4 Reasons Why Girls Cheat
4 Reasons Why Girls Cheat
4 Reasons Why Girls Cheat
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The 4 Reasons Why Good Girls Cheat CR James
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Hi my name is CR James
Let’s talk about the 4 reasons why good girls cheat. Once you understand them, you be
one of the few guys who will be able to tell if a girl will eventually cheat on her lover.
As you already know, some women cheat on their boyfriends (or husbands) and they feel
bad afterwards.
In other words, they are good natured women. They don’t steal. They love animals. They
do kind things for other people. They get into relationships with a guy they love and
adore. They do sweet little things for him to show that they care.
And through a series of events she is now in the bed (extremely aroused) exploring many
different sexual positions with another guy…
Again, when she is done cheating, she sincerely feels bad about what happened…
And by the way, if you don’t believe this kind of thing happens a lot, then may I suggest
you read this report 10 times (back to back).
It’s important to know that everything comes done to Core Character Traits and Behavior
Patterns.
These 4 Reasons reveal whether a woman is likely to cheat --- even if she doesn’t realize
it --- even if she is good-natured with no intention of ever cheating (or emotionally
hurting her lover).
Here Are The 4 Reasons Why Good Girls Cheat (which determines whether a woman
will eventually cheat on you - even if she doesn’t plan to cheat)
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As you know, about 65% of all women have cheated at some point
(or is currently cheating).
But strangely: 100% of women have strong beliefs about why they
hate cheaters.
If you go on a date with 10,000 women, 10,000 of them will (at some point) give you a
speech about how they hate cheaters and/or the act of cheating. (yet, you already know
that 65% of women cheat).
So either there are some conditions where the number 65 is greater than 100 – OR – there
are some women who cheat (even though they don’t want their lover cheating on them)
Let’s get to the point: (Get out a piece of paper and pencil)
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The first one has to do with a lack of self-control, and this one deals with how
easily her perception of things can be changed by others.
For example I know a woman who gets up at 5:00 AM in the morning and jogs for
5 miles – even on days when she’s just not up to it. And if she walked into the
local convenient store to get some water she could glide past the chocolate
donut case with no problem (even though her bodily urges are screaming at her
to take a bite).
BUT – if the store owner told her that those were magic donuts that would make
her run faster and lose an instant 5 pounds, she’d believe him in a heartbeat!
Do you see the difference? I want you to think about her Level of “Gullible-ness”.
The following may help you come up with her Persuade-able Score:
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Well this trait has to do with her level of respect for you. So if she is strong-willed
and hard-to-persuade, but she doesn’t respect/value you, then another guy can
seduce her with zero effort.
And when I say she doesn’t respect or value you, I’m referring to that subtle
disrespectful attitude that surfaces from time to time. Most guys ignore it or make
excuses for it.
You should realize that respect and love are closely related, but they are 2
different things.
That’s why you want to pay attention to the Respect Level and its Fluctuation
Level.
I remember (embarrassingly) trying to have sex with a particular girl for 7 straight
months. I didn’t care that she had a boyfriend. LOL.
Me: Hello
Her: What are doing tonight?
Me: Nothing
Her: Do you want to come over tonight?
Me: Whooooa (laughing at her boldness). I’m not sure if your boyfriend
would think that’s a good idea. (assuming that they weren’t
together)(and trying to let her know what my intentions were for coming
over)
Her: Screw him! What he doesn’t know won’t hurt him!
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Needless to say I cashed it. But when I tried to get some action a week later, I
was stone cold rejected. And wouldn’t you know it – in no time, that guy messed
up my chances by becoming Mr. Perfect Boyfriend again!
Let’s define what I mean by respect, to make it clear. That last thing I want is for
to believe the relationship is unstable when it isn’t.
Some guys avoid conflict because they believe avoiding an angry response is
beneficial to the relationship. It’s a tremendously destructive strategy on some
many levels.
In fact, I won’t even get into how bad of an idea that is. However it’s very
common.
Although women who lose respect for their lovers are often quick to get angry
with him, being angry at him and not respecting him are two different things.
Anger is something that wears off. She may not want to talk to you at the
moment, but she’s not going to act out of character.
On the other hand, a loss of respect is something the guy can feel.
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For example, the woman consistently does whatever she wants – without any
regard to how the guy feels.
It’s easy for a guy to know that he is dealing with a woman who is going to
do whatever she wants.
HUGE DIFFERENCE!
If she frequently loses respect for you, then you need to beware!
The following may help you come up with her Respect Score:
Does she do what she wants – knowing that you disapprove of it?
Does she lash out and say things that hurt your feelings?
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She could be extremely intelligent (or hard to persuade), but there is a belief
somewhere inside her brain (that she isn’t sharing with you) that drives her
philosophy about cheating or being faithful.
And obviously you’ll have to go on your gut feeling that she can’t be totally
trusted (or ‘weird comments’ that expose a potential cheating belief), because if
she has a belief that gives her permission to cheat, she’s not going to reveal this
to you.
By the way, this doesn’t make her a bad person. It just means she has a
irrational belief.
I’ll explain.
One day I had a female co-worker that came to work with a sad look on her face.
As she continued it became obvious that her beliefs drives her cheating. I initially
thought she it was strictly a will power issue.
For example:
[His words] Jim says he is going to stop eating 5 donuts every morning.
(Conscious Desire: “I want to lose weight”)
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[His actions] The next day Jim ends up eating 5 donuts.
(Unconscious Desire: “I want to eat tasty donuts”)
The Unconscious and Conscious desires are not the same, thus creating a
disagreement.
There was no disagreement with “Lisa”. She told me she was going to cheat [her
words]. And she ended up cheating. [her actions]
As a found out, she had a belief that gave her permission to cheat.
She told me that she believed all men are dogs. She believed that a man will
eventually cheat on her, so because of that, she might as well cheat…
She could be afraid of clowns. And in her mind, the clown has plans to harm her.
Could you imagine giving a good-natured woman a gun while she is locked in a
room with 3 clowns?
Answer: Nothing…if she isn’t afraid of clowns. However, if she thinks that the
clowns are dangerous and they are about to kill her, then her reaction could be
much different.
If a good-natured woman truly believes that all guys cheat, then you should be
able to see how this logically leads to a belief that gives her permission to cheat.
By the way, a woman who allows herself to cheat, isn’t going to tell her boyfriend
(or husband)
So if Lisa’s new boyfriend asked her is she is going to be faithful, she is going to
say “of course”.
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Not only that, she will follow it up with a cliché rant about how cheating is wrong
blah blah blah…
It’s not like she is going to say: [after you ask her how was her day]
Her: “Oh my day was great. My boss was being a jerk, but
the day went by fast. The new guy Kevin was banging me silly during
lunch time and made me have three intense quivering orgasms until my
eyes got as wide as door knobs. Oh yeah - the company is talking about
downsizing. How was your day honey?
When I’m doing relationship consulting, I am amazed at how many guys who
openly ask their female partner if she is cheating.
The fact that she is lying and covering up the evidence (because that’s what a
cheating woman does) means that she wants the guy to believe she is faithful…
Cheating is lying.
So because a woman is not likely to reveal her secret belief that gives her
permission to cheat on you – even though she knows you are a great catch - you
need to go on 2 things to determine her Trust Level
1. something weird she said before that makes you not trust her completely
2. something that happened that didn’t seem right
3. a gut feeling that tells you that she can’t be trusted
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Does she have many ways of looking at things that doesn’t make sense?
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Make sure you take the time to realize how it can affect all 4 characteristics.
It’s really that simple. There’s nothing else to say about it – other than, make sure
you are a Guy Who Is Perceptive Enough to identify the signs that she has a loss
of confidence.
Some guys have very poor perceptive skills. The woman shows bright &
screaming signs that she has little confidence and the guy doesn’t even see it.
He is just whistling as if everything is fine. These are the guys who are “shocked”
the most when they discover she is cheating. They either can’t make good
human observations – or they ignore the obvious signs as if that is an effective
strategy for reversing the problem before it gets to the Danger Level.
Does she complain about everything (a sign that she isn’t happy)?
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90 – 100: Congratulations! You have a great woman with a super 18-inch thick force field around
her. You don’t have anything to worry about. Only a moron wouldn’t realize that he has zero
chance with her. You can brag to your buddies about your score.
80 – 89: Amazing! You also have a great woman with a pretty good 6 inch thick force field around
her. It would take a guy with tons of sexual value to even get her attention.
70 – 79: You’re doing good. You have a good catch and you have what it takes to have a great
relationship. She’s a keeper as long as your sexual value doesn’t start to decrease.
60 – 69: Although you are dealing with a woman that could make a great long term partner, women
in this group tend to have moments of boredom and moodiness. An outside guy with high-sexual-
value, patience, focus and “skill” could possibly exploit her vulnerabilities - and she wouldn’t see it
coming. The good news is the more you increase your sexual value, the thicker you make the
force field.
50 – 59: There’s actually hope for some guys in this group. But I would recommend making
improvements very fast. There’s a thin force field at this level, but it only blocks out guys who don’t
really matter. She’s probably been in touch with a past lover within a month. Make improvements
fast. Don’t say I didn’t warn you.
40 – 49: It’s risky. And at this level you’ve definitely had doubts. It would take some extra work on
your part combined with the right woman. But the average Joe Blow (or co-worker) could easily get
her into the “happy giggles”. She’s vulnerable and she probably knows it. There’s no force field at
this stage.
30 – 39: It’s very risky. If you get her to really respect you – along with doing a lot of other things
then it’s possible. But at this level, you are not allowed to get upset when the “signs” start to show
up. If an ex-lover wants her for an evening, he’ll get it with ease. Not only is there no force field,
she’s probably actively looking for a sex partner or a new lover. Your best bet is to run or start
immediately doing things to increase your score lightening fast.
01 – 29: Run very fast! This is the danger zone. You probably have some strong evidence
already. Get out of the relationship fast (that’s just my advice) Don’t say I didn’t warn you.
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In fact, you should be able to realize how each characteristic leads to an obvious
exploit.
This is the kind of stuff that happens in real life (every single day) – that’s why I
alerted you with this free report.
I want you to be armed with information that most guys do not have.
Now let’s talk about ways you can increase your score.
Here’s the good news: If you look at the 5 characteristics, you’ll see that there
are two key leverage points.
And that is Her Respect For You (Characteristic # 3) and Her Confidence
(Characteristic # 5)
These are things that you can change very fast – if you are serious.
You must start with Her Respect For You, because the more she respects you,
the easier it becomes to influence Her Confidence. And the higher her
confidence (along with respect) the less the other characteristics become
vulnerabilities.
Sexual Value = Her Seeing You As A Quality Guy + Seeing You In A Sexually Bonding Way…
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Therefore…
To increase the thickness of the force field, you need to increase your sexual
value. Women respect guys with sexual value. Increasing your sexual value is he
quickest and easiest ways to get back the respect in a relationship.
Take Care
Warmly
CR James
The first and only course designed to increase your sexual value
P.S. I hope you found this report to be valuable. If you know anyone who could benefit
from this information, you have my permission to pass it along.
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