered. (See Rabbi Yochanan’s state- note speaker at the Yom Hashoah program at and pride in those very locations where our
law in contrasting ways. What fol- ment about the destruction of the a major university. As is my custom, I arrived next generation is facing daily harassment is
lows is my view of the laws relating Temple in BT Gittin 55b-56a.) early to speak to both students and the direc- exactly what is needed to encourage students
to the peace process. Not everyone A s Samson Raphael Hirsch tor, so I could garner a better feel for the local on campus to stand strong.
will agree with me. I accept that, but explained in his commentary to Jewish student atmosphere. At this particular If we are to build such leadership, if we are
I would hope they would stop and several verses in Leviticus 18, if the institution I was told that the campus, as far as to ask young Jews on campus to be proud of
consider the points I make before people of Israel act in ways that are they knew, had between 800 and 900 Jewish their heritage in public, we must embolden
dismissing them. neither moral nor ethical, “the land students, yet only 400 to 500 of them would them not only by recognizing the intimida-
I begin by discussing one law that will vomit out that society.” admit that they were Jewish in any meaning- tion they face but also by being there to push
is not open to interpretation: We “The land is meant to be the bearer ful way. And half of those students were com- back alongside them.
are commanded to settle the Land of a national life that is exemplary in fortable being seen publicly as active in Jewish So the next time we hear of another chal-
of Israel — all of it, not just a piece of moral purity…,” Hirsch explained. student life. lenge or attack on our nation’s campuses,
it, meaning every inch of it, from the “Hence, a population that is socially From colleges with historically signifi- remember Miriam Waghalter, and encourage
Mediterranean to the Jordan. and morally corrupt has no future on cant Jewish student populations — within our kids to emulate her example. It will make
There is biblical evidence, however, this land.” the CUNY system, that includes Brooklyn, them — and us — proud.
to suggest that giving up land is not so We, as a people, are supposed to and Queens colleges, as well as others both
great a sin, or may not be a sin at all, adhere to Jewish law. As we will read within and beyond that system — we see far Michael Cohen of Englewood is the eastern
if the price is right. Solomon gave 20 on Shabbat next week, our task is to too many Jewish students unprepared for the regional director of the Simon Wiesenthal
cities in the Galilee to Hiram, king of be God’s “kingdom of priests and ferocity of such attacks, too often preferring Center. He represents his city’s Second Ward
Tyre, yet neither the biblical text nor holy nation,” the advocates through to hide in the shadows when faced with the on Englewood’s City Council, and he belongs
the Sages of Blessed Memory offered how we live our lives of God’s moral likes of Students for Justice for Palestine. to Congregation Ahavath Torah there.
any comment, much less condem- and ethical code, God’s blueprint for
nation. This probably is because of how all people should live their lives.
what Solomon received in return: the Ignoring the ramifications of The opinions expressed in this section are those of the authors, not necessarily those of the
building materials for God’s House pikuach nefesh and sh’fichut damim newspaper’s editors, publishers, or other staffers. We welcome letters to the editor. Send
and his own. (See 1 Kings 9:11.) is immoral and unethical. We should them to [email protected].
Trading land for peace (including teach that to our children.
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his week, my family will commemorate the 10th with news that can be disruptive and frustrating, we need set a long-lasting example. By empowering college-aged
yarhrzeit of my father, Albert R. Fingerman z”l. to rise to the challenge to remain on task, maintain our counselors with responsibilities, camps help these young
His was a life well-lived. He was a World War values, and do our part to build a better world. adults refine their leadership and communication skills.
II veteran, an accomplished and admired attor- Through our example, we model the world for which By using FJC’s Making Mensches Periodic Table, camps
ney, a volunteer communal leader, and a loving husband, we aspire. across North America are incorporating much-needed
father, and grandfather. He worked hard, but he also Those of us involved in the Jewish and secular educa- values into daily life at camp.
enjoyed life immensely, and he did so with a boundless tional enterprise continue to create new and innovative It is up to each of us to model menschlichkeit in order
energy, a cheerful countenance, a calm demeanor, and ways to help inculcate these values of menschlichkeit in to truly make a difference in our rapidly changing world.
contagious enthusiasm. He had a natural curiosity about young people. Ultimately these are life skills they will need Among many things, my father was a prolific letter
life and learned from every experience. He to succeed in this ever-changing world. writer. As I reflect back, I find it incredible that he made
tried new things and persevered to overcome In my day-to-day life — in meetings and time every day — years before email, Facebook, or What’s
challenges. He exhibited humility at his own gatherings at work and in my community — App — to take “typewriter in hand” and send news,
achievements and pride at all of ours. everyone seems to be focused on this very encouragement, and love. Whether I was away at sum-
He taught us everything by his actions, not challenge. We all are searching for opportu- mer camp, in college, and even at business school, I had
through his words. Through the daily exam- nities to provide for our young people that the joy of a letter from Dad seemingly every day.
ple he set, he taught us about fulfilling famil- will build their sense of curiosity and discov- In December, I was given a wonderful tool to help make
ial, social, and professional responsibilities. ery, of community and confidence. We seek each day in 2018 count. A Jewish desk calendar called “A
He taught us to be involved in the commu- to aid the development of their self-esteem, Kindness a Day” — a project of the Teaneck-based non-
nity, to have empathy, and to give back. He empathy, authentic caring relationships, and profit Areyvut, whose mission is to infuse the lives of Jew-
served on boards, commissions, and groups Jeremy J. a sense of purpose and meaning. According ish children and teens with the values of chesed (kind-
throughout his life. He didn’t tell us to volun- Fingerman to research conducted by KnowledgeWorks, ness), tzedakah (charity), and tikkun olam (social action)
teer; he just quietly did his service in a col- the competencies required for the future of — highlights a Jewish text for every day a the year. It’s a
laborative, cooperative way. learning readiness and of workforce readi- text that inspires a recommended gesture of kindness for
He greeted and treated everyone with respect, empa- ness will be these very same skills. that day.
thy, dignity, and always with a smile, as he made his way More and more, everyone agrees on the need for devel- These daily lessons remind me of the way my dad lived
through the courthouse, the JCC, or the streets of down- oping mensches. his life. And they remind me of the difference each of us,
town Cincinnati. Jewish camps are uniquely positioned as a trusted vehi- behaving like mensches, can make.
In a word, he was a mensch. And we are living in a time cle for making mensches. My work at Foundation for Jew-
where we need many more like him. ish Camp inspires me because we are helping camps bring Jeremy J. Fingerman is the CEO of the Foundation for Jewish
As we navigate our ways through these very turbulent even more intentionality, meaning, and relevance to each Camp. He lives in Englewood with his family; he is vice
times, we each need to be positive role models for the experience. By creating welcoming, inclusive, and diverse president of Congregation Ahavath Torah there. Write to
world we want. Even as we are confronted each morning communities — not by words but by actions — these camps him at [email protected].
I
t was quite distressing reading the article about frum toward the parents, not the yeshivas. alone and depressed as I figured I must be the only frum
families having to make the decision to send their chil- I write this response under my real name. I am not hid- person in Bergen County without a rich relative.
dren to the local Teaneck public schools (“Frum times ing under the cloak of a pseudonym, although it would It was frustrating and often demeaning to sit in front
in Teaneck High,” January 12). It was distressing on so have been much easier to do so. This response requires of smug scholarship heads having to explain that I really
many levels it is hard to know where exactly to begin. credibility to be effective and the topic is important didn’t have money or access to money. One of my chil-
Let me emphasize at the outset three crucial points. enough so I believe it is worth the price of sacrificing my
First, as will be established below, I am privacy.
uniquely qualified to weigh in on this topic. I have been on both sides of the pro-
Second, this is a judgment-free response. verbial tracks. When financial times were
In no way should anything in this article abundant, I sat on the board of a local It was frustrating and
be construed as passing judgment on deci-
sions families need to make regarding what
yeshiva day school and often was tapped
for significant donations to scholarship
often demeaning to sit
has become an all-too-common phenom- funds and other needed projects. I don’t in front of smug
enon in both Teaneck and other Orthodox
communities. This is an extremely difficult
recall ever saying no when asked to give,
and I gave with great joy, as I was aware of
scholarship heads
and often gut-wrenching decision — as it those who were struggling. I was extremely having to explain that
should be — and I envy no one who has had
to make such a decision, or who currently is
Michael
Rappaport
thankful for my financial success
Unfortunately, the financial tide took
I really didn’t have
struggling with this decision. Last, I am not a 180-degree turn, and then I became the money or access
weighing in on decisions made to send frum
children to public schools because of special education
recipient of massive scholarship funds
(I have five children) as opposed to the donor of these
to money.
needs that are not, or cannot, be addressed adequately funds. I was no longer the guy in the back of limo but
by the yeshiva system. That is a stand-alone topic that rather the guy behind the wheel, lugging suitcases just to dren was not allowed to return for his senior year of high
also must be addressed, but this response today is geared put some money in my pocket. I remember, with some school because I owed the yeshiva $5,000 from the pre-
lingering bitterness, the scholarship interrogation, mak- vious year and had no means of coming up with the past
Michael Rappaport, who now lives in Highland Park, lived ing me feel as if I was trying to game the system, all the due balance; nor did I have additional funds for his cur-
in Teaneck for nearly 30 years. An attorney by profession, while my house was in foreclosure and my cars were rent year. So he was forced to get his GED (as I was not
he now is a general entrepreneur, motivational speaker, being repossessed. Didn’t I have some rich relative who going to send him to public school) and took his SATs
and mediator. can pay for the kids’ tuition, they wondered. I felt so SEE DAY SCHOOLS PAGE 43
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ew York Times op-ed writer favored school integration; by 1996, that
Charles Blow tweeted fairly number had increased to 35 percent. In the
recently that if it weren’t so early 70s, 86 percent of whites opposed
awful, you’d have to laugh at busing; by 1996, two-thirds opposed it. At
racism: the notion that we think less of the same time, the majority of black Amer-
people based on skin color is ridiculous. icans favored busing in nearly every year,
Except that its effects are all too real, and only 39 percent opposed it in 1996.
and pernicious. Even in 2018. Even after The biggest discrepancy between blacks
America has had its first black president. and whites can be seen in the way they
Remember that there were discussions view employment opportunities. Accord-
about whether we were living in a post- ing to Gallup polls from 1978 to 2011 that
racial world, because Barack Obama had asked respondents whether blacks have
been elected? Those discussions seem as good a chance as whites in a commu-
laughable now. I recently had nity to get any job for which
a conversation with a Cana- they are qualified, about 25
dian, who shook his head to 30 percent of whites felt
and told me, “We just don’t blacks didn’t have the same
understand you Americans chances; 50 to 65 percent
and racism. It doesn’t make of blacks felt they did not.
any sense.” These statistics show that
Last week, Rabbi Daniel bending the moral arc of
Fridman shared the talk he the universe toward justice
gave for Martin Luther King hasn’t been easy, and more
Jr. Day with the readers of the Tikvah work still needs to be done.
Jewish Standard (“Bending Wiener The literature that black
toward justice,” January 19). and white authors are writ-
His congregation, the Jewish ing today tells the same tale.
Center of Teaneck, hosted civil rights activ- In last week’s Book Review section of the
ist Ms. Theodora Lacey, who was intro- New York Times, author Jonathan Miles
duced by Teaneck’s mayor, Mohammed reviews Sam Graham-Felsen’s debut novel,
Hameeduddin. Rabbi Fridman said that “Green.” The book begins with 12-year-old
after the tumultuous week we had had, David Alexander Greenfield, nicknamed
“[T]oday let it be said that I am not only an Green, introducing himself as the “white
Orthodox rabbi and a Jew and an Ameri- boy” at Martin Luther King Middle, a Bos-
can, but on this Martin Luther King Jr. Day, ton public school. He’s one of two white
I am a Haitian and an African as well.” He boys there, thanks to Green’s progressive
cited Dr. King, who famously wrote in his parents, but the other can pass for Puerto
Letter from Birmingham Jail, “I am cogni- Rican. Green is the only blond-haired,
zant of the interrelatedness of all commu- blue-eyed student, and the book interro-
nities and states and cannot sit idly by in gates race, imperfectly as the reviewer sug-
Atlanta and not be concerned about what gests, but nevertheless in a way that leaves A collage from the projects done at the Idea School’s MLK Jr. program for
happens in Birmingham. Injustice any- the reader with an understanding of how prospective students.
where is a threat to justice everywhere.” “the force,” as the main character comes
In light of Reverend King’s extraordinary to describe it, works. • Gaza handed over an entire population from My presence, and let Me not hear the
legacy, it might be surprising to remem- In one scene, Green and Marlon, his trying to escape and delivered them back music of your harps. But let Justice well up
ber that the passage of the Civil Rights Act black best friend, decide they will shovel to their country of origin (1:6) like water, Righteousness, like an unfailing
of 1964 wasn’t without its skeptics. Cor- their neighbors’ yards, but Green under- • Tyre engaged in the same behavior as stream.” (Amos 5:15-24)
nell University’s Roper Center for Public takes knocking on people’s doors alone, the Gazans, but also ignored the covenant Wow. God here eschews — condemns,
Research shows statistics on contempo- since when Marlon accompanies him, they of brotherhood (1:9) actually — ritual practice in favor of the
d rary public opinion of the act. They show tend to get turned down more. Unequal • Edom pursued his brother with the natural welling of justice and righteous-
t that about one third of Americans opposed
the bill in the months leading up to its pas-
employment opportunities, indeed.
On Martin Luther King Jr. Day, the Idea
sword and repressed all pity (1:11)
• Ammon ripped open the pregnant
ness. How natural is that welling, though?
Rabbi Koslowe shared the interpretation of
g sage; a month after it was passed, a little School hosted a program for prospective women of Gilead in order to expand its the 19th-century rabbi and biblical exegete,
s more than 50 percent supported it.
Americans now generally have a favor-
students. We first examined the text of
King’s “I Have a Dream” speech, paying
own borders (1:13)
We can see that God abhors excessive
the Malbim, on the famous verse. The Mal-
bim remarks that humans inherently seek
able view of the act, though progress in particular attention to the allusion from cruelty and despises when people repress justice; it is part of our nature and an essen-
e race relations has been slow. A poll from
the National Opinion Research Center,
Amos 5:24: “Let justice well up as waters,
and righteousness, like a mighty stream.”
their tendency towards mercy and behave
in pitiless and ruthless ways. It seems that
tial ingredient of each society. It therefore
can be compared to a well of water, which
s 1972-1996, also from the Cornell University Rabbi Tavi Koslowe, the Idea School’s God wants us to treat our fellow human springs naturally from its internal source to
. site, tells that story: As debate over school
integration through busing raged in the
Judaic studies principal, pointed out that
the book of Amos begins with God’s stating
beings, well, like human beings.
As if that lesson isn’t clear from these
impact its surroundings profoundly.
Righteousness, in contrast, isn’t
1970s to the 1990s, the number of those that He is able to tolerate three sins, but opening verses of Amos, as we get closer ingrained in us, but is something we
in favor of integration slowly increased. not a fourth. As He chastises the different to the one that King quotes in his speech, have to nurture and develop through our
In 1972, 19 percent of white Americans nations who have sinned, He details what God states, through the prophet: experiences and encounters with God.
those fourth sins are: “I hate and detest your festivals, I will The source of righteousness is external,
Tikvah Wiener is head of school of the Idea • Damascus crushed the Jewish people not delight over [the sacrifices] . . . . If and that’s why it’s compared to a stream,
School, a coed Orthodox high school opening of Gilead with metal threshing tools [par- you offer up burnt offerings — or your which gathers in mountains and other
in Bergen County in September 2018. Learn ticularly barbaric physical punishment] meal offerings — I will not accept them natural areas.
more at www.theideaschool.org. (Amos 1:3) . . . . Spare Me the sound of your hymns SEE OFFER PAGE 44
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read the article about Orthodox parents sending whatever success they may have achieved to the day- First, articles of this nature dealing with a highly sensi-
their children to public schools, “Frum Times in school movement. tive subject should be balanced. Unfortunately, this one
Teaneck High” ( January 12), on the Friday night it 3. Day schools are far from perfect; there are serious was not. It was certainly very important that the parents
first appeared. To be frank, I didn’t like it, so I reread problems with their financial structure and the burden quoted had an opportunity to speak publically about this
it after Shabbat, hoping that I would feel dif- that places on families, as well as with certain issue, and I commend the Standard for giving them a plat-
ferently. Unfortunately, it did not improve educational areas. form to do so. But other voices, perhaps of day school par-
with age. 4. Although there are many different types ents but certainly those of yeshiva educators who are highly
Before I explain, let me first, in the inter- of day schools, they are not able to meet the qualified to speak and most likely have other perspectives,
est of transparency, lay out some relevant needs of all members of the community. also should have been heard. Discussing only one side was
personal biography, biases, and beliefs. 5. Deciding what type of education to pro- not only unfair to the side being ignored but also left read-
1. I am the proud product of the modern vide for your children is a primary parental ers with a skewed understanding of the issue’s complexity.
Orthodox day school system, from kinder- obligation, and it should be based on what is Moreover, the entire tone of the article was unbalanced;
garten through my graduation from Yeshiva best for the particular child, not what is best “public schools good, day schools not so much.” We were
College 17 years later. My four children like- for the community. And since parents know told that public schools have more academic support and a
wise are products of that system, from nurs- Joseph C. their children better than others do, no par- higher caliber of education, allow students to have a finer
ery school through their post-high school Kaplan ent should be criticized or judged by others appreciation of what it means to be a Jew in the real world,
gap year in Israel. My two oldest grandchil- or by the community for the educational have more professional teachers and a better standard of
dren have begun their day school studies in choices they make. what they’re doing, are fairer in the manner in which they
Toronto, and their younger sister soon will follow them. 6. It should go without saying that no child ever should treat all children and parents, have better support and tac-
2. The current vibrant modern Orthodox commu- be ostracized by others in the community based upon tics for dealing with kids who have issues, take more respon-
nity and its laity, highly literate in both Jewish and where they go to school. sibility in their dealings with parents, have more respect-
secular fields, in large part owe their existence and With that said, I turn to my reaction to the article. ful students and less bullying, accommodate students’
I
n his important book, “Anti-Judaism: then unearthed by the Middle East Media
The Western Tradition,” the scholar Research Institute. What these sermons
David Nirenberg makes the persua- have in common is that they all were deliv-
sive case that Islam has faced similar ered on Friday, December 8, 2017 — the
theological challenges to Christianity in same week that President Donald Trump
assessing its relationship to Judaism. recognized Jerusalem as Israel’s capital. All
On the one hand, Nirenberg argues, of them drew on similar images, themes,
Islam regards the Jews as enemies of and quotations. All of them used language
Muhammad’s prophecy; on the other, and sentiments that would be regarded by
Islam realizes only too well that without any rational calculation as unambiguously
the existence of the Jews and threatening toward Jews.
their practices to begin with, The worst example was
there would have been no the sermon delivered at the
subsequent prophetic tradi- Islamic Center of Jersey City
tion and faith to follow. by Sheikh Aymen Elkasaby,
“How to appropriate the who told those gathered
prophetic claims of Jewish for prayers that the Al-Aqsa
communities without ‘Judaiz- mosque in Jerusalem was
ing’ Islam?” Nirenberg writes, “under the feet of the apes
summarizing the core of the and pigs”—a commonly Sheikh Raed Saleh Al-Rousan delivers an anti-Semitic sermon in Houston on
Muslim dilemma. “How to Ben Cohen expressed derogatory term December 8, 2017. MIDDLE EAST MEDIA RESEARCH INSTITUTE
particular needs more sensitively, react faster to aggressive their classmates were for the sophisticated and high-level reasons exist and sometimes the need to send some chil-
situations, and have better extracurricular activities. education they were exposed to, both in their gap years dren to public schools overrides the difficulty, and often
Really? I’m sure some of that is true, but all of it?? as well as in college and graduate school programs. While the impossibility, of those students learning Torah on a
Really? Day schools come in second to public schools many factors went into this, the excellent foundation laid high level. And I therefore do not, God forbid, judge par-
in all of these categories? Really? When I practiced as in their day school years was an important element in ents who make that decision. But at the very least, sacrific-
a litigator, one aspect of my preparation of prospective their success. Thus, the article presented an at best incom- ing an intensive and meaningful Torah education should
witnesses was to advise them to neither gild the lily nor plete picture of what actually takes place in day schools. be a significant factor in the decision-making calculus. If
close their eyes to problems with their testimony. Since And you needn’t take only my word for it. Read a it was, no serious mention of it was made in the article.
every case has weaknesses, I would explain, overstate- masterful essay by Erica Brown, who attended a “fancy And finally, I believe that all members of our modern
ments and refusing to confront problems damage cred- prep school” until she was 16, called “The Case for Day Orthodox community, whether or not they personally use
ibility. Had I been asked, I would have given this same Schools,” which recently appeared in the Jewish Week and the day school system, need to express hakarat hatov, their
advice to the parents quoted in the article. the Times of Israel. It makes the case for the excellence of gratitude, for all that these schools have done in making
My sense of day schools is quite different from the one day schools much better than I. our community the success it has become.
presented in the article, based on decades of personal But perhaps the most critical substantive problem was So I say to the parents quoted in the article, I appreciate
experience, both as a student and as a parent, in dealing the article’s almost complete silence regarding the main your explanations about why you send your children to
with yeshiva teachers and administrators (I never missed raison d’etre of day schools — teaching Torah and Torah public schools. But don’t belittle the day schools by impli-
a single parent-child conference) and being exposed to the values to help our children develop into knowledgeable cation after implication that they are second rate as com-
schools’ curriculum and modes of education. That experi- adults committed to our tradition and community. Public pared to the public schools. True hakarat hatov as well as
ence taught me that our day schools are overflowing with schools, no matter what their virtues, cannot do this, and a commitment to emet — to truth — demand better.
many superb educators and provide a simply first-rate if their students want this knowledge they must go else-
education in many areas. It also taught me about the care where to obtain it. While that’s not impossible, it’s very Joseph C. Kaplan, a regular columnist, is a long-time
they give and sensitivity they show to both their students difficult to learn Torah rigorously while attending public resident of Teaneck. His work also has appeared in various
and parent bodies. And I was not a macher or big donor school. As Ms. Brown wrote, the best case for day schools publications including Sh’ma magazine, the New York
by any standard. is “the life it delivers long after graduation.” Jewish Week, the Baltimore Jewish Times, and, as letters to
I also know how well prepared my children and many of Again, let me be clear. I understand that legitimate the editor, the New York Times.
Perpetuating the stigma school administration orchestrated a stu- who have been beneficiaries of the protec- the North Koreans veered away from the
While Ms. Frolich seemed to take a very dent letter-writing campaign to President tion of the American Bill of Rights for the NPT framework and started to ramp up
negative view of the article “Frum Times in Trump in response to his decision to move past 240 years, we do not have a responsi- their clandestine development activities.
Teaneck High” (Letters, “How dare you?,” the American Embassy to Jerusalem. (See bility, in the spirit of Jewish law, to insure Meanwhile, there is a well-established
January 19, responding to “Frum times in this week’s paper, page 12). As most read- that our communal institutions, be they nuclear industry in the South. Twenty-four
Teaneck High,” January 12), it was also an ers of the Standard know full well, I have synagogues or particularly our schools, power reactors there produce one third of
unrealistic one, and as a self-described been a longtime advocate of American rec- build a fence around this sacred principal the country’s electricity. Nuclear medicine
educator, she should know better. ognition of Jerusalem as Israel’s capital and of American life, so that even the appear- is in widespread use at public and univer-
She should know that not every Jewish the relocating of our embassy to Jerusa- ance of stepping over the line is protected. sity hospitals. The only thing the South
child fits the mold of a Jewish day school lem. I personally wrote a public statement Rabbi Neal I. Borovitz lacks is a nuclear weapons program.
student. She also should know that the Jew- applauding this action last month. Rabbi Emeritus, Temple Avodat Shalom Russia, China, India, and Pakistan have
ish day school system obviously has flaws However, I am also a passionate advo- River Edge nukes. Is it so far fetched to imagine a
that make it impossible for some children cate for church/state separation. I believe united nuclear Korea? It is possible that
to flourish as well as impossible for some that religious institutions should refrain Imagine a unified the games being played in Korea next
parents to afford. The Jewish day school from overt political activity. Moreover, I nuclear Korea month are all about reconciliation of a
system may work for most frum children, am deeply concerned that when a school I was gratified to find an article about Dr. people united for the past 4,000 years, and
but not all, and we should applaud the par- administration “suggests” that students Tom Grunfeld, an expert on East Asian divided only for the past 73 years. A mere
ents interviewed in the article for doing take a political action, going to the extent studies who has spent time in North Korea speck in time. The Koreans want to send a
what was best for their children. of disseminating a draft of a letter, that the (“Know your enemy,” January 19). Hear- signal to China, Japan, and the rest of the
Ms. Frolich should apologize to these students’ ability to exercise their free will ing a firsthand account of conditions there world. When you see a Kia or Hyundai on
children for perpetuating the stigma is severely limited. contributes to a better understanding of the road here, think about Korea on a par
placed upon them for simply not fitting The Haaretz article mentioned that the people and culture north of the 38th with France and England. When Korea uni-
the mold. the students were encouraged, but not parallel and south of the Yalu River. fies, Japan will go nuclear in response.
Beatrice Baum required, to write letters to President Dr. Grunfeld’s account of the North This genie is not new. America uncorked
Bergenfield Trump. The unstated implication is that Korean nuclear program jibes with my the bottle 73 years ago. And we won’t be
the school did not overstep the boundar- experience. I did business with South able to bully the genie back into the bot-
Frisch oversteps ies of church/state separation. For me, the Koreans in the nuclear field for many tle. The only rational way out is talking,
its boundaries issue is not merely a question of whether years, as well as the IAEA in Vienna. The with a renewed focus on global nuclear
I write today to express my shock at the the Frisch School’s action was within the latter was doing a credible regulatory job nonproliferation.
actions of the Frisch School as described in letter of the law, but rather to raise the up to the time that President George Bush Eric Weis
a January 17 article in Haaretz, wherein the question of whether as American Jews Jr. destabilized nonproliferation. In 1992, Wayne
Offer “Being a Jew with a black father, living in Crown Day schools
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Heights is a strange experience,” he wrote. “There
The Malbim adds that the waters of a stream is always a strong undercurrent of racism. You’ll be children’s continued growth as Orthodox Jews. I respectfully
don’t provide a source for other bodies of water moving along just fine and then the ‘S-bomb’ will suggest that while clearly so many Orthodox Jewish values are
but are focused internally, showing that the come along and just ruin your day, or at the very indeed learned from the home, the home needs to be a rein-
stream, as a metaphor linked with righteousness, least your hour and minute. It’s never nice when it’s forcing environment for these values. The home is not a detox
is about developing your own personal relation- said. No one ever says ‘I had a man do my taxes. He’s unit for the secular values their child is exposed to for at least
ship with God and embarking on a personal jour- shvartze.’ Nor do they say ‘my son is playing with the eight hours a day, five days a week, week in and week out.
ney with the Divine. In this interpretation, the Mal- boys next door, they’re shvartze.’ It’s always ‘a shvar- Will there be exceptions to the rule? Of course there will be.
bim says, the desired and true purpose of a festival tze stole my bike;’ or ‘if the shvartzes [take] welfare Nevertheless, parents need to understand that there is no educa-
pilgrimage is not the offerings, the sacrifices, but why shouldn’t we.’” tional equivalent to, nor substitute for, a yeshiva environment. I
the development of justice and righteousness. When Rabbi Koslowe, Ms. Nancy Edelman, the don’t care if it’s a left-wing, centrist, or right-wing yeshiva. While
It’s not hard to see, even without the Malbim’s Idea School’s head of humanities, and I reflected certainly there may be merit in being exposed to other cultures
interpretation, the reason that Amos spoke to with the students at the end of the program, we and beliefs, there is a time and a place. Elementary school and/or
Reverend King, and it’s easy to extrapolate as asked them what had resonated so deeply with high school is not — l’chatchila — that time or place.
well the book’s implications for today’s world. In them about Faulding’s story that they had all used The 11th mishna in the second perek (chapter) of Bava Metzia —
fact, we asked the students during our MLK pro- it in their projects. They told us that the act of buy- as well as other places within the Talmud — is remarkably instruc-
gram to continue Dr. King’s work, and we had ing conditioner was such a simple one, something tive about the importance of yeshiva education as it tells us that
them do so, first by providing different sources they did all the time. They couldn’t get over the fact there are certain situations where someone’s rebbi (main teacher
for them to research about racism in America that it had turned so dangerous for someone simply of Torah) actually takes precedence over his own father.
today. Though we had about six sources the stu- because he was black. The value of a Torah environment and education can not
dents could examine, most gravitated to a JTA Rabbi Koslowe remarked that the image of justice be stressed enough. It is the duty of yeshiva administrators
article written about a Jew of color, Ben Fauld- welling up like water and righteousness like a stream and the powers that be within the yeshivas to do everything
ing, who goes by the Twitter and Instagram name was a powerful one, making him wonder what it humanly and financially possible — with tremendous sensitiv-
@TheHipsterRebbe. would be like to live in a world where we’re literally ity — to ensure that parents are not placed in a position where
Faulding was wearing noise-canceling head- stepping in kindness, awash in it, unable to move they must make these difficult decisions. Parents, on the other
phones in a convenience store as he shopped for without giving it and receiving it. hand, need to bite their collective tongues, grit their collec-
conditioner and didn’t hear a cashier address him. I wonder, too. It’s time to end the nonsense that tive teeth, and hold their collective noses at what often is a
Next thing he knew, two policemen were point- is racism, to link hands with Dr. King and continue demeaning scholarship process. The pain to the ego will be
ing their guns at him. He stayed calm, knowing his work, to continue to honor civil rights activists well worth it.
that one wrong move might get him killed, and such as Ms. Theodora Lacey, and to understand that Parents need to know, at least in their hearts, that all avenues
he shouted for the officers to remove his head- it’s not just the job of political and communal lead- have been exhausted before they forego a yeshiva education
phones. Though this incident obviously was the ers such as Mayor Hameeduddin and Rabbi Fridman in favor of public schools. At the very least, parents need to
most potentially deadly form of racism Faulding to speak and act out against racism. It’s the duty of recognize that while they might have no other choice, this is
encountered, according to the article, he also each and every one of us toward our fellow human a b’da’avad, and such recognition should be conveyed to their
blogged in 2014 about living in Crown Heights: beings — and it is our offering to God. children as often as possible.
T
dominantly Muslim area of Russia to nego-
he fact that Russia’s main oppo- tiate a truce in the 1990s — offering him-
sition leader has been barred self to rebels as a hostage in exchange for
from the presidential race there the release of others. “And he’s not char-
may be bad for democracy. But ismatic; he has none of the energies that
it’s a boon for Grigory Yavlinsky, a Jew- Navalny has going for him.”
ish liberal politician who now is emerg- Like Nemtsov, Yavlinsky has been a con-
A
irplanes are miraculous standing up and screaming, “Hey lady,
objects. stop coughing everywhere. You are
They fly. How do they do going to kill all of us with your germs!!!!!”
that? And with all of those Please tell me that some of you feel this
people who aren’t weighed before- way too! It cannot just be me. My kids
hand…. And when there were laughing at me, but
is turbulence, what is hap- that is par for the course,
pening exactly if you are in and husband #1 was look-
the sky? Invisible potholes? ing at me with that “What
Things you just don’t want would you like me to do?”
to think about when you face. I would like you to
are flying. I still remember get up and switch your
when my grandparents were seat even though Tuber-
invited to a wedding in Paris culosis Tonya’s germs
and the hosts of the wed- already were being recy-
ding flew them on the Con- Banji cled through the air of the
cord, which was an extra Ganchrow entire plane, because even
fast airplane. How did those though airplanes are awe-
aircraft work? Apparently some, they still haven’t
not too well, because I don’t think there figured out a way to open the windows
are Concords anymore. I wonder what to get fresh air without sucking people
became of those planes. through those said open windows. Or
In any event, as wonderful as airplane how to make a bigger bathroom — appar-
travel is, if you are a germ freak, planes ently either I have gotten bigger since my
are not for you. At all. Especially during last time on a plane or the bathrooms
Across 4. Many a San Fran worker
flu season. Or any season, for that mat- have gotten smaller. How is a woman
1. It’s the truth 5. Drake (not the Jewish man)
ter. If you turn on the news, you hear 5. What many often do in Eilat 6. Vikings family
how this year’s flu season is the deadliest 10. Treif meats 7. “East of Eden” director Kazan
it has been in over a decade. Thank you 14. Like Haman 8. Zuckerman from “90210”
for letting me know. What am I supposed 15. Pooh’s author 9. ___ off
to do? I got the flu shot, I wash my hands In any event, as 16. It won’t fly on Shabbat?
17. A brother-in-law of Jared
10. It doesn’t exist in Judaism, essentially
11. Bad Bashar
as often as humanly possible without
receiving a diagnosis of obsessive-com-
wonderful as 18. Pass over
19. Ayelet (Zurer) played her in “Man of
12. Leaves high and dry
13. Barbecue sides
pulsive disorder and I do my best not airplane travel is, Steel” 21. Handy to have
to touch any door handles with my bare
hands. I even have a few prescriptions
if you are a 20. “Moana” song for Tu b’Shvat?
23. Recurring theme for Berlin
22. Joke response, nowadays
23. 1-Down, e.g.
of Tamiflu in the house from a few years germ freak, 26. Brian of music, who is a big 35-Across
supporter
24. Blood, in a series
25. Chan. that might air Billy Wilder films
ago when we went on a cruise during flu
season and I was being a crazy mother.
planes are not 27. Help palindrome
28. “Sleeping Beauty” (or “Maleficent”)
29. Honey or flower
30. Former Giant star Umenyiora
(Some things never change — now, I just for you. At all. song for Tu b’Shvat?
33. Its value is 40
31. “...it shall be blocked from you for
Especially during
three years, ___ be eaten” (Lev. 19:23)
am crazier.).
34. “Kacha-kacha” 32. “Charlotte’s Web” initials
But then came winter vacation. We
decided to go visit my in-laws in Boynton flu season. Or 35. Letters by those who dislike Israel
36. “Frozen” song for Tu b’Shvat?
36. Michele of ABC’s short lived “The
Mayor”
Beach (yes, you read correctly, I went to
visit my in-laws) and in order to get there,
any season, for 40. Kiryat Moshe to Rehavia dir.
42. “Rabbi, is there a blessing for the
37. Casspi’s team, on the scoreboard
38. One emanating from the face of
we had to go on a plane. The place where that matter. ___?’ (“Fiddler” line)
43. Caesar known for his strength and
Moses
39. “...who practices witchcraft, ___ who
colds, coughs, and lord knows what else humor interprets omens...” (Deut. 18:10)
come to breed. So you do what you can. of my size supposed to maneuver a toi- 46. “Enchanted” song for Tu b’Shvat? 40. Creator of many gods and monsters
I had my Purell, and aside from wearing let seat cover and turning around to sit 51. Cherubs, on the scoreboard 41. It’s very important in 40-Down’s work
a face mask, that was it. down without having to grease the walls 52. Huge Ming 43. Like a diffident maidel
53. Band created and managed by Lou 44. Particle studied by Bohr
We get on the plane, three of us in of the lavatory with butter??????
Pearlman 45. Mo. that sees a lot of 61-Across, in
one row and husband #1 on the aisle Stuck on a plane with TB Tonya, and 54. “The Little Mermaid” song for Judaism
across from us. The two seats next to several Sneezing Sams (again, not their Tu b’Shvat? 47. Norse war-god
him were empty. And then came Tuber- real names) I just tried not to breathe. 59. Opening for a shekel 48. Sect with a schism in 2006
culosis Tonya (not her real name). She That doesn’t work. Husband #1 finally 60. “Bambi”, e.g. 49. Greeting from a definitively non-Jew-
61. It proved Elijah to be legit ish character
was coughing on her hand. DOESN’T moved to the row in front of TB Tonya,
65. A sukkah is symbolic of one 50. Worthwhile
SHE WATCH THE NEWS?? You are so hopefully, no damage was done. 66. “___ Day’s Night” 51. Disobeys the Tenth Commandment
supposed to cough into your armpit, Wait, how long is the incubation 67. Del Boca Vista condo, e.g. 55. Bluesy James
because if you cough on your hand and period for colds, coughs, and lord knows 68. Creator of Genesis 56. Green and Gabor
your hand touches the seat and then what else? 69. Guns N’ ___, band that rocked Tel 57. What Caleb didn’t do, even in his old
Aviv in 2017 age
someone else touches the seat, they To be continued……..
70. Einstein locales 58. Baseball team with a previous owner
will then get sick. No wonder so many who had positive words about Hitler
people suffer from anxiety. Does every- Banji Ganchrow just watched son #1’s Down 62. “Barefoot” Garten
one think the way I do? Vikings get demolished by the Eagles. 1. Creation in Genesis 63. 1-Down, once
Then Tuberculosis Tonya just started Football season is officially over for 2. What Aaron might have called his big 64. Some Asimov characters; Abbr.
sis
coughing everywhere. Sons #1 and #3 the Ganchrows. How many weeks until The solution to last week’s puzzle
3. Judge for 40 years
had to physically hold me back from pitchers and catchers? Let’s Go Mets!! is on page 54.
F
or the record, it is A17606.
That literally is “The Num-
ber on Great-Grandpa’s Arm,”
the title and subject of the mov-
ing documentary short that airs on HBO
on January 27, International Holocaust
Remembrance Day.
It is a simple conversation between a
90-year-old camp survivor, Srulek Feld-
man, and his adoring 10-year-old great-
grandson, Elliott, about experiences
Srulek had before and during the war. It
is heartwarming, intelligent, and told in
a way that evokes the suffering without
frightening its intended family audience.
Feldman was born in Sosnowiec,
Poland, in what appears to be a financially
comfortable, Shabbos-observant family.
His father was a milliner who had his own
store, and life was good — until it wasn’t.
He was 14 years old when he and a group
of friends were grabbed up and (although
it’s not entirely clear) sent to a series of
work camps. He never saw his family again. Srulek Feldman, 90, engages in intimate conversation with his grandson, Elliott, 10.
Eventually he ended up in Auschwitz. After
a forced march alongside fleeing German fish market. youngster is a real find, smart, inquisitive, fish store. “If you’re hungry he will feed
troops on a Jewish Trail of Tears, he was The film has a number of really glorious and as much as a 10-year-old can be, a real [you] whether you’ve got money or not.”
liberated by Russian soldiers. elements. First, there is the obvious love history buff. What is particularly unique, though, is
He returned to Sosnowiec after the that young Elliott has for Jack (and vice Another important and fortunate take- the film’s back story. It started with Sheila
war, but knew no one there; all friends versa, of course), which is especially note- away is how willingly Jack responds to Nevins, 78, a long-time HBO executive and
and acquaintances were gone. He ended worthy in a time when older people often Elliott’s questions. Many survivors bur- president of HBO documentaries and fam-
up in a German DP camp, where he met are disrespected. ied memories and were forever changed ily programming since 2004. In that time,
his wife; the two ultimately emigrated to A second is the fascinating way the story by them. Not Jack. He remembers all. He the shows and films she has worked on
the United States, and Feldman, who now is told. It’s not a lecture, but Jack answer- “knows what it means to be hungry,” says have earned her a record 32 individual
called himself Jack, started a successful ing Elliott’s intelligent questions. The an African American man in Feldman’s Primetime Emmy Awards, 42 Peabodys,
producing Adele. This year it is mostly for his work ANE WARREN, 61; and, as noted above, “Never Give improvised jazz solo (“Whisper Not”). He’s been
producing Beck, the Foo Fighters, and Sia. He also is Up” was produced by GREG KURSTIN. Grammy-nominated six times before and the Jazz
nominated for producing the best song for a visual JORGE DREXLER, 53, is nominated for best Latin Journalists Association named him “pianist of the
media — ”Never Give Up” from “Lion” (sung by Sia). Rock, Urban or Alternative Album (“Salvavidas de year” in 2011. He was diagnosed HIV positive in the
The following is a list of Jews nominated for Gram- Hielo”). Drexler became the first Uruguayan to win 1980s, and had a health crisis in 2008 that put him
mys that probably won’t be given on TV. It isn’t a an Oscar when he won the best song Oscar in 2004. in a two-month coma and rendered him unable to
complete list, but it covers some biggies and also is A medical doctor, he has been Grammy nominated play for several years. He wrote about his life and
meant to highlight a few Jews in musical genres not four times before. ANAT COHEN, 38, a clarinetist, that crisis in his 2017 memoir, “Good Things Hap-
normally associated with Jewish folks. saxophone player, and bandleader, is nominated for pen Slowly.” (Google him for a great interview with
JERRY SEINFELD, 63, (“Jerry Before Seinfeld”) best Latin jazz album (“The Music of Moacir Santos”) TERRY GROSS of NPR.)
and SARAH SILVERMAN, 47 (“A Speck of Dust”) are and for best world music album (“Rosa Dos Ventos”). Finally, two very famous Jewish conductors, who
nominated for best comedy album. All three albums Born and raised in Tel Aviv, she lives in New York. were born within three months of each other in Los
nominated for best musical theater album have NOAM PIKELNY, 36, is nominated for best blue- Angeles, go head to head. LEONARD SLATKIN, 73,
Jewish nominees—-”Come from Away,” composed grass album for “Universal Favorite.” He’s considered the conductor of the Detroit Symphony Orchestra,
by DAVID HEIN, 35ish, and IRENE SANKOFF, 35ish; one of the best living banjo players. He has won is nominated for conducting the orchestra’s perfor-
“Dear Evan Hansen,” composed by BENJ PASEK, many major bluegrass awards, including the “Steve mance of AARON COPLAND’s “Symphony No. 3;
32, and Justin Paul, and featuring the voices of BEN Martin Prize” (he played “Dueling Banjos” with Mar- Three Latin American Sketches.” Slatkin comes from
PLATT and RACHEL BAY JONES, 48; and “Hello tin on David Letterman’s show) and 2010 “player of a famously musical family. His father, FELIX, was the
Dolly”, composed by JERRY HERMAN, 86, and fea- the year” by the International Bluegrass Music As- violinist, conductor, and founder of the Hollywood
turing the voice of BETTE MIDLER, 72. sociation. He’s frequently asked how he, a Jewish kid String Quartet, and his mother, ELEANOR ALLER,
Likewise, all the songs nominated for best song from Skokie, Illinois, who went to the modern Ortho- was the quartet’s cellist. He competes in this cate-
written for a visual media include Jewish nominees: dox Ida Crown Jewish Academy, got into bluegrass. gory with MICHAEL TILSON-THOMAS, 73, who con-
“City of Stars,” from “La La Land,” was composed He rightly points out that Jews, for whatever reason, ducted the San Francisco Symphony’s recording of
by JUSTIN HURWITZ, 32, Pasek, and Paul; “I Don’t have had an affinity for bluegrass, and there have Debussy’s “Images; Jeux & La Plus Que Lente.” Like
Want to Live Forever,” from “Fifty Shades Darker,” been many prominent Jews in the genre (including Slatkin, Tilson-Thomas comes from a famous Jew-
was co-produced by JACK ANTONOFF; “Stand up ERIC WEISSBERG, 78, who wrote “Dueling Banjos”). ish family: he’s the grandson of BORIS and BESSIE
for Something,” from “Marshall,” was written by DI- FRED HERSCH, 62, a pianist, is nominated for best THOMASHEFKY, famous stars of the Yiddish theater.
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FROM PAGE 8 community to refugees of other faiths. That FROM PAGE 11 ful to the JCC, for similar reasons.
While the fact that the assistance is being can only be a good thing.” “But my friend said that maybe I could “I never got any help from my son’s
offered by a Jewish group may not be terri- Rabbi Paskind said people looking to help apply for financial aid.” father, because he moved out of the coun-
bly important to the new refugees, he said, must proceed on two levels. “For many peo- She did. She submitted the documents try when my son was about 3 1/2, so I was
“For us, all our volunteers, I think it has been ple on our committee, it was the one-on-one, requested of her, the request went to the on my own,” she said. “I try to give my son
central,” though, he admitted, he may simply hands-on helping of a refugee family that scholarship committee — and her sons ends everything he deserves, and the JCC has
be extrapolating from his own feelings. “We stood out as what they wanted to do. I believe up in camp at the JCC. been very supportive and very helpful, and
know the Torah’s repeated command to care that while we can do something really good “They love it,” she said. “We also are mem- without making me feel bad.
for the orphan, widow, and stranger. We have for one family, while our country is turning its bers here. This will be our third summer. It is “At first, it was very hard to ask for help,”
studied Rabbi Jonathan Sacks’ remarkable back and closing its doors as it did when the a very good program, with great counselors. she said. “It was new for me, having to ask.
teaching that ‘Love your fellow as yourself’ ship St. Louis was forced to turn around and They spend a lot of energy with the kids. But they didn’t make me feel small. They
turns out to be relatively simple, for she or he sail back to Europe, the local mitzvah is only “My boys are very grateful that they can be just understood my situation and they were
is usually rather like oneself. But the Torah part of the story. part of the JCC, and enjoy the summer. This very helpful.”
commands us to ‘Love the stranger, for you “I feel called to work to turn around the year my older son will be in a specialty camp, Her son started summer camp when he
were strangers in the land of Egypt.’ So we xenophobic response that has increasingly the sports one — he is passionate about bas- was 6 years old; now he’s 12, “and even now,
are to love those who are not like ourselves! become official policy. If we want to be true ketball — and there will be some science too. when he doesn’t have anywhere else to go, he
“I think we are all finding this an important to our history as immigrants, I think we need “There is a great sense of community,” will just go to the JCC and play a sport there,”
and moving experience. to lobby Congress and the White House to she concluded. “It is a very happy place. I go she said. “It is a home away from home.
“I hope it is also important for the fam- accept more, not fewer, refugees. We need there and feel like my boys are part of a big “It’s just such a special place,” she con-
ily we help,” he added. “They know we are to support the Dreamers and make them feel family. And there are always kids and elderly cluded. “The energy when you walk in is
Jewish. Some of our conversations touch welcome again, not criminalize them and people there. It is very family-centered, and so very welcoming and warm. And it’s not
on differences and similarities. I think some [chase] them from their homes. it is a crucial place for the community.” just for my son — even for me, when I walk
of us may hope that we can be unofficial “There’s a lot more we need to do.” A Moroccan-born single mother of an only in I can relax.”
Terrorist threat Islamic extremism in advancing terrorism. details of only eight of the 402 foreign- What does this all mean
FROM PAGE 45 born cases. Officials briefing reporters on for the Jews?
The Trump administration’s emphasis Whose numbers add up? the report said more information would be Be alert. Michael Masters, the director of
on foreign acts of terrorism is consistent The ADL is painstaking about making available in the future. the Secure Community network, the secu-
with its de-emphasis of domestic terror- sure that a murder was directly related However, even among the eight there rity arm for national Jewish groups, said
ism. Under Trump, Homeland Security has to extremism. It omits from its count the seemed to be anomalies, at least when community protections against either phe-
considered (but ultimately decided against) murder of a black student at the University judged against Trump’s original order. nomenon — international or domestic ter-
renaming its Countering Violent Extrem- of Maryland in May, noting in the report It includes people who planned to travel rorists — were essentially the same.
ism program Countering Islamic Extrem- that while the alleged assailant, who was abroad to join terrorist groups like the “Recent reports outline the dangers
ism. It defunded an Obama-era program, white, belonged to a Facebook group that Islamic State. Nothing, at least in the posed by violent extremists — Islamists,
Life After Hate, that helped right-wing attracted racists, not all of its members report, suggested that these people white supremacists and neo-Nazi groups,
extremists detach from radical groups. are racists. It also provides an addendum planned attacks on U.S. soil. as well as individuals — all of whom
A former senior national security detailing 34 extremist-related murders Ed O’Callaghan, a deputy assistant attor- continue to pose a threat to the United
adviser to Trump, Sebastian Gorka, has in 2017, explaining why in each case the ney general, briefing reporters on the States,” he said. “The Jewish community
said repeatedly that there is “no such attack was deemed extremist-related. report, said that those people eventually must remain vigilant. Our safety and secu-
thing” as a lone-wolf attacker, suggesting (Breakdowns of previous years appear in might return to the United States to carry rity depends on our ability to share infor-
it was an Obama administration construct previous annual reports.) out attacks. mation, undertake training, develop an
designed to cover up the role of organized The Homeland Security report includes “I think that that makes the American acute awareness of our surroundings at
people safer and I know the Trump admin- all times and to report any and all suspi-
istration does,” he said. cious activity.
Additionally, several of those people are “These efforts, when undertaken, allow
not from the six Muslim-majority countries us to better prepare for and address the
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