Chatter, April 2015
Chatter, April 2015
Chatter, April 2015
Our team poured their hearts out during our Bible studies and circle
times. They spoke into each others lives: adult to student, and student to
adult. I witnessed intergenerational mission at its best.
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heart of our journey is the gospel of
Jesus. We trust Christ as our Savior
and find ourselves becoming more
like him as we deepen our relationship with him.
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LAST WEEK, I HEARD A FRIEND SAY THAT GOD ISNT AFRAID OF US. That was so interesting to
me. I thought about it for a whole week. God isnt afraid. Of us.
I, for one, am very afraid of us. I see a future ablaze
with fire, a world melting into the pit; both in Nigeria and Iraq but also in my own brain and family.
There is so much that scares me about who I might
(or might not) become, so much that militates
against hope and peace and life, that if I sit and
ponder what COULD happen, where we COULD
all end up in a year or two, I really might stop
breathing. And if just one little mother is hanging
in the balance over here in my sticky kitchen, my
hunch is a lot of the rest of us are, too. The good
ones of us, the upstanding citizen ones of us, the
down-and-outs, the good-for-nothings, the evilestevils. Were all scary.
But God is not afraid.
Jesus was notoriously engaged with unstable,
dangerous people during his ministry. People were
afraid of Jesus because of the company he kept.
Tax collectors, Samaritans, prostitutes, adulterers, Roman guards, Gentiles, women all of these
odd ducks and ugly ducklings featured heavily on
Jesus social and ministry calendar. Long ago, they
had circled the wagons around their own kind.
Then suddenly, their wall was breached. A bold
person was standing there before them, smiling,
full of good things to say about their futures.
C HAT TE R FA C T I CON K EY
CULTURE
LANGUAGE
FOOD
LIFE
GENERAL
SCIENCE
GEOGRAPHY
TOMFOOLERY
HISTORY
Don Moen might be related to the
inventor of the single-handle faucet.
Thats just a guess.
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Much More
Than Nothing Else
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John doesnt record what passed between him and Peter as they made their
way home. But later, Peter shares what was going through his mind: We have
been born again into a life full of hope through Christs rising from the dead
(1 Peter 1:3).
What hope meant for Peter was that Jesus is who he said he was, the Son of
God, the coming king, the Lord of the universe. In following this risen Master,
Peter knew he would find joy in this life and even in death resurrection.
But Peters real problem wasnt fatigue. It was disillusionment. For three years,
Peter had believed that Jesus would someday rule the world with justice and
liberty for all. And hed counted on Jesus promise of eternal life when he died.
Now they crucified Jesus and Peter had denied him three times. So now hes
jogging in the dark, angry and depressed. Why? Shame at letting Jesus down?
Yes. But more. Frustration at life letting him down. As he wheezed along that
lonely path to Jesus tomb, Peter suspected that disappointment was all life
would ever hold for him. Ne plus ultra.
Then a young explorer sailed off the edge of the world by way of a cross and
landed in a tomb. People waited expectantly. Finally on Resurrection morning, as the sun rose in the east, the Son of God stepped out of the grave and
declared, There is more beyond! There is a paradise beyond your greatest
expectations. And there awaits a heavenly Father with outstretched arms to
wipe away every tear from your eyes.
Maybe thats you today. You agree with the bumper sticker that says, Were
born naked, wet, & hungry. Then things get worse. Youve sought happiness
in marriage only to suffer through divorce or continual conflict. Youve sought
meaning in money only to find that you dont own what you accumulate, it
owns you. In short, maybe youve come to where Peter came and most other
people do too if they live long enough: disillusionment.
Andy McQuitty believes that hot buttered popcorn and Blue Bell white chocolate
almond ice cream are among Gods greatest creations.
Plus Ultra!
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I feel closest to
God when I sing
to him on Sunday. Im glad Miss
Sarah teaches us
new songs.
Worship Leaders
needed: 3
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Audrey is SO much
fun. It makes me feel
special that a high
school girl wants to
spend time with me.
Classroom youth
leaders needed: 6
OTHER SPOTS
Nursery Classroom
leaders 10
Zone 6:30 Leaders 12
My Zone Leaders 5
Mr. Geoff taught me
about how God made the
world and how he made
me. And how to make
animal-crackers ROAR.
Preschool Classroom
leaders needed: 7
Youth Worship
Leaders needed: 10
Preschool Coaches 1 2
Elementary Coaches 1 0
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Our
Liberating
King,
May your reputation for holiness
be known from the highest mountain
to the depths of the sea.
Bring Heaven to Earth,
do away with injustice
and establish your righteous reign
once and for all.
Order our desires aright
so that all of our cravings
find satisfaction in you.
And as we grow into this new life,
help us to extend the same weightless existence
to others that we ourselves have come to enjoy,
the forgiveness of our sins.
In our times of testing,
may our worship sustain us
and lead us in the way everlasting.
To all rulers and authorities
in Heaven and on Earth,
Jesus is King forever.
Amen.
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Next Steps:
BOLD OBEDIENCE
Chatter asked IBC pastors to weigh in on their next steps for
the year personally, spiritually, or ministry-wise. Heres Jodie.
At
the end of every year I spend some time with God reflecting back
and dreaming forward. I ask him where he wants me to focus and
grow in the coming year. Essentially, Im asking him what he wants
my next steps to be.
Last year I felt the Lord invited me to take a pretty fun next step. I believe he asked
me to develop the gifts he had given me. For me this meant intentionally leaning into teaching and writing. It meant saying yes more. It also meant taking
an improv class in Dallas as a fun way to develop my ability to think on my feet. I
even got to perform in an improv showcase. This turned out to be super fun (and
super top-secret much to the chagrin of the rest of the pastoral staff who wanted
blackmail fodder).
This year may not be as much fun. I believe the Lord is inviting me to take a next
step that centers around two words: bold obedience. You may wonder how I came
up with these two words. Its a great question. For me it happened through a series
of repetitions it seemed every blog, interaction, conversation, and Scripture
involved some form of the words bold and obedience. And as I prayed, God
confirmed that this sacred echo was for me.
The problem is, Im not exactly sure what hes asking me to do that is boldly obedient and that feels really scary.
(I also found myself wondering if perhaps God made a mistake and overlooked
my promising improv career. I mean, Level 2 improv would be a great next step.
And pretty bold, dont you think? Ok,
ok maybe promising and career
shouldnt be used to describe my improv
skills.)
As you can tell, Im a little nervous about
these two words. Without clear direction,
they feel jump-off-a-cliff scary to me.
And they bring up lots of questions like:
What if I get Gods call to obedience
wrong and I make a huge mess?
What if I hesitate too long and I miss out?
What if I just dont want to do what Gods asking because its uncomfortable, scary,
embarrassing, foolish, out of my comfort zone, or could be misinterpreted?
What if?
But then I paused and made myself remember a few things I know to be true:
God has never let me down. I mean never!
God has never led me astray.
God is always good even when it looks messy and confusing to me.
God wants what is best for me.
God will not play games with me. He will make his will known. I just need to be
ready and receptive.
Its so good to remember what is true. We follow a good, amazing and mighty God.
And heres another truth: Jesus led the way in the bold obedience department. He
was obedient to death and a horrific, humiliating one at that. But his obedience
was a world-changing, peace-bringing, soul-saving obedience. And you and I get
the benefits of his sacrificial act. When I consider this truth, I wonder how I could
be anything but boldly obedient?
So, Ive accepted his invitation to my next step of bold obedience. Im still a little
nervous, but Im officially committing to take the risk. (And since Im doing it in
writing and in public, my stomach just did a little flip-flop not kidding!)
Id love it if you joined me on this next step journey. Wouldnt it be amazing if
we, the people of IBC, were characterized as a church that is boldly obedient to
the Lord?
When Jodie Nizniks improv group found out she was a pastor, one of them said,
Its like youre undercover boss!
Jodie is IBCs Pastor to Women.
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Christianity also offers a unique answer to the issue of suffering. As Christians, we believe in a God who willingly suffered on the cross for us. The
God of Christianity is not detached from suffering or evil in the world. He
loves us and cares for us so much that he willingly entered into suffering
on our behalf.
This answer doesnt fully solve all the questions people ask regarding evil
and suffering, but many people, both Christians and skeptics, have left The
Table with a better understanding of Christianity and a God who loves
them. Christians have left The Table saying they have more confidence in
their faith, and skeptics or those unsure of Christianity have left saying
they have clearer picture of who God is and what Christianity is about.
If youre curious, I encourage you to attend The Table starting April 12.
During this 5-week experience, you will have the chance to explore Christianity, the issue of God and suffering, as well as several other questions,
with others on a similar journey. You can also attend the Big Questions
Conference here at IBC on May 8 and 9. It is designed to address and
answer the fundamental questions we all ask. In the meantime, if youd
like to further investigate some of these questions, I encourage you to read
Tim Kellers book The Reason for God or Pastor Andys new book Notes
from the Valley, particularly for the issue of cancer and suffering.
I hope youll pull up a chair and join the conversation.
Jason Stein wants a table made from reclaimed bowling alley boards.
Jason is a part of Pastoral Staff at IBC and works closely with our IBC Teaching Team on sermon
and series development. He also works with Men at IBC.
Register: irvingbible.org/thetable
or at the kiosk in the Town Square
on Sundays.
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MYTH 1
MYTH 2
- David Chavez
MYTH 5
I have been a
Christian for over
40 years and I was
certain what I was
planning to do at
IBC. However, I am
so thankful that I didnt overlook
this encouragingprogram. On my
own, I might have waited a long time
to take my next step to get involved,
which would have been a mistake.
- Barbara Pierce
- Ginger Lehrfeld
MYTH 6
MYTH 3
I have all the information about the ministries available at IBC. I dont need Propel
to help me with that.
MYTH 4
When I started
Propel, I assumed I
would have at least
one Sunday when I
couldnt make it for
whatever reason.
But, to my pleasant surprise, Propel
didnt feel like it took too much time
at all. The classes were informal and
interactive, and the 90 minutes flew
by each time. Going to Propel felt
seamless; I looked at it as a different
form of church attendance.
- Jessica Perry
Come find out what it means to grow in Christ, connect in community, and join the mission and what that might mean for you
specifically at IBC.
All are welcome, age 18 and up. Propel is a comfortable
small-group environment.
Sundays, April 26May 17 at 10:45 a.m. in West A
Register: irvingbible.org/connect
Bonus: free breakfast!
Questions? Contact Sherri at [email protected].
- Peter Lehrfeld
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- Amy Herrin
EASTER PATH
GET EGGCITED.
Bounce houses, petting zoos, carnival games, egg hunt and more! The
Eggsperience is open to everyone, but it is designed for families with
children 2nd grade and below. The event is free, but please bring 12 plastic
candy-filled eggs per child for the egg hunt.
TUESDAY
march 31
Easter Path open, 129 p.m.
Araucana and
Ameraucana chickens lay eggs
WEDNE
SDAY
with a variety
april
1 of blue tints.
Easter Path open, 9 a.m.9 p.m.
MAUNDY THURSDAY
april 2
Service at 7 p.m. in the
IBC Commons
GOOD FRIDAY
april 3
Service at 7 p.m. in the
Worship Center
HOLY SATURDAY
april 4
The Chapel open for prayer,
8 a.m.5 p.m.
EASTER SUNDAY
april 5
Worship services at 8 a.m.,
9:30 a.m., 11:15 a.m.; 5 p.m.
Easter Eggsperience,
open 9 a.m.12 p.m.
Easter Path,
open 911:30 a.m.
No KidZone available.
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UPC O M I N G
April
APRIL 4
APRIL 16
APRIL 24-25
IBC is joining other churches to serve Irving resiends in April. Many opportunities are available from
APRIL 5
Easter Sunday Services
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Glen at [email protected].
irvingbible.org/vbs.
Glen at [email protected].
APRIL 10
WINGS Luncheon
APRIL 18
APRIL 25
irvingbible.org/singleparents.
APRIL 26
bible.org/babydedications.
APRIL 12
APRIL 20
May
texasniche.com.
See ad below.
APRIL 14
Freedom with Eating Small Group
9:30 a.m. or 6:30 p.m.
The Conference Room
APRIL 24
MAY 7
National Day of Prayer 7 p.m.
The Chapel
See ad, pg. 16.
MAY 89
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This summer, kids will go on an exciting, icy expedition to the slopes of Mount Everest where
theyll discover they can conquer challenges
with Gods mighty power! Kids will be anchored in rock-solid truths that will guide them
through lifes hard times.
Volunteer info: Ready to embrace the expedition challenge? Cool. We have a place on the
team for you! (Cant volunteer during the day?
Prefer to work in a kid-free area? No problem,
we got you covered.)
Register: irvingbible.org/vbs
(registration opens Easter Sunday!)
ON G OI N G
BIBLE COMMUNITIES
Groups on Sunday
Synergy
The Tree
9 a.m. West D
20s & 30s, married & young families
Crossroads
Journey
On Track
Thrive
MEALS
Contact [email protected].
GriefShare Thursdays
Legacy Builders
CHILDREN
MyZone
SPECIAL NEEDS
Community & Care
Marriage at IBC
Pre-Marriage Mentoring
Visit irvingbible.org/marriage.
SUNDAY
COMMUNITY MEALS
6 P.M.
Meals are $3 per person or
$10 max./family.
4/5
NO MEAL!
Happy Easter!
4/12
4/19
4/26
MARRIAGE
Growing Together
STUDENTS
WEDNESDAY
MIDWEEK MEALS
56:20 P.M.
Cost is $3/meal or $10 max./
family. PB&J sandwiches are
also available.
4/1
4/8
Honey baked ham, scalloped potatoes, mixed veggies, salad, dessert. Hosted by
Pat Downeys team.
4/15
2435 KINWEST
4/22
4/22
Contact [email protected].
Renew
SINGLE PARENT
MEN
First Watch
The Table
Community Care
Recovery at IBC
MISSION
IBC Choir
ESL: English as a
Second Language
Prayer Meeting
Laundry Love
YOUNG ADULTS
Events and Resources
New here?
THEN YOURE INVITED. Join us at the
The 2015
Father-son
Canoe Trip
WHEN April 16
TIME 6:308 p.m. (dessert included)
LOCATION The Zone (upstairs at IBC)
REGISTER irvingbible.org/connect
Questions? Contact Sherri Sharp at [email protected] or (972) 5604614.
National Day
of Prayer
Thursday, May 7, 7 p.m.
THE BIG
QUESTIONS
A CONFERENCE ON LIFE AND FAITH
MAY 89
IS THERE A GOD?
IS THE BIBLE RELIABLE?
WHY DOES GOD ALLOW
EVIL AND SUFFERING?
DO SCIENCE AND FAITH
CONTRADICT ONE ANOTHER?
HOW DO I GIVE?
My Time, Talents & Skills
HOW DO I GET
CONNECTED AT IBC?
Were glad you asked. Here are the steps to take for
having your questions answered, guring out the
IBC story, and, if youre feeling ready, plugging in.
Start
JOIN IN WORSHIP
JOIN A COMMUNITY
Youre firing on all cylinders but something is missing. And
that something is a someone, or a group of someones.
Enter sermon-based Small Groups, Womens Bible Study,
First Watch, and more. We encourage you to find a group
and connect authentically with others.
Visit irvingbible.org/adults.
My Resources
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REIGN OF THE
EASTER GOAT
Having left Steven Kings The Bunny to harass new arrivals, we immediately faced
another frightening challenge navigating the hundreds of equally scary children.
Because while our children were freakin totes adorbs long before totes adorbs was
totes irritating, everyone elses offspring freaked me out as much as The Offspring
did circa 1998, as fly for a white guy though I may have been. And when the majority
of those imps looked like one to three other imps? Lets just say I wouldnt have been
too surprised to find Rod Serling smoking a menthol behind the bounce houses.
Which brings us to the bounce houses. Personally, I love bounce houses. If I could
somehow live in a bounce house I would. Although as a Type 1 diabetic, living in
an inflatable domicile is surely a recipe for disaster or a standing order for patch
kits from Amazon. However, as the PAMOM gathering was theoretically for the
children, I was not so theoretically barred from entering any air-supported home,
castle, slide or sumo wrestling ring. But at least the kids had fun celebrating the
atonement of their sins by flopping around like carp on Vicodin for 20 minutes.
More than the faith of a small child. More than the small faith of a mustard seed.
Yes, more than the faith exemplified by the two examples I can think of without
hitting up Google, we must have the faith of a goat. A goat that will eat anything
presented to it based on its unwavering faith in the hand that feeds it, and its ability to digest even the most space-ageiest synthetics. At least thats what I think the
row of (goat) kids trying to eat (our) kids meant. But I was still scheming on how to
get into the bounce houses, so I may not have been paying adequate attention.
Finally, after the parking, the Bunny of Magog, the forbidden inflatables and the
livestock jamboree, all the kids gathered for an age-segregated (because we all
really cant get along until were 12) egg hunt. The eggs, provided by the parents,
were of the plastic variety and meant to be filled with candy that wouldnt melt. Of
course, most candy that doesnt melt is awful and not fit for worshipfully reflecting upon the glory of our risen Savior. But thats beside the point. The real joy was
watching hundreds of Xeroxed children learning to body check, throw elbows and
otherwise muscle their way to their prescribed dozen Cadbury-less treasures.
Because nothing says supplication and repentance quite like a miniaturized, semibloodless version of the Hunger Games.
Sadly, this traditional display of might making right ceased to be upon our moving
to Omaha. However, my banishment from local bounce-centered establishments
remains intact. Because the wonderful thing about traditions is traditions are
wonderful things. Even if they sometimes involve a bit of opoo.
Jason Fox prefers his real eggs over medium and his Easter eggs to be the peanut
butter or Cadbury kind.
Jason writes from Omaha, Nebraska, because somebody has to.
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