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An Invitation to Curiosity
Numerous discussions over the years have convicingly pointed out that it is impossible to be
neutral with regard to language. All behavior, including language, is politically laden. Any
particular action helps to organize and constrain the possible patterns of social interaction (15).
Stated differently, ones behavior is always in relation to the behavior of others-we act in
relation.
NEUTRALITY
Accepting our inbility to act in neutral or nonpolitical ways, the term neutrality was originally
used to express the idea of actively avolding the acceptance of any one position as more correct
than another. In this way, neutrality has been used to help orient the therapist toward a systemic
epistemology. The result, however, has been that for many therapists neutrality has been
regarded as the cultivation of a position of non involvement, of not having strong opinions, and
of not taking responsibility when necessary- the cultivation of the cold and aloof position of a
relativist. In order to avoid the trap of oversimplifying the idea of neutrality, I propose that we
describe neutrality as the creation of a state of curiosity in the mind of a therapist. Curiosity
leads to exploration and invention of alternative views and moves, and different moves and
views breed curiosity. In this recursive fashion, neutrality and curiosity contextualize one
another in a commitment to evolving differences, with a concomitant nonattachment to any
particular position.
Using some of Maturanas central concepts can assist in this linguistic revisin of the meaning
of neutrality. Teaching, training, and therapy are language-using contexts that crate and
orchestrate descriptions (see 8). Sometimes our descriptions suggest a linear explanation that
takes the form of cause and effect These linear descriptions have become the everyday way to
look at the world. This is not necesarily problematic; we easily recognize that linear thinking
can be useful in the appropriate situation.
For example, each time we try to explain our behavior, we typically find causal descriptions the
most satisfying: I was angry with you. Whether this statement is true or false is of Little
concern to most of us in our daily interaction. The criterion we generally apply in these
situations is one of utility. At a pragmatic level, we are usually more interested in how useful
our explanations of behavior are than in their value as truth.
Here, utility refers to the potential for an explanation to help our world (our interactions) make
sense to us, perhaps to help us change or at leats to understand change or lack of change. The
problema, however, is that we have historically blurred the distinction between utility and truth.
What is useful is what a community comes to believe is true.
As clinicians, we should accept linear explanations as long as we do not believe them, because
this kind of cause and effect, descriptive orientation to the world does not help us to construct a
frame of curiosity. Linear explanations, as Bateson (1) has demonstrated, have the effect of
terminating dialogue and conversations. Why does the Apple fall? Because of gravity. The
description of a falling apple is explained away, constricted withing the frame of causality.
When we asume that we have an explanation, we often give up looking for other descriptions.
Thus, we give up a stance of curiosity because we believe we have discovered a description
that fits; description tends to help us avoid a neutral stance in that it does not enhance our
curiosity.
One conclusin to be drawn from this observation is that we should avoid descriptions
altogether. This, of course, is impossible. In practice, descriptions and explanations are
repetitively intertwined and confounded. For example, a family therapists efforts to explain the
process