CFC Singles for Christ

Christian Life Program

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TALK No. 1: GOD'S LOVE

Brief Outline
I.

The situation in the world today.

a. Serious disorder in society: war, poverty, murder, etc.
b. On a personal level: loneliness, depression, fear, etc.
c. Man makes various efforts to improve the world but is not succeeding because these
are not based on God's wisdom.

II.

God has a plan for bringing us out of confusion and disorder.

a. God is interested in our lives.
b. God wants to restore our fellowship and intimacy with Him.

III.

We need God's point of view.

a. Satan is real and is behind the evils in the world.
b. On our own strength, we cannot overcome the challenges in our Christian life.

IV.

Jesus Christ is the answer.

a. Jesus is the fullness of God's love.
b. In Jesus, God's plan for restoration can begin to happen in our lives.
c. We need simply to accept Jesus as Lord and Savior.

Discussion Starter
1. Share with one another how you came to the Christian Life Program and what you expect or
seek to experience. Start with a brief introduction about your life.
2. Share about how you have personally experienced God's love.
Scriptures for Daily Prayer
Day

1
2
3
4

Isaiah 55:8-9
Isaiah 48:17-19
Jeremiah 29:11-14
John 15:4-7

Day

5
6
7

Ephesians 1:7-10
John 3:16-18
Romans 10:9-13

The Challenge
God has loved you with an eternal love. The ultimate manifestation of this love was sending
God's own Son to suffer and die for you. Will you open your heart to receive the fullness of His
love? Will you open your mind to explore the richness of God's plan for you through the rest of
the Christian Life Program?

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TALK No. 2: WHO IS JESUS CHRIST?

Brief Outline
I.

The impact of Jesus on history.

a. His coming was pre-announced through Old Testament prophecies.
b. He struck history with such impact that he split it in two: BC and AD.
c. He came into the world not to live but to die.

II.

Jesus was a very impressive person.

a. A very attractive personality.
b. A magnetic leader.
c. A man of extraordinary authority.

III.

Jesus claimed to be God.

a.
b.
c.
d.
e.

No other great religious leader claimed to be God.

He clearly was not a liar or a lunatic.
He claimed that he could forgive sin, something only God can do.
Many of his contemporaries came to the realization that he indeed was God.
God confirmed his claim by raising him from the dead.

Discussion Starter
1. Share about your Christian background.
2. Discuss how you saw or thought of Jesus before, and what new insights you have gotten
through the talk.
Scriptures for Daily Prayer
Day

1
2
3
4

John 6:32-40
John 10:7-15
John 14:6-11
John 5:18-24

Day

5
6
7

Mark 2:5-12
John 8:51-58
John 11:25-27, 38-44

The Challenge
Jesus is God. Are you willing to accept him as Lord of your life? As Lord, will you allow him to
rule your life totally?

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TALK No. 3: WHAT IT MEANS TO BE A CHRISTIAN

Brief Outline
I.

Misconceptions or incomplete notions about Christianity.

a.
b.
c.
d.

II.

A mere religious system.

A mere moral system.
A social or humanitarian system.
An escape from the realities of life.

The essence of Christianity is union with God, made possible through the death and
resurrection of Jesus Christ.
a. It is a relationship initiated by God, out of His mercy and love for us.
b. In Christianity, we become a new creation and participate in the very life of Christ.
c. We take on the nature of God, which is holiness.

III.

Practical implications of being a Christian.

a.
b.
c.
d.

We can trust in God because He is our loving Father.

We can stop worrying because God knows our needs and will provide for us.
We are brothers and sisters in Christ and are committed to care for one another.
Since life on earth is temporary, we are to look to things that will enrich us for our
eternal life rather than for this earthly life.
e. We can have peace and joy in spite of any circumstances.
Discussion starter
1. What misconceptions about Christianity do you identify with?
2. Are you experiencing the practical implications of Christianity in your life?
Scriptures for Daily Prayer
Day

1
2
3
4

Titus 3:3-7
Galatians 4:4-7
Colossians 3:5-10
Jeremiah 29:11-13

Day

5
6
7

Luke 12:22-31
Luke 11:9-13
Romans 8:28-39

The Challenge
God is a loving Father Who cares for us and has a plan for our lives. Will you continue to be open
to discover the fullness of God's plan for you? Can you do this in absolute trust in God, ready to
place yourself completely in His hands?

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TALK No. 4: REPENTANCE AND FAITH

Brief Outline
I.

God loves us, God sent His own Son to die for us, God has initiated a relationship with us
as Father. Our proper response to all God has done for us is repentance and faith.

II.

The Greek word for repentance is "metanoia", which literally means a change of mind.
a. It is a change of direction in life. It is a change in the way we live our lives, dropping
an old set of ideals and values and adopting new ones.
b. Specifically, repentance means a turning away from sin, evil, wrongdoing and running
your own life.
c. Further, it is turning to a life of obedience to God and having Jesus on the throne of
your life.

III.

Specific serious sins we must renounce: non-Christian religions; Spiritualism and the
occult; Sexual wrongdoing; Serious crimes (murder, rape, etc.); Drunkenness and drugs.

IV.

Faith is belief in the good news of salvation in Jesus.

V.

It is a belief in Jesus as our personal Savior.

Consequences of repentance and faith:

a. Salvation from sin, Satan, death.
b. Forgiveness and eternal life with God.
c. New life in the Holy Spirit.

Discussion Starter
1. Share with one another areas where you need to turn more fully to God.
2. Share areas where you need to grow in faith.
Scripture for Daily Prayer
Day

1
2
3

Mark 1:14-15
Galatians 5:19-21 and
1 Corinthians 6:9-11
Ephesians 5:1-10

Day

4
5
6
7

1 John 1:5-10
Luke 15:11-24
Luke 11:9-13
Hebrews 11:1-40

The Challenge
Jesus sounded the call to repentance and faith 2,000 years ago. This is the same call to us
today. Turn away from sin and all obstacles to God, and accept Jesus as Lord and Savior. Then
take God up on all His promises.

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TALK No. 5: THE CHRISTIAN IDEAL: LOVING GOD

Brief Outline
I.

God wants us to make loving Him our highest ideal.

commandment of the highest priority.

II.

We are to love God with all our heart.

Thus God made it into a

a. Not an emotion, which is changeable, but rather a commitment, a decision to love.

b. We are to be totally committed to God, to put Him first.
c. We need to have a personal relationship with God, and spend regular time with Him
in prayer and the Bible.
III.

We are to love God with all our mind.

a.
b.
c.
d.
e.

IV.

We are to love God with all our strength.

V.

We are to serve God with the use of our mind.

We keep our mind clean and holy.
We use our mind according to God's truths and not according to the world's ways.
We preoccupy our mind with the things of God.
We protect and preserve our mind from unholy influences.

We give God all our resources time, money, energy, gifts, abilities, and
possessions.

Jesus is our model in loving God.

a. Dedicated to accomplishing his mission.
b. Obedient unto death.
c. Constantly seeking the Father's will.

Discussion Starter
How have I loved God in a concrete way?
Scriptures for Daily Prayer
Day

1
2
3

Matthew 22:36-38 and

Mark 12:28-30
John 14:21-24
Romans 12:1-2

Day

4
5
6
7

Matthew 7:1-5
Malachi 3:7-10
1 Timothy 6:7-14
John 4:34

The Challenge
Loving God is not as vague and impractical as you may think. It involves specific, practical
actions, decisions and commitments. Can you make loving God your first and highest ideal? Are
you ready to make Jesus the model of your life?
Suggested Reading
God First by Ken Wilson

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TALK No. 6: LOVING YOUR NEIGHBOR

Brief Outline
I.

Loving neighbor, together with loving God, form the core of the Christian life.

II.

Love is not only having positive feelings, not always saying "yes", not defensive, not
self-seeking, and not manipulative.

III.

Christian love is:

a. Connected with keeping God's commandments.
b. A self-sacrificial love.
c.

Committed service to others.

IV.

Our neighbor is anyone who is in need of our help.

V.

Characteristics of Christian love in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7.

Substitute "I" for "love".

Discussion Starter
1. Do you understand the Biblical meaning of love as contrasted with that of the world?
2. How have you failed to love in everyday life?
Scriptures for Daily Prayer
Day

1
2
3

Matthew 22:37-40 and

Mark 12:28-34
John 13:1-5,12-15,34-35
John 15:9-17

Day

4
5
6
7

1 Corinthians 13:1-13
1 John 2:7-11
1 John 3:16-18
1 John 4:7-21

The Challenge
Jesus showed us the way to true Christian love by the parable of the good Samaritan, by his
washing of his disciples' feet, and most of all by his dying for us on the cross. Are you prepared to
love others in the way Jesus loved you?
Suggested Reading
Decision to Love by Ken Wilson

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TALK No. 7: THE CHRISTIAN FAMILY

Brief Outline
I.

God's plan for the family

a.
b.
c.
d.

II.

God's plan for the family is not happening.

a.
b.
c.
d.

III.

The basic unit of society.

A place for teaching and training children.
A place for training leaders for the church.
A domestic church.

God has lost His central place in the family.

The family itself is losing its importance.
The pace of modern life is too fast.
The family is under attack by evil forces.

What you can do.

a.
b.
c.
d.

Make a decision that you want God's plan to happen in your family.
Take time and give attention to the task of building a strong Christian family.
Pray together as a family.
Help your fathers take steps to assume full responsibility for the spiritual and material
needs of the family.
e. Learn more about God's vision for the family.
f. Seek other Christian couples who share your concern about family life, introduce
them to your parents and be in regular fellowship with them.
Discussion Starter
1. How does my family fair in fulfilling the plan God has for it? In other words, what is the
situation at home? Are we fulfilling Gods plan for the family?
2. What can I do to help my parents, brothers and sisters build a Christian family?
Scriptures for Daily Prayer
Day

1
2
3
4

Genesis 1:26-28, 2:18-24

1 Timothy 3:4-5
Deuteronomy 6:4-9, 20-25
Ephesians 5:21-6:4

Day

5
6
7

1 Peter 5:8-10
1 Peter 3:1-7
Sirach 3:1-16

The Challenge
God is trying to restore the Christian family back to His original plan. We are called to respond to
His divine efforts and to be a part of His work. Will you take the steps necessary to have God's
plan happen in your family?
Suggested Reading
Husbands, Wives, Parents, Children by Ralph Martin
Families in the Holy Spirit by Frank Padilla

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TALK No. 8: LIFE IN THE HOLY SPIRIT

Brief Outline
I.

Much of Christianity today looks weak and is lacking in power and effectiveness.
a. True Christian living is not just a matter of human will power, but a new heart, a new
life from God.
b. God wants all men to have this new life.
c. This new life in the Holy Spirit is available to all who receive Jesus as Lord and
Savior.

II.

What it means to receive the Holy Spirit.

a. This was the experience of the early disciples at Pentecost.
b. We can experience the same power and gifts of the Spirit that the early Christians
did.
c. We simply take God up on His promise. We ask our Father to give us the Holy Spirit.
d. This will not be the initial reception of the Holy Spirit, Whom we already received at
baptism. Rather, what will be experienced is a fuller release of the power of the Holy
Spirit in our lives.

III.

Obstacles to receiving God's gifts: an unrepentant attitude, feeling unworthy, fear, doubt,
pride, being selective.

IV.

How to prepare yourself for next week's prayer session.

a. Have an individual meeting with your facilitator during the week.
b. Think and pray about the "Commitment to Christ", which we will all pray next week.
c. Be aware of Satan's action. Call upon Jesus' name.

Discussion Starter
Share about your experience of God's Spirit in your life.
Scriptures for Daily Prayer
Day

1
2
3
4

Ezekiel 36:25-27
Jeremiah 31:31-34
Joel 3:1-5
John 14:23-26

Day

5
6
7

Luke 11:9-13
Acts 1:8,2:1-12
1 Corinthians 12:1-11

The Challenge
God is calling us to live a life of holiness and spiritual power. For this, God has promised us the
Holy Spirit. Will you trust in the promise of your Father? Will you accept Jesus as your Lord and
Savior? Will you ask for the infilling of the Holy Spirit in your life?
Suggested reading
Baptized in the Spirit by Stephen B. Clark
Spiritual Gifts by Stephen B. Clark

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TALK No. 9: RECEIVING THE POWER OF THE HOLY SPIRIT

Brief Outline
I.

God has promised the Holy Spirit to His people. With the Holy Spirit, we gain a new
nature, spiritual power, and the power to serve.

II.

Jesus is the baptizer in the Holy Spirit. We turn to him and receive the new life in the Holy
Spirit from him.

III.

God offers us various gifts. One of these is the gift of tongues.

a. Tongues is a gift of praise.
b. To receive this gift, we simply desire it, ask for it in faith, and cooperate with the
Spirit's prompting in speaking out.

IV.

We must nurture the new life and God's gifts.

a. Do not allow Satan to rob you of your gift.
b. Do not expect all problems to go away at once, though many will.
c.

Be faithful to a regular time of daily prayer.

Scriptures for Daily Prayer

Day

1
2
3
4
5
6
7

Galatians 5:16-25
Romans 8:5-13
1 Corinthians 14:1-5
1 Corinthians 3:16-17
2 Corinthians 4:16-5:5
Ephesians 6:18
Matthew 25:14-23

The Challenge
You have claimed Christ's promise of the Holy Spirit to anyone who asks. You have been
baptized in the Holy Spirit and have received a new life from the Lord. You are "a new creation:
the old things have passed away; behold, new things have come" (2 Corinthians 5:17). You have
begun a new life in faith. Will you commit yourself fully to Jesus Christ and grow into the life in the
Holy Spirit?

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TALK No. 10: GROWING IN THE SPIRIT

Brief Outline
I.

The baptism in the Spirit is only a beginning. Now we need to grow in this new life of the
Spirit.

II.

There are 4 basic tools to growth (5 for Catholics):

a. Prayer. The primary means for establishing and maintaining a deep and loving
personal relationship with God.
1. Must be faithful. Pray daily.
2. Must be led by the Holy Spirit.
3. Must be centered on a relationship with Jesus.
b. Study.
1. The Bible. Read daily.
2. Spiritual reading (books, magazines, articles, etc.).
3. Teachings and preachings.
c.

Service.
1.
2.
3.
4.
5.

By the way we live. Pursuit of righteousness and holiness.

Serving our fellow men.
Performing our basic responsibilities in life.
Giving witness to our faith in Jesus.
Giving of our time, talent and treasure.

d. Fellowship.
e. Sacraments (for Catholics).
Discussion Starter
What tools to Christian growth have not been fully utilized in your life?
Scriptures for Daily Prayer
Day

1
2
3
4

1 Peter 1:13-16
Matthew 6:5-13
Matthew 18:19-20
Hebrews 4:12-13

Day

5
6
7

Matthew 20:26-28
James 2:14-17
1 Corinthians 12:12-27

The Challenge
God's call for every Christian is to grow in holiness. To this end, God has provided us with the
tools for growth. Will you eagerly avail of these tools and strive to be holy as God is holy?
Suggested Reading
Growing Closer to God by Tom Gryn

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TALK No. 11: THE LIFE & MISSION OF SINGLES FOR CHRIST
Brief Outline
I.

CFC Singles for Christ (SFC) is a part of the Family Ministries of Couples for Christ,
which was formally launched in June 18, 1993 during the CFC Leaders Conference held
at Xavier School in San Juan, Metro Manila, Philippines.

II.

Our call is to bring single men and women back to a life with God according to His plan.
SFC is one in the mission of CFC to renew, strengthen and support Christian families.

III.

We believe :
a. That our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit and we safeguard its sanctity by being
pure in thought, word and deed.
b. That God gave us gifts and talents to serve and glorify Him and to live fruitful lives.
c. That marriage is indissoluble, family life is important in the plan of God and human life
is sacred.
d. That single men and women are called to share actively in the life and mission of the
Church through prayers, evangelization and service to others.
e. In living productive lives as citizens of our country, protecting our natural environment,
and combating evil in our society.
f. That individual and corporate renewal can be achieved by having a personal
relationship with Jesus Christ and by calling on the power of the Holy Spirit in our
daily life and by using the charismatic gifts at our disposal.

IV.

We support one another in SFC:

a.
b.
c.
d.

By our committed relationships (5-point covenant).

Through cell groups (households).
By ongoing teaching and formation.
By other regular activities.

Discussion Starter
1. Do you agree with the SFC statement of philosophy, which embodies its beliefs and ideals?
2. Do you see the covenant of CFC Singles for Christ as the ideal of Christian life that God calls
us all to?
Scriptures for Daily Prayer
Day

1
2
3
4

Psalm 22:28-32
Psalm 144:12-15
Colossians 3:18-21
Psalm 127:3-5

Day

5
6
7

Deuteronomy 8:11-20
Deuteronomy 26:16-18
1 Peter 2:9-10

The Challenge
God is trying to restore single men and women and their families back to His original plan. We
are all called to respond to His divine effort and be a part of His work. Are you ready to do your
share in renewing, strengthening and supporting Christian living?