WeDo Marriage Contract Template
WeDo Marriage Contract Template
WeDo Marriage Contract Template
Contract of Marriage
THIS AGREEMENT (referred to as ‘Agreement’), consisting of pages and attached Exhibits, is
made and entered into by the two Parties below.
By and Between
WHO have each completed and attached Certificates of Identity and Residence in Exhibit Set A.
Commencement of Agreement
The Parties intend that this Agreement shall take effect:
– No fewer than _____ and no more than _____ days after its signing and notarization, and
– At the signing and notarization of the Certificate of Solemnization attached as Exhibit C.
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1: Purpose
1.1 For the reasons set out below, and to achieve the benefits arising therefrom,
[Romeo] and [Juliet] resolve to bring into being, as a foundation to their relationship
of mutual love and affection, the legally-binding exchange of rights and
responsibilities contained in this Agreement:
1.1.1 the CONTEMPLATION of their prospective Agreement focused the minds and spirits
of [Romeo] and [Juliet] on the seriousness and sanctity of marriage, each recognising
that it is to be considered and entered into only with sureness of vision, seriousness
of intent and certainty of purpose.
1.1.2 the SHARING, through open and honest disclosure, of their individual natures,
values and circumstances provided [Romeo] and [Juliet] with the opportunity to
deepen their knowledge and understanding of themselves, of each other, and of their
relationship, as it has developed in the past, as it stands currently and as they
foresee it blossoming into the future.
1.1.4 the PROVISIONS of their Agreement, created jointly, negotiated fairly and entered
into freely, provide [Romeo] and [Juliet] with clarity of life purpose and provide a
legally secure repository for their shared goals and dreams.
1.1.5 the PROTECTION provided by the Agreement enables [Romeo] and [Juliet] to guard
their relationship, in all its aspects and circumstances, from interference by other
persons, entities, including the State and agencies of the State.
1.1.6 the EXECUTION of the Agreement at their intended wedding provides [Romeo] and
[Juliet] with the occasion to make a public declaration of their committed union and to
invite, from the families or origin, friends and the wider community, recognition and
blessing for the life they plan together.
1.1.7 the SUSTAINING of their Agreement into the future presents [Romeo] and [Juliet]
with the challenge to nurture further their love for one another, their commitment to
one another, and their dedication to a well-lived life – a challenge both [Romeo] and
[Juliet] now embrace.
2: Scope
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3.8 Consideration
3.8.1 [Romeo] and [Juliet] declare that consideration for this Agreement consists solely of
the mutual provisions contained in it. This Agreement fully contemplates and
compensates any and all services provided by either party for the benefit of the other
during the lifetime of this Agreement.
3.8.2 The furnishing of sexual services shall in no way be construed as consideration for
this Agreement.
3.9: Modifications
3.9.1 [Romeo] and [Juliet] declare that their Agreement may be modified only with the
written and freely given consent of both parties, and only in accordance with the
procedures set out in the Sustainability Provisions.
3.10: Notices
3.10.1 Any notice or consent required or permitted to be given under this Agreement shall
be conveyed to the respective party in writing, by registered mail or by other method
of recorded delivery at the address or to such other person that the relevant party
may from time to time designate.
3.13: Waiver
3.13.1 [Romeo] and [Juliet] warrant that neither shall seek to challenge the validity of their
Agreement on any one or more of the following grounds: absence of intention to
contract; incapacity to contract; ignorance or lack of understanding of the Agreement;
or involuntary consent to the Agreement.
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4: Full Disclosure
4.1: Marital Compatibility
4.1.1 [Romeo] and [Juliet] recognise that an understanding of self, as it is formed by nature
and shaped by circumstances, is the foundation to the understanding of others.
4.1.2 [Romeo] and [Juliet] have each sought, over time and in depth, to discover what in
life and love that brings them most joy and fulfilment, and to identify the ways of living
and loving that best enables each to maximise their personal gifts as spouse, parent
and citizen.
4.1.3 [Romeo] and [Juliet], aided by insights from the Myers-Briggs Type Inventory (MBTI),
have each sought to discover the nature and extent of their personality preferences,
and to explore and develop their self-awareness and self-understanding as regards
their innate approaches to and outlook on life and love.
4.1.4 [Romeo] and [Juliet], again through the MBTI, have each worked to understand, both
in everyday circumstances and in times of challenge, where they source their life
energy and focus their attention, how they take in information, how they relate to the
outer world and others around them, and how they set priorities, form opinions and
make decisions.
4.1.5 [Romeo] and [Juliet], again through the MBTI, have sought to understand how their
personality preferences affect their interactions as a couple. They have done so not
merely to minimise occasions of miscommunication and misunderstanding, but also
to understand and value each other's gifts, learn how to give and receive
appreciation and love, and discover, as they advance through successive life stages,
how each can best contribute to the personal growth and development of the other.
4.1.6 [Romeo] and [Juliet] have each completed the online MBTI® Complete process and
obtained their results in a personalised Interpretive Report - Form M (B), copies of
which are attached to this Agreement as part of Exhibit Set C.
4.1.7 [Romeo] and [Juliet], in consultation with a certified MBTI practitioner, have each
additionally obtained a personalised Interpretive Report - Form Q (B), copies of which
are attached to this Agreement as part of Exhibit Set C.
relationship can thrive and grow, and to express and share their deepest
expectations of their future together.
4.2.4 [Romeo] and [Juliet], have each completed the online Couple Checkup process and
obtained their results in a personalised Couple Checkup Feedback Report, a copy of
which are attached to this Agreement as part of Exhibit Set C.
4.2.5 [Romeo] and [Juliet], in a dialogue facilitated by a certified relationship professional,
have each additionally explored and shared all issues arising from their engagement
with the Couple Checkup process. A copy of the professional's report is attached to
this Agreement as part of Exhibit Set C.
4.5.3 [Romeo] and [Juliet] have each fully and completely disclosed to each other their
current financial position as documented in their respective Net Worth Statements,
copies which are attached to this Agreement as part of Exhibit Set C.
4.5.4 [Romeo] and [Juliet] have each fully and completely disclosed to each other their
incomes and expenditures for the period of three years prior the date of this
Agreement. Copies of their respective statements are attached to this Agreement as
part of Exhibit Set C.
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5: Marriage Provisions
5.1 Offer and Acceptance
5.1.1. In this Agreement, created lovingly, considered carefully and embraced freely,
[Romeo] and [Juliet] do offer and accept each other as husband and wife.
7: Wealth Provisions
7.1: Marital Wealth Plan
7.1.1 [Romeo] and [Juliet], having consulted with a Qualified Financial Advisor, have
agreed joint financial goals that reflect their shared values and aspirations.
7.1.2 [Romeo] and [Juliet], to give effect to their joint financial goals, have created and
agreed a Marital Wealth Plan, a copy of which is attached to this Agreement as part
of Exhibit Set D.
8: Kinship Provisions
8.1 [Romeo] and [Juliet] recognise that their Agreement, made in the present, is also a
promise kept with the past and a promise made to the future; in committing ourselves
to each we honour the sacrifices of the generations who came before us; and to the
generations who come after us we undertake our best efforts that you will remember
our good example of loving commitments made today and honoured on all the days
that follow.
8.2 [Romeo] and [Juliet] agree to appreciate, for ourselves and our future child/ren, each
other's extended family, and particularly the grandparents of our future child/ren, and
we will endeavour to uphold and honour their relationships at all times into the future.
8.3 [Romeo] and [Juliet] agree that we will each accord the other equal status in the lives
of our future children.
8.4 [Romeo] and [Juliet] agree that each of us carries equal responsibility to provide
financially for children of our marriage.
8.5 [Romeo] and [Juliet] agree that each of us carries equal responsibility to nurture the
children of our marriage.
8.6 [Romeo] and [Juliet] recognise that, in providing for a marital home, we may arrange
the distribution of responsibilities over time and specialise in certain roles for our
family's optimum benefit.
8.7 [Romeo] and [Juliet], valuing each other’s complimentary roles as father and mother,
agree that any specialisation of roles, whether as provider or nurturer, shall not
establish any legal primacy with regard to either provision or parenting.
8.8 [Romeo] and [Juliet] recognise the right of our future children to security of identity
and certainty of lineage, and therewith to the love, care, attention, nurturance and
companionship of a natural mother and a natural father, and that such a right is
independent of and separate from the relationship between us, the children's
parents.
8.9 To give effect to the above, [Romeo] and [Juliet] agree that, no more than seven
days after the birth of any future child, he or she shall be welcomed into our family
tree by the administration of a genetic profile.
8.10 To give further effect to the above, [Romeo] and [Juliet] agree that, no more than
seven days after the birth of any future child, we will register both our names on the
child's Birth Certificate, so that he or she will benefit from the legal security of having
both natural parents so documented.
8.11 [Romeo] and [Juliet] agree that we each will be joint legal guardians of our future
children.
8.12 To give effect to the above, [Romeo] and [Juliet] agree that, no more than seven
days after the birth of any future child, agree to complete and register a Statutory
Instrument No. 5, so that he or she will benefit from the legal security of having both
natural parents as legal guardians.
8.13 [Romeo] and [Juliet] agree that we each will be joint legal custodians of our future
children.
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8.14 To give effect to the above, [Romeo] and [Juliet] agree that, no more than seven
days after the birth of any future child, we will submit a motion to the appropriate
court, so that he or she will benefit from the legal security of having both natural
parents as joint legal custodians with shared legal and physical day-to-day care.
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9: Sustainability Provisions
9.1: Agreement to Manage and Resolve Conflicts
9.1.1 [Romeo] and [Juliet] agree to manage and resolve conflicts in a way that protects the
values and aspirations of this Agreement.
9.1.2 [Romeo] and [Juliet] agree to manage and resolve any future dispute arising out of or
relating to any past or future agreement between them (the “Dispute”) in accordance
with the procedures specified in 9.2 (Negotiation), 9.3 (Counselling), 9.4 (Arbitration)
below.
9.1.3 [Romeo] and [Juliet] agree to fight fair in any dispute which may rise in our marriage.
Our goal in any conflict is win - win, to solve the problem and love each other better.
9.1.4 [Romeo] and [Juliet] agree not to use threatening behavior, physical or psychological
violence, swearing or sarcasm when dealing with conflict between us.
9.1.5 [Romeo] and [Juliet] agree not to use the 'threat of divorce' or threaten to leave or
remove children from the matrimonial home when dealing with issues of conflict.
9.1.6 [Romeo] and [Juliet] agree not to use sulking or guilt to manipulate each other when
dealing with issues of conflict.
9.1.7 [Romeo] and [Juliet] agree not to use parental alienation or use our children as
pawns to manipulate each other or in an attempt to gain legal advantages when
dealing with issues of conflict.
9.1.8 [Romeo] and [Juliet] agree, where crimes against the person have been committed
that they will insist with the Gardai that prosecution of such crimes be instigated
under Criminal Law (which requires a higher burden of proof:- "beyond reasonable
doubt") rather than Family Law (which requires a lower standard of proof:- "balance
of probability").
9.1.9 [Romeo] and [Juliet] agree to refresh ourselves of, and keep to hand, a copy of our
conflict resolution procedures before, or during at the behest of either one of us, any
Negotiation dealing with issues of conflict.
9.2 Negotiation
9.2.1 [Romeo] and [Juliet] agree to negotiate within the guidelines outlined in 6.1.1 to 6.1.9
above.
9.2.2 If the dispute has not been resolved by negotiation within [30] days , or if the parties
have failed to confer within [30] days , [Romeo] and [Juliet] agree they will endeavor
to settle the dispute by counselling. Unless otherwise agreed, [Romeo] and [Juliet]
will select a counsellor from a recognized counselling body.
9.3 Counselling
9.3.1 If Counselling fails to produce a resolution, [Romeo] or [Juliet] shall give the other
party written notice of the Dispute. Within [10] days after delivery of the notice, the
receiving party shall submit to the other a written response. Thereafter, [Romeo] and
[Juliet] shall confer in person promptly to attempt to resolve the dispute. All
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reasonable requests for information made by one party to the other will be honored. If
the dispute still remains unresolved, [Romeo] and [Juliet] agree to proceed to
Arbitration.
9.4 Arbitration
9.4.1 If the dispute has not been resolved by counselling as provided herein within [90]
days of the initiation of such procedure, it shall be settled by binding arbitration The
arbitration shall be governed by the [relevant laws in jurisdiction] and judgment upon
the award rendered by the arbitrator(s) may be entered by any court having
jurisdiction thereof. Unless otherwise agreed, [Romeo] and [Juliet] will select an
Arbitrator from a recognized Arbitration body.
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10.1.1 [Romeo] and [Juliet] intend this Agreement, including its referenced Exhibits, to
constitute the entire agreement between them with respect to the matters
contemplated in its Purpose and embraced by its Scope.
10.1.2 [Romeo] and [Juliet] intend this Agreement to supersede all prior or
contemporaneous agreements, representations, understandings, communications
and proposals, whether electronic, oral, or written, between them.
10.1.3 No other agreements, representations, understandings, communications and
proposals, whether electronic, oral, or written, between [Romeo] and [Juliet] shall be
deemed a part of this Agreement.
10.1.4 [Romeo] and [Juliet] acknowledge and agree that in entering into this Agreement,
and the documents referred to in it, he or she does not rely on, and shall have no
remedy in respect of, any statement, representation, warranty or understanding of
any person (whether a party to this Agreement or not) other than as expressly set out
in the Agreement.
10.2: Severability
10.2.1 [Romeo] and [Juliet] intend this Agreement to be severable.
10.2.2 In the event that any provision, clause, sentence, section or other part of the
Agreement is held to be invalid, illegal, inapplicable, unconstitutional, contrary to
public policy, void or unenforceable in law to any person or circumstance, [Romeo]
and [Juliet] intend that the balance of the Agreement shall nevertheless remain in full
force and effect so long as the Purpose of the Agreement is not affected in any
manner adverse to either party.
10.2.3 Upon such determination that any term or other provision is held to be invalid, illegal,
inapplicable, unconstitutional, contrary to public policy, void or unenforceable in law
to any person or circumstance, [Romeo] and [Juliet] undertake to negotiate in good
faith to modify this Agreement so as to give effect its Purpose as closely and as fully
as possible in an acceptable manner to both.
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10.3: Assignment
10.3.1 [Romeo] and [Juliet] acknowledge that the rights and privileges conferred under this
Agreement are not assignable, transferable or saleable.
10.4: Succession
10.4.1 [Romeo] and [Juliet] acknowledge and agree that the rights, benefits and privileges
conferred under this Agreement are not transferable to their heirs or other
successors, except as stated explicitly in this Agreement.
10.6: Headings
10.6.1 [Romeo] and [Juliet] agree that headings, titles, captions and any list of contents are
inserted solely for convenience of reference only and are not part of the Agreement.
10.6.1 [Romeo] and [Juliet] agree that headings, titles, captions and any list of contents shall
not affect the meaning, construction or effect of this Agreement, nor act as a
limitation on the scope of the particular clause, section or paragraph to which they
refer, and shall be ignored in the interpretation of this Agreement.
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11: Dissolution
11.1 Dissolution of Agreement
11.1.1 [Romeo] and [Juliet] agree that their Agreement shall terminate in the event of any of
the events set out below.
11.1.2 The death of either [Romeo] or [Juliet].
11.1.3 The entry of either [Romeo] or [Juliet] into a state marriage contract over which the
courts of family law claim jurisdiction.
11.1.4 The expiry of the Period of Notice commencing on the date when either [Romeo] or
[Juliet] gave written Notice to the other.
vacate the former marital home upon the expiry of the third calendar month
to enable the marital home to be sold.
11.2.9 All provisions contained in this clause shall apply so as to bind the estate
and personal representatives of the deceased party.