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believe that you will get the most out of this training package when you make use
of all its components.
The TF-CBT Learning Package includes eight parts designed to provide you with the
content, materials, activities and support you need to deliver TF-CBT effectively:
1. TF-CBT Online Training
If you have not yet started your TF-CBT learning, we strongly suggest you begin
with the online TF-CBT training offered through the Medical University of South
Carolina. Go to http://tfcbt.musc.edu/
2. TF-CBT Book
We have included the book, Treating Trauma and Traumatic Grief in Children,
written by the developers of TF-CBT. The book serves as the treatment manual for
TF-CBT. The authors recommend you read the book soon after taking the online TFCBT training.
3. TF-CBT Toolkit
We have also included this toolkit of materials designed to help you recall key
concepts from TF-CBT and apply them with your clients. It includes several of the
materials mentioned in the TF-CBT book. We encourage you to look through the
toolkit and see what you find most helpful. We will be sending additional pieces to
add to your toolkit over the course of the training.
4. TF-CBT Learning Activities
Our toolkit includes a number of learning activities designed to help you practice
the skills of TF-CBT. Most of these are practice activities, where you and another
clinician role play using the skills and components of TF-CBT. Some of these
activities reflect TF-CBT components demonstrated in the online training. Others
are additional skills vital to the successful delivery of TF-CBT. These activities allow
you to practice before you use TF-CBT with clients. These activities also include
videos of expert TF-CBT clinicians modeling some of these skills, discussion
questions, and other assignments to encourage you to think more deeply about
your implementation of TF-CBT.
If you are learning TF-CBT in an agency setting with other clinicians, the learning
activities have been designed to walk you and your group through a sequence of
role plays and discussion questions.
If you are learning TF-CBT mostly on your own, we will provide you with contact
information for a learning partner with whom we encourage you to meet to go
over these learning activities, practice and discuss TF-CBT. You are also welcome to
identify your own learning partner.
We think these learning activities are key. The role-plays and discussion questions
are designed to help you practice the treatment components of TF-CBT with a few
straightforward case examples. As you gain more comfort with the model, we also
encourage you and your learning partner(s) to discuss how you would apply TF-CBT
with more complex cases (e.g., multiple traumas, children in foster care). You can
choose which skills are most important for you to practice, but we believe practice
is a must. Some of these TF-CBT skills are not as easy as they may first seem!
5. TF-CBT Webinars
We will provide you with free access to four webinars presented by the TF-CBT
developers Drs. Judith Cohen, Esther Deblinger, and Anthony Mannarino. We are
really excited to be able to bring this opportunity to Missouri clinicians. They will
teach you the secrets of doing TF-CBT well, using the experiences of their trainees
across the country as their guides.
6. TF-CBT Workshop
We will also provide two free in-person workshops with a TF-CBT expert trainer
Margaret Comford, LCSW that you can choose to attend. One of these workshops
will take place in St Louis and one in Columbia. During these workshops, you will be
provided with more in-depth training in TF-CBT and be able to ask about applying
and using TF-CBT in your practice (i.e., how to apply TF-CBT with the kinds of
children and families you see).
7. TF-CBT Phone Consultation
As you move forward with integrating TF-CBT into your practice, we have also
arranged for free access to monthly phone consultations with a TF-CBT expert
trainer. These phone calls will provide you with the opportunity to ask questions
and seek input from a TF-CBT expert. These calls will also be an opportunity to
listen and learn from the questions and answers with other trainees.
8. TF-CBT Online Discussion Board
We have developed an online discussion board for TF-CBT at the Missouri Therapy
Network web site. Here you can post questions about TF-CBT and read others
questions and the answers they received from others who are learning the same
skills and applying them in their clinical practices. The online discussion board will
also be monitored by a certified trainer in TF-CBT, ensuring that you get expert
answers when needed. Visit motherapynetwork.wustl.edu.
9. TF-CBT Online Consult
You also may want to consider making use of a new free resource offered through
the Medical University of South Carolina (the same group that provides the initial
free web training). This resource is called TF-CBT Consult and can be accessed at
http://etl2.library.musc.edu/tf-cbt-consult/index.php
10.
We will also periodically email you with TF-CBT implementation tips, clinical tips,
and suggestions for rounding out your TF-CBT training.
11.
TABLE OF CONTENTS
We have started this notebook of helpful handouts and reminder sheets for using TF-CBT
with your clients. These materials are a starter toolkit that you can add to over time. We
hope to send you additions to your toolkit as we learn from each other.
TF-CBT Model
TF-CBT Memory Jogger
Parenting Skills
Relaxation
Controlled diaphragmatic breathing instructions
Relaxation script for children
Relaxation script for adolescents and adults
Affective modulation
Ways to feel better right now
Problem solving steps
Trauma narrative
Helpful hints for the trauma narrative
Relationship Problems
Components-based treatment emphasizing a set of skills that
progressively build on previously acquired skills. Rather
than a rigid session-by-session approach, TF-CBT has
interrelated components, provided in a manner that best
matches the needs of the child and family.
Therapists
Family Involvement
Affective Problems
Family Problems
Traumatic behavior Problems
Somatic Problems
TF-CBT PRACTICE:
CORE COMPONENTS
Psychoeducation and Parenting
Skills
Relaxation
Affective modulation
Cognitive coping and processing
Trauma narrative
Developing
Cognitive problems: Maladaptive patterns of thinking about self, others, and situations,
including distortions or inaccurate thoughts (e.g., self-blame for traumatic events) and
unhelpful thoughts (e.g., dwelling on the worst possibilities)
Affective problems: Sadness; anxiety; fear; anger; poor ability to tolerate or regulate
negative affective states; inability to self-soothe
ASSESSMENT TIPS
The TF-CBT developers believe that it is important for mental health clinicians to
screen their child clients for the experience of traumatic events and the symptoms
of PTSD. Sometimes clinicians may be afraid of bringing up trauma if the client
doesnt bring it up first. However, experience has shown that clinicians often
discover halfway into therapy that their child clients have had traumatic
experiences that are affecting their current behavior and emotions. If clinicians
screen for these traumatic events up-front, they can better plan for the treatment
of their clients.
We have gained permission from the authors of the UCLA PTSD indexes for DSM-IV
to include them in this packet. You can make copies of these instruments for clinical
or research purposes. There are three forms of the PTSD index: a) one used with
children, b) one used with adolescents and c) one used with parents. The UCLA
PTSD index includes items that screen for the experience of trauma. Then, it moves
on to asking about the symptoms of PTSD.
There are scoring templates for the 3 forms of the UCLA PTSD index as well, if you
decide to use them to help diagnose PTSD or if you want to use them to measure
client progress by determining an overall PTSD severity score. Please familiarize
yourself with these instruments and how they work before you use them with
clients. You may want to use them as interview instruments, where you read the
items aloud to your clients, or you may use them as self-administered
questionnaires.
Basic Features:
Researchers and clinicians at the UCLA Trauma Psychiatry Service have developed this series of self-report instruments to be used to
screen both for exposure to traumatic events and for all DSM-IV PTSD symptoms in school-age children and adolescents who report
traumatic experiences. These instruments are meant to serve as brief self-report screening tools to provide information regarding
trauma exposure and PTSD symptoms. The items of the UCLA PTSD indices are keyed to DSM-IV criteria and can provide preliminary
PTSD diagnostic information. However, these instruments are not intended to be used in place of a structured clinical interview to
definitively establish a PTSD diagnosis. Instead, the instruments are meant to be used to quickly and efficiently screen for PTSD
symptoms in children and adolescents who have experienced a traumatic event, and to provide information regarding the frequency
of those symptoms.
Intended Populations:
The instruments are designed to assess for exposure to a wide variety of traumatic events and are suitable to be used to evaluate
PTSD symptoms in children and adolescents who have experienced any type of traumatic stress.
The Child Version is worded for school-age children between the ages of 7 and 12. The Parent Version closely mirrors the Child
Version and is intended to be used as the parent report of trauma exposure and PTSD symptoms for children between the ages of 7
and 12. The Parent Version was developed to complement the childs report of PTSD symptoms. Parent report of PTSD symptoms is
often necessary and helpful in providing PTSD diagnostic information, particularly for the following symptoms: repetitive traumatic
play, diminished interest and participation, sleep problems, irritability and angry outbursts, concentration problems, hypervigilance,
and exaggerated startle. The Adolescent Version closely resembles the Child Version with minor changes in wording intended for
youth age 13 or older.
Instrument Design and Item Content:
The content of the questions draws upon clinical and research experience regarding how to evaluate for exposure to traumatic
experiences in children and youth, how they describe their subjective reactions during these experiences, and how traumatized
children and youth describe their experiences of PTSD symptoms. All three versions of the UCLA PTSD Index are organized in the same
format. Questions 1-13 comprise a trauma screen, as they assess for exposure to a variety of traumatic events. If participants report
exposure to multiple events, Question 14 asks them to identify the event that currently distresses them the most. The remainder of
Question 14 inquires when the event occurred and requests participants to provide a brief description of the event. Questions 15-21
assess for DSM-IV PTSD Criterion A1" which concerns aspects of the traumatic event itself. Questions 21-26 evaluate DSM-IV PTSD
Criterion A2" which relates to the child or youths subjective experience during or just after the traumatic event including intense fear
(Question 22), helplessness (Question 23), horror (Question 24), and agitated or disorganized behavior (Questions 25-26). Question
27 assesses for a dissociative reaction at the time of the traumatic event. In questions 15-27, only parents are given the option to
respond do not know for questions pertaining to the childs subjective reactions at the time of traumatic events. Children and youth
are required to answer yes or no for each of these items. The remaining questions on pages 3 and 4 assess for the frequency of
self-reported DSM-IV PTSD symptoms (Criterion B, C, and D,) or associated features on a 4-point scale ranging from none (of
the time) to most (of the time). Subjects refer to the Frequency Rating Sheet on Page 5 to explain their rating choices. The
Frequency Rating Sheet is designed to assess for the occurrence of PTSD symptoms over the past month, but researchers and
clinicians can adapt the Rating Sheet to assess for PTSD symptoms over the time period of their interest, such as the past week. Only
parents are given the option to respond do not know for each question in this section of the instrument, since parents may be
unaware or unsure of many PTSD symptoms experienced by their child.
Each question on pages 3 and 4 of the instrument contains a subscript that denotes the DSM-IV PTSD symptom assessed by that
particular question. For example, question 1 inquires about DSM-IV Criterion D4" (hypervigilance). The subscript AF denotes a
PTSD associated feature. Although each version of the UCLA PTSD Index contains a different total number of questions, questions 119 are nearly identical across each version. These 19 questions assess for the 17 DSM-IV PTSD symptoms delineated in Criteria B, C,
and D, and the PTSD associated feature of trauma-related guilt (Question 13). Note that each version contains one question to assess
for each DSM-IV PTSD symptom except for the symptom of Emotional Numbing (DSM-IV symptom C6). Each version contains 2
questions (Questions 10 and 11) that assess for emotional numbing. Question 10 assesses for numbing of positive emotions, Question
11 assesses for numbing of negative emotions. The instruments are designed such that these 19 questions comprise the core of each
PTSD index in each version.
The Child Version contains a total of 20 questions. In addition to the first 19 questions, Question 20 assesses a common problem
reported by traumatized children, namely a fear that the traumatic event will reoccur.
The Parent Version contains a total of 21 questions. The questions are identical in content to the child version with one exception.
Question 21 has been added to the Adult Version to assess for the DSM-IV PTSD symptom of repetitive traumatic play, an alternate
expression of Criterion B1 in children. A parallel item was not included in the child version since the traumatic etiology of repetitive
play is thought to occur outside of the awareness of the child.
The Adolescent Version contains a total of 22 questions. In addition to the first 19 questions, an alternative question (Question 20)
has been included to assess for another component of DSM-IV Criterion "D2" (anger/irritability). An alternative question (Question
21) has also been included to assess for another dimension of DSM-IV Criterion C7" (foreshortened future). Question 22 assesses a
common problem reported by traumatized youth, namely a fear that the traumatic event will reoccur
While the Parent Version is easily administered via self-report, the Child and Adolescent Versions can easily be adapted to 1-on-1
verbal administration or to classroom administration to larger groups of children or youth.
A. 1-on-1 Verbal Administration for Child and Adolescent Versions: Based on prior work with the earlier generation instrument of the
UCLA Trauma Psychiatry Service, the Child Posttraumatic Stress Disorder Reaction Index (Frederick, Pynoos, & Nader, 1992), the Child
Version can be effectively administered verbally in a 1-on-1 format, where the evaluator reads the instructions and the questions to
the children. Children readily respond to this interactive format, which helps to insure that they comprehend the instructions of the
instrument and the task of self report. Evaluators begin by reading the instructions for each section and emphasize that if the child
hears a word he/she does not understand, he/she should ask the evaluator for clarification. Evaluators proceed through the trauma
screen and criterion A assessment questions on pages 1 and 2 in a fairly straightforward manner. For pages 1 and 2, evaluators
inform the child of their response options for each question (Yes or No), and proceed to read the child each question and record their
response. After completing pages 1 and 2, evaluators read the instructions for pages 3 and 4 of the instrument. The evaluator should
next familiarize the child with their response options on the Frequency Rating Sheet.
For each question, I want to know how often these things have been true for you (in the past month)
Here are your choices (show them the Frequency Rating Sheet and point to each choice and the boxed calendar pictorial
representation as you read the choice to the child)
None of the time means not at all (in the past month)
Little of the time means about two times (in the past month)
Some of the time means about once a week (in the past month)
Much of the time means two or three days a week (in the past month)
Most of the time means almost every day (in the past month)
Children can be asked to point to their choice on the Frequency Rating Sheet to indicate how often they have experienced the
symptom in question over the past month or designated time period. Evaluators then circle the childs response to each question on
the grid provided. To orient the child to the task of the self-report of symptoms, before beginning the first question on page 3, the
child is given 2 practice questions and asked to point to the choice on the Frequency Rating Sheet to answer how often in the past
month the following statements have been true for the child:
I have had green hair-Child should point to 0 to denote none of the time
I have had a headache-Child should point the choice denoting the number of times (in the past month) when they have had
a headache
If children do not understand the concept of self-reporting on the frequency they experience a particular problem, this will become
apparent during the practice questions, and evaluators should clarify the task as necessary to help children to understand the task.
When evaluators read the questions to the child or adolescent that assess for the DSM-IV PTSD Trauma-specific symptoms [Child
Version Questions numbers (DSM-IV PTSD Symptom): 2(B4), 3(B1), 5(B2), 6(B3), 9(C1), 14(AF), 15(C3), 17 (C2), 18(B5), 20(AF)],
[Adolescent Version Question numbers (DSM-IV PTSD Symptom): 2(B4), 3(B1), 5(B2), 6(B3), 9(C1), 14(AF), 15(C3), 17 (C2), 18(B5),
22(AF)], they should alter the wording of these questions to tailor them to the specific traumatic event experienced by the child or
adolescent. Clinical experience with index administration indicates that a direct verbal reference in each of these questions to the
specific traumatic event experienced by the child helps the child to better focus on that experience and its link to the symptom in
question. Children with posttraumatic avoidance often have difficulty keeping the traumatic event in mind during instrument
administration. Repeatedly bringing the specific traumatic event into the awareness of the child helps to facilitate their ability to
report on explicitly trauma-linked symptoms. Thus, tailoring the above questions to the specific traumatic event experienced by the
child helps to increase the reliability of the child's self report, particularly in children and adolescents suffering from posttraumatic
avoidance. For example if the child or had witnessed a violent shooting, the evaluator should alter the wording of the questions as
follows:
Question
Number
2 (B4)
3(B1)
5(B2)
6(B3)
9(C1)
14(AF)
15(C3)
17(C2)
18(B5)
20(AF)
B. Classroom or Group Administration for Child and Adolescent Versions: The Child and Adolescent Versions can be easily adapted for
classroom or group administration. Based on previous work with the Child Posttraumatic Stress Disorder Reaction Index, UCLA
researchers have employed two different strategies for classroom evaluation of student self-report of PTSD symptoms.
1. Evaluation Team: In this form of classroom administration, a team of trained evaluators goes to a classroom where the
evaluators divide the students into subgroups. Each evaluator then administers the Index in a 1-on-1 format to each student in the
subgroup assigned to them. While evaluators are going around the room administering the Index 1-on-1 to each student at their desk,
students are asked to engage in a quiet individual task such as drawing or coloring. Instructions for 1-on-1 classroom administration in
this team format are identical to the instructions just delineated for 1-on-1 verbal administration. Prior to evaluation, the team should
decide on a set of uniform responses to common student questions to minimize the interevaluator variability in Index administration.
2. One Evaluator per Classroom: In this form of administration, a single evaluator administers the Index to the entire
classroom of students. As in 1-on-1 administration, the evaluator reads the instructions to each section of the Index to the classroom
and then proceeds by reading each question in that section. While the evaluator reads the questions, students who are seated at
their desks, mark their responses on their own copies of the Index. It is important that classroom evaluators stress that students
should answer all questions and leave no blanks. The evaluator can closely adapt the previous instructions for 1-on-1 verbal
administration to this format, although the interactive component of the 1-on-1 format is not possible in the classroom setting.
Evaluators can answer student questions to clarify the task of self-report and explain how to record answers, etc. However, if
evaluators are administering the Index to various classrooms in a given school, it is suggested that evaluators not attempt to answer
student questions relating to the meaning of a particular item, since different questions may arise in each classroom which if
answered may alter the administration and response conditions in each classroom. In this scenario, the potentially different
administration conditions in each classroom would confound Index scores and make interclassroom comparison difficult. Instead of
answering student questions regarding item content, in this administration format UCLA researchers suggest that evaluators respond
neutrally to student questions stating: Answer each question according to the meaning that question has for you OR The question
means whatever it means to you, please try and understand the question as best as you can.
Questions 1-11 screen for exposure to events that may be experienced as traumatic. Questions 13-19 evaluate if the event meets
DSM-IV Criterion A1, and Questions 20-23 assess if the participants subjective response during or just after the event meets DSM-IV
Criterion A2. If participants meet both Criterion A1 and A2 for the event endorsed, that experience can be classified as constituting
exposure to a traumatic event according to DSM-IV.
As stated previously, the first 18 questions of each version comprise the core of each PTSD Index for evaluating Criterion B, C, and D
Symptoms (the first 19 questions in the case of the Parent Version). All 17 DSM-IV PTSD symptoms are assessed by these questions,
with the exception of question 13 which evaluates the associated feature of trauma-related guilt. Question 13 is excluded from
scoring on all three versions. The remaining questions (Questions 19 and higher for the Child and Adolescent Versions, and Questions
20 and higher for the Parent Version) are included for experimental purposes only and are excluded from scoring.
The developers of the indices assume that the more often a symptom occurs, the more severely that symptom impacts the child or
adolescent. In addition, the developers assume that the higher the number of symptoms reported by a participant, the higher the
severity of their PTSD. Based on this rationale, two types of PTSD severity scores can be calculated from each index. An Overall PTSD
Severity Score can be calculated by summing the scores for each question that corresponds to a DSM-IV Symptom. In addition, a
separate PTSD Severity Subscore can be calculated for Criterion B, C, and D Symptoms by summing the scores for each question that
assesses the symptoms belonging to each particular category. Finally, preliminary PTSD diagnostic information can be obtained by
determining if participants endorse the number of symptoms from Criterion B, C, and D required for a DSM-IV PTSD diagnosis. Please
note that investigators must make a determination regarding the minimum frequency reported for each item necessary for that
question to be counted as a symptom. Certainly problems reported to occur Much of the time or Most of the time would likely
qualify as symptoms. Whether or not problems reported to occur Some of the time or Little of the time would qualify as
symptoms is best answered as an empirical question. Please refer to the Scoring Worksheets for step-by-step instructions for scoring
each version.
These instruments have only recently been developed. At the current time, the psychometric properties of these instruments have
not yet been established. However, researchers at the UCLA Trauma Psychiatry Service are currently conducting psychometric studies
of the instruments. In one study involving the Child and Parent Versions in a sample of acutely traumatized children, researchers are
investigating the test-retest reliability of each version. Researchers are cross-validating the trauma-screen portion of the Child and
Parent Versions with other standardized self-report measures of trauma exposure. Researchers are cross-validating the Criterion B, C,
and D portions of the Child Version with the Child Posttraumatic Stress Disorder Reaction Index (Frederick, Pynoos, & Nader, 1992)
and cross-validating the Criterion A, B, C, and D portions of the Child version with a structured clinical PTSD diagnostic interview. In
this study, UCLA researchers are also cross-validating the Criterion A, B, C, and D portions of the Parent Version with a structured
clinical PTSD diagnostic interview.
Since the psychometric properties of these instruments are currently under investigation, UCLA researchers suggest that other
researchers who use these instruments conduct empirical studies to determine the optimal scoring procedures for their particular
research populations. To conduct these studies, researchers should consider conducting structured clinical interviews to diagnose
PTSD in a randomly-selected subsample of their participants with a known standardized PTSD assessment instrument. The PTSD
diagnostic status and intensity scores of this subsample could then serve as gold standards in empirical studies which evaluate the
overall PTSD severity score on each version that would most efficiently classify subsample cases according to PTSD diagnostic status.
Researchers could then utilize this empirically-determined cutoff score to classify cases in their larger sample according to likelihood
of a PTSD diagnosis. Researchers could also then consider the individual item scores that are necessary to generate the empiricallydetermined cutoff score. For example, if statistical analysis indicated that a cutoff score of 32 most efficiently classified the cases in
the subsample according to PTSD diagnostic status, a score of 2 on each of the 17 questions could be considered as the symptom
cutoff score for each question. In this case, any questions answered 2 or above would likely indicate the presence of a PTSD symptom.
If sample size permits, investigators may choose to conduct a series of statistical analyses that investigate the relationships between
Index-derived severity scores for each DSM-IV Symptom Category (B, C, D) and DSM-IV PTSD diagnostic status for those Criteria as
determined by structured clinical interview. These analyses could yield separate empirically-determined cutoff Index severity scores
that would most efficiently classify cases according to PTSD diagnostic status for Criterion B, C, and D. For more information, please
contact the UCLA Trauma Psychiatry Service via any of the following: writing to the letterhead address, telephone: (310) 206-8973, or
email: [email protected]
Boy
Todays Date (write month, day and year) _______________ Grade in School ____________
School ________________ Teacher _______________________ Town __________________
Below is a list of VERY SCARY, DANGEROUS, OR VIOLENT things that sometimes happen
to people. These are times where someone was HURT VERY BADLY OR KILLED, or could
have been. Some people have had these experiences, some people have not had these
experiences. Please be honest in answering if the violent thing happened to you, or if it did not
happen to you.
1)
Being in a big earthquake that badly damaged the building you were in.
Yes [ ] No [ ]
6)
Seeing a family member being hit, punched or kicked very hard at home.
(DO NOT INCLUDE ordinary fights between brothers & sisters).
Yes [ ] No [ ]
7)
8)
9)
10) Having an adult or someone much older touch your private sexual body parts
when you did not want them to.
Yes [ ] No [ ]
11) Hearing about the violent death or serious injury of a loved one.
Yes [ ] No [ ]
12) Having painful and scary medical treatment in a hospital when you were
very sick or badly injured.
Yes [ ]
No [ ]
13) OTHER than the situations described above, has ANYTHING ELSE ever
happened to you that was really SCARY, DANGEROUS, OR VIOLENT?
Yes [ ] No [ ]
14) a) If you answered "YES" to only ONE thing in the above list of questions #1
to #13, place the number of that thing (#1 to #13) in this blank:
# ____________
b) If you answered "YES" to MORE THAN ONE THING, place the number
of the thing that BOTHERS YOU THE MOST NOW in this blank:
#___________
c) About how long ago did this bad thing (your answer to [a] or [b]) happen to
you? _____________________________________________________________
d) Please write what happened:
____________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________________
FOR THE NEXT QUESTIONS, please CHECK [YES] or [NO] to answer HOW
YOU FELT during or right after the bad thing happened that you just wrote about
in Question 14.
None
Little
Some
Much
Most
THE
MONTH
1D4 I watch out
forPAST
danger
or things that I am
afraid of.
8C5
9C1
10C6
None
Little
Some
Much
Most
NONE
LITTLE
SOME
MUCH
MOST
M T WH F S S M T WH F S S M T W H F S S M T WH F S S M T WH F S
SS
X
X
X
NEVER
X
X
X
X
X
X
X
X
XX XX X XX
X XX X
XX X
TWO TIMES
1-2 TIMES
2-3 TIMES
A MONTH
A WEEK
EACH WEEK
XX
XX
XX XX X XX
EVERYDAY
NONE
LITTLE
SOME
MUCH
MOST
M T WH F S S M T WH F S S M T WH F S S M T WH F S S M T WH F S
SS
NEVER
TWO TIMES
1-2 TIMES
2-3 TIMES
A MONTH
A WEEK
EACH WEEK
EVERYDAY
Name ________________________________
Age _______
Boy
Todays Date (write month, day and year) ________________ Grade in School ___________
School ________________ Teacher _____________________ Town __________________
Below is a list of VERY SCARY, DANGEROUS, OR VIOLENT things that sometimes happen
to people. These are times where someone was HURT VERY BADLY OR KILLED, or could
have been. Some people have had these experiences; some people have not had these
experiences. Please be honest in answering if the violent thing happened to you, or if it did not
happen to you.
FOR EACH QUESTION:
1)
Being in a big earthquake that badly damaged the building you were in.
Yes [ ] No [ ]
6)
Seeing a family member being hit, punched or kicked very hard at home.
(DO NOT INCLUDE ordinary fights between brothers & sisters).
Yes [ ] No [ ]
7)
8)
9)
10) Having an adult or someone much older touch your private sexual body parts
when you did not want them to.
Yes [ ] No [ ]
11) Hearing about the violent death or serious injury of a loved one.
Yes [ ] No [ ]
12) Having painful and scary medical treatment in a hospital when you were
very sick or badly injured.
Yes [ ] No [ ]
13) OTHER than the situations described above, has ANYTHING ELSE ever
happened to you that was really SCARY, DANGEROUS OR VIOLENT?
Yes [ ] No [ ]
14) a) If you answered "YES" to only ONE thing in the above list of questions #1
to #13, place the number of that thing (#1 to #13) in this blank:
# ____________
b) If you answered "YES" to MORE THAN ONE THING, place the number
of the thing that BOTHERS YOU THE MOST NOW in this blank:
#___________
c) About how long ago did this bad thing (your answer to [a] or [b]) happen to
you? ____________
d) Please write what happened:
____________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________________
FOR THE NEXT QUESTIONS, please CHECK [YES] or [NO] to answer HOW
YOU FELT during or right after the bad thing happened that you just wrote about
in Question 14.
15) Were you scared that you would die?
Yes [ ] No [ ]
16) Were you scared that you would be hurt badly?
Yes [ ] No [ ]
17) Were you hurt badly?
Yes [ ] No [ ]
18) Were you scared that someone else would die?
Yes [ ] No [ ]
19) Were you scared that someone else would be hurt badly?
Yes [ ] No [ ]
20) Was someone else hurt badly?
Yes [ ] No [ ]
21) Did someone die?
Yes [ ] No [ ]
22) Did you feel very scared, like this was one of your most scary experiences ever?
Yes [ ] No [ ]
23) Did you feel that you could not stop what was happening or that
you needed someone to help?
Yes [ ] No [ ]
24) Did you feel that what you saw was disgusting or gross?
Yes [ ] No [ ]
25) Did you run around or act like you were very upset?
Yes [ ] No [ ]
None
Little
Some
Much
Most
THE
MONTH
1D4 I watch out
forPAST
danger
or things that I am afraid
of.
Little
Some
Much
Most
NONE
LITTLE
SOME
MUCH
MOST
S M T W H F S
S M T W H F S
S M T W H F S
S M T W H F S
S M T W H F S
X
X
NEVER
X
X
X
X
X
X
X
X
X X X X X X X
X X X X
X X X
X X
X X
X X X X X X X
TWO TIMES
1-2 TIMES
2-3 TIMES
ALMOST
A MONTH
A WEEK
EACH WEEK
EVERY DAY
NONE
LITTLE
SOME
MUCH
MOST
S M T W H F S
S M T W H F S
S M T W H F S
S M T W H F S
S M T W H F S
NEVER
TWO TIMES
1-2 TIMES
2-3 TIMES
ALMOST
A MONTH
A WEEK
EACH WEEK
EVERY DAY
FOR EACH QUESTION: Check "Yes" if this scary thing HAPPENED TO YOUR CHILD
Check "No" if it DID NOT HAPPEN TO YOUR CHILD_____
1)
Being in a big earthquake that badly damaged the building your child was in.
Yes [ ]
No [ ]
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2)
Yes [
No [ ]
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Yes [ ]
No [ ]
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Yes [ ]
No [ ]
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Yes [ ]
No [ ]
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Seeing a family member being hit, punched or kicked very hard at home.
(DO NOT INCLUDE ordinary fights between brothers & sisters).
Yes [ ]
No [ ]
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Yes [ ]
No [ ]
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Yes [ ]
No [ ]
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Yes [ ]
No [ ]
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Yes [ ]
No [ ]
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Yes [ ]
No [ ]
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Having painful and scary medical treatment in a hospital when your child
was very sick or badly injured.
Yes [ ]
No [ ]
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OTHER than the situations described above, has ANYTHING ELSE ever happened
to your child that was REALLY SCARY, DANGEROUS, OR VIOLENT?
Yes [ ]
No [ ]
14)
a) If you answered "YES" to only ONE thing in the above list of questions #1 to #13, place the
number of that thing (#1 to #13) in this blank. # ____________
b) If you answered "YES" to MORE THAN ONE THING, place the number of the thing that
BOTHERS YOUR CHILD THE MOST NOW in this blank.
#___________
c) About how long ago did this bad thing (your answer to a or b) happen to your child? __________
d) Please write what happened: ____________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________________________
FOR THE NEXT QUESTIONS, please CHECK "Yes, No, or Do not know" to answer HOW YOUR CHILD FELT
during or right after the experience happened that you just wrote about in Question 14. Only check "Do not Know" if you
absolutely cannot give an answer.
-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------15) Was your child afraid that he/she would die?
Yes [ ]
No [ ]
Do not know [ ]
be seriously injured?
Yes [ ]
No [ ]
Do not know [ ]
Yes [ ]
No [ ]
Do not know [ ]
Yes [ ]
No [ ]
Do not know [ ]
Yes [ ]
No [ ]
Do not know [ ]
Yes [ ]
No [ ]
Do not know [ ]
Yes [ ]
No [ ]
Do not know [ ]
Yes [ ]
No [
Do not know [ ]
Yes [ ]
No [ ]
Do not know [ ]
Yes [ ]
No [ ]
Do not know [ ]
Yes [ ]
No [ ]
Do not know [ ]
Yes [ ]
No [ ]
Do not know [ ]
27) Did your child feel like what was happening did not seem real in some way, like it was going on in a movie instead
of real life?
Yes [ ]
No [ ]
Do not know [ ]
Here is a list of problems children sometimes have after very stressful experiences. Please think about your child's
stressful experience that you wrote about in Question #14. Then, read each problem on the list carefully. CIRCLE one of
the numbers (0, 1, 2, 3, 4 or 5) that tells how often the problem has happened to your child in the past month. Refer to
the Rating Sheet (on page 5) to help you decide how often the problem has happened. Note: If you are unsure about how
often your child has experienced a particular problem, then try to make your best estimation. Only circle "Do not Know"
if you absolutely cannot give an answer. PLEASE BE SURE TO ANSWER ALL QUESTIONS
None
Little
Some
Much
Most
Do not
Know
None
Little
Some
Much
Most
Do not
Know
19C7 My child thinks that he/she will not live a long life.
SAMPLE
FREQUENCY RATING SHEET
NONE
LITTLE
SOME
MUCH
MOST
S M T W H F S
S M T W H F S
S M T W H F S
S M T W H F S
M T W H F S
X
X
NEVER
X
X
X
X
X
X
X
X
X X X X X X X
X X X X
X X X
X X
X X
X X X X X X X
TWO TIMES
1-2 TIMES
2-3 TIMES
ALMOST
A MONTH
A WEEK
EACH WEEK
EVERY DAY
NONE
LITTLE
SOME
MUCH
MOST
S M T W H F S
S M T W H F S
S M T W H F S
S M T W H F S
M T W H F S
NEVER
TWO TIMES
1-2 TIMES
2-3 TIMES
ALMOST
A MONTH
A WEEK
EACH WEEK
EVERY DAY
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Subject ID#__________
Age_____
Sex (circle): M
Question # /Score
YES
NO
Question # /Score
1._____
12._____
2._____
13._____
3._____
[Omit 14].
4. _____
15._____
5._____
16._____
6._____
17._____
7. _____
18._____
8. _____
19._____
9. _____
[Omit 20].
_________________
Criterion A1 met
Questions 15-21: at least 1 Yes answer
YES
NO
Criterion A2 met
* 10. or
YES
NO
11._____
(Sum the items from the above 2 columns, write sum below)
Criterion A met
YES
NO
(Sum total
PTSD SEVERITY
of scores) = ______
Peritraumatic Dissociation
YES
NO
SCORE
Score
_____
_____
6. (B3) Flashbacks
2. (B4) Cues: Psychological
_____ # of Criterion B
Questions with
Score
_____ # of Criterion C
_____ Questions with
reactivity
Cutoff: _____
_____
_____
CRITERION B SEVERITY
SCORE (Sum of above scores): = _____
CRITERION C SEVERITY
DSM-IV CRITERION B MET:
SCORE (Sum of above scores): = _____
(Diagnosis requires at least 1 B Symptom): YES
NO
Score
_____
4. (D2) Irritability/anger
_____
NO
YES
NO
Cutoff: _____
PARTIAL PTSD LIKELY
CRITERION D SEVERITY
Criteria (B + C) or (B + D) or (C + D)]
YES
NO
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Subject ID#__________
Age_____
Sex (circle): M
Question # /Score
YES
NO
Question # /Score
1. _____
12._____
2. _____
13._____
3. _____
[Omit 14].
*4. or
15._____
20. _____
16._____
5. _____
17._____
6. _____
18._____
_________________
Criterion A1 met
Questions 15-21: at least 1 Yes answer
YES
NO
Criterion A2 met
Questions 22-26: at least 1 Yes answer
YES
NO
7. _____
8. _____
21._____
9. _____
[Omit 22].
**10. or
11._____
Criterion A met
YES
***19. or
(Sum total
PTSD SEVERITY
of scores) = ______
SCORE
NO
*Place the highest Score from either Question 4 or 20 in the
blank above: Score Question 4.____/Score Question 20.____
Peritraumatic Dissociation
YES
NO
**Place the highest Score from either Question 10 or 11 in the
blank above: Score Question 10.____/Score Question 11.____
Score
_____
_____
6. (B3) Flashbacks
_____ # of Criterion B
Score
_____ # of Criterion C
Questions with
_____ Score > Symptom
Cutoff: _____
_____
_____
CRITERION C SEVERITY
CRITERION B SEVERITY
NO
Score
_____
NO
YES
NO
YES
NO
Cutoff: _____
[*Place the highest Score from either Question 4 or 20 in the
blank above.]
CRITERION D SEVERITY
Criteria B + C or B + D or C + D)
NO
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Subject ID#__________
Age_____
Sex (circle): M F
Question # /Score
YES
NO
1. _____
**10 or
2. _____
Type of Traumatic Event rated as most
Question # /Score
11._____
* 3 or
12._____
21. _____
13._____
4. _____
[Omit 14].
5. _____
15._____
6. _____
16._____
7. _____
17._____
8. _____
18._____
9. _____
_________________
Criterion A1 met
Questions 15-26: at least 1 Yes answer
YES
NO
Criterion A2 met
Questions 22-26: at least 1 Yes answer
YES
NO
(Sum the items from the above 2 columns, write sum below)
(Sum total
Criterion A met
YES
NO
PTSD SEVERITY
of scores) = ______
SCORE
Score
6. (B3) Flashbacks
Score
_____
_____ # of Criterion B
_____ # of Criterion C
_____ Questions with
Questions with
_____ Score > Symptom
_____
Cutoff: _____
_____
CRITERION C SEVERITY
SCORE (Sum of above scores): = _____
NO
CRITERION B SEVERITY
SCORE (Sum of above scores): = _____
Score
_____
4. (D2) Irritability/anger
_____
NO
DSM-IV PTSD DIAGNOSTIC INFO.
YES
NO
YES
NO
Cutoff: _____
PARTIAL PTSD LIKELY
CRITERION D SEVERITY
Criteria B + C or B + D or C + D)
NO
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Provider Information
DOB: ##/##/####
Diagnosis:
Axis I:
309.81
PTSD, chronic
Axis II:
V71.09
No diagnosis
Axis III:
V71.09
No diagnosis
Axis IV:
1. Problem/Symptom: Jane presents with clinically significant symptoms of Posttraumatic Stress Disorder.
Long Term Goal: Jane will experience a clinically significant reduction in PTSD symptoms as demonstrated by
day-to-day functioning and results on assessment measures.
1.
2.
3.
4.
5.
6.
7.
8.
9.
10.
11.
12.
13.
14.
15.
16.
Projected
Completion Date
Date Achieved
Intervention/Action
Responsible Person(s)
Intervention/actions:
2.
3.
Responsible Person(s):
2.
3.
Responsible Person(s):
2.
3.
Responsible Person(s):
2.
3.
Intervention/actions:
Gradual exposure to traumatic experiences
Intervention/actions:
Cognitive processing/restructuring
Review Date:
Review Date:
Progress:
Involvement of Family: Janes grandmother, Ms. Doe, is actively involved in Janes treatment.
TF-CBT Techniques
a. Psychoeducation
b. Parenting Skills
c. Relaxation
d. Affective Expression
and Regulation
e. Cognitive Coping and
Processing
f. Trauma Narrative
g. Traumatic Grief
h. In Vivo Exposure
i. Conjoint Parent-Child
Treatment
j. Enhanced Safety Skills
Session Dates
*Modality
Notes
Date
Homework/Modality Notes/Suggestions
TF-CBT Component
Demo
Y / N (-)
Skill Rating:
(0)
(+)
Comments:
2
A little/rarely
3
Somewhat
4
Often
5
Almost Always
Also in response to stress, the hypothalamus produces a chemical called CRF. CRF
stimulates the pituitary gland to release a chemical called ACTH. ACTH then acts on the
adrenal glands to increase the production of cortisol.
Cortisol stops the brain from doing a lot of things. This can be good in the moment of
crisis, but cortisol is bad news at all other times. People who have experienced severe
traumas often have cortisol levels higher than the rest of us. It is believed that effective
treatment for the trauma and increases in life stability can restore normal cortisol levels.
limited to, distressing memories and/or nightmares of the violence; efforts to avoid
thoughts, feelings, or conversations that may remind them of the violence; diminished
interest in activities that were once pleasurable; social isolation; difficulty falling or
staying asleep; difficulty concentrating; and anger outbursts.
Children exposed to domestic violence are also at a higher risk of being exposed to
other forms of abuse. It is currently estimated that 50% of perpetrators who abuse their
spouses also abuse their children. These children have also been found to be at a higher
risk of being emotionally abused and sexually abused than other children.
Exposure to domestic violence may also cause other long-term effects such as an
increased risk of entering the juvenile justice system, attempting suicide, committing
sexual assault crimes, and abusing drugs and alcohol. There is also an increased risk of
becoming victims of abuse as adults and of developing distorted belief systems in regard
to relationships, personal responsibility, violence and aggression, and sex-role
expectations.
Every child responds to domestic violence exposure differently due to the influence of
such characteristics as age, length of time the abuse had occurred, frequency and
severity of the abuse, the childs relationship with the abuser, type of abuse, support
system available to the child, and the childs overall resiliency and vulnerability.
HOW COMMON IS DOMESTIC VIOLENCE?
Domestic violence occurs across all races, religions, ethnicities, and economic groups. It
is estimated that more than 1 million women are victims of domestic violence every
year, with a high percentage of these assaults being witnessed by one or more children.
In other words, more than 3 million American children are exposed to domestic violence
each year.
WHAT ARE SOME COMMON BEHAVIORAL SYMPTOMS OF A CHILD WHO HAS BEEN
EXPOSED TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE?
Bullying, physical aggressiveness, and insulting behavior toward peers.
Withdrawal from peers and social contacts, and overall poor peer relationships.
Difficulty separating, especially from the battered caregiver.
Oppositional and defiant behaviors with authority figures, especially with the
battered caregiver.
Increased verbal aggressiveness/talking back.
Bed-wetting, daytime accidents, baby talk, or other regressive behaviors.
Difficulty focusing and learning while at school.
Loss of appetite or changes in eating patterns.
Failure to thrive in infants.
Nightmares, insomnia, or other sleep problems.
Increased violent behavior toward siblings and peers.
Running away from home.
Role reversal: taking on caregiver role.
WHAT ARE SOME BEHAVIORAL SYMPTOMS IN PRETEENS AND TEENAGERS WHO HAVE
BEEN EXPOSED TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE?
Physically, verbally, or sexually abusing their dating partners.
Being victimized physically, verbally, or sexually by their dating partners.
Violence toward the battered caregiver/imitating words and behaviors of the
abuser.
Acting as the battered caregivers protector.
Drug and/or alcohol abuse.
Poor peer relationships and choices.
WHAT ARE SOME EMOTIONAL SYMPTOMS OF EXPOSURE TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE?
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for or by you and therefore is reprinted here for you to use for your own personal use. It cannot be
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6. Do things that make them happy, such as reading favorite books, playing board
games or video games, watching TV shows, and talking to friends on the phone
(or visiting them).
7. Remember that they are not the reason one caregiver is abusing the other.
WHAT CAN KIDS DO IF THEY ARE FEELING UNHAPPY OR SCARED, EVEN IF THEY NO
LONGER LIVE WITH THE PERSON WHO WAS VIOLENT TO THEIR ABUSED CAREGIVER?
1. Talk to the abused caregiver or other trusted adult about how it feels when
they saw or heard the violence in their home.
2. Talk to the abused caregiver or other trusted adult about what it feels like now
that things are different, even if the feelings are confusing.
3. Talk to a family helper about all of these confusing feelings.
4. Do things to help them feel happy, such as drawing, reading, coloring, playing
board games, playing video games, watching TV, playing sports, and spending
time with family and friends.
5. Remember that no matter what happened between their caregivers, it was not
their fault.
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for or by you and therefore is reprinted here for you to use for your own personal use. It cannot be
reproduced for other reasons.
4. Do things to help them feel happy, such as drawing, reading, coloring, playing
board games, playing video games, watching TV, playing sports, and spending
time with family and friends.
5. Remember that no matter what happened between their caregivers, it was not
their fault.
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for or by you and therefore is reprinted here for you to use for your own personal use. It cannot be
reproduced for other reasons.
difficulties are similar to the problems exhibited by children who have experienced any
kind of trauma. Children may also exhibit symptoms that are more specific to sexual
abuse, such as repetitive sexual talk and play, age-inappropriate sexual behavior and
fears of specific situations or people that remind them of the abuse. Additionally, some
children do not exhibit any apparent difficulties as a result of their traumatic experience.
Once the abuse has been disclosed and stopped, some children return to relatively
normal behavior and emotions. The support and protection of people close to them are
very important in helping them get back to normal. However, some children have
symptoms that persist long after the abuse itself has ended. In fact, a significant
number of children who have experienced sexual abuse exhibit posttraumatic stress
symptoms. Therefore, it is important for a child who has experienced sexual abuse to
receive a psychological evaluation and, if necessary, treatment.
WHAT KIND OF TREATMENT IS AVAILABLE FOR CHILDREN WHO HAVE EXPERIENCED
SEXUAL ABUSE?
Many therapy formats have been used to help children overcome the effects of sexual
abuse. These include individual, family and group therapy formats. The therapy
techniques used have been derived from a wide range of psychological theories,
including psychodynamic, behavioral, cognitive, insight-oriented, structural and
strategic theories of family therapy. There has been only limited research regarding the
effectiveness of these varying approaches in assisting children to deal with the
difficulties they experience as a result of sexual abuse. However, there is considerable
research indicating that cognitive-behavioral therapy, applied in both individual and
group settings, effectively decreases the problems experienced in the aftermath of
sexual abuse.
Cognitive-behavioral interventions have been successful in helping children who have
been sexually abused as well as their non-offending caregivers. The cognitivebehavioral therapist may help non-offending caregivers cope with their own thoughts
and feelings about their childs abuse. At the same time, they teach caregiver skills
that help caregivers respond more effectively to their childrens disclosures and
abuse-related difficulties. Cognitive-behavioral interventions are individually
tailored to target the particular childs difficulties and include educational, coping
skills, and processing exercises. Processing exercises encourage children to
children. Others are able to maintain sexual relationships with adults, but may turn to
children for gratification during times of stress. A small percentage of offenders sexually
abuse children while the offender is under the influence of drugs or alcohol.
WHY DOES SEXUAL ABUSE OCCUR?
Although the question as to why sexual abuse occurs is frequently asked by children and
their caretakers, there is no simple answer. The main point to remember is that children
and adolescents who have experienced sexual abuse and their non-offending caregivers
are not to blame. The responsibility for sexual abuse rests squarely on the shoulders of
the sex offender, regardless of the problems which may have contributed to his/her
abusive behavior.
Our society is generally uncomfortable with sexuality and has made limited efforts to
prevent child sexual abuse; these attitudes may also be responsible for keeping the
problem hidden for so long. For this reason, it is essential that we communicate our
concerns about child sexual abuse clearly and openly. As a society, we must become
more aware of the seriousness and prevalence of the problem, and we must increase
our present efforts to address this problem worldwide.
WHY DO NOT CHILDREN TELL US WHATS HAPPENING?
Child sexual abuse is, by its very nature, secretive. It almost always occurs when a child
is alone with an offender. In order for the sexual activity to continue, offenders rely on
the children to keep the secret. There may be direct threats of physical harm to the
children and/or to their pets, family members, etc., if they tell. Often children are led to
believe that the abuse is their own fault and that they will be blamed, rejected or
disbelieved if they tell. They feel embarrassed, ashamed, and fearful about the abuse as
well as the secrecy. In fact, many children who have experienced sexual abuse grow
to adulthood without ever telling anyone because they fear rejection, punishment,
or retaliation.
WHEN SHOULD YOU SUSPECT CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE?
Because of the secretive nature and wide range of behavioral reactions of children,
child sexual abuse is a difficult problem to detect. Children who have been
sexually abused, however, are most often identified as a result of their own
before telling about it. Many children never tell, and most children do not tell the right
way.
HOW SHOULD YOU RESPOND IF YOU SUSPECT CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE?
It is natural for caregivers to feel quite distressed upon discovering that their child may
have been sexually abused. However, the most important action to take as a caregiver
is to try to remain calm. Children, including adolescents, are very sensitive to caregiver
emotional reactions, and if they see or feel how upset or angry you are, they may be
very frightened and clam up. You want to convey to your child that it is good that
he/she has told you. If you cannot question your child calmly by yourself, it is better to
wait for help from a professional. Be careful not to say anything that sounds like you
blame him/her, and be sure to emphasize that the abuse is not his or her fault. Some
children report that the sexual contact felt good. This does not mean that the child is, in
any way, to blame or that the child should feel guilty for having enjoyed the sexual
interaction and/or the offenders attention. Sometimes children who have been
victimized may even initiate sexual behavior with other adults. However, it is always
the adults responsibility to set appropriate limits.
Do not encourage your child to forget about it and shut off the conversation. On the
other hand, it is not helpful to push the child beyond what he/she is ready to say. Just
be open to whatever your child can tell you and to any questions he/she may ask. Try to
understand that the child may have mixed feelings about the offender and what has
happened. Although you may feel like keeping your child at your side continually for
protection, it is important that you not be overly restrictive and that you help your
family return to as normal a routine as possible. It is also important not to be afraid to
show your child your normal expressions of affection and physical closeness.
Sometimes this is difficult, especially for non-abusive fathers. But you do not want to
give the child the impression that your feelings about him/her have changed
because of what has happened.
Children who may have been sexually abused should undergo a specialized
physical examination that includes the genital area. Although children may feel
hurt by the sexual abuse, their bodies usually remain unchanged. Well-trained
physicians can reassure children that their bodies are OK.
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for or by you and therefore is reprinted here for you to use for your own personal use. It cannot be
reproduced for other reasons.
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for or by you and therefore is reprinted here for you to use for your own personal use. It cannot be
reproduced for other reasons.
Count 1 as you inhale and think relax as you exhale. Count up to 10 on your
inhalations and then start back at 1.
Practice for about 5-10 minutes.
Practice belly breathing during a relatively calm time. Once you feel comfortable with
belly breathing, you can also use it to feel better when you are worried or afraid.
Thats good. You are really tearing that gum up. Now relax again. Just let your jaw drop
off your face. It feels so good just to let go and not have to fight that bubble gum.
Okay, one more time. We are really going to tear it up this time. Bite down. Hard as
you can. Harder. Oh, you are really working hard. Good. Now relax. Try to relax your
whole body. Youve beaten the bubble gum. Let yourself go as loose as you can.
Face and Nose
Here comes a pesky old fly. He has landed on your nose. Try to get him off without
using your hands. Thats right, wrinkle up your nose. Make as many wrinkles in your
nose as you can. Scrunch up your nose real hard. Good. Youve chased him away. Now
you can relax your nose. Oops, here he comes back again. Right back in the middle of
your nose. Wrinkle up your nose again. Shoo him off. Wrinkle it up hard. Hold it just as
tight as you can. Okay, he flew away. You can relax your face. Notice that when you
scrunch up your nose that your cheeks and your mouth and your forehead and your
eyes all help you, and they get tight too. So when you relax your nose, your whole face
relaxes too, and that feels good. Oh-oh. This time that old fly has come back, but this
time hes on your forehead. Make lots of wrinkles. Try to catch him between all those
wrinkles. Hold it tight now. Okay, you can let go. Hes gone for good. Now you can just
relax. Let your face go smooth, no wrinkles anywhere. Your face feels nice and smooth
and relaxed.
Stomach
Hey! Here comes a cute baby elephant. But hes not watching where hes going. He
doesnt see you lying there in the grass, and hes about to step on your stomach. Do not
move. You do not have time to get out of the way. Just get ready for him. Make your
stomach very hard. Tighten up your stomach muscles real tight. Hold it. It looks lie he
is going the other way. You can relax now. Let your stomach go soft. Let it be as
relaxed as you can. That feels so much better. Oops, hes coming this way again. Get
ready. Tighten up your stomach. Real hard. If he steps on you when your stomach is
hard, it wont hurt. Make your stomach into a rock. Okay, hes moving away again. You
can relax now. Kind of settle down, get comfortable, and relax. Notice the difference
between a tight stomach and a relaxed one. Thats how we want it to feel nice and
loose and relaxed. You wont believe this, but this time hes really coming your way and
no turning around. Hes headed straight for you. Tighten up. Tighten hard. Here he
comes. This is really it. Youve got to hold on tight. Hes stepping on you. Hes stepped
over you. Now hes gone for good. You can relax completely. You are safe/ Everything
is okay, and you can feel nice and relaxed.
This time imagine that you want to squeeze through a narrow fence and the boards
have splinters on them. Youll have to make yourself very skinny if you are going to
make it through. Suck your stomach in. Try to squeeze it up against your backbone. Try
to be as skinny as you can. Youve got to get through. Now relax. You do not have to
be skinny now. Just relax and feel your stomach being warm and loose. Okay, lets try
to get through that fence now. Squeeze up your stomach. Make it touch your
backbone. Get it real small and tight. Get as skinny as you can. Hold tight, now. Youve
got to squeeze through. You got through that skinny little fence and no splinters. You
can relax now. Settle back and let your stomach come back out where it belongs. You
can feel really good now. Youve done fine.
Legs and Feet
Now pretend that you are standing barefooted in a big, fat mud puddle. Squish your
toes down deep into the mud. Try to get your feet down to the bottom of the mud
puddle. Youll probably need your legs to help you push. Push down, spread your toes
apart, and feel the mud squish up between your toes. Now step out of the mud puddle.
Relax your feet. Let your toes go lose and feel how nice that is. It feels good to be
relaxed. Back into the mud puddle. Squish your toes down. Let your leg muscles help
push your feet down. Push your feet. Hard. Try to squeeze the mud puddle dry. Okay.
Come back out now. Relax your feet, relax your legs, relax your toes. It feels so good to
be relaxed. No tenseness anywhere. You feel kind of warm and tingly.
Conclusion
Stay as relaxed as you can. Let your whole body go limp and feel all your muscles
relaxed. In a few minutes I will ask you to open your eyes, and that will be the end of
this session. As you go through the day, remember how good it feels to be relaxed.
Sometimes you have to make yourself tighter before you can be relaxed, just as we did
in these exercises. Practice these exercises every day to get more and more relaxed. A
good time to practice is at night, after you have gone to bed and the lights are out and
you wont be disturbed. It will help you get to sleep. Then, when you are a really good
relaxer, you can help yourself relax at school. Just remember the elephant, or the
jawbreaker, or the mud puddle, and you can do our exercises and nobody will know.
Today is a good day. Youve worked hard in here, and it feels good to work hard. Very
slowly, now, open your eyes and wiggle your muscles around a little. Very good. Youve
done a good job. You are going to be a super relaxer.
something really sour like a lemon, wrinkle up your forehead, and hold it while I
count down from five . . . pay attention to the tightness in your forehead while I
count down from five -- . . . 5 . . . 4 . . . 3 . . . 2 . . . 1 . . . relax your forehead again,
smoothing out all the wrinkles. Notice how smooth and relaxed you feel [PAUSE
10 SECONDS]. Now clench your jaws, bite your teeth together and hold it while I
count down . . . 5 . . . 4 . . . 3 . . . 2 . . . 1 . . . relax [PAUSE 10 SECONDS]. Let your
lips open a little bit and breathe deeply. Notice the warm heavy feelings of
relaxation in your body. Now, I want you to tighten up your whole body, from
your scrunched up face, to your hunched up shoulders, your tight fists and arms,
your stiff back and tight stomach, to your tight legs and curled up toes. Make your
whole body tense and stiff as a board and hold it while I count down from five -- . .
. 5 . . . 4 . . . 3 . . . 2 . . . 1 . . . let go and relax [PAUSE 10 SECONDS]. Just relax and
feel how warm and heavy your whole body feels. Relax.
Now, with your eyes still closed, I want you to imagine [INSERT HIS/HER SPECIAL
PLACE].
[CONTINUE DESCRIBING THE SPECIAL PLACE, STRESSING SENSORY DETAIL -THE WARMTH OR COOLNESS OF THE AIR, THE SOFT SOUNDS IN THE
BACKGROUND, ETC. PAUSE BETWEEN IMAGES TO LET THE CLIENT
REMEMBER AND FEEL. YOU CAN INCLUDE PEOPLE AS A CHOICE -- THERE
MAY BE SOMEONE SPECIAL WITH YOU SHARING THIS NICE PLACE, A FRIEND
OR SOMEONE IN YOUR FAMILY. REMEMBER HOW GOOD IT FELT TO BE
TOGETHER, AS APPROPRIATE].
Now it is time to leave your special place and come back to this room. We are
going to take five imaginary steps, each step moving father away from [INSERT
SPECIAL PLACE] and closer to this room. Ill count each step out loud for you . . . 1 .
. . you are stepping away from your special place . . . 2 . . . youve moved away a
little farther from [SPECIAL PLACE] . . . 3 . . . you are halfway back to this room . . .
4 . . . you are almost here, just one small step away . . . 5 . . . and you are back.
When you feel ready, go ahead and open your eyes.
[WHEN THE CLIENT HAS OPENED HIS/HER EYES, ASK IF S/HE WOULD LIKE TO
SHARE HIS/HER EXPERIENCE - WHAT THE CLIENT REMEMBERED, HOW S/HE FELT,
HOW S/HE FEELS NOW. ASK WHAT IT WAS LIKE TO TENSE AND RELAX DIFFERENT
MUSCLES. REMIND AGAIN THAT RELAXATION TAKES PRACTICE.]
Stop whatever you are doing, close your eyes, and take 10 slow, deep
breaths.
Visualize your safe place.
Go to a quiet room and read a good book.
Meditate or focus on your special relaxation phrase.
Listen to your favorite music.
Sing out loud.
Dance.
Play.
Listen to, watch, or read something funny.
Go outside and take a walk in a safe area.
Run in place for 5 minutes.
Call a friend.
Talk to a caregiver or other adult who understands and listens.
Write in your journal.
Volunteer.
Tell yourself that things will get better.
Take a warm bath.
Make something with your handsknit, sew, crochet, woodwork, etc.
Tell yourself five good things about yourself.
Draw, color or paint.
Talk about your feelings with someone you trust.
Tell someone you love him or her.
Play with your pet.
Do something to help someone else.
What else helps you feel better?
PROBLEM-SOLVING STEPS
Problem solving involves several steps that can be summarized as follows:
Cognitive Triangle
________________________________________
________________________________________
________________________________________
Thinking
What Happened
________________________
_____
Feeling
Doing
____________________________
___________________________
____________________________
___________________________
____________________________
___________________________
________________________
_________________
Thinking
Feeling
Doing
Nervous or
Anxious
Unhappy or
Depressed
Angry or
Irritated
At least I wasnt
wearing sandals.
Relieved or
Indifferent
BLUE
UNHELPFUL thinking makes us feel bad, or
BLUE.
REALISTIC thinking makes us feel BETTER.
Types of UNHELPFUL thinking to look out for:
B . . . Blaming myself
U . . . Unhappy guessing
Feeling
Doing
During the coming week, whenever you feel upset about something, write
down the situation and how it makes you feel. Then track back to what your
thought was about the situation that made you think that way. Ask yourself
whether that thought is (1) accurate and (2) helpful. Come up with alternative
thoughts in this situation and write down how they make you feel and whether
they are accurate and helpful. To identify new, more helpful thoughts, think
about what you would say to a good friend in a similar situation if he/she
shared the distressing thought(s).
Situation:__________________________________________________
Thought:___________________________________________________
Feeling:____________________________________________________
New thought:________________________________________________
New feeling:_________________________________________________
New Behavior:_______________________________________________
Event
Feeling
EVENT
Something Happens
Doing
THOUGHTS
I tell myself something
FEELINGS
I feel something
BEHAVIORS
I do something
________________________
_________________
d) The child can start by providing just one or a few details of the event. The therapist
can then ask questions such as what s/he was doing at the time the incident
occurred, what happened next, and so on.
e) The therapist should provide a lot of praise and encouragement for the childs
efforts.
f) It is best not to interrupt the child in the flow of his/her narrative to ask about
his/her thoughts and feelings regarding the event since this may make it more
difficult for him/her to keep focused on the event. Instead, let him/her first describe
his/her perception of the event, and then return to the beginning to clarify things or
to ask about his/her feelings and thoughts.
7. Once the child has written a full narrative of his/her memories, thoughts and feelings
about the traumatic event, the therapist should employ cognitive-processing
techniques to explore and correct cognitive distortions and errors.
8. Prepare the child and caregiver(s) to share the childs trauma narrative with the
childs caregiver(s). The narrative is shared with the caregiver only after considerable
preparation is provided for the caregiver in parent sessions, and only when the
caregiver is capable of providing a supportive response to the client (e.g., if a
caregiver does not believe the abuse occurred it may not be a good idea to share the
narrative with them).
FEAR THERMOMETER
or
SUDS (Subjective Units of Distress Scale)
SUDS helps clients to tell you in a number how distressed they are. You can have
the child make his or her own thermometer with descriptive words for each
number, or use this one:
10
9
8
7
6
5
4
3
2
1
0