Group Counseling Full Handouts
Group Counseling Full Handouts
Group Counseling Full Handouts
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What is the PHASE of the session? Is it the warm-up, middle, or closing phase?
THERAPEUTIC FORCES
A group cannot be effective if these forces are rated low. It is the leaders
responsibility to monitor the therapeutic forces of a group.
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Frequency of meetings
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Co-leadership harmony
Screening is essential for good groups and should never be considered finished. That is,
it may be necessary to screen out members even after the group starts.
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BEGINNING A GROUP
Things to think about
1. How to begin the group
2. How to handle introduction of members (how, how much time to spend)
3. How to set the tone (very important)
Things to do in the first session
1. Clarify the purpose of the group
2. Explain the leaders role
3. Explain how the group will be conducted
4. Tell members you will, at times, be looking around when they are talking
5. Tell members you will be cutting off members at various times
6. Explain the rules for the group (see comment below)
7. Explain any special terms that will be used
8. Check out the comfort level of the members (use 1-10 round)
9. Assess coping styles of the members
10. Introduce and focus on the content/purpose of the group
11. Draw out members
12. Allow extra time for closing the first session
13. Address questions members may have
14. Focus on multicultural dynamics if they exist
Helpful Hints
1. Do not start with the rules -- it sets a tone you probably dont want.
2. Do not focus too long on one member during the first session
3. Dont count on members to carry the first session -- have a plan
4. Watch out for members talking just to you (the leader)
5. Do not let negative or dominating members control
6. Do not be afraid to cut off members
7. Written exercises can be very helpful in drawing out members
8. Dyads can be helpful in getting members comfortable
9. Rounds can be very helpful in drawing out members
10. Use a movement exercise to generate interest and energy if it is low
KINDS OF EXERCISES
1. Written
2. Movement
3. Dyads and triads
4. Rounds
5. Creative props
6. Arts and crafts
7. Fantasy
8. Common reading
9. Feedback
10. Trust
11. Experiential
12. Moral dilemma
13. Group decision
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10 min.
15 min.
5 min. (7:35)
10 min.
20 min.
5 min.
5 min.
10 min.
Plan 2
The second session of a growth and support group for fourth- and fifth-graders who dont seem to make
friends easily. There is one new member this week.
5 min.
2 min.
3 min.
15 min.
3 min.
2 min.
Introduce new member to the grouphave members tell their names and what they
remember about last week. Leader comments about the group and its purpose. Also,
remind members when they talk to look at others instead of the leader.
Have members list things they can do to make friends.
Discuss lists in dyads.
List ideas on chalkboard.
Discuss the ideas.
Role-play some of the ideas.
Have each member practice.
Have each member tell one thing he or she will try this week.
Summarizeeach member completes One thing I learned....
NOTE: Good planning is essential for leading meaningful groups. The skilled leader always plans the
warm-up, realizing that the opening few minutes of any session is very important. The warm-up should
never be boring or too long. It is also important to plan for the closing phase of the session--it should not
end abruptly. The prepared leader also has a back-up plan in case what is planned does not work.
Plan 3
The third session of a six-week assertiveness-training group with eight members.
10 min.
15 min.
5 min.
15 min.
10 min.
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15 min.
5 min.
10 min.
5 min.
Plan 4
The third session of a weekly counseling group. The group has six members.
5 min.
5 min.
10 min.
20 min.
5 min.
5 min.
5 min.
Progress reportsask about Bobs mothers visit, Ruths exercise program, Tandys
contract to talk with two people each day.
Thoughts, comments, reactions to the week.
Review Elliss ABC modeluse examples from their week.
Personal workdo yes/no round of who wants to bring up something; if all nos, use
backup plan Introduce TA model if it did not come up during the personal work or
continue the personal work if others want to work.
Share (in triads) reactions to TA model.
Summarize -- what stood out? How will use REBT and TA?
Write in journals (Journals are left for the leader to read).
NOTE: Good planning is essential for leading meaningful groups. The skilled leader always plans the
warm-up, realizing that the opening few minutes of any session is very important. The warm-up should
never be boring or too long. It is also important to plan for the closing phase of the session--it should not
end abruptly. The prepared leader also has a back-up plan in case what is planned does not work.
Props
Shield
$10 bill
Filter
Cards
Cups
Tapes
Fuse
Rubber bands
Blocks
Plate
Chairs
Small child's chair
Empty chair
Three egostates
Movement
Sculpt how you feel about the group
Value or continuum lines
Feeling pulled
Evaluation of progress
Feedback lines
Parent's Chat
AA Support
Home Spot
Personal Space
Adjective checklist
Lists
REBT disputing
Egograms
Board of directors
Stroke economy
Enmeshment
Time lines
TA drawings
Fantasies
Animal you would like to be
Common object
Rosebush
Other Exercises
My wish for you
Most comfortable/least comfortable
Most like/most different
Affirmation exercise
Rounds
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ROUNDS
The value of rounds cannot be overstated. Of all the kinds of group exercises and
activities, the round is the most useful and versatile.
USES/PURPOSES
A. Get information quickly
B. Get the members focused
C. Get the members involved
KINDS
A. Designated Word or Designated Number Round
1. Here/Not here/Getting here
2. Yes/No (something to work on)
3. 1-10 rating (comfort level, like yourself, marriage, job)
B. Word or Phrase Round
1. On a topic or issue (the week, your life, marriage)
2. Reaction to an exercise, someones personal work, etc.
C. Comment Round
1. What has stood out to you?
2. How has the week been?
THINGS TO THINK ABOUT
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CUTTING OFF
In order to be effective as a group leader, you must be able to cut off group members.
Tell the members during the first session that you will, at times, have to cut off members.
You can say something like the following:
There will be times that I may interrupt a member and direct the discussion elsewhere. I will
do this for any number of reasons. I may interrupt in order to get more people in on a
discussion or to shift the focus to a different topic or to a different person. Please realize that I
am thinking about all of you and I want the experience to be valuable for everyone so that
may mean I will have to shift the focus at times. If you ever have any questions about why I
may have shifted the focus from you, please check with me.
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DRAWING OUT
Although members should not be forced to talk, group members usually feel more
comfortable when all members share. Also, if a member shares very little, other
members are uncomfortable and misunderstand the members quiet behavior. Usually the
quiet member is afraid to talk so using the various techniques listed below can be very
helpful.
1. Use written exercises such as sentence completions so that you can ask the member
to read his/her answer.
2. Use rounds (Quiet members will usually be willing to say one or two words during a
round.)
3. End the round on the person you want to draw out.
4. Use movement exercises as a way to draw out. People speak with their movements.
5. Use dyads and pair yourself with the quiet member in order to find out why the person
is being quiet.
6. Gently nudge the person to speak by calling on him or her but make sure the person
does not feel on the spot. Often I do this by calling on two people.
Joe, you havent said much (pause). Nor have you Amy. Do either of you want
to comment? (pauseif they seem uncomfortable, move on).
7. DO NOT SPOTLIGHT. An example of spotlighting would be:
Jane, what do you think?
If Jane is uncomfortable in the group, calling on her like this often will not
help. (In many instances this is an appropriate question to ask but asking this of a
very quiet member can cause that member to feel like she is under a spotlight.)
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