Gokai - The Reiki Principles A Practical Guide To Integrating The Reiki Principles Into Daily Life
Gokai - The Reiki Principles A Practical Guide To Integrating The Reiki Principles Into Daily Life
Ikaruna
- Do not be angry
- Do not worry
- Be grateful
Gyo o hagame
- Do your duties
Hito ni shinsetsu ni
- Be kind to others
Chiyoko Yamaguchi, my first teacher, said that once you have made the first four
principles part of your life, the fifth be kind to others - automatically follows. The
fifth was seen as most important by Usui sensei, who said that one way of being kind
to others was to give Reiki to them.
Chiyoko sensei stressed the importance of the Gokai to her students, advising us to
say them aloud twice a day, bringing them to our conscious minds and feeling them in
our hearts.
I find this to be meditative and soothing and I recommend it to others too. If you
can, it is a good idea to say it in Japanese, as this was the original language and these
particular words were chosen by Usui sensei because of the energy behind them and
their rhythm when chanted you can find a video of Mari Okazaki, a Japanese Jikiden
Reiki teacher saying the Gokai on my site under the Home page, Gokai section.
this works best for you. I have found a way that feels good to me, and now when I
feel anger inside me, I let it come up, I feel the energy of it in my body without trying
to get rid of it. Sometimes once I do this, it simply disappears or an important
understanding or realisation pops into my head. Other times I find I want to express
it and so I get angry - shout, or cry or run or play loud music and dance crazily. I do
whatever feels good to express it in the moment and let go. Experiment and find
what feels good to you.
So, to achieve do not be angry we can begin with do not stay angry. If you find
yourself unable to let the anger go, try sitting with it to see what is underneath the
anger - often there is a reason we cant let it go a fear, thought, guilt or emotion
that it is covering up, protecting us from feeling the real problem. Sitting in silence
and feeling the feelings in your body will bring these forward for you.
If you live your life with the Gokai in mind, and use Reiki to help yourself, then I
believe that as you evolve and become more at peace with yourself and the world
around you - more present - you will find yourself naturally becoming less and less
angry.
Worry can also stop us from taking action we want to take and can sabotage what we
are trying to create. What you focus on in life, is what you draw towards you. Not
that every little thing you worry about will manifest in your life, but if you are
constantly worrying and spend a great deal of time imagining what you dont want to
happen, then you may well draw it into your experience.
For example, if you are constantly worrying that the new project you have started at
work is going to fail, then it is likely to. If you spend a lot of time thinking about how
you wont be able to pay your bills next month, then you are drawing exactly that
experience to you. Worry is something that causes problems on both the physical and
emotional level, which ultimately affects your life experience.
What can you do to stop worrying? Having the clear intention to stop is a start!
Practicing being in the present moment is key and the more I do the exercises I
mentioned above, the less I worry naturally. Saying the Gokai daily helps me to keep
my intention alive too. Worry changes nothing - the outcome will be the same, worry
or not, so the only difference is how much you enjoy your life in the meantime.
Think of something you are worried about in your life right now. Is worrying going to
change the outcome? Can you identify the thought creating the worry? What
thoughts would help you to feel better about the situation - a better feeling thought?
Imagine your life from the perspective of next month or next year imagine it just as
you want it to be, and feel how good that feels.
Using Sei Heki, the psychological Reiki, specifically around worry is extremely helpful
and I have often used it this way.
feel. Feeling it rather than thinking it brings me into the present moment - an
amazing place to be!
I read somewhere once that keeping a gratitude diary and each evening writing in it
five things you are grateful for that day is helpful. So I tried it. At first I found it
difficult to find five things, but after a short time, it became progressively easier and I
would write a much longer list. Slowly I began to notice things throughout the day
that I wanted to put in my diary. I started to feel gratitude more and more in my
body and before long I noticed how differently I was feeling in general. I was happier
in myself and felt so much better about my life and what was in it. I still write that
diary now, many years on and have had moments when my body has felt as if it
would burst with joy. I know this is just a tiny glimpse of the power of gratitude.
The diary idea may be something that works for you, or it may be that something else
appeals to you. I urge you to find a way to bring more gratitude into your life.
What does gratitude feel like in your body?
simply be. These things can be seen as your duty too because as you begin to feel
better in yourself you become someone who naturally wants to help others.
Amanda Jayne
Copyright May 2007
Updated 2011