Leadership Begins With An Attitude Leader Guide
Leadership Begins With An Attitude Leader Guide
Leadership Begins With An Attitude Leader Guide
Jack McDowell School for Leadership Development EQUIPs Million Leaders Mandate
Evangeline Booth College, Atlanta, GA Series One ~ Notebook Three
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(Leaders Think and Perceive the World Differently Than Followers Do)
It is common to assume that leadership is all about skills and techniques. In reality, our Leaders Notes
leadership begins when we possess the right attitude about our circumstances and
ourselves. This is where all change takes place. William James, the father of modern PRAY! PRAY! PRAY!
psychology, wrote: The greatest discovery of my generation is that humans can alter
their lives by altering their attitude of mind. Your attitude will determine your action.
Your action will determine your accomplishments. Jesus emphasized this principle by
teaching that we must get our heart in order before we can get our life in order. He said
that when there are evil treasures in a man's heart, evil emerges. When there are good
treasures in a man's heart, good emerges. It's all about what's inside. Real change occurs
from the inside out.
Exercise: Write the name of a person you greatly admire. Then write down what it is
that causes you to admire that person.
Now, consider the qualities you wrote down. Do they have more to do with:
Attitude Aptitude Appearance? (Circle one)
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A Question to Consider:
Are you allowing circumstances to dictate your attitude?
Or are you choosing, in all things, to have the attitude of Christ?
In so many situations, the battle is won before the battle has begun. It all has to do
with the frame of mind with which we enter the battle. Are we full of faith, hope and
optimism? Or, are we negative and doubtful of getting results? This principle was
illustrated when Moses sent the twelve spies into the Promised Land. Joshua and
Caleb came back with a positive report. The other ten spies returned with a negative
report. Their attitude prevailed, and that generation of people never got to enter the
land.
Attitude Checklist:
1. What is my usual attitude at the beginning of a new experience?
Attitude Lesson 1
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2. My attitude toward _________________ determines their attitude toward ME. Leaders Notes
2. Others
Give and it will be given to you.
Good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over they will pour into your lap.
For by your standard of measure it will be measured to you in return.
Luke 6:38
Generally speaking, people are mirrors. They will reflect the attitude of their leader. You
must initiate the attitude you want in return. Leaders must understand this to get results.
Jesus said,
And just as you want people to treat you, treat them in the same way
Luke 6:31
Researchers at a major university reported that a person's success on the job is:
3. Request
3. ________________________ their help.
Nothing makes a person feel more useful.
4. Reward
4. ________________________ their efforts.
Nothing makes a person feel more valuable.
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Watch over your heart and guard it with all diligence, for from it flow the springs of life.
Proverbs 4:23
The book of Proverbs reminds us of how important our attitude is toward life. Out of
our hearts flow the springs of life. Think about it you are only an attitude away from
victory. An Olympic gold medal winner once said, I believe the only difference
between gold and silver medal winners is their attitude, not their ability.
Proverbs also lists some abominations to the Lord. Consider them for a moment:
Conversely, a right attitude can make up for what you may lack in resources. Many
leaders in the past have accomplished great things without any resources other than a
positive attitude of faith.
A Thought to Ponder:
Good-tempered leaders invigorate lives;
theyre like spring rain and sunshine.
Proverbs 16:15 (MSG)
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2. Evaluation
2. ____________________: What went wrong?
3. Choice
3. ____________________: This is where attitude steps in!
We can begin dreaming or become disappointed. We can start building or start blaming.
We can get busy or get angry. We can conquer or quit. Whether the problem becomes a
blessing depends on you more than God. He desires to turn all things into blessings
(Romans 8:28). Remember that much of the Bible was written by prisoners, oppressed
minorities, and those in captivity. The writers rose above their circumstances.
Attitude Lesson 2
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A Question to Consider:
How often do you account for the
attitude of others when you build a team?
Note the importance of attitude in both leaders and team members. Practicing
psychologists list five rules for evaluating people considered for job promotion:
(1) ambition, (2) attitudes toward policy, (3) attitudes toward colleagues, (4) leadership skills
(5) attitudes to pressure on the job.
A survey was taken among customers to discover why they quit buying goods from
certain stores. Here is what they discovered:
1% die; 3% move away; 5% other friendships; 9% competitive reasons; 14% product dissatisfaction;
and 68% because of an attitude of indifference shown to them by an employee.
Attitude Lesson 2
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A Thought to Ponder:
What are the top three attitude problems
that exist in your church?
Why do you think they exist within the majority of the people?
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The thoughts in your mind are more important than the things in your life. Too many
leaders think if they just could move to a new place or have different circumstances, they
would be happy. We call this destination disease. Leaders must be cured of it.
Personal Evaluation:
If I would not have done that, I'd feel better about myself.
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Question to Consider:
How would you describe your attitude?
How would others describe your attitude?
I call heaven and earth to witness against you today, that I have set before you life and death,
the blessing and the curse. Therefore, choose life in order that you may live.
Deuteronomy 30:19
We cannot tailor-make the situations of our life and leadership, but we can tailor-make
the attitudes to fit them before they arrive. Here is how to tailor-make your attitude:
A. Believe it is not what happens _______ you but what happens _______ you that A. To, In
matters most.
As you mature,
life is governed more
by your choices than
by your conditions
or circumstances.
AGE
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Finally, my brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, 9. Adjustment
whatever is lovely, whatever is of good reputation, if there is any excellence
and if anything is worthy of praise, let your mind dwell on these things.
Philippians 4:8
Even though the Apostle Paul wrote to mature believers, he still exhorted them to work on
their attitudes and watch what filled their minds. Our lives are like sailing a boat or flying a
plane. We have a plan for our destination, but there is a need for constant adjustment
along the way.
People catch our attitudes like they catch a cold from us by getting close to us!
Attitude Lesson 3
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Leaders Notes
A Thought to Ponder:
The Winners edge is not in
a gifted birth, in a high IQ, or in a talent.
The winners edge is in
the attitude, not the aptitude.
~ Denis Waitley
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