The Rejection Report
The Rejection Report
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99% Of PUA’s Fail Because
Consciously or Unconsciously
They Are Afraid Of Rejection….
And the answer the seduction community
has given to them?
Yeah…right.
This report tells the story of my search for the answer to this
question…my search for the ‘holy grail of seduction’…and
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reveals for the first time the shocking discoveries that I made
along my journey.
So lock your door, shut off the cell phone, and read every
word of this report, because the secrets you are about to
absorb have the power to change your game.
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Then afterward, I’d debrief them on what happened, break it
all down for them and then supervise as they went in for their
own sets.
The result?
To me..
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After weeks of thinking, it hit me…
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They Were All Scared Of Rejection
How could it be? I’d given them literally the best tools
available. My method at the time was a hybrid of the best
the seduction community had to offer, with a few twists of my
own, implemented to smooth out the problems that existed
in the material that had preceded me.
But the truth is, I had to go through quite a few girls to find the
ones that were really ready to come home with me.
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On an average night out, I’d work maybe 5 or 6 sets, really get in
with 3 of them, and then end up leaving with one of them. And for
me, this was more than satisfactory.
I was a guy who less than a year earlier couldn’t even say hi
to a girl.
And on top of that, as far as I knew, I was the best seducer around.
I was good friends with guys from a few other ‘training’ companies
out there, and from the looks of things, I had them beat by miles.
And I realized that, for the guys I was training, any method that
required them to go through 5 or 6 ‘blown’ sets just wasn’t going
to cut it.
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This is textbook “classical conditioning”.
And again, and before you know it you have a really bad
feeling about making the move when the time comes.
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My Quest For The Holy-Grail
Of Pickup…
I hit the field with a new sense of purpose. And a hunger that
I hadn’t had since my first months in the game.
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Create a deep emotional bond? I experimented with avoiding
it all costs.
Every rule there was in the game, I broke it. I had to see what
would happen, where it would lead me.
But every now and then there was a breakthrough. And when
that breakthrough came I would record it in my diary and
make sure I understood WHY it happened.
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The first set might not go the way I wanted, maybe the second
wouldn’t go that well either, but the third girl…she was mine.
I knew I was almost there and I decided that the only way to
keep pushing and developing the method to perfection was
to take my game to the high-class venues.
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establishments for “Coming in, taking all the girls and leaving…
without ever buying drinks” (I’ve since been unbanned with a
little smooth talking, but still!)
I’ve stolen girls from off the arms of BIG TIME celebrities here
in the UK.
I’ve slept with half the girls in one of the top strip clubs in all
of Europe.
Now, right up front, I’ll come out and say it: NO ONE GETS
100% of the girls they approach, that’s bullshit. And I don’t
claim to be perfect.
If you think this sounds too good to be true, I get it. I understand.
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Especially when you consider how many guys out there
say that you just have to take your lumps…that “pickup is a
numbers game.”
1.) I’ll turn much of what you thought you knew about game
on its head
2.) I’ll prove to you that you really can game in a way that is
really so close to “rejection-proof”, it’s scary…
So let’s begin…
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The Truth About Rejection
When you really think about it, rejection itself comes down to
a simple ‘yes’ or ‘no’
If you look at the way this works, the power is all in the woman’s
hands. She is the one making decisions about whether or not
things will go further, not you.
The fastest way to reverse the situation, and gain the power
to literally take things forward whenever you want, is to
eliminate your “decision dependency”.
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is to get rid of the root, or in other words - her decision in its
entirety.
But if you never make a play, you’ll never get anywhere, right?
Of course.
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“Perceptual Escalation Threshold”
This is the point at which she realizes on a conscious level
that you are escalating, and is forced to make a decision.
It’s like an alarm that goes off when she feels a certain gut-
level of pressure.
But, if you keep your game below the threshold, below her
“perceptual escalation threshold” she will not pick up on the
fact that you are escalating, and she will not object. It’s as
simple as that.
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It’s much like cooking a frog (I know, I know…terrible example..)
When chefs boil a frog for dinner, they do not crank up the
heat, and throw the little guy into the water. Why not? He’ll
jump out just as soon as he hits the water. Nor do they put
him in the water and quickly ratchet up the heat. He’ll just
jump out.
Instead, the way it’s done is that they ever so slowly turn the
dial up in a way where the frog has no idea the temperature
of water is changing. It’s below his perceptual threshold, and
he simply can’t perceive the change that is occurring.
Think about a normal day. You wake up and it’s bright out but
as the day goes on, it gets darker.
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That’s the power of change below the perceptual threshold.
Are you beginning to see what this can mean for your game?
And how if you can keep your advances below her perceptual
threshold, decision-dependency disappears because she is
never even aware that a decision needs to be made?
And the answer that question lies in the method that I’ve
developed. A method that I call…
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Stealth Attraction
It takes you from first glance all the way through the close,
leaving nothing to chance.
With Stealth Attraction, the 9’s and 10’s that used to turn their
backs to you before you even said ‘hi’, end up in your bed.
The situations that used to most difficult or most ‘scary’ are
now child’s play.
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Above, you can see the Stealth Attraction Model or the SAM.
I am currently working on a video I will soon be releasing that
walks you through it, in its entirety.
Again, the video should be ready for you in a few days, but
before you go through it, there are two more concepts you
should have a look at.
“If it talks like a duck, and it walks like a duck…it must be…a
duck”
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Uh….ok? First we’re talking about boiling frogs and now ducks?
Take any of the world’s top Pickup Artists, guys who have done
10,000+ approaches, and still these women have more reference
experiences when it comes to pickup.
And you know what this means? Women can smell a pickup attempt
from a mile away and most of them are NOT successful. So women
develop certain ‘patterns’ that they run to shut guys down.
They developed them years ago, but if you play the game like the
other guys that she’s shut down (and yes, a very high percentage
of pickup stuff out there falls into this category…) then she’s going
to recognize what you are doing as a “pickup pattern” and she is
going to run her “anti-pickup” pattern or “rejection pattern”.
Now, I’ve extensively studied NLP, so I throw the term pattern around
like everyone knows what it is.
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Basically, a pattern is a set of behaviours that happens
automatically, in response to a stimulus. So a woman has
this problem of guys she doesn’t want hitting on her, so she
develops a behavioural pattern for dealing it – and it works.
Then, the next guy tries to hit on her the same way, she runs
it again, and she is rewarded for it. Now she’s got a behaviour
pattern.
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And that category is “guy trying to pick me up”. And this puts
the ball in her court.
She now has the power. She now has a decision to make and
that decision is : “This guy clearly wants to sleep with me…do
I want to, or not?”
And if she doesn’t want to sleep with you at that point in time,
before she learns anything more about you, that’s the end.
And this is not where you want to be.
There are many ways. I will now present you with two.
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Run A Pattern COUNTER To
What She Expects
When a woman is expecting a certain response, behaviour
or action on your part, one that she knows 99% of guys will
run, you can increase arousal, and completely avoid forcing a
rejection decision, by running the opposite behaviour.
So you’re talking to a woman and she lets you know that she
is a nurse.
Aw….how nice.
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And when you feed her back the pattern that every lousy
guy who has tried to pick her up in the past has used, she
immediately labels you in her mind. Now sure, complimenting
a girl for being a nurse is NOT going to get you smacked.
In fact, you might be just fine at the end of the day. But it
dramatically raises the chances that you’re one step closer
to her excusing herself to “go to the bathroom”.
What to do instead?
Give her the opposite of what everyone else has given her.
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And her attraction for you has just spiked. Now, this style
of humor is part of the “conversation control” portion of the
Stealth Attraction Method and I’m going to be teaching you
how and why it works in the future.
But the important thing to take away from this example here
is the way in which she was expecting something and you
gave her something completely different.
Most guys get slotted into the ‘boring pickup attempt’ category.
This leads to the woman asking her in mind, “Am I going to
sleep with him or not?”
You on the other hand, have just shaken her up a little bit and
she’s now even more attracted. Her acceptance/rejection
decision making process is put at bay and you continue on
with the interaction
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Run A Pattern that Is Pleasurable
And/Or Familiar To Her
The principle here is that while there are countless negative
patterns she has associated with guys who have approached
her in the past, and if you repeat their behaviours, you get slotted
as one of them and her resistance goes through the roof…
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the same because at the end of the day you are “Stranger
Approaching Girl”.
And that first glance you give her, the first few footsteps –
you’re done.
What if you were able to feed her the “I know you” pattern,
the one that you would run if you were good friends with
her and you were seeing her for the first time in a while?
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she unconsciously begins to run the “I know this guy”
pattern back.
This bypasses her rejection pattern and gets you right into
the later stages of the interaction, in just the blink of an eye.
Truth be told, there are quite a few pieces to getting this
process to work smoothly, and it’s better demonstrated on
camera, but this should give you enough right here to start
thinking not only about how you can avoid running patterns
that elicit rejection responses and resistance, but also how
you can run alternative patterns that serve you by assigning
a role to you that is both pleasurable and familiar to her.
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were getting laid that night and which guys were going
home alone.
The more work you are doing, the higher the chance that
the girl you are gaming will leave or reject you.
On the other hand, when you keep your effort low, she is kept
in a state of limbo. She can’t quite figure out if you’re into her
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and in this situation, she cannot choose to either accept or
reject you, because no deal is on the ‘table’ so to speak...
And when you convey low value behaviors, she starts thinking
to herself “I don’t want to be around this guy..”
It’s that feeling of “ew, who is this person…get him away from me.”
Similar to how you might feel if a fat pimply girl with BO was
chatting you up in the club.
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When I first started seeing him around, I was blown away. He
would literally lay back in his seat, pay no attention the women
around him, and text all night on his cell phone. One by one
the women would approach him, try to get his attention, but
he’d usually be too busy or caught up in what he was doing.
Did this guy have other things going for him? YES. BUT his
attractiveness was AMPLIFIED by the low amount of effort he
was exerting.
The lower his perceived effort, the higher his perceived value.
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While the relationship between value and effort is incredibly
important, and just knowing this alone can improve your
game by leaps and bounds… what’s important to remember
is that Stealth Attraction works largely by flying low beneath
a woman’s “rejection radars”. When you are seen as trying,
she views herself as the object that you are seeing and when
this happens, she is forced to make a decision..
In this way, we convey that we are high value, but we are not
allowing her the chance to make a yes/no decision.
When you put large amounts of work in, when you display
large amounts of effort, your cards are on the table so to
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speak. Why else would you put the work in? And when she
sees the cards down on the table, it then becomes her choice
whether she wants to stay at the table and keep playing or
get up and walk away.
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You also understand how acting like “every other guy out there”
triggers the (yes/no) decision in her mind and you have a few working
examples that show you how to AVOID falling into this trap and how
you can even exploit her pattern recognition to create instant trust
and likability.
And don’t worry, if any of the concepts in this report seemed difficult
or complex, I promise you…it gets much, much simpler from here.
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Sure the principles are a little complex, but heck, that’s why
no one has figured this stuff out!
Until now...
The great part about the method itself, is that its largely
technique and tactic based, meaning “first do this, then do
that”. So when you’re in the field putting this stuff to use, it
will be very easy to do.
If you enjoyed this report, and I hope you did, please, leave a
comment for us on the blog. I’ve worked hard to develop this
method…it’s taken years…and I’d love to hear your thoughts.
If a friend has passed this report along to you and you’d like to
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That’s it for now. Take what you’ve learned from this report
and apply it in the field…and I’ll be in touch with more great
content for you soon
Cheers,
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