Unconditional Happiness
Unconditional Happiness
By Jamie Smart
By Jamie Smart
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Table of Contents
Read This First.............................................................................3
Who is this e-book for?................................................................. 4
Introduction................................................................................ 4
What is Unconditional Happiness?.................................................. 5
Why Choose Unconditional Happiness?............................................6
#1 What You Focus On Increases................................................ 7
#2 Gratitude Is The Manifestation Turbo-charger.......................... 8
#3 People Like Whats Familiar................................................... 9
#4 What The Thinker Thinks, The Prover Proves.......................... 10
#5 Acceptance Is The WD40 Of Change & Growth....................... 11
#6 People Want Feelings ......................................................... 12
#7 Become Willing To Receive ..................................................13
#8 Use Power Affirmations....................................................... 14
#9 All Is Well; There Is Nothing To Fear..................................... 15
#10 You Are Already Here........................................................ 16
More Information....................................................................... 17
Free Stuff..................................................................................19
About the Author........................................................................20
Acknowledgements.....................................................................20
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Introduction
Back in 1996, when I read my first book about personal development, I had no idea
of how my life would unfold. I was living in Oxfordshire, working as a project
manager for a publishing company, and was making a decent living to support
myself and my wife (wed just married).
Slowly, I began to apply the principles Id learned. Some things changed naturally in
my life (I got a job working for a consultancy and moved to London), and I began to
see the results of my efforts.
I was becoming more willing to engage with the adventure of my life. Let me explain.
When I was working for the publishing company in the early 1990s:
I was good at my job, and well-paid for it, but I didnt feel fulfilled.
I had a sense that there was something else I was supposed to be doing on this
planet, but I had no idea what it was.
To make matters worse, I didnt actually believe that I could do anything else
I could see how other people could follow their dreams, change jobs, start businesses, change tracks, find new careers, become entrepreneurs, but I somehow
knew I couldnt.
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Youll feel happy, and thatsreally really good! (I know it seems obvious, but I
thought Id mention it anyway).
Youll begin to spend more & more time in the present moment, and less time
worrying about the future and the past.
Your direction and purpose in life will become clearer and clearer (they wont arrive like a telegram, but will emerge as you begin to relax and let go).
You will suddenly be able to make sense of the results youve been getting in
your life, and make simple changes to start living the life you desire.
Youll start to let go of worry & start enjoying yourself. (You may even begin to
think about the future with a sense of excitement, anticipation, and enjoyment of
the life you already have).
In all likelihood, youll experience more of the success you may have been
seeking for a long time. Happy people attract more of the things, situations and
experiences which give them happiness. Sort out your happiness first, and the
material things you desire are much more likely to show up.
You will become more and more true to yourself, and start living an authentic
life.
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If you spend your time worrying about bills, overdrafts & lack of money, you
will start (or continue) experiencing lack of money.
If you spend your time being focusing on (& being grateful for) the money
you have, you will start (or continue) experiencing an abundance of money.
NB. This is not an invitation to be an ostrich. By all means, pay your bills & deal with
any money issues that arise; just stop worrying about it.
The power of focus can work in every area of your life. When you combine focus
with gratitude you create an amplifier for your experience. You get what you focus
on. Whatever you focus on, you will experience more of.
If you are unsure of what you are focusing on, just notice what results you are
getting in your life. The results youve got (& the experiences you are having) are a
fool-proof indicator of what youve been focusing on - no exceptions.
Challenge: Review your results & identify what youve been focusing on.
Then decide what youd like to change. Whenever you catch yourself focusing
on what you no longer choose, switch your focus to what you now choose.
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Universe
God
Buddha
Allah
All That Is
Universal love
A Higher Power
The Natural World
Energy
Nature
Wholeness
Natural law
Your Unconscious
A Guardian Angel
Quantum Field
Spirit
All of the above
Anything else
You can be grateful to any or all of these, as well as anything else you can think of.
Remember, what the thinker thinks, the prover proves (see Tip #4), so you can
make up something to be grateful to that has all the qualities & attributes you would
like in a deity. *
Gratitude is one of the most powerful ways to focus your energy. The pattern of
gratitude in your consciousness gets you into receiving mode, & receive you will.
Stuff you can feel grateful for:
Money
Love
Awareness
Friends
Loved ones
Books
Fun
Knowledge
Family
Your home
Inner peace
Feelings
Health
Having a nose
Anything else
Remember, what you focus on increases (see Tip #1): if you only have 5, be
grateful for that & youll get more. If you havent been in love since you were 10, be
grateful for the love you had then; youll get more. If you only have present
moment awareness for 30 seconds a month, be grateful for that 30 seconds, & more
will be on its way.
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(If this upsets you because your G-d is the One True G-d, worry not; you are
of course, correct. The above section is only for those poor folk who dont
know about the One True G-d )
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Tip: If you want to change your beliefs, first identify the limiting belief (Eg. I
cant relax), then craft a new counter-belief that supports you (Eg. I can learn
to relax easily). Become willing to let go of the old belief, then state the new
belief, paying attention to the sensations in your body. Accept any sensations
of resistance, then repeat. Repeat the process until you can state the new
belief congruently.
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You can, if you choose, believe that everything is perfect in this moment. That
doesnt mean that things cant be changed, improved, altered or in some way
bettered. It merely means that right now, in this moment, things are the way they
are.
Some people use the headline of positive thinking to deny the reality of the current
situation. This makes matters worse. Acceptance is the opposite of denial.
Acceptance is a way of meeting yourself at your own map of the world and getting
deep rapport between your conscious and unconscious minds.
Paradoxically, when you accept things as they are in this moment (including
yourself), you put yourself in the most powerful position to create change.
Tip: If you are finding something particularly difficult to accept, accept that.
If you get captured by strong emotions, accept that. Accept yourself exactly
as you are.
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As a tool for helping to focus a persons mind, this question is excellent, BUTas
soon as a person sets out to answer it, they accept the presupposition that there is
something missing. When this idea is combined with What the thinker thinks, the
prover proves the brains predilection for the familiar, the following issues arise:
Statement of Intent
I want to be happy
Im trying to lose weight
Im searching for the answer
I choose peace
Im grateful for what I have
I am fabulously wealthy
I am happy
You are the big I am. We all become what we think about, and one of the quickest
ways to increase whats possible for you is by using I am. Want to feel good more
of the time? Be fitter? Richer? Happier? Use the power affirmation I am. I am
fabulously wealthy. I am joyfully happy. I am effortlessly attractive. Say one of
these affirmations, notice whatever thoughts or feelings come up, then accept them
(for added impact, say them into a mirror or to another person). Remember, there is
only now, and people like whats familiar. If the I ams youve been using so far
arent working out for you (Eg. I am unsuccessful, poor, unlucky) you might like to
change them. If you want to be wealthy, it wont happen until your neurology gets
comfortable with the idea that youre wealthy. Want to be persistently happy? That
will happen when you get comfortable with it (today is practice for tomorrow,
remember?). So start getting familiar with it right away you are the big I am,
and you always have been!
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Make sense of the results youve been getting in your life, and make
simple changes to start living the life you desire.
Be more & more true to myself. My whole life people said to me Just be
yourself, but no-one ever showed me how. Now youll know!
Since I attended the course just over a month ago I have become much more chilled out
and have made a lot of fundamental changes in my life which, until recently, either had
not occurred to me or I had lacked the bottle to pursue!
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Jamie Smart has helped thousands of people around the world to live richer,
happier, more fulfilling lives. Now hes distilled his powerful ideas into 52 easy
to understand tips that can help bring more happiness into every area of your
life.
Your health, relationships, finances, work and even your spiritual life will
benefit as you play with these cards. Pick one at random to find the solution to
a current problem, or have fun playing the Instant Happiness card game
with friends.
Youll learn how to:
Whenever I am feeling down, stressed or just stuck, then a quick flick through the
happiness cards will pick me up. We all know we can just decide to feel different, but
sometimes it takes a little nudge. Just reading a card at random can give you the nudge you
need. They certainly work for me. The Happiness Cards are another winner for Jamie, he
certainly knows how to pack them in.
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Acknowledgements
Ive been fortunate to learn from a number of great NLP Trainers and other
innovative thinkers and teachers. Thanks to anyone whose efforts have made their
way into this work.
Specific thanks to
Richard Bandler
John Grinder
Joseph Riggio
Eric Robbie
Jo Cooper
Peter Seal
Timothy Leary
Marianne Williamson
Michael Breen
Sh Wasmund
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Robert Dilts
Sid Jacobson
Jonathan Altfeld
Robert Anton Wilson
Ian Watson
Michael Neill
John La Valle
Paul McKenna
Christina Hall
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