Magnetic

Messaging

Note: You must have already gone through the 10SSA 2.0 manual in order to use
this guide.

The texting guide in 10SSA 2.0 is large and nearly complete. So instead of
teaching you how to text this guide will focus on how to avoid messing up.

There are only 3 major things that will cause chaos to your interactions via text.

TEXTing PITFALL #1: She Delivers More Value Velocity Then You:

You always need to deliver more value velocity1 (VV) to her then she delivers to
you; this allows you to always be leading the interaction. This is particularly
relevant if shes being Edgy and IODing you a lot (i.e. being self-amusing at your
expense). If she starts delivering more value velocity then you then she will start
to subtly lead the interaction and your value will drop.

The practical application of this is:

If she says something super clever (high value velocity), make sure the next
thing you say is even more clever and/or IODs her.

Ideally with text you dont want to be having long conversations rather be using
it to quickly spiking up her BT&A and then getting her on the phone or on a day
2.

Here is a sample text interaction with Feisty Girl Credit Nigel C, Mehow
Instructor Program Trainee. In this example Nigel is just barley keeping up with
the girl who clearly has been reading our manual cause her 10SSA is on fire.

Me: The rhythm of samba is so contagious (call back re-opener)
Her: Sounds good where are ya?
Me: Fremantle Street festival, its like mardi gras (lifestyle element)
Her: Ok you enjoy that then
Me: I can already tell your last boyfriend didnt spank you enough (A)
Her: I can already tell your last boyfriend didnt rim you enough (E)
Me: Your either the coolest person Ive metor a total weirdo, Im not
sure yet (A handler)


1 See Appendix in 10SSA 2.0 Manual for detailed discussion of value velocity.

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A bit better would have been something with a big IOD and still topically themed
to the tease battle here such as, So did your parents accept you when you
came out of the closet, or

Her: Haha I rock your world, Didnt think youd write back. Thought I
won with that last msg (C)
Me: The heat waves over, but Im still smokin (A)
Her: Whats that got to do with the price of eggs? (A)
Me: Giving you a phone is like giving a bear nunchucks (A)
Her: Giving you a brain is like giving a gay guy a vagina (A)
Me: I would be the cool uncle who lets kids stay up late. You would be
uncle bad touch (E)
Her: That one was shit. I was impressed up until now (C shes right)

Ewww. The Uncle Bad Touch phrase too creepy with insufficient humor to
calibrate it. Better would have been some monster Edge and Sexual assumptive
framing call back humor like, Id love one but then the rimjobs your sister gives
me wouldnt taste as good for her.

Me: Oh no that would be terrible if I gave a crap (weak, too reactive)
Her: Ooo haha now now dont be like that (she calls him out on failure
but calibrates it with C, solid sign that shes into him)

BTW, if you see a woman calibrate her game to keep you around like this thats a
huge IOI to you.

Me: Your cheekyyour almost as cheeky as me (A)
Her: Hehe got me to a T. But not as cheeky as ur ex boyfriend :D (A)
Me: Dont make me bend you over my knee missy (S nice handler, first
time he brings more VV to her VV escalation, before he was just barley
hanging on)
Her: Your mum bent you over her knee hehe (A)
Me: Leave my mum out of this and Ill leave this out of your mum (S+E,
again nice, hes getting the hang of creating more VV then her when she
tries to IOD him a lot)
Her: Aww Im sorry (C)
Me: Now I feel all warm and fuzzy inside. But then again I just ate a live
squirrel (A)
Her: That warm fuzzy feeling is you exs jizz runnin down ur throat (S
this girl is clearly good to go, good handler for when she messes up is to
simply not reply and let her calibrate)
Her: Ooo sorry too far? :-/ (C and she knows how to calibrate)

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Me: Your obsession with cock is a clear sign of sexual frustration (S, nice
more VV again then her last response.)
Her: Haha im not that dirty, this is all input from my mates (C)
Me: So either youre in denial or youre not as smart as I thought you
were (A)
Her: Oh im smart and cheeky, just not usually as forward to ppl I dont
know. Haha once you know me you cant shut me up (C+S)
Me: Is that a promise (S)
Her: Haha yep yep yep (S)

TEXTing PITFALL #2: She is Unresponsive:


The first thing to remember is it may not be due to you, she may have other stuff
going on in her life that you dont know about and when back in her logical
mindset her other options may seem more important or appealing at present
then some fun guy she met last night. She may even have a boyfriend or husband
she didnt tell you about when she met you.

That said the general rule is to wait two days and then send a high-octane VV re-
starter text, good examples are:

OMG, I just met your twin.
I guess thats it, were so getting a divorce WTF do we do about the
cats, Fluffys mine!

Its also key that if you call her and get voicemail that you leave a non-reactive
message or no message at all.

e.g. Hey Its x Ill call you later. Dont restate your number, or spend excess
amount of time talking to a machine, that sub-communicates neediness.

If at this point she is still not responsive then we recommend calling when at a
club or other loud party venue and leaving her a message with all the partying in
the background.

The message should be something like:

Hey, its Dave Talk later.

But the point is the background stimulation being audible to show her what she
is missing out on, if you have some girl shouting your name halfway through
then this is also awesome. I love leaving messages for girls when some other
girls I like, Meeeeehooow, why you on the phone.

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If after that you still want to follow up and the girl is still non-responsive then
you need to call her from a withheld number and once she is on the line throw
out some very high VV material to quickly get her hooked. When doing this you
have to realise you are working from damage control.

When working from damage control you have 10 15 seconds to pull something
off using super high VV Edge or Attraction material. By default you are risking
getting blown out when you go that big that fast, but then again you were blown
out of the set already so you might as well go for broke.

An example of a high VV phone game:

You: Hey is this girl?
Her: Yes
You: Wow, girl you sound fat over the phone
Her: Thats rude
You: Ah, but not like an ugly fat girl, but you know how there are 10 year old
kids that eat loads of chocolate and get it all over the mouths, its like that its
cute in a way.
Her: <laughs>
You: yes, I said it you have the personality of a fat kid.

Note: Dont do this on overweight girls

Example 2:

You: Hey is this girl?
Her: Yes
You: Wow, you sound so sexy on the phone, I feel like Im calling one of those
0800-hot-girl numbers. Im not being charged for this right now am I?

Example 3: Deliver playful not serious

You: Hey is this girl?
Her: Yes
You: Hey girl this is Dave, I met you at x last night and we had an amazing
connection so I hit speed dial 1 on my phone which is my mom and I told her that
I met this amazing girl and we had an awesome connection and I was nervous
and what should I do, and my mom told me just to be myself, so this is me calling
just being myself.

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Note: Never acknowledge that she has been unresponsive to you, if she brings it
up deny any knowledge of it by just going to a new thread. For example:

Her: Your awfully persistent considering I ignored you.
You: Dont hate me because Im beautiful.

TEXTing PITFALL #3: She Gives You an IOD

If a girl gives you an IOD its important to remain non-reactive and respond with
playful IODs and value. In phone game if she IODs you and you IOD her back in a
way that she takes seriously, youll get into a constant back and forth where you
disqualify each other until she is non-responsive.

Default handlers that can help in this situation are:

Wow, you are even feisty on the phone what am I gonna do with you.
You are either the coolest person Ive met or a total weirdo.
I can tell your last boyfriend didnt spank you hard enough.
Giving you a phone is like giving a bear nun-chucks
Texting you reminds me how special you are

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