Feminist Pastoral Care
Feminist Pastoral Care
Feminist Pastoral Care
[The] challenge of gender issues to pastoral care does not simply involve the
inclusion of women into traditions and models of ministry which otherwise
remain unchanged. Instead, it is a programme for reconstituting the very
values and assumptions which underpin Christian practice."1
Elaine L. Graham.
I
Feminist theology's contribution to pastoral theology begins with its
contribution to theology generally. Feminist theology seeks to understand and
criticize male-dominated tradition and to challenge androcentric images of God
and humanity. It argues for equality and right understanding of women and
men to be sanctioned by contemporary theology and practice.2
Central to Christian understanding of humanity is that to be human is to be
created in the image and likeness of God - the imago Dei. If this is so, it follows
that our understanding of the nature of humankind and human experience will be
based on our beliefs concerning the nature of God. Therefore, feminist critique
of male-centred theological anthropology is intertwined with critique of
androcentric tradition concerning the nature of God. The question "Is God
male?" has a direct bearing on whether only male creatures can be those most
perfectly made in his image.3 From this follows questions about the gender
identity of those would minister as God's representatives.
Another important endeavour of feminist researchers is to recover
women's stories and positive female images that have been hidden. Discovery
of women's history subverts the androcentric paradigm.
In her writings4, Elisabeth Schüssler Fiorenza offers a liberationist
perspective on Biblical studies, refusing to relinquish the Bible to those who
maintain its patriarchal character as Christian. Fiorenza uses four
hermeneutical principles: (1) a hermeneutic of suspicion, that recognizes
1
Transforming practice: pastoral theology in an age of uncertainty / Elaine L. Graham. - London:
Mowbray, 1996, p.44.
2
A succinct summary of the feminist contribution to theology generally is provided by Anne Carr's
essay "The new vision of feminist theology," in Freeing theology: the essentials of theology in feminist
perspective / Catherine Mowry LaCugna, ed. - San Francisco: Harper, 1993, pp.5-29.
3
For an important example of writing on this topic, see She who is: the mystery of God in feminist
theological discourse / Elizabeth A Johnson. - New York: Crossroad, 1993.
4
Particularly In memory of her: a feminist theological reconstruction of Christian origins. - New York:
Crossroads, 1983.
2
II
In addition to the general perspective of feminist theology, it also
contributes specifically to pastoral theology and practice. Valerie DeMarinis
offers reasons why feminist theology and psychosocial theory provide a unique
5
See Carr, op.cit., p.18.
6
Farley, Margaret A. "Feminist theology and bioethics" in Feminist theology: a reader / edited by
Ann Loades. - Louisville: Westminster John Knox, 1990, pp.238-254, at p.240.
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resource for pastoral theology and psychology. First, feminist theology seeks
to investigate carefully the core of beliefs, symbols, assumptions, and
categories of meaning-making. Feminist thinking challenges us to recognize
the need for nurture, sustenance, growth and the development of the whole
person in the context of community. Secondly, DeMarinis argues, feminist
thinking offers access to the wisdom that comes by challenging existing
perceptions and disciplinary boundaries. Third, feminist theology and
psychosocial theory understand belief systems and their influence to be an
essential part of the way human life and relationships come to have meaning.
Within a feminist framework, both theology and psychology respect the need to
include religious belief and spirituality in our understanding of health and
healing. Fourthly, feminist theology incorporates a praxis methodology, which
demands that action and reflection work together. Theory is regarded as
prototype rather than archetype - it must be open to critical questioning and
change.7
DeManaris has developed a concept of " critical caring". Though as basic
as life itself, caring is not always health-producing. A critical approach
(careful judgement and crucial intervention) is required to ensure that caring
(appropriate concern) is also healing.8 One's worldview and one's
understanding, for example, of human nature and instincts will determine one's
approach to healing and pastoral care. "The critical question is: can a
hermeneutical foundation create a worldview that understands and nurtures the
relational and religious instincts?"9 DeMarinis argues that a feminist
hermeneutic can create such a worldview. Some worldviews, on the other
hand, do not recognize or nurture human growth and instincts, but rather work
against them.
Critical caring understands human beings as persons whose health, hope, and
happiness are based on attention to the relational and religious instincts.
Recognition and nurturing of these instincts brings liberation from oppression
both within the human being and among persons. Life's vision is one of
liberation from oppression.10
7
DeMarinis, Valerie M. - Critical caring: a feminist model for pastoral psychology. - Louisville:
Westminster John Knox Pr, 1993, p.18.
8
Ibid., p.17.
9
Ibid., p.34.
10
Ibid., p.35.
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III
Hierarchical imposition of moral authority and norms is inappropriate in
the postmodern era. The twentieth-century tradition of non-directive
counseling aims more towards achievement of personal ethical sensibility and
autonomy than conformity to external moral codes. As a result, "contemporary
pastoral care finds itself with an impoverished vocabulary of moral
discernment - in relation to the individual and the collective."13
The response of feminists (and others) to moral and ethical uncertainty
has been twofold. The first response has been to focus on the social and
political dimensions of care. A personalized approach to care obscures the
extent to which social and economic factors impede our growth to full
personhood. A liberationist perspective brings the impoverishment and
11
Graham, Elaine L. - Transforming practice: pastoral theology in an age of uncertainty. - London:
Mowbray, 1996, p.47.
12
Ibid., p.48
13
Ibid., p.50.
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14
Ibid., p.51, 136.
15
See Gleason, John J. - "The impact of feminism on Clinical Pastoral Education" Journal of pastoral
care 52(1):3-5, Spring, 1998.
16
Slattery, Maureen - "Women and the new spiritual consciousness" Pastoral sciences 17:121-144,
1998, at p.141 (my emphasis).
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authentic practice - the values of liberation - are both the sources and the objects
of pastoral practice.17
Identity and knowledge as grounded in practice, Graham argues, bring into
focus methods that are self-reflecting, yet still maintain ethical and political
integrity - despite the absence of transcendent truth-claims.18 Critical self-
understanding and practical wisdom are formed within a network of
relationships, values and practices from which meaning is constructed and
acted on.19
In Transforming practice, Graham draws on an analysis of feminist
pastoral practices - in liturgy, spiritual direction, and preaching - to set out a
"critical theory of pastoral practice".20 Graham notes the benefits of women's
stories being told by these means21. There is healing, reconciliation and
empowerment. The naming of women's needs and experiences reveals the
distortions and universalized prescriptions of androcentric practice. The
rendition of women's experiences places them into their social and political
context.
This emphasis on women's experience, Graham says, "may be understood
as a plea for all theological discourse to recognize itself as situated, or as
theologians more usually term it, contextual."22 The contribution of feminist
theology has been to exemplify liberating practices and ways of thinking which
benefit pastoral theology and practice in its ministry with all oppressed peoples.
IV
Ironically, postmodernism, by focusing on the social location of theory
and acknowledging the plurality of human existence, has limited us to local
systems of belief and values. Yet many feminists would claim a status of
politics and advocacy for feminist thought and would seek a set of agreed
principles so that ministry praxis can be developed. Christie Neuger,
introducing a collection of case studies, suggests three approaches to this
dilemma:
17
Graham, op.cit., p.139.
18
Ibid., p.156.
19
Ibid., p.159.
20
Ibid., p.171.
21
Ibid., pp.193ff.
22
Ibid., p. 194 (original emphasis).
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(1) claim the particularity of both theory and the situation where it is
applied;
(2) acknowledge that a theory is built of some generalizations and note
the need for contextualization;
(3) work at the meta-theory level - creating ways to guide the
development of a theory of practice that takes seriously the diversity
of people and the importance of particularity in pastoral work.23
Though there may be difficulties in constructing a generalized ethic,
feminist Christians have made strong and effective contributions to ethical
reform in issues of pastoral concern. In discussing sexual ethics, for example,
feminist writer Lisa Cahill moves away from narrowly defined, act-centred,
definitions of morality and emphasizes the positive function in community
building served by biblical teachings on sex.24 Feminists also draw attention to
sins easily hidden by an acceptance of the heterosexual, marital and procreative
norms.
Consider, for example, domestic violence; sexual abuse; marital rape;
callousness of men to the daily burdens of their wives; wives' and mothers'
emotional manipulation of husbands and children; sexual objectification or
coercion by men or women; neglect and abuse of children; narcissism of family
members in their relations to one another; narcissism of families in relation to
those outside their family, church, or community; consumerism; drugs and
alcoholism; sloth toward the commitment it takes to sustain a marriage and be
responsible parents; and the irresponsible divorce.25
Not all feminists have abandoned the search for a common ethic. A paper
by Linda Hogan,26 for example, examines other authors' ideas for a non-
relativist ethic and posits the legitimacy of a common morality. Suggested
sources for such an ethic are (1) shared human nature, (2) non-relative virtues,
and (3) abstract principles. But such attempts at a foundation for ethics
encounter the essential feminist / post-structuralist critique that all such
developments of ethical norms are but constructs of power and language.
23
Arts of ministry: feminist-womanist approaches / Christie Cozad Neuger, ed. - Louisville:
Westminster John Knox Pr, 1996, pp.4-5.
24
Cahill, Lisa Sowle. - "Sexual ethics: a feminist Biblical perspective", Interpretation 49(1):5-16,
January, 1995.
25
Ibid., p.14.
26
Hogan, Linda - "Boundaries and knowledge: feminist ethics in search of sure foundations", in
Bodies, lives, voices: gender in theology / edited by Kathleen O'Grady, Ann L. Gilroy and Janette Gray.
- Sheffield: Academic Pr., 1998, pp. 24-39.
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27
See Cady, Elizabeth Linell. - "Identity, feminist theory, and theology" in Horizons in feminist
theology: identity, tradition and norms / edited by Rebecca Chopp and Sheila Greeve Davaney. -
Minneapolis: Fortress, 1997, pp.17-32.
28
Coakley, op.cit., p.82.
29
Thornham, Sue. - "Postmodernism and feminism (or: repairing our own cars)" in The Icon critical
dictionary of Postmodern thought. - Duxford: Icon, 1998, pp.41-52, at pp.43-4.
30
Chopp, Rebecca S. - "Theorizing feminist theology" in Horizons in feminist theology: identity,
tradition and norms / edited by Rebecca Chopp and Sheila Greeve Davaney. - Minneapolis: Fortress,
1997, pp.215-231, at p.219.
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Among the foci for debate in theory on the nature of the human subject, Chopp
observes, is the question of the very usefulness of gender as a category for
theory. Gender is a useful category in some cases and problematic in others.
"How do we then employ the category to make sense of present structures of
power and, at the same time, deconstruct the category so as to transform the
way present structures require gender construction and regulation of gender?"31
The feminist claim to the imago Dei risks becoming an assertion that
humankind is divided into two equal genders, male and female. This does not
seem particularly startling, but has been seen by some32 as deployment of a
hegemonic heterosexual binary. Thus Fulkerson finds that feminist
theologians, when developing an understanding of the imago Dei, must
continually ask who is being excluded.33
This epitomizes the contribution made by feminists to pastoral studies.
We ask, "who is being excluded?" and insist that all humankind must be
included when we ponder who God has made us to be and who God desires
that we become.
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