21 WAYS TO MEET AND MARRY THE

WOMAN OF YOUR DREAMS

A review and summary of the best selling book of Brian Tracy! Teaches you how to
meet and marry the right woman for the successful version of you.

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2. This is a wonderful time to be alive! There have never been more opportunities for
success and happiness for more people than exist today! At the same time, the most important
decision of your life is the person you marry and settle down with. Making the right decision in this
area will have more than an impact in your happiness than any other factor. So how to find the
ideal woman for you ? Lets discover the 21 Ways to Meet And Marry The Woman Of Your
Dreams by Brian Tracy.
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21 WAYS TO MEET AND MARRY THE WOMAN OF

YOUR DREAMS
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1. DECIDE EXACTLY WHAT YOU WANT
The first way to meet and marry the woman of your dream is to be clear: its absolutely amazing
how many men go through life with no clear idea of what it is they really want in a woman. They
are continually amaze and disappointed when their relationship dont turn out particularly well. The
first and most important step you take meeting and marrying the woman of your dreams, is to sit
down with pad of paper and a pen, and write down every single ingredientthat you would like to
have in your perfect woman. Write every quality and characteristic your ideal woman would have,
what kind of a background would she have, what kind of history, family, education, temperament,
values and virtues would you like her to possess. Then, describe the way she would treat you, how
she would behave toward your friends and your family, the childrenyou would have together. How
would you want you her to react to adversities in life, her philosophy of life, her principles. What
kind of attitude would you want her to have toward relationships, family, sex, physical
activities. How she would spend leisure time with you (very important). Describe the way she
would look in terms of weight, height, even eye and hair color. Set you standards high!
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2. DEVELOP A POSITIVE MENTAL ATTITUDE
Develop A Positive Mental Attitude toward yourself and your life. Resolve today to become a
complete optimist in everything you do. An optimistic person, with a positive attitude tends to have
a good sens of humor: and this, is one of the most attractive characteristic a man can have.
Optimism is something that can be learned, think of the things you want and how to get them, the
clear you are about what you want, the more positive and confident you will become. Check: The
Power of Positive Thinking: 10 Traits for Maximum Results by Norman Vincent Peale.

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3. LOOK LIKE A WINNER
Look like a winner in every aspect. First impressions are lasting when it comes to relationships.
You should ask yourself what kind of a person you would have to look like to attract that woman.
Then, begin changing your image in every way necessary. Learn how to dress properly, pay
attention to your grooming, make sure that when you smile at a woman you turn her on rather than
turning her off. A key part of your image, is your physical fitness. The better your woman is you
want to attract, the more demanding she is like to be regard to your overall appearance. Woman
are attracted almost magnetically to men who are in good physical condition and well turned out. I
strongly recommend AlphaM (fashion, fitness, grooming) , Real Man Real Style (how to dress like
a real man), Art of Manliness, Image Matters For Man.

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4. CAST A WIDE NET
The law of probability works in meeting and marrying the woman of your dreams. The more
different women your are exposed to in different situations, the more likely it is that you will meet
the right woman at the right time. Ask yourself: where is the ideal woman most likely to be found ?
You want a success oriented woman? Attend to seminars on success and achievement. You want
a more spiritual woman? Sign up for a yoga class.. Fish where the fish are!

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5. BECOME ACTIVE AND INVOLVED
The fifth way to meet and marry the woman of your dreams is: Become active and involved in your
business and your community. Network continually and in every opportunity. This is another part of
casting a wide net, the kind of woman you want to meet is someone who is also active and
involved in life. The more people you get to know and work with in a friendly basis, the greater
exposure you will have. Get involve in charities, the best people in every community get involved in
activities that are design to improve the overall community.

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6. TALK THE TALK, WALK THE WALK
Women are powerfully attracted to men who can talk intelligently about the things that are of
interest to women. Most men only talk about things that they are interested in. Read some articles,
books that your ideal woman will be interested in, that, when you meet such a woman you will
have something to tell, women are attracted like bees to honey to men who are interested in the
same things they are.

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7. BE SMART ABOUT MONEY
Women tend to be very concerned about the ability of a man to provide for her, especially when
they get married and have children. A man who is smart about money is much more attractive to
more women than a man who is careless about money or who has financial problems. Women are
not mercenary with regard to money, they prefer to marry for love, but given a choice, an intelligent
woman (the kind of woman you want) will prefer to fall in love with a man who is either financially
successful already, or in the way to be. Save and invest your money in a regular basisall your life,
the rule is simply this: Pay yourself first. Instead of spending and paying your bills and then saving
what you have left over, pay yourself 10% of the income off the top of every single paycheck and
put it away in a saving and investing account. Read: The Richest Man In Babylon, Rich Dad
Poor Dad, Think and Grow Rich.

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8. LOOK FOR A WINNING ATTITUDE
The most wonderful quality a woman can have is that of being positive and cheerful most of the
time. Look for a woman who is both future oriented and solution oriented like yourself. Look for a
woman who is optimistic and confident about the future. People dont change, look for a person
who has the kind of personality already that you will be happy with all the days of your life.

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9. INCREASE YOUR SELF-CONFIDENCE
Your level of self confidence is a major part of your sex appeal. The more confident you appear to
be in the outside, the greater sex appeal you will have to the woman you meet. Your self
confidence is based on your self esteem: how much do you like yourself ? The more you like and
respect yourself, the more you consider yourself to be a valuable and a worthwhile person, the
higher is your self esteem, and the greater is your self confidence in dealing with others. How
much you like yourself determine how much you like other people, and how much they like
you in return. Take Mohamed Ali as an example: Im young, Im handsome, Im fast, Im pretty,
and I cant possibly be beaten!.

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10. DEVELOP A CLEAR SENSE OF DIRECTION
The tenth way to meet and marry the woman of your dreams is by: Setting goals for yourself in
every area of your life. Financial goals, health goals, personal development goals, relationships
goals. Decide exactly what you want to be, what you want to have, what you want to do. Less than
10% of adults have clear written goals and they tend to accomplish vastly more then all the others
put together. There is 7 simple steps for goad settings:
Decide exactly what you want.
Write it down with clear and specific details (program them into your subconscious mind).
Set a deadline.
Make a list of everything youll have to do to achieve your goal. Think on paper.
Organize your list into a plan by priority.
Take action on your goal immediately, get busy, dont procrastinate.
Do something everyday thats moves you toward your most important goal: personal momentum.

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11. GET YOURSELF ORGANIZED
Learn and practice the habit of good time management. A man who is well organized, in control of
his time and his life is far more confident and reassuring then a person who is overwhelmed with
work. Getting organized is fairly simple if you have the discipline to do it everyday. 5 simple steps:
Make a list of everything you will have to do before you begin.
Set priorities in your list.
Begin in your top priority task, dont clear up small things first.
Discipline yourself to concentrate single mindedly until your most important task is complete. Read
the Pomodoro Technique Illustrated:The Easy Way to Do More in Less Time by
Staffan Noteberg. And Getting Things Done:The Art of Stress-Free Productivity by David Allen.
Develop a sens of urgency, a bias for action, be the kind of person who gets things done quickly
and well.

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12. MAKE HER FEEL SPECIAL
Do things that can make her feel special, valuable, and important. Women are wonderful
creatures, they have a rich inner lives, they are far more sensitive, emotional, aware, and intuitive
then men. They are responsive to the actions, reactions of the people around them.
The more you make her feel important, the more your raise her self esteem, the better she will feel
about herself, and the better she will feel about being with you. Activate the roller-coaster of her
emotions, make her feel alive in your presence! You can read: The Way of the Superior Man: A
Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire by David
Deida.

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13. LEARN HOW TO LISTEN WELL
This is one of the most powerful skill you can develop. Most men are very poor listeners when it
comes to women. Women have a deep subconscious need to express themselves to the man in
their lives. When you listen to a woman, her self esteem and her self value goes up, she feels
special and important. Here are the 4 keys to effective listening:
Listen attentively without interruptions, calmly, quietly and patiently, make no effort to respond, nod
and smile while you listen, lean forward, look at her as though she is the most fascinating person
in the entire world.
Pause before replying, take a few moments to think about what she just said.
Question for clarification: Instead of giving advice or making recommendations, ask questions
about what she just said and encourage her to expend on her words and her thoughts, use How
do you mean? How do you feel about that?
Paraphrase what she just said. Express it back in your own words. Rapt attention is the highest
form of flattery.

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14. EXPECT THE BEST
An attitude of confident, positive expectations is the attitude of the winning human being. Always
expect the best of yourself and others. Always talk in positive terms about how you feel things are
going to turn out. Be cheerful and optimistic about the future. When you expect the best of another
person, they will almost always rise to meet your expectations. Expect the best of a woman by
always telling her how good she is, and how successful she is likely to be.

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15. BE A LIFELONG STUDENT
All of your knowledge and experience has a half life in this informational quick changing age. Your
skills are becoming obsolete at a rapid rate and you must be continually upgrading them if you
want to stay even. The most powerful and consistent form of continuous motivation is for you to be
continually learning and growing in your field and in your life. The more your grow and learn in the
inside, the more confident and positive you will be in the outside, and the more attractive you will
be to the woman in your life. Read at least one book a week, use audio books while walking,
driving or working out.

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16. ACCEPT COMPLETE RESPONSIBILITY
The key to a positive mental attitude, and the feeling of both self confident and self esteem is what
psychologists call a sens of control. When you feel in complete control of your life you feel terrific
about yourself, and the key to feeling in control is for you to accept and embrace complete
responsibility for everything you are and everything you will ever be. When you accept
responsibility for yourself and for your work, you move to the front of the line in life. You stand out
above the people who are making excuses. IF IT IS TO BE, ITS UP TO ME. When you become a
highly responsibility individual, you give off magnetism and sex appeal that attracts women into
your life, you appear strong, and forceful and decisive. Remember, you are the architect of your
own destiny, you are behind the wheel of your own life.

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17. TAKE CARE OF YOUR HEALTH
Take excellent care of your physical health, it is never been more possible for you to live younger
and better then today. Your goal should be to live a long and happy life with the woman of your
dreams full of energy and enthusiasm decade after decade. Ask yourself if there is any thing you
are doing (or failing to do) today that is inconsistent with the healthy life style you desire. Get your
weight under control, there is nothing that makes you appear more attractive then a lean flat
stomach. Practice the 5 word formula for physical fitness: Eat less and exercise more. Read
21. 18. TEST FOR COMPATIBILITY
The foundation of a healthy loving relationship with a woman, is that you are both compatible. You
may have to go out with a lot of women before you meet the one with whom you feel completely
comfortable and secure. Never compromise in the area of compatibility. It is a matter of chemistry
between two people, it either exists or it doesnt. Some of the areas of compatibility revolve around
key attitudes: sex, family, friends, work, money and things like religion and politics. Small area of
compatibility in a relationship can grow to become a major area of incompatibility that lead to the
breakdown of the relationship later on. Be careful.

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19. CREATE REGULAR BLOCKS OF TIME WITH HER
Find the perfect rate for you. Discover a particular activity that you enjoy doing together. But never
force yourself to be together all the time. In fact, spending too much time with your woman might
increase the risk for stupid disputes. It is vital for both to have friends outside the relationship,
hobbies and passions. You should think of quality rather then quantity, it is the womans biggest
desire to feel the presence and the fullness of her man.

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20. TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS
In your relationships you must always listen closely to your intuition, to your still, small inner voice.
You already have excellent instincts always telling you exactly the right thing to do or say in every
situation as long as you listen to them when they speak to you. Almost every mistake that you
have ever made has been the result of going against your gut feeling, and there is nowhere where
this is more important and relevant then in your relationships with women. When a relationship is
right, it will feel right, you will not have to force yourself to do or say anything, youll be able to relax
completely. If the relationship is wrong however, you will always feel a little bit awkward, stressed
when you are with her, you will be continually reminding yourself to do, or not to do or say certain
things, you will often try too hard. But when you trust your instincts you will probably never make
another mistake. Whenever you feel anxious or unhappy for any reason in your relationship, go
and sit quietly in solitude and listen to your body. Your inner voice will tell you exactly what to do.
Practice mindfulness meditation. I suggest you to check: Art of Mindful Living: How to Bring
Love, Compassion, and Inner Peace Into Your Daily Life by Thich Nhat Hanh.

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21. LAST BUT NOT LEAST: BE TRUE TO YOURSELF
The last way to meet and marry the woman of your dreams is by practicing impeccable integrity in
everything you do and say. Integrity is the foundation of masculinity, self confidence, self esteem,
self respect, the true and never changing consciousness that women crave to possess in their
man. When you are absolutely honest with yourself and everything you do and say you feel terrific
about yourself, you always say the right things and make the right decisions, you always earn the
respect and the support of the people around you. Whereas men may occasionally marry for
beauty, women almost always marry for character. Because women think for the long term,
especially with regard to having children and raising them for twenty years, they look even
unconsciously for the man who has the kind of integrity and character that they can rely on for the
indefinite future. Live in truth with yourself, then live in truth with everyone around you.

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It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages. Friedrich
Nietzsche.+