Extreme Ownership
Extreme Ownership
Extreme Ownership
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Extreme Ownership
Extreme Ownership
BY JOCKO WILLINK AND LEIF BABIN ST. MARTINS PRESS 2015 320 PAGES
What is it?
No Bad Teams
Only bad leaders.
A True Believer
Are you one?
3 Alarm Clocks
Discipline = freedom.
Leading People
Challenging + gratifying.
The idea for this book was born from the realization that the principles critical for
SEAL success on the battlefieldhow SEALs train and prepare their leaders, how
they mold and develop high-performance teams, and how they lead combatare
directly applicable to success in any group, organization, corporation, business,
and, to a broader degree, life. This book provides the reader with our formula for
success: the mind-set and guiding principles that enable SEAL leaders and combat
units to achieve extraordinary results. It demonstrates how to apply these directly
in business and life to likewise achieve victory.
~ Jocko Willink and Leif Babin from Extreme Ownership
Navy SEALs are the most highly trained, elite warriors on the planet.
And, Jocko Willink and Leif Babin were two of the most senior SEALS on the ground in the most
intense battles of Iraq.
In this book, they share the U.S. Navy SEAL approach to leadership that allows them to Lead
and Win.
The key?
EXTREME OWNERSHIP.
Absolutely owning everything in their world. Taking 100% responsibility for the success (and
failure) of their missionsblaming no one and constantly seeking ways to improve.
As you can imagine, its an intense look at extreme leadership with stories from the trenches
(literally) of war and examples of how we can apply the ideas to our businesses and lives. (Get
The book is packed with Big Ideas and Im excited to share a few of my favorites so lets jump
straight in.
The best-performing SEAL units had leaders who accepted responsibility for everything. Every
mistake, every failure or shortfallthose leaders would own it. During the debrief after a
There are no negative
repercussions to Extreme
Ownership, I said. There
are only two types of leaders:
effective and ineffective.
Effective leaders that
lead successful, highperformance teams exhibit
Extreme Ownership. Anything
else is simply ineffective.
Anything else is bad
leadership.
~ Jocko Willink and Leif Babin
training mission, those good SEAL leaders took ownership of failures, sought guidance on how
to improve, and figured out a way to overcome challenges on the next iteration. The best leaders
checked their egos, accepted blame, sought out constructive criticism, and took detailed notes
for improvement. They exhibited Extreme Ownership, and as a result, their SEAL platoons and
task units dominated.
As you may have guessed by the title, this book is all about taking 100% (!!!) responsibility for
E.V.E.R.Y.T.H.I.N.G. in our lives.
When things dont go well, what do YOU do?
Whether its at home or the office, do you blame the people around you for the problems or do
you take EXTREME OWNERSHIP?
Know this: The easiest way to know that you are *not* taking Extreme Ownership is when you
are BLAMING someone (or something) else for whatever problems you may be experiencing in
your life.
Lets quit blaming. Thats step 1 in taking extreme ownership.
Heres a powerful story to bring the point home.
While the Boat Crew II team worked together flawlessly and, although freezing and exhausted,
Their success illustrated
once again that leadership
they actually had smiles on their faces. Boat Crew VI was the opposite. They were cursing and
blaming one another for all their problems.
I should mention that each boat crew had a leaderthe most senior guy who was responsible for
getting the complicated instructions on what to do in the next assignment and leading their team
In order to convince and inspire others to follow and accomplish a mission, a leader must be a
true believer in the mission. Even when others doubt and question the amount of risk, asking,
Is it worth it? the leader must believe in the greater cause. If a leader does not believe, he or
she will not take the risks required to overcome the inevitable challenges necessary to win. And
they will not be able to convince othersespecially the frontline troops who must execute the
missionto do so. Leaders must always operate with the understanding that they are part of
something greater than themselves and their own personal interests. They must impart this
understanding to their teams down to the tactical-level operators on the ground. Far more
important than training or equipment, a resolute belief in the mission is critical for any team or
organization to win and achieve big results.
Whats your #1 project or mission right now?
This is it: ___________________________________
Got it? Great.
Are you a TRUE BELIEVER?
Do you have a RESOLUTE BELIEF in the mission?
Do you *KNOW* you can achieve it and believe its a worthy goal to go after?
If not, as leaders we need to get that clarity or adjust our mission.
If we dont truly believe, theres *no way* were going to effectively lead. Period.
P.S. Remember our Motivation Equation? The #1 variable is EXPECTANCY. You have to believe.
P.P.S. Ive mentioned it a number of times since discovering the stat and Im going to repeat it
again here. Workers who have leaders that inspire hope in a better future are engaged 69% of the
time. Those who do not have leaders that inspire hope are engaged a paltry 1% of the time.
That is crazy. And, the same rules apply here. If YOU want to be engaged in your life, you need
to BELIEVE that things are going to work. If you want to lead your TEAM (biz/fam/whatever)
you need to believe in the mission and share that belief. Are you?
On the battlefield, countless problems compound in a snowball effect, every challenge complex
in its own right, each demanding attention. But a leader must remain calm and make the best
decisions possible. To do this, SEAL combat leaders utilize Prioritize and Execute. We verbalize
this principle with this direction: Relax, look around, make a call.
Even the most competent of leaders can be overwhelmed if they try to tackle multiple problems
or a number of tasks simultaneously. The team will likely fail at each of those tasks. Instead,
leaders must determine the highest priority task and execute. When overwhelmed, fall back
precision, making it appear as if were tackling multiple targets simultaneously. Ultimately, all
great successes follow this exact process: Identify a goal, and then achieve it by knocking down
one target after another, each one the right target for that shot. When you learn to do this with
the focus and precision of a SEAL, understanding which targets to engage and how to avoid
distractions, your success will skyrocket. ...
Without front-sight focus, youre bound to get derailed and end up mired in common, day-today activities and thinking. Common thinking in combat can get you killed, but in everyday life
it will simply kill any chance of your operating at the high level we expect for the Way of the
SEAL.
When feeling overwhelmed, slow down. Simplify your battlefield.
Leif shares the story of how he applied this to the business environment and asked this question
to a leader who was engaged in too many battles: Of all the initiatives, which one do you feel is
the most important? I asked. Which one is your highest priority?
Identify the next key domino you need to knock over.
Then go crush it.
Prioritize and Execute.
Discipline starts every day when the first alarm clock goes off in the morning. I say first alarm
clock because I have three, as I was taught by one of the most feared and respected instructors
in SEAL training: one electric, one battery powered, one windup. That way, there is no excuse
for not getting out of bed, especially with all that rests on that decisive moment. The moment
the alarm goes off is the first test; it sets the tone for the rest of the day. The test is not a complex
one: when the alarm goes off, do you get up out of bed, or do you lie there in comfort and fall
back to sleep? If you have the discipline to get out of bed, you winyou pass the test. If you are
mentally weak for that moment and you let that weakness keep you in bed, you fail. Though
it seems small, that weakness translates to more significant decisions. But if you exercise
discipline, that too translates to more substantial elements of your life.
First: Three alarm clocks?!?
Now THAT is Extreme Ownership. :0
That Idea is from a chapter called Discipline Equals Freedom.
Jocko tells us that By discipline, I mean an intrinsic self-disciplinea matter of personal will.
The best SEALs I worked with were invariably the most disciplined.
In other words, a fierce commitment to aret.
We want to be aware of the decisive moments in our day-to-day lives. We need to win those
fight-thruschoosing to step forward into growth and show up as our better selves.
Jocko talks about the fact that, paradoxically, this extreme discipline actually leads to more
freedom and more flexibility. With a solid base of disciplined procedures, they had the freedom
to adapt a small portion of their approach when the situation demanded.
Plus: Last, and perhaps most important, when things went wrong and the fog of war set in,
we fell back on our disciplined procedures to carry us through the toughest challenges on the
battlefield.
When YOU are faced with your biggest challenges, you want to be able to fall back on your
disciplined consistency on your fundamentalsproviding you with the stability to power you
through the inevitable challenges.
Unfortunately, too often we STOP doing the very things that keep us in the game during the
most challenging times when we need them the most.
Lets not do that. Heres to setting our three alarm clocks and experiencing the freedom that
comes from discipline.
While there is no guarantee of success in leadership, there is one thing that is certain: leading
people is the most challenging and, therefore, the most gratifying undertaking of all human
endeavors. So, with that humbling reward in the distance, embrace the burden of command and
go forward onto your battlefield, in whatever arena that may be, with the disciplined resolve to
take Extreme Ownership, lead, and win.
Those are the last words of the book.
> Leading people is the most challenging and, therefore, the most gratifying undertaking of
all human endeavors.
Lets embrace the burden and opportunity of command with disciplined resolve as we take
Extreme Ownership, lead and WIN.
Brian Johnson,
Chief Philosopher
Unbeatable Mind
Brian Johnson loves helping people optimize their lives as he studies, embodies
and teaches the fundamentals of optimal livingintegrating ancient wisdom
+ modern science + common sense + virtue + mastery + fun. Learn more and
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