Why Are Women a Man's Greatest Weakness?

When God created woman for man in the Garden of Eden she was everything man (Adam) needed or
would ever want in a companion. Some of the language may be a little explicit in this chapter but it is
very much biblical and needed for saints to read and understand. Many Christian thinkers and
theologians have debated as to why the serpent (Satan) tempted the woman and not the man. The
reason is VERY simple! A man's greatest temptation IS a woman.
A woman was made specifically and carefully, by the Lord God almighty! Man was alone and needed a
companion, or as the scripture states A Helpmate. In the Hebrew the word helpmate is EZER! Every
time you see the word EZER in scripture it means HELP, for example the name EBEN-EZER means The
Lord is my HELP. The woman is to be a mans HELP! A man is not complete without a woman. This is
why men that lose wives to death OR divorce USUALLY remarry. This is also why men have a capacity to
be able to also love more than one woman. In many cultures it is acceptable for a men to have more
than one wife. (I am not condoning this just pointing out a fact)
When the devil tempted eve he appealed to her intellect and emotions, men on the other hand are not
that complex when it comes to what will get his attention. Men are visual creatures that sexually get
aroused by what they see. This is why men dont need a lot of stimuli to get sexually aroused. Candles
and soft music make women happy, but a man can have sex anywhere and anytime as long as the
women in question is sexually appealing in some way. The truth of the matter is the woman doesnt
have to be very beautiful. Women have an appeal to men that goes beyond beauty. The fact that she is
a woman is often enough. God made women look very different for a reason, to appeal to men. A
womans breast are large and soft, her legs are softer than a mans are, her eyes are usually prettier
and brighter, her voice softer, even her feet are pretty (some women) and her hair longer. The big
DIFFERENCE is the clincher! A woman has a vagina!
This body part is what separates her from a man. Remember the woman is delicate and beautiful, even
her vagina resembles a flower. Women have soft lips! I remember the first girl I ever kissed on the lips!
I could not sleep that night! All I could remember was how soft her lips were. Now I need to stop
because I am not trying to get YOU aroused, but I am trying to make a point! The reason Satan went
after the woman was he knew that the man would give in to the woman. Satan always perverts Gods
gifts. Women were created to help men have dominion in the earth. (Read Proverbs 31)
Pr 31:11 Her husband has full confidence in her
and lacks nothing of value. NIV
When a man has a woman in his life that loves God and loves him he has a great treasure. In the
reverse if Satan manipulates a woman in anyway the man is in trouble. I was a Correction Officer and I
met a preacher in jail that had fell in love with a woman that had a drug problem. He tried to
rehabilitate her but in stead she caused him to fall back into his previous lifestyle which was filled with
drug usage and bondage. How could such a thing happen? Well before I give you my thoughts just think
about David.
David loved God probably more than any human that ever lived did, and he fell prey to sexual
temptation. We often try and pick apart the scenario that led up to the fall of David. Yes there were
many factors. 1. David should have been on the battlefield. 2. David was away from the Ark of the
Covenant, which was the very presence of God. 3. David was alone, a lack of accountability since the
priest and the prophets were also on the field of battle. 4. The reason we all overlook and we dont
want to deal withBATHSHEBA WAS BEAUTIFUL! I am sure David had seen other women that looked
beautiful, but the devil made sure that David would see one that would cause his libido to go into
overload. All men have specifics when it comes to a woman. Some men like skinny women, some men
like athletic women and some men (ahem) like voluptuous women. The devil knows your fleshly desires

because the weapons of HIS warfare all deal with our FLESH (I Cor. 10:13). If you like a thick, lightskinned girl, with gray eyes and pretty legs then guess what, The devil will send her your way! If darkskinned girls with wide hips, and large breast are your thing well the devil knows that too.
When I was a teenager I had a serious crush on Chaka Khan! I spent most of my adult live looking for a
woman that looked like Chaka Khan, well if the devil was going to try and tempt me to stray sending a
Chaka Khan look alike (or the real thing) would be a good place to start wearing me down. Now I have
been humorous and light- hearted in this chapter, but I am a deadly serious brother, I want you to know
that the devil knows just what you like on the menu.
Samson is another example of how the enemy KNOWS our flesh! Samson was called of God to kill
Philistines, and he was very good at it! The anointing would come upon Samson and he would kill
Philistines like Orkin kills roaches! Now we know the scripture say No weapon formed against us shall
prosper but Satan didnt use a weapon in the normal sense, he used a woman. In spite of Samsons
failure he yet completed the task at hand (Rom. 8:28). God is omniscient and nothing takes Him by
surprise, he created Samson! Of course he knew Samson had a weakness for Philistine women, in spite
of that God still stacked the cards in Samsons favor. I know it seems like a failure to see Samson blind
and chained between two pillars, but Gods plans can NEVER be overthrown by the devil! Now I am not
excusing Samsons behavior, but I am trying to make you understand something. All men have the same
weakness! Our Kryptonite is a woman. Be careful men when you choose a wife! Make sure she loves
God AND that she loves you! I used to tell young men, It doesnt matter what she looks like, I dont
say that anymore! Physical attraction is a part of the package, especially for men! Women look at more
internal issues like Is he kind, Is he a good provider, and Is he sensitive to my needs! Men are not
that complicated, I kid you not! Men could see a woman working in McDonalds flipping burgers, if she is
fine he will pursue her! Women will often forgo looks if the brother has earning potential and a good
head on his shoulders.
Some of you will accuse me of stereotyping men as being somewhat simple, but when it comes to sex
and women most men are. Chris Rock the comedian once said, A man is only as faithful as his
options. That of course was meant to be funny, but there is a thread of truth to this statement. If a
man avoids temptation he wont fall! The Bible says in Proverbs, Can a man take fire unto his bosom
and NOT be burned, I know from personal experience that this is very true! Back in 1983 I was a young
Christian about to go to Korea for the second time. I had a girlfriend that attended church BUT who
was not a Christian. She wanted to have sex before I left for Korea, We necked and made out but
hadnt gone all the way. I avoided this because I knew it was wrong, but my resistance was way low! I
agreed to getting a hotel room the night before I had to fly off to Korea. I had around $800.00 dollars
in the bank, but I had to go to an ATM to get some money. I had decided to disobey God and fornicate,
(by the way she looked a lot like Chaka Khan). I went to the ATM put the card in and it malfunctioned
and kept my card! This was on a Saturday night so I couldnt physically go to the bank until MONDAY!
My flight was Sunday morning! God rescued me from sin! My anger turned to shame because I was
willingly going to sin against God. I cried on the airplane because I realized how close I came to falling
prey to the devil.
I share this story because this woman was EXACTLY what I desired physically! She had long thick hair,
brown skin, full lips, pretty eyes, high cheekbones, and she was built like a woman in a Ruben painting.
Yes I am describing a woman that looks like Chaka Khan! (By the way Chakas real last name is Stevens
too!) Do you understand me now! I really believe the enemy can give us the desires of our flesh. I
know the Bible says delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desire of your heart in
the reverse of this scripture, if you delight yourself in the things of this world, Satan will give you
the desire of your flesh and emotions. We often fall prey to our emotions as well as our fleshly desires.
I really liked this girl, but I knew it was wrong to fornicate! The enemy knew I was attracted to her, but
he attacked me in the emotional realm (soul) as well. The young lady in question came from a troubled
home. I tried to minister to her! Singles should NEVER try and minister to members of the opposite
sex at all.

Married ministers should NEVER minister to the opposite sex without your spouse being present! She
begged me to spend the night with her. I gave in for two reasons: 1. Sexual attraction 2. The need to
comfort her. Both reasons would have caused me to fall, but God intervened! Praise Jesus! There is no
telling where my life would have turned out if I fell that night! When I got to Korea 2 days later (its a
long flight), That was where I accepted the call to preach and also where God filled me with the Holy
Ghost. Fornicating that night would have probably caused me to get off of the airplane in Seoul ready
to have a one-year tour of sexcapades. I praise God for the Holy Spirit and the divine providence of
God! I really believe God sets up spiritual roadblocks to help us live holy. We are lying If we think we
live holy because of our will power! When we admit our flesh is weak THEN we can experience the
willingness of the Spirit to help us. (Read Psalms 32, 38, and 51)
The devil knows that we (Christians) wont just go out on a whim and commit certain acts of
disobedience. The devil will attempt to get you to start small so to speak.
In the 80s I was big into weight lifting and bodybuilding. I even won a few power-lifting contests
overseas. I was proud of how I sculpted my body through hard training. I was a Karate Instructor on
base and I ran 5 miles a day. I used to read muscle magazines to see how the stars trained and ate. I
would say about 1983 84 there was a big change in the magazines. In the early seventies the
magazines were just filled with pictures of men training, diets, and articles on various topics related to
the sport. As the eighties came more and more there were sexually explicit pictures. Womens
bodybuilding was taking offand so were their clothes! I remember chastising a brother about buying
pornography, and the Holy Spirit immediately hit me with Arent those muscle magazines
pornography? I had to confess to God, myself, and the brother I was scolding that I was guilty too!
Pornography is all around us! When I go to the mall in the summer and rest on a bench, I see
pornography!
The women wear shorts up to their butt cheeks! I dont have to go on the Internet to see something
that will make me howl like a wolf! I like what Job said, I made a covenant with my eyes Men are
visual creatures and we have to guard our eyes as well as our hearts. I dont care how strong a brother
is, if he views pornography he will end up hooked and in need of deliverance quick, fast, and in a
hurry!
Internet pornographers target web sites and addresses that appear to be Christian. The enemy knows
that porno is a HIGHLY addictive force in his arsenal of evil tricks. I had a bad experience with
pornography myself, I am not proud to admit it, but if it will help another man get free from it Praise
Jesus! When I was about 13 years old I found a trunk that belonged to my brother in the attic, it was
filled with pornographic magazines and photos. I guess my brother realized I found it, because weeks
later it vanished from the house. The damage was already done! Those pictures have haunted me for
years. I know I have a weakness for the stuff, (all men do) so like the scriptures tell us flee
fornication The word fornication comes from the root Greek word PORNEA. God is saying FLEE (run
in terror) from PORNOGRAPHY! When I was in the military I was surrounded by it! I had to request a
change in roommates on 2 occasions because they were porno addicts. If I stayed their roommates I
would have fallen back into the love of it. Even now I have to deal with images from years past. Even
past relationships linger in our minds because of the power of the sexual union.
Sex was meant to give pleasure to a husband and wife, but also it is a covenant sealer. When you have
sex with someone you are really marrying him or her! The act of sex is the deal sealer! That is why God
never meant for you to have multiple partners. If you recall your first sexual experience, good or bad
you NEVER forget it! It becomes a strong image in your soul (emotions, will, conscience). The Lord tried
to warn Israel about multiple partners, Solomon is the most tragic case. Solomon had 700 wives and
300 concubines! The scriptures say he loved them all. The love for these women pulled him away
from his first love, GOD!
Pr 7:21 With persuasive words she led him astray;

she seduced him with her smooth talk.