Middle Childhood and Adolescent Development
Middle Childhood and Adolescent Development
Middle Childhood and Adolescent Development
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Rachel A. Ozretich, Extension parent education coordinator; and Sally R. Bowman, Extension family development specialist; Oregon State University.
Individual variation between some children who are still focused on logic and others who are able to combine logical and abstract thinking. Some early adolescents can't think ahead to consequences of their actions. Developing new thinking skills, such as thinking more about possibilities, thinking more abstractly, thinking more about the process of thinking itself, thinking in multiple dimensions, and seeing things as relative rather than absolute. Practicing new thinking skills through humor and by arguing with parents and others. Use of humor focused on satire, sarcasm, and sex (often irritating to adults).
Major broadening of thinking abilities for many youth; are better able to think abstractly, follow a "what if line of thought. and apply lessons learned in one situation to a different situation; tend to think a lot about the future. considering many possibilities and logical outcomes of possible events. Greater perspective-taking abihty can result in increased empathy and concern for others, and new interest in societal issues for many.
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Middle Childhood (ages 8-11) Predominantly egocentric in thinking, although has developed a conscience. Moves from thinking in terms of "What's in it for me" fairness (e.g., if you did this for me, I would do that for you), to wanting to gain social approval and live up to the expectations of people close to them"golden rule" morality (can take perspective of others, may place needs of others over own self-interest). Moral thinking abilities not always reflected in children's behaviors. Influenced by relationships with family members, teachers, and increasingly by peers. Often relatively low level of concern about physical appearance (especially lys), although this is luenced by peers as well the media. any boys experience pressure to conform to "masculine" stereotype. Girls' body image declines sharply with puberty, especially with early onset. Early onset of puberty is also associated with lower self-control and emotional stability, especially for boys.
Continuing egocentrism. Less egocentric with age. Often believes self to be Increased emphasis on invulnerable to negative abstract values and moral events. principles. Increasing ability to take Increased ability (for some) perspective of others into to take another's account with own perspective. perspective fully; can see In addition to concern about the bigger societal picture gaining social approval, and might value moral morals begin to be based on principles over laws: respect for the social order and "principled" morality. agreements between people: Different rates of cognitive "law and order" morality. and emotional Begins to question social development. For example, conventions and re-examine often advocates for specific own values and moral/ethical values and violates them at principles, sometimes resulting the same time. in conflicts with parents. Self-image can be challenged Process of identity by body changes during formation is intense. Experimentation with puberty and social comparisons. different roles: looks, Youth begin long-term process sexuality, values, of establishing own identity friendships, ethnicity, and separate from family. especially occupations. With the onset of puberty, Some girls might experience many girls experience pressure obsessive dieting or eating to conform to gender disorders, especially those stereotypes, might show less who have higher body fat, interest in math and science. are chronically depressed, With puberty, normal or who have highly increases in girls' body, fat conflicted family can impact body image and relationships. self-concept negatively for Minority youths might many. Both boys and girls explore several patterns of might be concerned with skin identity formation: problems, height, weight, and a strong ethnic identity overall appearance. bi-cultural identity inclusion into the majority culture alienation from the majority culture Intense self-focus. For some, increased ability Worrying about what others to empathize with others; think about them. greater vulnerability to Increased desire for privacy worrying, depression, and and sensitivity about body. concern for others, Frequent mood swings with especially among girls. changes in activities and Many show an increase in contexts. Too much time responsible behaviors. spent alone can contribute to moodiness. Height of forgetfulness.
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Need to develop a sense of mastery and accomplishment. Frequent interest in ^making plans and chieving goals. Learning from parents and others to do, make, and fix things. Tendency to be disorganized and forgetful.
Early Adolescence (ages 11-14) Changes in own and parental expectations alter previous patterns of relationships with parents, often resulting in greater conflict. Greater focus on peer friendships as youth develops an identity outside of the role of a child in a family. Often rebuffs physical affection (but still needs it). Increased interest in making own decisions; benefits from increased opportunities to make own decisions within scope of current abilities. Youth objects more often to parental limitations (but still needs some), resulting in conflict. New thinking abilities are practiced in increased use of humor and arguments (or "talking back") with parents/other adults, which may result in conflicts. Parental listening skills and nurturing continue to be important.
Middle Adolescence (ages 15-18) Conflict with parents often decreases with age. Improved ability to see parents as individuals and take their perspectives into account. Most maintain good relationship with parents. Greater interest in taking on "adult-type" responsibilities (own checking account, doing own laundry, buying own clothes, cooking meals, making repairs, etc.). Commonly makes most of own decisions, preparing for eventual separation from family. Needs balance between time spent with adults and with peers. Continues to benefit from some parental limits and monitoring, while often objecting to them. Common conflicts over money, curfews, chores, appearance, and activities with peers. Peers help youth explore and develop own identity. Cross-gender friendships become more common. Antisocial peer groups can increase antisocial behaviors. Close friendships help youth with process of developing an individual identity separate from that of a child in a family.
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Changes due to puberty and peer reactions commonly alter peer relationships. Friendships still begin with perceived commonalities, but increasingly involve sharing of values and personal confidences. Might develop cliques of three to six friends (usually same gender), providing greater sense of security. Antisocial cliques can increase antisocial behaviors. Romantic crushes common. and some dating begins.
Resources
Ames, L.B., F.L. Ilg, and S.M. Baker. 1988. Your Ten- to Fourteen-year-old. New York: Delacorte Press. Brooks, J.B. 1999. The Process of Parenting. Mountain View, CA: Mayfield Publishing Company. Cole, M. and S.R. Cole. 1996. The Development of Children. New York: W.H. Freeman and Company. Steinberg, L. 1993. Adolescence. New York: McGraw-Hill, Inc.
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