Clearing Limiting Beliefs
Clearing Limiting Beliefs
Clearing Limiting Beliefs
By Amanda Goldston
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replacing them with more empowering beliefs.
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I hope that you will find this book both extremely useful and rewarding. By
illustrating and guiding you through various techniques, you will be able to
unravel and remove those destructive limiting beliefs that hold you back.
As you progress through this book you will be asked questions. Write your
answers down, as this will be extremely useful in helping you determine and
remove those destructive beliefs.
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A limiting belief is an intangible barrier that stops you from having the success
you want and deserve. It may be something you do out of habit without
thinking, or it may be a reason you have, where you say “I can’t be/do/have
that because…”
Like many of us, you may have acquired some very unhelpful, unsupportive
beliefs over the years, especially around how deserving (or not) you feel you
are of money and success, about your health and weight, and your worthiness
to be sexy and attractive and to enjoy passionate, loving relationships.
The one thing you should always remember is that you are not alone.
Everybody has some limiting beliefs, no matter how small they may be. In the
same way that nobody is “100% perfect”.
Through the power of relaxation (which in itself is very good for you), the aim
is to target and remove these limiting beliefs and allow your full potential to
come shining through.
The limit belief could be over money, over heath or over relationships. Each of
these limiting beliefs is tackled in the same way. No matter what the limiting
beliefs you have, somebody else has had that belief and has removed it.
Dr Roger Bannister was the first person to run the Four Minute Mile. Many of
the leading experts in the field of human physiology at that time believed that
the body could not stand the punishment it would take in running a mile in
under four minutes. It was almost taken for granted that the heart would
probably explode under such pressure.
Dr Roger Bannister disagreed with his colleagues and set about proving them
wrong. Nowadays, a top middle distance athlete who cannot run a mile under
four minutes is considered slow.
This is a great example of the limiting beliefs of others being forced on the
majority. Against the odds of the time, Dr Banister proved them wrong and
hence the limiting belief was removed.
Edison was once asked after many failed attempts, why he kept trying to
make the electric light bulb. His reply was that he had not failed he had just
found a thousand ways that it did not work.
What have these examples got to do with limiting beliefs? In each case it was
the belief of normally well-educated people that held back the majority. It is
the same with us.
Often we run these patterns unconsciously and have no idea why we seem to
have our own “Sabotage Button” which we stamp on with huge force from a
great height just as we start to be successful at something.
Anyone got one of those? I had one for years. I would get within sniffing
distance of success and then I would hit that button with all my might, and
often end up further back than when I started.
For example, I would start a diet, lose a few pounds and then wreck all my
efforts with a chocolate binge or something equally as destructive, and then
end up weighing at least 5 pounds more than when I started.
I have started more business projects than I care to admit to, and done
exactly the same thing. Once, I built up a networking business to the point
where I had my best ever cheque, over £1800 for the month, and then I
walked away from it. Totally illogical!!
We very often run the same patterns in our own lives as our parents did. We
can find ourselves unconsciously sabotaging ourselves just at the point of
success or even pushing money and success away. This then shows up in
FEAR patterns, where we get frightened to take action or try something new
or pursue our dreams.
For many people this is the biggest one, though often the least discussed.
What if I was really GREAT at my own business? My job? As a
spouse/partner? As a parent? As a public speaker? Etc.
What would other people say? What would my "friends" say if I suddenly
outshone them or my income took off? I bought my dream home or my dream
car etc?
For most people this is one of the most uncomfortable thoughts they can
consider, and as a result holds more people back than almost anything.
And also:
If you have a dream or a desire to be, have or do something, then you already
have everything you need within you to achieve that dream. You already have
all the skills, talents and abilities that you need.
You cannot be given the dream and then not have the resources to achieve
that dream.
So many people hold themselves back by feeling they need to read one more
book, take one more course/seminar or do one more thing before they go for
their dream.
This is quite closely linked to the previous belief. Often people fear that if they
are their true selves, people will not like and love them and they will lose their
friends and end up alienated and alone.
Many people go through life trying to BE who they think other people- family,
friends, employers, employees, partner etc- want them to be, in order to win
love and acceptance from those people.
Our Angels, Guides, The Universe and Our Creator love us exactly as we are.
Children and animals do as well. We don't have to pretend to be something
we are not to love ourselves and to be loved by others
4. Fear of Rejection
This comes in different forms, from not asking for the date with the person you
really want to be with, to being afraid to make that all important call or being
afraid to ask for the raise you deserve or not asking for the order, just in case
the person says "NO".
Well, what if they do? What's the worst that could happen? Probably nothing
much, yet they might say YES! In most cases, people are not rejecting you as
a person; they are most likely simply not accepting what you are offering to
them.
Success is a matter of ASKING, and keep ASKING until you find the right
person who can help you achieve your dreams. If someone says NO to you,
it's a signal to either change your strategy or ASK someone else.
Look at a child who wants an ice- cream in a shop. What do they do? First
they ask Mum, then Dad, then Grandma or Granddad, and if that doesn't work
they change tactics. Do they eventually get their ice-cream? Frequently. And
when they don't, they ask for sweets in the next shop or a cake in the next
and a toy in the next- just for good measure!
One tip: ASK with the biggest SMILE you can and start nodding your head! It
is amazing how often people will follow you and agree to your request.
5. Fear of FAILURE
What if I try this, and it doesn't work out? Failure is often considered to be
something bad, to be avoided at all cost. However, it is the flip side of
success, and in order to succeed you need to try different things- some will
work out, others won't.
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You can decide how long you allow yourself to feel bad or you can move on
and try the next thing.
OK, other people may laugh at you or talk about you for a short time. Most
likely they are too busy with their own lives and problems to even notice you
or anything that may have happened to you.
6. Fear of SUCCESS
People often fear the positive changes, maybe extra responsibility, that great
wealth and success brings.
They get caught in all the old negative programming about rich people being
mean, selfish, arrogant and not spiritual and that money can only be acquired
by foul means, and decide that it is not for them.
They get caught in negative thoughts of people begging for money and others
taking it away from them, or what if they make it and then lose it? How much
of an idiot would they look then to their friends and family?
The more Abundance you have, the more you can freely give to others and
help them to improve their lives. Abundance is very spiritual. Money builds
homes, schools, hospitals, and many other great things.
It is not the Universe or our Creator because they want us to have all the
abundance we can handle. Our natural state is joy and abundance.
You can CHOOSE for yourself that you are worthy of success and
abundance. Claim your birthright NOW!
“all mean, selfish, arrogant, unspiritual crooks who have made their money by
cheating others.”
If you hold these beliefs then it is likely to be very difficult for you to allow
yourself to have great wealth. If that is how you see rich people, then it is
unlikely you would really want to become one.
Today there are more and more "Enlightened Millionaires" (Robert Allen &
Mark Victor Hansen- The One Minute Millionaire 2003) than ever before.
These people made their money by SERVING others and helping them grow
in every sense of the word.
They know and understand that the more abundance they allow to flow to
themselves, the more they can help others, and the quicker and easier
poverty is eliminated.
A belief is a thought and You can choose your thoughts. In any instant you
can choose an empowering belief or a dis-empowering one. Why choose to
hold onto old beliefs and keep bringing them back up. Let go of them.
Why? That is often a pattern that many of us saw from our parents.
Yet for many people, working longer and harder does not actually produce
more money or a better quality of life. Most millionaires only work long hours if
they choose to, and many of them do not work particularly "hard". Wealthy
people create money through creative ideas.
If you follow your heart and your passions, money will follow and your means
of earning money will seem like PLAY
11. You need money to be able to make money, and I don't have any!
Many great fortunes have been built from nothing, sometimes less than
nothing. Creativity and ideas are the starting point of riches. There are plenty
of people out there, who have more money than time, and who will back good
ideas.
Some suggestions:-
Go shopping for a luxury car, your dream home, go and have a coffee or a
drink in the cafe or bar where the millionaires meet or buy yourself a small
item from the best store in town.
Mix with the people you aspire to be like. Many of them are very pleasant,
very approachable people. You will soon become like them.
Do you find yourself repeating those same phrases in your own life?
Listen to your language around money. If you find yourself saying "I can't
afford it", STOP yourself immediately and change it to "HOW can I afford it?" -
That gets your creative brain going and gets you out of lack.
Do you get involved in negative conversations with others about how bad
things are? Or what's going wrong in your life? In the lives of others? In the
Economy? STOP at once.!!
We create more of what we FOCUS on. It we focus on lack and not enough
and how bad things are, we create more of the same.
Beliefs Questionnaire
By completing the Beliefs Questionnaire you will find out which one(s), if any,
you can identify with. Some may resonate with you, others may strike a deep
chord, there may be more than one, and there may not be any.
Are you willing to PERMANENTLY let go of anything and everything that has
held you back in the past?
Are you willing to step into your GREATNESS and to have the SUCCESS you
DESERVE and the LIFE of your DREAMS?
BELIEFS QUESTIONNAIRE
Please answer the following questions. There is no right or wrong. Trust your
intuition with the answers. Your first thought will usually be the right answer.
This process is designed to quickly identify limiting and unhelpful beliefs which
may be consciously or unconsciously causing you to hold yourself back, and
not to step into your true GREATNESS.
This will identify most, if not all, of the beliefs which may be holding you back.
Once you are aware of them and decide they no longer serve you, you are
already a long way down the road to clearing and healing them.
Sometimes a simple awareness will cause your brain to say "That doesn't
make any sense- I'm not doing that any more!" and change can happen in an
instant.
They are only ILLUSIONS- they are not the TRUTH of who you really are!
You're stupid!
Why can't you be like your brother/sister?
You're brother/sister is much cleverer than you!
You'll never amount to anything!
You're a bad boy/girl, and you don't deserve...
Did you ever feel any of the following or say them to yourself:?
Money is...
Money isn't...
My childhood was...
Good?
Poor?
Normal?
Easy?
Hard?
Was your mother full of drugs?
Were your born by Caesarean section?
Were you born by Forceps delivery?
Have you been reminded all your life how difficult your birth was, or how
your mother almost died at your birth?
I am...
Other
DO...
The thought of being alienated, not loved, not accepted, not considered
spiritual if we are successful and have money is very common
The TRUTH is it is not noble or spiritual to be poor. The Universe (or God or
whoever is a Higher Power for you) does not want you to be poor. The
Universe wants you to have everything your heart desires, so that then you
can do far more good in the world and help far more people.
Step 1
First of All, and Most Important! SET YOUR INTENTION to discover anything
and everything that is holding you back, and DECIDE to clear it, once and for
all, NOW! Ask your Angels and Guides for help with the clearing process. It is
vitally important that you are willing to totally LET GO of all of it. None of it is
serving you.
Once you have identified and cleared a negative belief, it can only come back
with your permission. Why would you want it back? When you clear it, fill the
space with the more empowering Vision of WHO YOU TRULY ARE and your
GREATNESS
Step 3
WRITE & RELEASE Take 2 pieces of paper. On the first piece, write
everything which comes to mind, when you think of Success & Money- we'll
start with this one because it is one of the most negatively charged word's in
the English language, and many of the beliefs which hold you back in this
area will be the same ones that hold you back in other areas as well.
Step 4
Write everything you can about your current money situation, what it looks,
sounds, feels, tastes, smells like. For now, really get into the feeling of it, as
you are writing it.
Step 5
When you have finished it, put it to one side. Now on the 2nd piece, write out
your money situation as you would like it to be. Put all the wonderful things
you would do, buy, have, places you would visit, what your bank account
looks like.
Describe it in full detail and include as many of your senses as you can.
What does it look, sound, feel, taste, smell like? Where are you? How are you
dressed? Who is with you? Are you smiling and happy? What are you doing?
Who would you BE, to have all these things? What beliefs would you need to
have to BE that person and to have all those fantastic things?
Put as much feeling into it as you can. When you have finished, look over both
sheets of paper, and make a decision as to which you prefer. If it is the
positive one, then take the other and say, "This is no longer my truth. I am
done with this. I release this all now from every cell of my mind, body and
spirit". Then get rid of the piece of paper.
Take the 2nd piece of paper, make a conscious choice that this is now your
TRUTH, put it in your purse or wallet and carry it everywhere with you. That is
powerful enough to clear anything.
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Limiting Beliefs.
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About the Author
Amanda G. Goldston
I found that the more I could relax and visualise my ideal outcome, the more
successful I became. As a successful female in a highly male dominated
industry I was on the receiving end of a lot of jealousy and highly destructive
energies.
Learning how to protect my energies was one of the first things I learnt and
now teach others to do. This led to a keen interest in energy healing and the
awesome power of our thoughts in creating our lives.
Simple tips to discover exactly what you want – more importantly what you
don’t want- and why and offers proven ideas to turn every day into a joyful
experience.
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