The 50th Law PDF
The 50th Law PDF
The 50th Law PDF
I have done a lot of book summaries in my time. This is the first time that I
have felt the need to explain to my readers that no, I have not gone to the
dark side of life.
1. The younger generation will react to the sacred cows of the older
generation. What marketing opportunities can come out of this?
2. Watch for any kinds of shifts in tastes our values. Resist following
fads.
3. The establishment will often rail against these changes. For evidence,
follow media stories when the establishment is challenged to live by
higher codes of behaviour during a local, regional, national or
international crisis.
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4. People fear the new
6. Attack the values of the older generation and you can gain powerful
attention. What marketing opportunities can come from this?
1. Most people wait too long to go into action generally out of fear.
They want better money or circumstances.
3. It is the law of power that your energy will always rise to the
appropriate level.
4. When you feel that you must work harder to get to your goal because
you are not quite prepared, you are more alert and inventive. This
venture has to succeed, so it will.
Have 3 times the weight as your physical resources. This will ensure a
much higher chance of success
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6. With energy and high moral, you can overcome almost any obstacle
and create opportunity out of adversity.
7. When you meet an obstacle, go with the flow and move around it.
Dont waste your energy, keep moving forward.
1. Mental flow
If you specialize too much, you can end up with interests that
are too narrow unless you compensate for it.
A generalists is forced to follow many paths from the start
Develop an insatiable hunger for knowledge
Let yourself be carried along with your discoveries
This will open up to new ideas, opportunities
2. Emotional flow
If someone says something that bothers you, find a way to
quickly move past the feeling:
1. Excuse what they said
2. Make it less important
3. Accept it
4. or forget it
5. If you cannot forget it, accept it but do not hang on to
it. It will disrupt your flow
3. Social flow:
People bring their own differences, energy and agendas to a
project.
Allow this to happen early in the project planning
Resist the need to control
The leader needs to develop the framework using the 3/1 ratio to
resources. (point #5)
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Allow room for the team to shape and develop the project
Help them to give the project flow and force
The leader simply directs the process
4. Cultural flow:
You exist in a particular cultural moment with its own flow and
style.
The danger is staying there
Find ways to periodically reinvent yourself
Like the palm tree or the flow of water, go with the wind/flow
Look for different possibilities
Resist chasing a fad
Whenever you feel rooted and established in place that is when
you should be truly afraid. Stability inevitably leads to instability
and instability inevitably leads to stability
We have our desires and needs, our own interest that we wish to
advance
There are always others who are more aggressive than we are
- At some point these two paths will cross and try to block or harm us.
We need to manage peoples resistance and hostility. This has been
the human drama since time began.
- The only thing that has changed is how we handle these inevitable
moments in our lives
- We want to believe that people are basically peaceful and desire the
same things as ourselves.
- We often find out too late this is not the case
- The first step in dealing with this challenge is to realize that the
ability to deal with conflict is a function of inner strength and fear
- Instead of dealing with conflict some people go into denial trying
to be liked which is really a reflection of deep fears
- Developing this inner strength does not come naturally. It takes
experience and practice in a controlled environment
- Look for opportunities to take on an aggressor to practice this skill
and develop your inner strength
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9. Styles:
Lion..Lion
Fox...Fox
LambLamb
The Hawk.The Hawk (the hawk can see
farther, pick up the smallest detail, has sensitive eyes, has
supreme hunting skills
Passive aggressors
1. Masters of disguise
2. Present themselves as weak and helpless, highly moral or
righteous
3. Friendly and ingratiating
4. Send mixed messages friendly, cool and hostile creating
confusion and conflicting emotions
5. If you try to call them on their behaviour, they use this
confusion to make you feel guilty as if you are the source of the
problem.
Strategy:
1. Do not get emotional and be drawn into the endless intrigues
2. If you play like a lion, you play into their hands.
3. They are better at this game than you are
4. Being underhanded and tricky only spurs on their insecurities and
intensifies their vindictive nature
5. Take bold uncompromising action that either discourages further
nonsense or sends them away
6. They only respond to power and leverage
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7. Make them see the consequences if they continue
8. Be pro-active when they attack
9. How to recognize them. They will be too:
Kind
Ingratiating
Moral
Look for extremes in their behaviour that are not natural
Unjust situations:
Covert
1. Play the fox to get better results
2. Dont get emotional
3. Craft strategic manoeuvres to win support
4. Be flexible
5. Bait your opponent to further your cause
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Leadership roles page 166
1. The visionary:
A team must have goals and long term objectives to function
properly
Human nature will resist this
We focus on the immediate challenges and problems.
Develop a long term vision
Map out how you will get there
Get emotionally attached to the goal so that when dozens of
distractions appear, you will have the strength and purpose to
keep at it.
2. The unifier:
Give the team a reason to unify and be cohesive
It can be a cause that only the team can achieve vs. the
individual
If the dissenter fights or doubts the cause from within, they will
appear selfish to do so.
The leader must lead by example
When people feel involved, they bring their own ideas and
energy to the cause
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2. What stops people from embracing this process?
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Achieving long range goals page 230
1. Be persistent
2. Guard your energy and motivation to succeed
3. Stay focused- limit the number of goals
4. Be alert to negative people that may try to hold you back or deter you
from succeeding.
5. If you have a long term goal, say 10 years, break it up into yearly or
benchmarks of every 2-3 years.
6. When you achieve the short term targets you will keep motivated
7. Share your goals with others. Set up a time to report back to those you
shared the goal with. Studies have shown that if you do this, you will
have a 95% chance of reaching your target.
8. Review your progress on a regular basis to ensure you are on target,
on time and on budget
Self worth
I trust you have enjoyed this summary. I recommend that you read the book
and experience 50 cents street wise advice.
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