The Practicing Mind
The Practicing Mind
The Practicing Mind
PhilosophersNotes
TM
Real Power
= self-control.
The Observer
Is your true self.
Instructors Awareness
Bring that to the practice.
Meditation
#1 Desire
Infinite Study
about goals and outcomes, its easy to miss the importance of the process. The PRACTICE.
Of a lifetime.
A Flowers Perfection
Is your perfection.
Thats what this book helps us cultivate. Thomas Sterner brilliantly (!) helps us bring discipline
and focus into our lives to experience the presence and joy that comes as a result. (Bonus: We
also create a frictionless path to our goals as well!)
I cant remember how I discovered this book but Im glad I did. If youre feelin it, I think youll
love it as well. (Get the book and learn more about Thomas at thepracticingmind.com.)
For now, lets jump in and explore what it means to practice and how to cultivate our minds!
REAL POWER
If you are not in control of your thoughts then you are not in control of yourself. Without selfcontrol, you have no real power, regardless of whatever else you accomplish.
Want real power? We need to master ourselves.
Da Vinci tells us one can have no smaller or greater mastery than mastery of oneself. Leading
psychologists tell us the same thing. Roy Baumeister describes self-control as the queen of all
Why is this? As we know, its one thing to *study* these ideas. Its an entirely different thing to
actually *live* them. And, of course, we can only do so if we have the strength of self-control.
Thats the REAL power. And, as Sterner points out, were not in control of ourselves unless we
are in control of our thoughts. Lets explore how to gain that type of control.
You might have noticed theres quite a bit of chit chat going on in our minds. (Laughing.)
Well, who is that talking incessantly? Sterner (and all great teachers) tell us thats our ego/
personality. Its not our TRUE selves. Our true self? Thats whos listening.
We want to notice how easily our little self can run away in a crazy dialog and just objectively see
that. To live more consistently from the perspective of our true self.
Heres a really cool way to apply this idea practically:
order to be more in control of what we are experiencing in life. But in fact, for most of us, this
is a problem because we are so disconnected from our thoughts. We just have them. The horses
are running and we dont have the reins. We need to be more of an observer of our thoughts and
actions, like an instructor watching a student performing a task. The instructor is not judgmental
or emotional. The instructor knows just what he or she wants the student to produce. The
teacher observes the students actions, and when the student does something which is moving
in the wrong direction, the instructor gently brings it to the students attention and pulls the
student back on the proper path. A good instructor does not get emotional in response to the
student moving off the path. That kind of negative emotion comes from expectations, and that is
not the perspective we want to have if we are to be our own instructor. Expectations are tied to a
result or product; once again, we are experiencing the feeling of things should be this way right
now, and until then I wont be happy. When you or someone else is experiencing these kinds of
emotions, it is an indicator of falling out of the process, or falling out of the present moment.
Awareness. Its impossible to change something we are not aware of. Period. (!!!)
Being able to SEE when we are on a correct path and when we are off is *the* first step to
All the patience you will
ever need is already within
you.
~ Thomas Sterner
optimizing. We talk about this a lot throughout these Notes and I just love the way Sterner
describes the process. Many teachers describe the importance of being mindful or cultivating the
ability to observe or witness our thoughts and behaviors.
I really like the idea of imagining you are an instructor watching a student perform a certain
task. It kinda combines the witness perspective (which, altho I get, always feels a little too
abstract for me) with a coachs perspective. Youre observing/witnessing, but doing so in an
active, engaged, deliberate, intention-filled, and goal-oriented manner.
You observe the students actions. If you notice theyre headed in the wrong direction, you
encourage them to get back on the proper pathwithout getting all emotional about it. Just a
simple little instruction/coaching to adjust their behavior a bit.
As Sterner advises, the emotion comes from expectation which is tied to a RESULT.
Were focused on process here. So, we simply bring the student/ourselves back to the present
moment and to practicing the behavior as well as we can *right now.*
THATs what we want to be able to cultivate. ...But how? Glad you asked!
you are affirming to yourself that you havent reached it. You only need to acknowledge the goal
to yourself occasionally, using it as a rudder to keep you moving in the right direction.
Thats it.
We can make the outcome we desire be the focus of our attention. (And experience the
attachment/stress/anxiety/lack of presence and diminished performance as a result.)
Or, we can make the experience of staying focused on working toward our goal our primary
desire. (And experience presence, engagement, and increased performance as a resultwhich,
of course, makes it much more likely we will experience the outcome we desire with frictionless
ease. :)
Subtle but HUGE shift.
Lets use our goals as rudders, occasionally checking in to make sure were on course and focus
our energy on being present in our practicing minds as we take the next baby step!
are not going to go into the past and think of all the judgments you have made that define this
activity as work.You are not going to go into the future anticipating when it will be completed,
allowing you to go participate in an activity that you have defined as not work. You are just
going to do whatever it is you are doing right now for half an hour. Dont try to enjoy it, either,
because in that effort you are bringing emotions and struggle into your effort. If you are going
With deliberate and repeated
effort, progress is inevitable.
~ Thomas Sterner
to mow the lawn, then accept that all you need to do is cut the grass. You are going to notice the
feel of the mower as you push it, how it changes resistance with the undulations of your front
yard. You will pay attention to cut as wide a path as possible, not sloppily overlap the last pass
you made as you gawk at the neighbor across the street washing their car. You will smell the cut
grass and notice how the grass glows with green in the sunlight. Just do this for one-half hour of
the activity. You will be amazed. Once you experience how the activity as mundane as mowing
the grass is transformed, you will have the motivation to press on, because the potential effect
this could have on your life and how you perceive it will become apparent to you.
What a fantastic exercise.
I immediately think of Walter Russell when I read this. In The Man Who Tapped the Secrets of
the Universe, Walter tells us: There should be no distasteful tasks in ones life. If you just hate
to do a thing, that hatred for it develops body-destructive toxins, and you become fatigued very
soon. You must love anything you must do. Do it not only cheerfully, but also lovingly and the
very best way you know how. That love of the work which you must do anyhow will vitalize
your body and keep you from fatigue.
Plus he tells us: A menial task which must be mine, that shall I glorify and make an art of it.
(<Wow.)
George Leonard (see Notes on Mastery) echoes this wisdom: Could all of us reclaim lost hours
of our lives by making everythingthe commonplace along with the extraordinarya part of
our practice?
What distasteful tasks do you have in your life? How can you turn off your judging mind and just
jump in and do it with full presence to the best of your ability? Dont even try to enjoy it. Just
rock it. (And, paradoxically, watch how much you enjoy it. :)
INFINITE STUDY
I became aware that there was no point of musical excellence out there that would free me from
the feeling of I need to get better. In that moment, I understood that there was no point I could
reach where I would feel that I had finally done it, that I was as good as I needed to be, and that
there was no need to improve because I had arrived at my goal. It was an epiphany. At first I
felt a moment of overwhelming depression and fear, but it was immediately followed by joy and
relief of the same magnitude. I knew that what I was experiencing was a realization that all true
artists must go through. It was the only way to build the stamina necessary to continue in an
infinite study.
Infinite study. < What an extraordinary phrase/epiphany.
Reminds me of George Leonards wisdom: For a master, the rewards gained along the way
are fine, but they are not the main reason for the journey. Ultimately, the master and the
masters path are one. And if the traveler is fortunatethat is, if the path is complex and
profound enoughthe destination is two miles farther away for every mile he or she travels.
Imagine: For every mile we travel, our destination is two miles farther away. And were thrilled
about that. Why? Because were so committed to the practice and feel blessed to have discovered
a path that is so wonderfully complex and profound that it can challenge us for a lifetime.
That sounds an awful like infinite study, eh?
A FLOWERS PERFECTION
As we attempt to understand ourselves and our struggles with lifes endeavors, we may find
When we make staying
focused on the process our
real goal, we experience a
sense of success in every
moment.
~ Thomas Sterner
peace in the observation of a flower. Ask yourself: at what point in a flowers life, from seed to
full bloom, has it reached perfection?
Wow.
What an amazing way to capture the beauty of our unfolding and the perfection of each step of
the way.
Reminds me of Vernon Howards wisdom from The Power of Your Supermind (see Notes) where
he tells us: Do not be impatient with your seemingly slow progress. Do not try to run faster
than you presently can. If you are studying, reflecting and trying, you are making progress
whether you are aware of it or not. A traveler walking the road in the darkness of night is still
going forward. Someday, some way, everything will break open, like the natural unfolding of
a rosebud.
Sterner adds: Accepting that this is a lifetime effort, and that in the beginning your progress
may seem almost unnoticeable, is part of the lesson to be learned. Keep thinking of the flower.
Regardless of whatever stage of growth and evolution you are in, in every moment you are
perfect at being who you are.
Lets keep thinking of that flower and embrace the perfection of being right where we are as we
cultivate our practicing mind and gracefully actualize our potential.
Brian Johnson,
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