Chronological History
Chronological History
J.R.R Toilkens writing. Our conversations were about our shared interest in
theology, Norway, and family history.
While living in Parkland, I first meet Joani and Doris. Joani and Doris were
two elderly ladies living next door who became fast friend when my sister and I
were little. Eventually they became frequent babysitters, attended all of our sporting
events, concerts, graduations, and were regulars at Christmas, Thanksgiving, and
Easter. When I was in seventh grade, my first year of sex education, I realized that
Joani and Doris were lesbians. This did not damage our relationship at all. Joani and
Doris have been two of my biggest supporters and Christian influences in my life,
and now I simply refer to them as another set of grandparents.
In 2000 we moved to Puyallup, Washington. In Puyallup I participated in as
many sports as my schedule allowed. I played soccer, football, baseball, basketball,
and played trumpet in the school band. In 2003 we moved to Lakewood,
Washington. I attended Concordia Lutheran School from Pre-Kindergarten through
8th grade. My parents always drove or found a carpool for me to ride with every
place we lived. I was blessed by my private school education. At Concordia I had
teachers that nurtured my love for history, sports, fantasy, and my faith in Jesus
Christ.
I graduated 8th grade from Concordia and was confirmed in my faith at Christ
Lutheran Church in 2007. Both my graduation and confirmation verse was Romans
12:2, do not conform to the patterns of this world, but be transformed by the
renewal of your mind so that you may attest to Gods good pleasing and perfect
will. This verse guided me through high school, and continues to guide my life
today.
The summer before my freshmen year of high school, the premiere youth
league soccer team I played on, the MRFC Vipers, won the Washington Fred Meyers
Commissioner Cup, the state championship. After played year-round soccer for 3
years I decided to retire my soccer cleats and focus on school and basketball.
I attended Lakes High School in Lakewood, Washington from 2007-2011. My
parents and I chose to stay in the local public school system as opposed to
continuing my private school education so that I could branch out from what I was
beginning to recognize as a private school bubble. My freshmen year at Lakes I met
two of my best friends, Carl and Danny. That year our basketball team lost in the
State Championship basketball game. The summer after freshmen year was filled
with basketball tournaments, trips to the gym, one last summer at our lake house,
and a move to a downsized place that was more conducive to the direction our
family was taking.
At the end of the summer, just before school started, I got my first job
working on the bag staff at Oakbrook Golf and Country Club. I worked there for the
entire year through school and basketball season until the next summer. The
following summer was built around basketball tournaments. During our third
tournament of the summer I lost my temper, got myself thrown out of the game, and
quit the team. It was the best thing to ever happen to me. My parents sent me to 3
straight weeks at NBC Camps (Northwest Basketball Camps). I had attended NBC as
a 7th, 8th, and 9th grader, but I hadnt since I was in high school. I spend those three
weeks at the site in Redding, California at Simpson University and it changed my life.
Now, at the age of 22, I have either camped or coached at NBC for 10 years.
My junior year was full of the ups and downs of being a teenager. The biggest
transition was the addition of Danny Martinez and Carl Flamer to our family. My
parents became Danny and Carls legal guardians, and suddenly our family got a
little bigger. Danny is Hispanic and Carl is African American, and living with them
and getting to know them on a much deeper level exposed me to family histories,
cultures, and struggles that I was previously unaware of. These relationships
combined with my faith have formed my passion for education and social justice
issues.
During a summer full of basketball, work, and odd jobs, we took in another
one of my best friends, Daniel Davis. Summer transitioned into senior year. Starting
a month into school I also began serving as the youth leader for Blessed Temple,
Church of God in Christ, in Tacoma, WA. This was my first experience in a
Pentecostal church and it also led me to my first opportunity to preach in an
organized congregation. I finished high school as a basketball state champion, held a
3.7 GPA, and graduated with several distinctions and honors. In addition to
graduation I accepted an academic scholarship to attend Pacific Lutheran
University, just ten minutes away from my home. At PLU I joined the mens
basketball team. During the summer before college I worked full time at the
Lakewood Family YMCA as a front desk worker, basketball court supervisor, and
camp counselor.
After a summer of hard work and fun in San Diego I moved to Lakeland
Florida to complete my education at Southeastern University as well as play for
their mens varsity program. In my first semester at SEU I completed all the courses
required for my minors in business and biblical studies. In January, at the beginning
of the semester, I returned to Washington for the funeral of my grandpa, Allen
Johnson. During this time with family, I escaped for one afternoon to go on a date
with a family friend, Krista Pritchard. Krista and I are currently planning the rest our
lives together as we prepare for a wedding and a move Nashville with our daughter,
Kelliana, whom I will soon be adopting. When I returned to school, I finished junior
year studies, made it to the NAIA Final Four with the SEU basketball team, and
declared myself as an Organizational Leadership major.
During the summer between my junior and senior year I traveled the country
coaching at 10 different NBC Camp locations in 4 different states. I coached in
Washington, Oregon, Florida, and Alaska. In Alaska I had the opportunity to become
an honorary Yupik (Native Alaskan). The name given to me was Adonak, meaning
coach. I spend every moment of my spare time with Krista, Kelliana, and our
families.
Summer soon became fall, and I began my final year of college at SEU. Shortly
after the start of the school year I began the rigorous process of applying to Teach
for America, a not-for-profit organization dedicated to placing motivated, culture
conscious, activist, teachers into the most in-need school systems in our country. On
October 30th, 2014 I was accepted into TFA and placed as a special education
teacher in Nashville, Tennessee.