Advanced Language Patterns Mastery For NLP
Advanced Language Patterns Mastery For NLP
Advanced Language
Patterns
Mastery
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Larry McLauchlin
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ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
I express my admiration and thanks to Richard Bandler, John Grinder, Leslie Cameron-Bandler
and all the other members of the original research team whose thinking, wisdom, and research
lead to Neuro-Linguistic Programming.
I especially thank Richard Bandler whose genius continues to develop new and effective concepts,
techniques, patterns, and distinctions that have made NLP even more powerful.
I also want to give credit and recognition to the many other NLP trainers and authors whose work
has influenced my life and the way that I have integrated and interpreted the material that appears
in this workshop manual. I have drawn from the work and ideas expressed by Steve and Connirae
Andreas, Robert Dilts, Tad James, Walt Woodsmall, the late Milton H. Erickson M.D., Donald
Moine, John Herd, Kenneth Lloyd and Kendrick Cleveland.
I owe special appreciation to Gordon Sherley, The Sherlco Corporation, who has provided me with
what I strongly believe to be one of the best Practitioner and Master Practitioners training available
today.
I also want to thank the many Solution Focus and Brief Therapy authors from whom I have learned
a so much. They include: Bill O'Hanlon, James Wilk, Steve de Shazer, Insoo Kim Berg, Paul
Watzlawick, Steven Gilligan, John Weakland, John Walter and Jane Peller.
I wish also to thank the participants of my workshops for their feedback on and refinement of this
workshop material.
Last but not least, I thank my wife, Joan, for her support and encouragement while I assembled
this workshop material and my son, Robb, for his many hours of proofreading, which greatly
improved this manual.
Table of Contents
Introduction
Intonation Patterns
Past, Present and Future Verb Tenses
Presuppositions
Presuppositions (Automatically, Actuality)
Presuppositions (Permanence)
Presuppositions (Temporary)
Presuppositions (Remembering, Forgetting)
The Structure of Magic Presuppositions
Speaking of Presuppositions
Submodalities
Language that Affects Submodalities - Space
Language that Affects Submodalities - Time
Language that Affects Submodalities - Other
Levels of Abstraction
Logical Levels of Systems
The Milton Model and Other Hypnotic Language
Sleight of Mouth
Reframing "Meaning and Context"
Chaining Modal Operators
Cartesian Logic
Negative Suggestions
Inductive Language Patterns
Stack Representations of What is Wanted
Elicitation of Universal Experiences
Time Released Suggestions
Semantically Charged Words
Using Quotes as an "Expert"
Stop
Use Future Pacing Statements
Language and Creating A Desired Direction
Miscellaneous Patterns
Some Powerful Suggestions for Writing and Brochures
Examples of Embedded Commands in Brochures
The Meta Model
Concluding Remarks
Bibliography
About the Author
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Intonation Patterns
Language patterns are made more effective through the use of total communication: both verbal
and nonverbal. Studies show that communication is made up of 7% word content, 38% voice
intonation (tone, tempo, speed, and timbre) and 55% physiological gestures. Therefore, the proper
use of language patterns requires not only that the word syntax be perfect but that the language
patterns be spoken with the appropriate nonverbal gestures and analog marking (marking some of
the words in the communication by tonal shifts, tempo shift, body shifts, small gestures, spatial
location, etc.).
The following diagram shows the intonation patterns of a question, statement, and command.
Word = question
Word -------- Word
Word -------- Word
Word = statement
EXERCISE:
Practice making each of these statements a question, a statement, and a command through the
use of intonation patterns.
You have already begun to make changes, haven't you? Once you've set some goals, progress will
be much faster, won't it? You have learned a lot about yourself here, haven't you? It's worth
whatever trouble that it takes, isn't it? You all agree, don't you? Some people say this is the
greatest seminar they have taken, don't they? Language patterns are very powerful, don't you
agree?
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Verb tense can be used for putting a present problem into the past by using the past tense
and a tag question.
"That has been a problem, hasn't it?"
"That was something you did, wasn't it?"
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Verb tense can be used for putting a present problem into the completed past by starting a
sentence with a present tense and moving to a past tense with a tag question.
"That is a problem, wasn't it?"
"You want to solve this problem, didn't you?"
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Verb tense can be used to reorient a new behavior into the future, transform it into the
present, and then look back on the problem behavior, or look back at yourself having made
the change.
"What would it be like when you have made those changes now, in the future, as you look
back and see what it was like to have had that problem.... as you think about that now?" (R. Bandler)
4.
Use verb tenses to put problems in the past and to bring forward resources from the past,
present or future.
"So, up until now, you have lost your temper and now you know that you can control it and
will do just that, if some little thing bothers you in the future, isn't that right."
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1. I talked to Richard
2. I talk to Richard
Present Participle
4. I was talking to Richard
5. I am talking to Richard
Past Perfect
Future Perfect
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Exercises:
1. In groups of 3 experiment with using verb tenses to shift limitations into the past.
2.
Write out statements which presuppose that a common limitation you hear often is now in the
past.
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In groups of 3 experiment with how verb tense forms affect experience, and notice the
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4.
In groups of 3 experiment with putting the limitation in the past and resources in the present
and/or future.
A states a limitation.
"I procrastinate when I'm at work."
B "reflects back" the limitation putting it into the past,
"So, you have been procrastinating at work."
B asks for an outcome.
"How do you want to respond at work?"
A responds
"I would like to feel energetic."
B places the outcome into the present or future.
"So, you will be feeling energetic at work when you have what you want now"
C acts as a meta-person (observer) and helps A and B carry out their roles.
(Note: Check ecology before leaving the outcome in the future)
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In groups of 3:
A states a limitation and a resource.
Loosing temper, want to be more in control
B chooses from the matrix below where the limitation and where the resource are
located (past, present or future) and when the resource will be used (present or future).
For example: Using the limitations in the past, the resource in the present, and
applying the resource into the future; as show above.
PAST
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Presuppositions:
'We agree (with Milton Erickson) and believe furthermore that the creative and
mindful use of language is perhaps the most single influential indirect method for
creating contexts in which change is perceived to be inevitable." - William Hudson O'Hanlon
& Michele Weiner Davis in "in Search of Solutions"
Presuppositions are the linguistic equivalent of what most people call assumptions. They are what
must already be assumed to be true for the statement being made to be true or make sense.
Presuppositions are what must be assumed rather than what is directly stated.
Whenever we are communicating we use presuppositions that assume something is already true;
every sentence we speak in our everyday life has presuppositions in it. In the majority of cases we
tend not to consciously recognize what we have presupposed, and concentrate on what is directly
stated. Thus, the presuppositions are unconsciously accepted as being true and the listener will act
as if they were true. Sometimes we presuppose what we want but a large part of the time we
presuppose what we do not want. We can greatly increase the results we get by consciously
presupposing what we want and avoiding presupposing what we do not want.
For example, we can presuppose that changes can be made quickly and automatically or that
changes will be slow and painful. In NLP we always prefer to presuppose the former change
process.
The following words and phrases presuppose that something happens automatically or
unconsciously:
automatically
continuously
spontaneously
even without thinking
second nature
steadily
instinctively
almost magically
constantly
involuntarily
unconsciously
real, really
true, truly
obviously
fact, factual
certified
factual
proven
authentic
unquestionable
verified
valid
clearly
sure thing
substantiated
certainly
undeniably
positively
definite
irrefutable
After taking this language patterns workshop, you may not notice, at first, how automatically
you begin to use these patterns.
Many people who have taken this seminar believe that these proven techniques have made
a pervasive change in their lives.
EXERCISE:
(a) Write 3 sentences that presuppose something desired as happening automatically,
consistently, etc.
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enduring
staying
persistent
long term
forever
everlasting
endless
constant
perpetual
always
indestructible
never ceases
continuing
stable
long lasting
extended
day after day
eternal
never ending
ceaseless
in perpetuity
secure
staying power
keeps on
The above language presupposes permanence. When talking to someone you may wish to
presuppose something as being permanent.
Examples of using the language of permanence:
When you stop and think about the changes that you have made, you'll realize how these lasting
changes will dramatically make your life different and in many ways better than before.
Now that you have realized that you have always had access to these resources, you just had not
yet made the connection to how these resources could be used in many situations. You can now
begin to discover day by day all the other resources that you already have.
Exercise:
Choose 5 or 6 of the above words that presuppose permanence and write out statements that you
will find useful in your area of interest.
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transient
brief
in an instant
vanish like a dream
melt like snow
fading
short lived
suddenly gone
in two shakes
in an instant
in short order
vanishes
put in place of
change one's mind
final
changeable
no time for
fade away
burst like a bubble
temporal
terminate
for a short time
abruptly gone
momentarily
in no time
like a shot
evaporates
make way for
halt
stop
Exercise:
Choose 5 or 6 of the above words that presuppose something being temporary and
write out statements that you will find useful in your area of interest.
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FORGET
dismiss
put out of mind
think nothing of
think no more of
forget about it
let it go
don't give a second thought to
turn away from
turn your attention from
put/set/lay aside
forget to remember
unable to recollect
unable to recall
lose sight of
erase from memory
slip one's mind
drop from your thoughts
Exercise:
Choose 5 or 6 of the above words which presuppose something being remembered and write out
statements that you will find useful in your area of interest.
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Exercise:
Choose 5 or 6 of the above words which presuppose something being forgotten and write out
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1. Some Quantifiers
(ALL, EACH, EVERY, SOME, FEW, MANY, NONE) Each of us has talent that others don't have
and each of us could learn from one another, don't you agree.
a)
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There are a few people who have really improved their organization once they discovered
that they could create future possibilities through language distinctions.
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Sometimes I think about the great organizations that have already learned to create the
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3. Relative Clauses
(Complex noun arguments, statements that have a noun followed by a phrase beginning with
WHO, WHICH, or THAT) I've noticed that teams who use the meeting framework achieve more
because they know what results they will have at the end of the meeting.
a)
I have noticed people and companies who consciously use language to create new
distinctions and new meanings begin to create a new future for themselves, have you noticed that
also?
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Cleft Sentences
(Sentences starting with IT IS or IT WAS) It is probably your intelligence that enables you to learn
quickly.
a)
It is energizing to see how as we sit and dialogue about "Paradigms" how we actually begin
to open up a whole new world of possibilities we never had before.
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7. Stressed Sentences
(Voice stress) I am especially interested in the OUTSTANDING results that NLP has gotten.
a) It is FANTASTIC how we can use our language to create "reality".
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8. Complex Adjectives
(NEW, OLD, FORMER, PRESENT, PREVIOUS) Are you happy with you present language pattern
level?
a)
Once we have created new distinctions, we can never return to the old way of thinking about
our future.
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9. Ordinal Numerals
(FIRST, SECOND, THIRD, FOURTH, ANOTHER, NEXT)
The tenth belief I changed was about .......
a)
I'm not sure whether we had consciously created another distinction before "Paradigms"
which also had changed our reality.
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10. Comparative
(ER, MORE, LESS) Do you know anyone who learns even faster than you do?
a)
The more we use language to create new possibilities for the future, the more changes we
can make that will actually move us toward our goal.
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(AS..AS)
What else gets as many results as NLP does?
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I don't know if anything else can make as dramatic -changes as the use of language to
create our own future.
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Again and again I have seen people and organizations create linguistic distinctions which
totally changed their future.
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We can repeatedly improve what we are and where we are by speaking about new
possibilities.
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14. Quantifiers
(ONLY, EVEN, EXCEPT, JUST) It's not just about smoking, is it?
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It is not just about dialogue; its about developing common language and now language
that opens up new possibilities.
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22. Questions What are the stacks and stacks of results that NLP has gotten?
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How does knowing that we create our own reality through our language make
you feel that you are more in control of your life?
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I saw her in town. (A female exists)
a) It would be great if she could create rapport as well.
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I like the way he makes such clear distinctions between opinions, options and objectives.
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Exercise:
1) In groups of 3 practice the use of the 29 Structure of Magic Presuppositions.
A chooses a theme that they would like to have for themselves or persuade others is
the case.
B and C each presuppose this is the case using any of the 29 presuppositions - one at
a time.
A, B and C switch positions.
Example themes: My communication program gets results.
I can learn to speak in public very easily.
I have the resources I need to solve this problem.
2) The use of presupposition is extremely powerful and the more that you practice their use the
more success you will have in using them. Pick any other important themes from one or more
areas in your life and create presuppositions using any of the twenty-nine presuppositions that will
be useful in achieving what you and others want.
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The above 29 sentences are actually examples of using the 29 Structure of Magic Presuppositions
and demonstrate how they can be used in describing what you are writing or talking about.
Sentence one is an example of presupposition one; sentence two of presupposition two and so on
until all presuppositions have been included in the order they appear in the preceding pages. Think
of the power you will have when you repeatedly use them in any order and in any combination.
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Submodalities
We take external information in through our five senses. In NLP this is referred to as
representation systems or modalities; visual (see), auditory (hear), kinesthetic (feel),
olfactory (smell), and gustatory (taste). Later, Richard Bandler discovered that the meaning
of a subjective experience was directly related to submodalities. Submodalities are the
different components of modalities or representation systems. For example, in the visual
modality the component elements include: whether the picture is black and white or color,
how close the image is, the brightness, the location of the picture, the size, the contrast,
the focus etc.. See the bibliography for books containing a more complete explanation of
submodalities and how they are used to change subjective experience.
The principle is that if a person varies some of the submodalities, their experience will also
change. For example, a generalization for most people is that as the person makes the
visual image closer and brighter, the intensity of the feeling about the imagined situation
increases. Changing some submodalities, called drivers, will make major changes in
experience. Changing other submodalities will have very little or no effect. Which
submodalities make major changes and which do not varies with each individual.
Therefore, each individual must be "calibrated" to find the driving submodalities.
The next section of the workshop, provides language that may be used and "calibrated" to
determine what changes are created in another's (or your own) subjective experience.
The following language shifts the submodalities of space:
aside, from, of
back, to, of
become panoramic
behind, all
below, all, that
beside
between
beyond
bigger
blow over
bottom
bring together
clear, of, out
close down
closer
come up to
compress
condense
continue forward
cramp
disappear, from, to
dissolve
distance
double, up
down, to
draw in
drop
duplicate
dwindle
expand your horizons
extend
fade away
fall off
flicker, off, out
from above
from behind
from beneath
from between
front
get clear
go back
go behind
go by
go over top of
gone by
half, halfway
halt
horizontal
identical
immense
in place of
increase
indistinguishable
inside, that, of
instead of
into
keep abreast
keep away
keep going forward
keep off
leave it and go on
lessen
let everything drop
lookout over
make absent
middle
missing
move forward
move right ahead
on to
open up
opposite, to, of
out of reach
out of the way
out, of, to
outside of
overlap
overcome
overhead
overlay
past
peak
pick up
pop up
putting aside
rear
reduce, in size, the size
remote
repeat, that
replace, that
run over
set at rest
shrink it down
shrivel it up
side by side
smaller
somewhere to the side
split
spread out
stop
stretch
terminal point
terminate
too big
turn inside out
turn into
What if you could sense that along side of every problem is a solution, in fact, many
solutions, wouldn't that be all right?
Amidst all your problems are the solutions you require to solve them, now.
Among all the solutions to your problem, which do you think will work best, now?
Apart from that one objection, what is it about the product that you like?
As you see yourself doing that now, you may begin to see your friends all around you,
ready to help you, now, achieve what you want.
Putting that aside for a while and noticing how you can replace it with something so much
better, doesn't that feel good?
Are you able to sense what is back of all that now?
Exercise:
In groups of 3 develop sentences that use words/presuppositions to shift submodalities of
space. Develop your presuppositions in response to common limitations and/or responses
that occur in your everyday concerns.
Alternative Exercise:
Using some or all of the above words and phrases, experiment to determine which of the
words have the most effect on changing your subjective experience.
Example: Think of something that is mildly unpleasant. While you think of that, notice your
experience as you set that aside and think of something pleasant. Now repeat this with the
other words and phrases.
Exercise:
In the space below write out some presuppositions that affect submodalities of space for
an important theme in your life.
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from now on
halt
here, now
here today gone tomorrow
in due time
in the future
in the meantime
in the past
instantaneously
keep time
last, lately
latter end
like new
live through
long awaited
look ahead,
look back
make time fly
mark time
meanwhile
moment by moment
near future
never
never-ending
newness
next time
sequel
sequence
short term
since
soon
span
speed up
stand still
still
stop
successive
suddenly
terminate
the day that
the entire time
the hour that
the month that
the time that
then
thereafter
time out
time up
until
wait
want to
when,
no sooner than
not now
now
often
over and done with
pass away
past
periodic
perpetually
peter out
progressive
prolong
quickly
reoccurrence
repeating
restart
round the clock
run its course
where
while
would be
yet
Exercise:
In groups of 3 develop sentences that use words/presuppositions to shift submodalities of
time. Develop your presuppositions in response to common limitations and/or responses
that occur in your everyday concerns.
Alternative Exercise:
Using some or all of the above words and phrases, experiment to determine which of the
words have the most effect on changing yours and others subjective experience.
Example: Think of something that is mildly unpleasant. "You may notice how abruptly your
thinking about this changes to something that has happened which is much more
pleasant."
The speed at which you run that movie backwards accelerates each time you do it, so as
you do that 5 or 6 times; notice how that happens automatically.
Exercise:
In the space below write out some presuppositions that affect submodalities of time for an
important theme in your life.
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canceled
clear up
close
close at hand
close down
concave, convex
crack
crowning
don't be confused
double, duplicate
drop
give weight to
go by
gradual
grinding to a halt
hang-up
hear yourself say
identical
immense
in the same breath
increase the tempo
just around the corner
keep in mind
keep in the back of your
mind
lapse
last but one
leave it and go on
lies ahead
limitless
lingering
look forward
look over, lookout
lump everything
together
make an exception
make it equal
make it the same
make no distinction
multiply
never ending
next on the list
now or never
outlook
overlook
pass by
pick out
play back
play out
quicker
release
remain
repetition
replay
restart
return to
revert to
review
roll into one
same for everyone
see it out
see no difference
see the difference
see yourself
select
set at rest
settled
single
slip away
slow down
slower
sort out
sort what's important
from what's not
sounds the same
speed up
spinning
split
standing still
switch off
take a turn for the
the last word
tie you in knots
too coarse
touch and go
turn a blind eye to
turn into, turn up
twinkle
two faced
two-fold
ultimate
un-measurable
indistinguishable
vagueness
vanish
verge
wind-up
without limit
above and beyond
working through
at once
Exercise:
Following the previous exercises given for using words and phrases that affect space and
time, experiment with the above words and notice their effect on subjective experience.
In the space below write out some presuppositions that affect submodalities for an
important theme in your life using the above words and phrases.
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LEVELS OF ABSTRACTION
Much of people's miscommunication is a result of individuals communicating at different
levels of abstraction. Some people think in terms of the "big picture" or very abstract ideas
and thoughts while others prefer to think in "concrete terms" and pay attention to details
and specifics.
Being able to recognize the level of abstraction where others are talking and being able to
match or pace that level of abstraction will result in improved communication. After
reaching agreement on that level of abstraction, mutual outcomes can then be achieved by
leading the conversation laterally, to the more concrete or by staying at the present level.
Communication may continue to move quickly from the abstract to the concrete or from the
concrete to the abstract. However, recognizing and utilizing the level of abstraction on
which the conversation is taking place will greatly improve communication. The Milton
Model or hypnotic language, which is addressed in this workshop, moves the conversation
towards the abstract. The Meta Model, also covered in this workshop, moves the
conversation towards the more specific or concrete.
One way to use the levels of abstraction is to move to the more abstract to obtain
agreement among parties and then gradually move down to more specifics once
agreement has been reached. Some people actually will not require that more concrete
details be provided because they are comfortable with the ambiguity. Other people will
require great detail. Therefore, reach agreement on the larger abstract idea and then
provide only the details required.
In NLP we change levels of abstraction by chunking up, chunking down or chunking
laterally.
The following diagram is an example of how to use chunking up, chunking down, or
moving laterally.
EXERCISE:
This exercise provides practice recognizing and changing levels of abstraction. The
exercise is completed in groups of 3 (A, B & C). Alternately the exercise can be practiced
individually.
A - thinks of or points to an object (noun) such as "tree"
C - points up "Chunk Up", points down "Chunk Down", or points laterally "Chunk Laterally"
B - responds by giving an example of the appropriate level of abstraction.
For Example:
Levels of Abstraction
BIG PICTURE THINKING OR ABSTRACT THINKING
ABSTRACTION CONTROLS THE SPECIFIC
AMBIGUOUS INCLUDES THE SPECIFIC
OVERWHELM MEANS TAKING TOO BIG OF CHUNKS
INTUITION
What is this an example of?
Why?
For what purpose ... ?
EXISTENCE
MOVEMENT
TRANSPORTATION
TRAINS
AIRPLANE
Classes and Categories
CARS
BOATS
BUSES
Parts
JAGUAR
HONDA
WHEELS
ACCORD
PRELUDE
HUB CAPS
LX
EI
LUG NUTS
SEDAN
2 DOOR
THREADS
BODY
Language
Question
Universal System or
Spiritual
"Oneness"
Who Else?
Identity
I am
Who?
Values
Beliefs
Principles
I believe and
value and
will act upon"
Why?
Capabilities
"I can
How?
Behaviors
I do
What?
Environment
"My world"
Where?
When?
The following is an example of how the logical levels of systems can be used in the context
of work.
First ask - 'What is the context I am considering?" The context here of course is work.
Ask: "In your work what is the environment that you would like to have that would
empower you to obtain your work goals?"
When a person responds they will use language that reflects the level of environment. It
will include words like: lighting, computers, fax, telephone, furniture, access to what
information, access to what resources." 1
Credit has been given to Gregory Bateson for developing the logical levels of systems. In NLP, Robert Dilts has been
the number one proponent and developer for the use of "Neurological Levels". See the Bibliography for books by
Robert Dilts.1
Ask: "What is the behavior that you will be physically doing or what actions will you be
taking to achieve your work goals. What internal kinesthetic feelings will you be having?"
The response here will be language that reflects the levels of behavior. It will be similar to
"I will be relaxed and comfortable as I move about my office working on my computer to
access information and to send information to my clients. I notice the comfort by a feeling
of relaxation right here in my chest."
Ask: "What capability will you need in order to do these behaviors?"
The response here will be language that reflects the level of capability. Words such as
"computer skills, organizational effectiveness knowledge, ability to find information,
interpersonal skills, NLP skills, etc." will be used.
Ask: "What beliefs and values do you need to support these capabilities?"
The response will include language that reflects beliefs and values. Language will be
similar to "I can learn what I need to know. NLP is valuable and will help me in doing my
business. Relationships are important to me." Etc.
Ask: "What is your identity in relationship to work?"
The language used will reflect identity and will be similar to "I am an excellent
communicator. I am a learner. I am a NLPer, etc.". (A metaphor may be given as a
powerful way to identify all aspects of identity)
Ask: "What is the whole unifying system in which you work? Think systemically. Who
else? What are all the external relationships you need to consider?"
The response will be language that reflects the unifying system. It will be similar to "What
is the mutual relationship between the other individuals, teams, departments, units,
divisions, business units, corporate headquarters, customers, customers' customer, the
industry, other industries, nationally, internationally, and globally', etc.
The following examples show how to use language to recognize and then move between
logical levels of systems. This first example shows the use of logical levels in a
conversation about a limitation.
Statements
Client
I cannot talk in front of groups
Limitation
Response So it has been your experience that
:
you have had difficulty talking to
groups.
Level
Capability
Put limitation in the past. Open up possibility for
change.
Response What would it take for you to believe Move to the belief level. What beliefs are limiting.
:
that you are able to talk in front of
groups.
Client
I don't think I will ever be able to talk Limiting belief.
to a large group.
Response Use a technique to change the belief Intervention at the belief, identity or spiritual level.
or to identify the imprinting
experience, etc.
This next example shows the use of logical levels in a conversation about resources.
Statements
Resource: I am able to relate to
people
Response: So you are a "relator"
Level
Capability
Install the resource at the identity level.
EXERCISE:
In groups of three, practice recognizing the correct logical level and responding in a way that
moves the conversation one or two levels higher.
i)
ii)
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1. Mind Reading
(Statements that claim to have the ability to know what someone else is thinking or feeling) a) I
know that you are the type of person who wants to be really successful. I also know that this
seminar will make the comprehensive changes you want to make. b) You realize that you need to
improve you communication. All of my other clients were just at this point when they were able to
see that it was in their own best interest to hire me. c) So many people just like you feel that NLP is
the world's greatest communication model.
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b) Now that we have realized that you have a communications problem we can begin the work to
solve it.
c) Studying the world's greatest communicators has led to a model that can be easily transferred
to others, NLP.
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Being on this task force will help you learn all about communication.
Your being here means that you really want to learn.
Your completing this assignment allows you to feel exceptionally good.
4. Complex Equivalent
(Statements that say that one thing is or means the same as another thing)
a) Taking this seminar is one of the best ways to make sweeping changes.
b) Since both of us have found that communication is success, how can we begin to work
together to make you successful.
c) NLP is the greatest communication model in the world.
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5. Presuppositions
(What must already be assumed to be true for the statement being made to be true.)
Presuppositions are covered extensively earlier in this workshop and will not be repeated in detail here.
a) One of the more important facts about this pervasive change seminar is that it is totally tax
deductible.
b) Being excellent communicators, allows us to get more of what we want; how can we help you
get what you want?
c) The greatest communicators in the world use NLP techniques, some know it while others do
not.
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Everyone here already knows more about making changes than they think they know. After you
finish this seminar, you too will have the skills to be able to influence, persuade and communicate
at a much higher level.
6. Universal Quantifiers
(Words that imply or state absolute conditions as being true)
a) Every time someone who has taken this seminar talks to me about the pervasive changes they
have made, I feel all the work that I have done has been worth while.
b) All of what I have said about my communication firm can benefit you in everything that you are
going to do by starting now.
c) NLP, the greatest communications model in the world today, says always put yourself in a state
of excellence before giving a presentation.
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Winston Churchill said, "Never, never, never, never give up." And he was right, wasn't he?
7. Modal Operators
(Words that suggest that something is necessary or possible and which define the boundaries of a
person's model of the world.)
(must, can, may, try, intend to, have to, should, able to, pretend to, ought to, possible to, have to,
suppose to, decide to, wish to, got to, need to, let, allow, want to, could, permit, choose to, would,
will, won't,)
Match your use of modal operators to the client's modal operators.
a) One thing we know is that we must develop the capability to be an excellent communicator; this
seminar will help you make many changes.
b) When you give yourself permission to hire my firm, Jim, we can begin to work on getting results
right now.
c) From what I have been able to discover, NLP could be the greatest communication model in
the world.
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8. Nominallizations
(Words that change a process or verb into a static event or noun)
a) When you have completed this seminar and made comprehensive changes, you'll agree that
this was an excellent decision.
b) Many organizations like yours; Jim, make the decision to use our company to improve their
communication.
c) NLP is the greatest communication model in the world. d)
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(Verbs that do not have phrases that specify how or on what an action is performed)
a) At this seminar you can begin to make many changes, now.
b)
For all those reasons, you should hire our communications firm.
c)
NLP can create changes in your life because it is the greatest communication model in the
world today.
d)
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We have talked about what stress is, how it can be positive or negative. We have done some
exercises and written some group ideas on the board and this means that we are now able to
easily identify and deal with stressful situations.
14. Double Binds
(Statements that offer two or more choices that are in fact the same choice)
a) Would you like to come to my seminar to learn how to make generalized changes or are you
interested in learning the techniques for rapport, both are important aren't they?
b) I'm confident that before you leave today you will either hire my firm or make a decision to go
ahead in a day or two; either way, the most important thing is that you become thoroughly
aware of what we can do for you. Does that sound right to you?
c) NLP has the most powerful rapport building skills and many people think that it's relationship
building skills are second to none.
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You may begin to feel terrific immediately or it may take several minutes before you begin to feel
great.
Would you like to go ahead and set up an appointment or should we just jot down a time when we
can meet?
It's important to keep people happy and producing at a maximum, so perhaps you could manage
your section by example or you could consistently demonstrate what you expect others to do.
15. Conversational Postulate (A statement in the form of a question which when asked and taken
literally would require a yes or no answer. This statement is normally taken as a command to
perform the requested action) (Use a voice intonation of a command.)
a) Do you have Visa or Master card to pay for our change program?
b) This is the contract; do you have a pen to sign it?
c) Can you hand me that book that says that NLP is the greatest communication model in the
world?
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Do you feel that this is something you can understand? Can you close the door? Can you set that
aside, now? Can you think about enrolling, now?
16. Extend Quotes (A statement that contains one or more quotes that are intertwined with each
other and with the story so that it becomes ambiguous as to what is quote and what is story)
a) A student of mine said that she had talked to another participant at one of my workshops who
said she had made extensive changes in her life and that she wasn't the only one who had
because others had told her the same thing.
b)
One of my clients in a firm that I worked with said that he told two people in another
organization, and he told them directly Jim, you should hire my firm and that each of them
said that they had been telling others to consider it seriously and he knew I could only work
with a few companies right now.
c)
I was talking to a communications expert who said one of the most respected communicators
told her that NLP is the greatest communication model in the world today and that she used it
always.
d)
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One of the coordinators I worked for in the past said that he had an engineer who worked for him
tell him that the way to become really good at your job is to develop personal initiative to be able to
be proactive rather than reactive when necessary and that he agreed with that and I think so too.
An expert in the field of communication told me she had heard Albert Einstein say that the best
way to solve a problem was to think at a higher level of abstraction than before and also to look at
the problem from multiple perspectives and that seems to be an excellent method.
17. Selection Restriction Violation
When money talks you should hire my firm to make more of it for you.
NLP, the eighth wonder of the world, feels like the greatest communication model in the world.
d)
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Before we start our interview I'd like to let you know up front that there are some things you may not want
to tell me, now and I'd like you not to tell me those things until you are ready to tell me, Now, we can
start.
Ill be glad to help when you want to talk to me again.
(Put commands behind modal operators) If you will use commands you will be amazed at how you'll be
able to persuade more rapidly and if you want to accomplish this, you will become driven to learn
these now.
19. Embedded Questions (Questions that include commands embedded within the question itself)
a) I'm not sure if you want to make comprehensive changes enough to come to my seminar.
b) Can you think of all the reasons that you want to hire my firm to get the results you want, now.
c) Do you think that NLP is the greatest communication model in the world or do you need to know
more about it before you reach that conclusion.
d)
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Form groups of two, or three if you like or perhaps even do this exercise by yourself. We could look at how
it was done in the past, just make it as we want in the future or continue to do what we are already doing.
21. Utilization (Statements that use everything as though you control it, as though you planned it and
thought of it)
a) (I'm not sold on this seminar.) Of course you're not sold on this seminar because I haven't told about
the extensive changes that it makes as well as the one piece of information that you need to know
about before you are completely sold.
b) (My company is not like all those others you have worked with.) Yes, you're right, every company is
different and that's exactly the reason you need to hire my firm, we tailor our services to fit your
company exactly
.
c) (There are many other great communication models.) You're right, there are many other great
communication models; that is actually how NLP was able to take the best of the best to make an even
better model.
d)
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22. Context and Meaning Reframing (Statements that reframe the meaning in the same context or
change the meaning by changing the context)
See Pages 72 to 74 for a detailed explanation on context and meaning reframing.
Context reframing - Same behavior different context.
Meaning reframing - Different meaning for the same context.
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23. Building Excitement and Expectations (Statements used to create excitement and expectation) a)
You'll be surprised and delighted when you hear about the extensive change techniques you'll learn in this
seminar.
b) In a few minutes, I'm going to tell you how you can double your income with no extra work by hiring my
firm.
c) In the next hour you're going to learn how to use the techniques of the greatest communication model
in the world to triple your income.
d)
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In a few minutes we will explain what everyone says is the most life changing technique available today.
24. Truisms About Sensations and Time. (Universal statements about sensations and time)
a) Most people have experienced a feeling of being totally relaxed and that's what you'll experience in
one part of this comprehensive change seminar.
b) Most people know that it takes a long time to develop expertise on communication all by yourself;
that's why they hire a firm like mine.
c) Sooner or later people discover that NLP is the greatest communication model in the world. d)
d)
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Some people blush easily when they recognize certain feeling about themselves. Most people enjoy the
refreshing coolness of a light breeze on a hot day. Sooner or later you will be asked to participate in the
team's activities.
25. Open Ended Suggestions (Statements that do not place boundaries on what is possible or not
possible in the future)
a) We all are capable of making pervasive changes in any area of our lives. My seminar is one way to do
this.
b) All companies have the ability to become totally successful, and it is much more easily achieved by
getting guidance from a firm like mine.
c) NLP is the greatest communication model in the world and its getting even better every day. d)
d)
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We all have potentials that we are not aware of, and we usually don't know how they will be expressed.
(x,y;
not x, y;
not x, not y)
a) The more people practice these techniques which make broad changes, that they
learned in my seminar, the more beneficial changes they are able to make.
b) The greater the need to improve communication, the less time you should waste
before you hire a communications firm like mine.
c) The longer you delay in studying NLP, the greatest communication model in the
world, the slower you'll be able to develop enriching relationships.
d)
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The more you practice these language patterns the more you'll will be able to use them at an unconscious
level.
The more you practice these language patterns the less trouble you will have communicating with others.
The less you practice these language patterns the more trouble you will have communicating with others.
The less you practice these language patterns the less success you will have communicating with others.
As you continue to learn to use these tools you'll find that the more you use them they become easier and
easier to use and the more you use them; the more you understand them at a deeper level.
27. I'm Not Going to Tell You ..... (A statement used to covertly or indirectly make an assertion)
a) I'm not going to tell you that my seminar is the only seminar that makes pervasive change, there are
others which cost twice as much given in the States.
b) I'm not going to tell you that you should hire my firm, I would be silly to tell you to hire my firm when we
haven't even discussed the services you need yet.
c) I'm not going to tell you that NLP is the greatest communication model, I'm going to let you find that out
for yourself.
d)
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I'm not going to tell you that Power Affirmations are the only product available of this kind; it might not be
wise for you to think about stocking only Power Affirmations, at least until after we have discussed it,
today.
28. Compound Suggestions
(A statement that makes a suggestion that one would like to be accepted and covertly
covers this up by making a second statement of fact)
(1st suggestion) <then> (2nd suggestion of a fact).
a) After you have enrolled in my seminar to make changes in all areas of you life, you'll
be delighted at the changes in your life. Everyone wants to make the most of their
potential, don't you think?
b) It is to your company's advantage to hire me. How we communicate is important, isn't it?
c) NLP is the world's greatest communication model. It is important to be able to communicate.
d)
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Please note: From this point on the three themes previously used to illustrate each language pattern
will not be utilized as the following hypnotic language patterns are not easily used for that purpose. These
patterns are very effective and should be learned and practiced as much as the previous patterns.
29. Phonological Ambiguity (Words that sound the same but have different meanings are used to cause
ambiguity when spoken)
(you ewe, there their, our hour, sea see, four for, bee be, mine mine, know no, knows nose, I eye, hear
here, by buy, hair hare, pray prey, a part apart, right write rite,
insecurity in security, still (motion) still (time) weight wait, sight site, just us justice, I rate irate)
Buy Now! you know you can use Power Affirmations for self improvement.
You may hear, here but can you hear, there? d)
d)
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30. Syntactic Ambiguity (Statements where the syntactic function of a word cannot uniquely be
determined from the immediate context.)
They are visiting relatives.
Fascinating people can be difficult.
Selling salesmen can be tricky.
Speaking to you as a child .....
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Sleight of Mouth
Sleight of mouth is used when reframing a statement that is in the form of a cause and effect or complex
equivalence statement; such as A causes B, A is B, A means B, or A equals B. If the statement is not in
this form then rephrase it into this form.
Themes:
Individually determine what are common themes/objections that continually reoccur in your life and write
them in c) and d) below. Phrase these themes in the form of X equals Y, X means Y, or X causes Y.
c)
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Write out sleight of mouth statements that reframe this objection using each of the following patterns.
The following sleight of mouth questions are from the work of Tad James.
1.
Meta-Frame
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(What is something they haven't noticed? Use a different frame for the same behavior. Chunk up to a
universal quantifier) a) Have you noticed that you only get what you pay for? b) Sorry I was thinking about
how much I love you, what did you say?
c)
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d)
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5. Reality Strategy
(How do they represent this belief? How do they know if it is true?) a) How do you determine the
difference between price and value? b) Where did you learn that?
c)
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7. Intent
(Why are they saying this? What is the secondary gain?)
a) So your intent is to save money in the long run?
b) You're only saying that because you are feeling unloved at this moment.
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d)
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(What will happen if they continue to think this way?)
a) If you continue to think this way you will only be able to put dollar values on everything.
b) If you continue to think that way you are going to find that everyone doesn't care for you because
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more/better of Y
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In what way, now that you think about it could not having work experience actually mean you are more
suitable for that position?
a) How could the price actually mean that you cannot afford to buy now?
b) How does my not listening actually mean that I care more than if I hear every word you say.
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1. In groups of 3 practice the chosen Sleight of Mouth Patterns.
2.
Individually determine what are common them es/objections that continually reoccur in your life.
Phrase these themes in the form of X equals Y, or X causes Y. Write out Sleight of Mouth statements
that reframe this objection.
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Use reframing when a person or group of people think that they only have one choice of
behavior or meaning for an external event or stimulus. Reframing will make additional
alternatives available to them and give them more flexibility.
An external event or sensory experience elicits a response to which a meaning is attached.
Reframing is the ability to attach a new meaning to an external event or sensory experience
which in turn causes a new response to it.
All meaning is context dependent.
If the context or frame is changed then the meaning and the response to the meaning will
change.
People tend to attach only one meaning to each sensory experience.
Different people can attach different meanings to the very same external event or sensory
experience.
Every sensory experience in the world and every behavior is appropriate in some context or
frame.
As a communicator you have the ability to shift the meaning or frame people put around
something/anything.
Broadening a person's view through reframing doesn't actually make them do anything else. It
will only allow them to consider making a change 1) if the new view makes more sense to them
than what they have been thinking and 2) if it is an undeniably valid way of looking at the world.
Thinking about something in many different ways is an important part of understanding.
Specific content must be known in order to make a reframe.
Sequencing and delivery are important, therefore the reframer needs to find a way to reframe
and deliver the reframe with impact.
The reframer must be congruent in nonverbal analogs (words and all nonverbal communication
match) when delivering a reframe in order to have the reframe be considered.
After delivering the reframe, the reframer must observe sensory based nonverbal changes that
occur in the person, as the person's experience changes to the behavior, or the reframe has
not been effective.
A reframe must change the response to the sensory experience or it is not an appropriate
reframe.
An external event elicits a response to which a meaning is attached. A reframe essentially says
that if you looked at it this way then you would have a different response.
Keeping the same management means that it will be impossible to transform the company.
Reframe:
I thought that way too until I saw what the average person could do to bring down the
Berlin wall or change Russia forever. Even though I believe that management is developing the
skills needed to change, the employees have the critical mass to make the change, if you start
now.
The company is too slow in deciding whom to keep and whom to lay off
Ref rame:
You know I'm really glad that when it comes time for them to consider you
and I that they will take all the time they need to make the right decision,
aren't you?
He's much too stubborn to see things from our point of view.
That's just the kind of person we need around here to take hold of a
project and stick with it until it's completed.
Statement:
Reframe:
Other Patterns
Chaining Modal Operators
(Use statements to chain modal operators together. Start from the modal operators of necessity and
progress to modal operators of possibility.) I know that you think you can't do this; of course, perhaps you
shouldn't have to, but could you realize that it's something that you can do? Some people feel it's
impossible to change because they think that they don't need to and then when they discover that
changing opens up new opportunities; they find themselves quite willing to change, now; can you see that
happening. You don't have to, should you have to, you will find it's possible.
Exercise
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Cartesian Logic
What would happen if you did?
Theorem:
What would happen if you didn't?
Inverse:
Converse:
What wouldn't happen if you did?
Non mirror image reverse: What wouldn't happen if you didn't?
The above relates Cartesian Logic only to A and B, the logic can be taken further to A, B and C for
example:
What would happen if you did A and B and C?
What would happen if you didn't do A, B or C?
What wouldn't happen if you did do A and B and C?
What wouldn't happen if you didn't do A, B or C?
What would happen if you didn't do A and B and did C?
What wouldn't happen if you didn't do A and did B and C? etc. etc. etc.
Exercise:
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Negative Suggestions
(The unconscious mind does not understand a negative. Use negative suggestions to presuppose a
positive want or internal representation.)
I'm not going to tell you that you are going to totally want this program; I'd be foolish to tell you that you
totally want this program. How could I when we haven't even discussed it yet?
For the most part people use negative suggestion in inappropriate ways. We tend to say, "Don't drop the
glass." instead of "Hold the glass tightly." "Don't worry." instead of "Take time to relax." These phrases
sound as if we are requesting the same things but we are not! Use language that will make
representations of what is wanted when the person processes it through their mind and do not use
language that makes representations of what is not wanted.
Exercise:
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honestly
utterly
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powerfully
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As you experience that fully, notice how the feeling automatically becomes much more intense, doesn't
that feel good, now.
Immerse yourself completely into the wonderful feeling of self confidence.
Exercise:
Now write out some statements using semantically charged words.
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Stop
(Use the universal experience of STOP to stop people's internal processing and create
an opening to suggest new action or a new belief.)
Just for a moment stop and imagine
Stop and picture..
Stop and realize..
Stop and visualize ..
When they stop, make a
Stop and observe ..
suggestion which when
Stop and get a sense of ..
followed will create the
Stop and listen to ..
desired action or belief.
If you stop and think about ..
If you were to stop and say to yourself ..
Stop and get a feeling about ..
Exercise:
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Miscellaneous Patterns
Have you noticed that ..........
Would it be fair to say ...........
Don't (your outcome) unless you really want to (your benefit). Don't buy Power Affirmations unless you
really want to change your life.
(Phrase) because (Phrase) therefore (benefit). You can do anything you put your mind to because we
have both seen others do it; therefore you should make up your mind and get what you want, now.
Using "but" to negate thoughts. You may have not thought you could afford this in the past but at these
new prices you cannot not purchase it today.
Using "try" to presuppose failure. Now matter how hard you try, you can't ........
Will today be the day that .......
Create for yourself ....
Just because ............... doesn't mean .
When you have already decided that now is the time for .................. Call us.
Exercise:
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Please (do what you would likely do) before you (what I want you to do).
Please read this entire letter before you call to reserve your spot at the seminar.
2.
Maybe its not X. But (powerful description of what you want the client to believe).
Maybe it's not the easiest thing you have ever done. But you'll learn the most powerful,
enduring, effective and masterful techniques of the conscious persuasion and influence ever
taught.
3.
Use words that build desire and use the "not yet" philosophy.
In a moment I'll tell you what others have paid me thousands of dollars to learn.
4.
Many people have paid (a large amount of money they will save). But you can learn these
techniquesfor an unbelievably low cost.
Many people have paid thousands of dollars for this. But you can learn these techniques for an
unbelievably low cost.
5.
Can you recall your most (negative experience i.e. frustrating, conversation) in the past few
years. Was it with a friend? Your spouse? A co-worker? [Future pace positive experience they
will have as a result of doing what you want them to do, i.e. turn a negative internal
representation into a positive future internal representation]
Stop for a moment and recall a time when you were trying to communicate with someone,
perhaps it was your boss, your child or your spouse, but no matter how hard you tried you were
unable to communicate in a way that achieved what you wanted. Now, consider that same
event, but this time, because of this workshop, you actually have the ability to totally
communicate with just the right language to achieve what you want. Now, that would be ideal
wouldn't it!
6.
When (you begin to do what I want you to do) you'll find yourself quickly and easily (becoming
what you want to be).
When you arrive at the seminar you'll find yourself quickly and easily becoming one of the top
sales people in Canada.
7.
Learning how to use language patterns the way Larry presents them is an easily learned skill.
8.
If (general description which likely fits most people you are targeting) then (what you want them
to do).
If your day to day activities include dealing with other people, such as clients or customers, coworkers or bosses, teachers or students, a spouse or child, doctors or attorneys or bankers this
seminar is for you.
9.
So if you're (something that wouldn't be of value to you); (implied then and what you want them
to do) is not for you.
So if you're looking for a 3 day vacation; this weekend in the Rockies is not for you.
10.
When (what you want), (some minor benefit to them or something they should do).
When you call for reservations, mention you are with the McLauchlin Group and you'll get 15%
off a preferential rate.
11.
I don't know about you but I get really excited when ...
12.
Maybe I'm not (minor problem). But (very powerful description of what you want believed).
Maybe I not a pretty face. But I do know a lot about what I consider to be the most powerful
process for persuasion, influence and communication.
13.
In a moment I'll tell you (what you want to build interest in).
In a moment I'll tell you how you can increase your sales by 100% when you attend the
language skills sales course.
14.
I watched/taIked/saw/noticed you (something that presupposes what they are doing relates to
what you want them to do). And I know (characteristic that would presuppose they would be
interested in your product/information/what you want).
I've seen your interest in management by the number of books you read. And I know that you
have a desire to learn to communicate extremely well. (i.e. selling a communication course)
15.
As you explore your communication ability, you'll truly appreciate the nonverbal sensory acuity
process.
16.
So the question is: are you serious about (what I want you to commit to)?
So the question is are you serious about achieving a tremendous ability to communicate?
17.
You can (what they might want to do), but there's no guarantee you'll use it. Expect to be busy
(doing what they'll need to be doing to get what you want).
You can bring along your golf clubs, but there is no guarantee that you'll use them. Expect to be
busy learning and practicing the powerful techniques we'll be teaching you.
18.
Please realize Larry is (what you want them to think about Larry) and he requires the same
attitude from you.
Please realize that Larry is very serious about learning these skills and he requires the same
attitude from you.
19.
Many people feel (what you want them to feel) from this personal contact with Larry.
Many people feel that they gain as much value and insight from this personal contact with Larry
as they do from his seminar audio and video tapes.
20.
21.
Here's (an offer). (Which I seriously doubt will ever be repeated.) creates scarcity.
22.
Here's an offer X. And here's some (minor concessions on your part and which if they accept
this offer means they bought what I'm selling). Of course if you (something that isn't quite as
good for me). You'll have to give up (something that they feel is a BONUS because of it).
You'll only pay $995 for a 4 day seminar! And even more, Larry has generously agreed that you
may pay over time if you want: $495 down and
$250 a month for two months, automatically charged to your credit card. Of course, if you pay
over time, you'll have to give up your FREE BONUS! note use of ! the unconscious reads that
something exciting has just been read. pay only - only $995! and even more - as if previous
offer was of great deal already generously - aren't you lucky pay over time - make the cost look
smaller, easier to pay automatically - no trouble to you, you don't have to do anything! of course
- it therefore follows that .... (cause and effect relationship) if you pay over time - the easy way
costs you you'll have to give up - people don't like to give up something FREE BONUS - bonus!
creates excitement what is it?
23.
As soon as you call, you'll get (something of value, a bonus, etc.). Just (do what would mean
they already are enrolled) and send it in. When (you arrive at the seminar or do what I want)
your bonus will be waiting for you.
As soon as you call, you'll get a powerful script on how you can get more customers into your
office. You'll also get a marketing profile. Just fill it out and send it in. When you arrive at the
seminar, your profile will be waiting for you.
24.
Once you've used (some minor part of your product), you'll swear by it.
Once you've used even a particle of this information, you'll swear by it. (Cause and effect - a
particle of this information is worth the cost of the whole seminar!)
25.
(Something that suggests great credibility) has (made you an expert in what they want).
26.
Word patterns that are automatically accepted as logical, no matter what the substance. Even
when the idea is illogical!
27.
(Statement you want believed.) That's where 99% of us go wrong. (What may be their feeling
about the statement.) The truth is (what you want them to believe or feel).
Persuasion is an easily learned verbal skill. That's where 99% of us go wrong. The truth is we
feel that these powerful techniques are difficult to learn; in reality, Larry makes them so easy to
understand.
28.
The bottom line is (future pace a move away or move towards reward for them).
The bottom line is the time, money and-frustration it"ll save you - day in and day out.
29.
That's how strongly I believe in (what you want them to buy or believe). And that's how much I
know you'll value it too.
That's how strongly I believe in the persuasive power of language. And" that's how much I know
you will value it too.
30.
So (do what I want) or perish! Sometimes it seems that critical. (Compares your minor want with
survival and says if you donI do what I want you will not survive!)
31.
So simply do this: (what you want.) Then ask yourself a question, isn't it possible that (future
pace the total value in one minor piece of what you want).
So simply do this: listen to the enclosed tape, then ask yourself a question. Isn't it possible that
out of the dozens of techniques Larry teaches, just one will be worth more than the cost of this
seminar?
32.
If you agree with me then you definitely need this information and this seminar may be the way
you want to go.
33.
Perhaps you thought that what I'm saying to you would be directed at why you should enroll.
34.
I intend to give you only enough to get you even more excited and cause you to enroll now.
35.
(What I want you to do.) So keep that in mind as you (do something that leads you to what I
want).
Once you have made the decision to increase your results by improving your use of language
and enrolled. So keep that in mind as you talk to others about this powerful seminar and it's
incredible value.
36.
The purpose of (this offer) is to get you (what results you want them to have at the end of the
offer). (This presupposes that the offer will get these results.)
The purpose of this training is to get you specific, concrete and usable skills in the field of
influence and persuasion.
37.
To the degree that you are skilled at this, you'll be enlisting the assistance of others or having a
difficult time getting others to do anything at all. (presupposes that without this you'll be having a
difficult time.)
To the degree that you are skilled at this, you'll be able to make pervasive changes to the
results you get. Whether it is with your clients, your family and friends, in business or whatever
you are trying to do. You are either enlisting the help of others or having difficulty getting others
to do anything at all.
38.
Therefore, your ability to influence others may mean the difference between success
and failure. (Another presupposition -- your successes depend on taking this course.)
Therefore your ability to communicate with others in just the right way means the difference
between success and failure in whatever you do.
39.
I'm not talking about (what they don't like or believe). I'm talking about (what you want
them to believe).
I'm not talking about improving your skills slightly. I'm talking about a quantum leap in your
abilities.
40.
If you agree with me then (what you want in the form of a benefit - future paced).
If you agree with me then this information could make the difference between where you are
now and that next quantum leap to where you want to go.
41.
Now I don't know about you but years ago when I first discovered (whatever you are
selling, etc.). It made me get extremely excited realizing that I could have these skills for myself
and I have found that true for others as well.
Now I don't know about you but many years ago when I first found that irresistible
communication is really possible. It made me get extremely excited realizing that I could have all
these skills for myself and I have found that true for others as well.
42.
(Long description or examples of others who have succeeded in a great way.) Perhaps
43.
44.
I get excited when I think about (name) and I'm so impressed with (something about the person)
and what (name) has done and so impressed at what I have learned from working and listening to
(name) for such a short time.
I get so excited when I think about Larry's ability and I'm so impressed with his language abilities and
what Larry has done and so impressed at what I have learned from working and listening to Larry for
such a short time.
45.
46.
Hundreds of people have (something that makes what you are doing seem like a real bargain).
And it was money well spent.
Hundreds of people have paid $1000 to $1500 for a three day training to learn these
techniques. And it was money well spent.
47.
Don't get caught up in the herd doing Moo-Cow thinking. I know that you have a personal desire
to challenge your own personal limits and to follow your own dreams. Of course that's unusual.
Most people are just content to be one of the herd. (Presupposition that they are "above the
ordinary" and only the "above the ordinary" take this course or buy this product.)
48.
I am absolutely convinced that you have already made that important step and broken from the
herd and that you will be one of the best students I have ever had. (Another presupposition that
they are above the ordinary.)
49.
I get extremely excited to find someone like you who can take my material and master it;
someone who will make it tough for me to stay ahead of them. (Yet another presupposition that
they are above the ordinary.)
50.
Buy now, you already understand some of what you'd like to receive as a result of attending. So
keep that in mind, as you (listen to this tape, read this brochure, or watch this video).
51.
I don't know about you but years ago when I found that this was possible. It made me get
extremely excited realizing that I could have these skills and I found that to be true for others as
well.
52.
(Name) is considered to be (an expert in the field of your product or seminar). (Then continue on
with a statement.)
Larry is considered to be one of the few leading experts in total verbal and nonverbal
communication. This seminar is unbelievably priced.
53.
Larry has one of those unique minds that allow him to take difficult material and make it easy to
learn. Like Albert Einstein he has learned how to look at any subject through many different
lenses.
54.
Now when you leave this seminar on Sunday night and you're really excited and you're walking
on air and you are so enthusiastic and say to yourself, "My God. I can do this. I got this stuff
down pat. Look out world."
55.
I'm going to show you (what you're proposing they learn or do) in such a way that you will be able to
(what they want to learn or do), whether you want to or not.
I'm going to show you how to use these powerful techniques in such a way that you'll be able to
persuade people to get what you want and they want in every situation, whether you want to or not.
56.
I don't know about you but I really get excited when (description of what you caused to happen) and
think about (what you want them to think about).
I don't know about you but I really get excited when I get a notice in the mail and think about what it is
like to come together with other NLP enthusiasts at a workshop.
Exercise:
Using the above examples write some suggestions that you can use in a brochure, an advertisement, a script
to use on the phone when clients call you or however you need to sell your product or service. Use extra note
paper as required.
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in the future.
What might it look like to be in the future, now, looking back at how you used to be and notice how much
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hundreds of words and phrases to shift submodalities of time!
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words that create permanence!
words that make things appear temporary!
sleight of mouth!
how to move between the past, present and future!
which words actually put you on your timeline! analog marking!
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The expanded Meta Model! Over 32 hypnotic language patterns!
How to chain Modal operators!
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Powerful suggestions to use verbally or in your writing!
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Pattern
DISTORTIONS
1. Mind Reading:
(knowing someone's internal state)
"He thinks we can't work as a
team."
Response
How do you know?
Prediction
Recover source of information
2. Lost Performative:
(Value judgments where the person
doing the judging is left out)
"It's wrong to do it this way."
Recover choice.
5. Presuppositions
"If they knew how hard we work
they wouldn't treat us this badly."
- they don't know
- we work hard
- they treat us badly
GENERALIZATIONS
6. Universal Quantifiers
(all, every, never, always everyone
etc.)
"They never listen to us."
7. Modal Operators
a. of necessity (Required)
(should, must, have to, ought, need
to)
"I have to do it all myself."
b. of possibility or impossibility
(can/can't, will/won't, may/may
not)
"I can't understand this."
DELETIONS
8. Nominalizations
(verbs that have been turned into
nouns)
"We need to improve our
decisions."
9. Unspecified Verbs"
She embarrassed me."
Whos deciding?
How can you re-decide? How
would you like to decide?
Return to a process.
Recover deletion and referential
index.
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10. Deletions
a. simple deletions
"I am very stressed."
b. lack referential index
"They don't listen."
c. Comparative deletions
"He is a better manager."
d. Unspecified nouns
"He said they were late."
e. Unspecified adjectives
Ivan inconvenient time."
"certain people"
Miscellaneous Others
11. Either - Or Phrases
"If I don't get promoted, I'm
leaving."
12. Static Words
(One value words)
Science says that
13. Characterizations
(assume enduring characteristics)
(aggressive, weak, lazy,
domineering, unassertive,
disrespectful)
14. Attribution Of Emotions
III feel guilty."
"He feels guilty."
15. Predictions
(claims to know future happenings)
a. About what, by
whom?
b. Who specifically
doesn't listen to you?
c. Better than whom,
in what way?
Compared to whom?
d. Who said whom
was late?
e. Who would be
inconvenienced? or in
what way?
Is this truly an either
or situation? Are
there any in-betweens
or other
considerations?
What science?
Is there only one
science that speaks for
all sciences?
What does he actually
being aggressive?
Recover middle
ground
Recover specificity
Recover specificity
say or do that you call and eliminate
enduring
characterization.
Recover descriptions
9
a. Recover deletion
b. Recover referential
index.
c. Recover
comparison deletion.
d. Recover nouns
e. Recover adjective
meaning
0
0
How do you know?Recover evidence
and sensory based
description
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Concluding Remarks:
So, there it is, a quick tour through the NLP language patterns. Now, I'm going
to ask you to begin to make your learnings even more permanent. You are able to do
this by taking the time each day to notice the different patterns and to practice using
one or two of them in your area of interest. It is only in this way that you can truly
master and benefit to the fullest from what you already have and are going to learn
from this workshop.
I
By continually practicing the different patterns, you will internalize them so that you can use them in an
unconscious manner. You will find yourself responding to objections, reframing limitations and bringing forward
resources in ways you have not dreamed of. And it only takes a little practice every day.
Thank you for putting your energy into this workshop. I look forward to hearing from you about your success in
applying this material. Good luck in your continued use of this material.
Larry McLauchlin
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