Narada Bhakti Sutra A Summary of Swami Tadatmananda's Discourse September 12, 2006 Arsha Bodha Center, Somerset, NJ
Narada Bhakti Sutra A Summary of Swami Tadatmananda's Discourse September 12, 2006 Arsha Bodha Center, Somerset, NJ
Narada Bhakti Sutra A Summary of Swami Tadatmananda's Discourse September 12, 2006 Arsha Bodha Center, Somerset, NJ
giving rise to a tree (prema) and the tree bearing a fruit (bhakti). Although the tree
arises from the seed, and the fruit from the tree, the tree and the seed are very
different and so are the tree and the fruit. Tree is not a bigger form of the seed
and the fruit is not an intense form of tree. Similarly, bhakti is not an intense form
of conventional or emotion based love and emotional love is not physical love or
sexual attraction. Physical love is rooted in the physiology of the body like
desire for food and water. Emotional love, as between a husband and a wife or
between parent and child is located in the mind.
Love has many shades; romantic love is barely love; because its based on the
premise you make me feel loved, therefore I love you, or, you make me enjoy
life, therefore I love you, or, I love you as long you love me. This kind of love
is need-based. I love you really means in this case, I need you. On the other
hand, love, such as between a mother and a child is a much stronger bond
especially when the child is very young. However, parental love is not pure and
unconditional, because, there are various expectations. When the 18-year old
wants to be an auto mechanic or a waitress, the parent might disapprove and
reject the idea and insist that the child must go to college. In such a case the
parent is fulfilling his/her desire, and hence its not unselfish love. Essentially,
emotional love cannot be pure or totally unconditional, unless one is an
enlightened person! Emotional love can be less pure or more pure, but never
perfect!
Bhakti, in its highest form, referred to as parama prema (supreme love),
transcends love; it is limitless and infinite love. No matter how intense the
conventional love is, its not bhakti. Love, either physical or emotional, is based
on a sense of incompleteness, a sense of need, however little that need may be.
Bhakti, on the other hand, transcends the mind. It relates to ones true self, which
is sat-cit-ananda (eternal, unlimited, consciousness). This bhakti is called para
bhakti. In comparison, apara bhakti is the divine love for God as exemplified by
devotion of bhakta Prahalada, or some one worshipping the Lord standing at an
altar.
Para bhakti is not something you can practice because in reality it is the goal or
the point of arrival. Para bhakti is enlightenment!. This is what the Narada Bhakti
sutra will unfold as we pursue our study.