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BREAKING THE LANGUAGE BARRIER:

LEARNING TO INTERPRET YOUR DREAMS
By Evette Gardner

This ebook is unusual in that it is actually a working draft. Your input (comments,
suggestions, questions left unanswered) is not only welcomed but encourage. How
can this manual be adapted to help you better understand the meaning of your
dreams? Please address your feedback to [email protected].

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INTRODUCTION
This is not a dream dictionary. It actually wouldn’t be much used to you if it were. For there isn’t
a dream dictionary in existence which can reliably translate the beautifully intricate language of
your unconscious mind; and there never will be either.

You are the best person to interpret your dreams. And You are also your own best resource when
it comes to recognizing what the “symbols” in your dreams mean. There is no one else on this
planet who knows you as intimately as you know yourself; therefore, you are the foremost
authority on you that you could ever hope to find. The experiences you’ve had, the thoughts you
entertain, the emotions you feel, the desires that excite you… all blend to form a perspective on
life which is uniquely yours. You could search the whole universe a dozen times over and I
guarantee you would never find a better expert on you than you are right now. And since your
dreams are about you, from you, to you – there is no one else in a better position to understand
what your dreams are saying to you than you are. Can you imagine yourself asking someone, “I
feel hungry. What do you think I want?” The only thing more nonsensical than posing such a
question would be getting back a response which suggested anything other than, that’s something
you need to answer for yourself.

I know many of you, as you sit here now and reflect on some of the dreams you’ve had, are
wondering how you alone could ever make sense of these convoluted things called dreams. From
our conscious perspective, the scenarios in our dreams seem to randomly swing between the
preposterous and the awe-inspiring. If a dictionary won’t help us figure these things out, then the
plight might seem hopeless. But it is my absolute promise to you that it is not hopeless. In fact,
you already speak the language of your dreams; you just don’t know that you know it yet. It is
this unawareness (that you don’t know that you know) that is the only language barrier between
you and your unconscious “musings.”

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Chapter 1
LAYING THE FOUNDATION
There is a very good reason why long division isn’t taught in the first grade. Well duh right? It’s
simply common sense. It would be a needlessly frustrating task to attempt to teach long division
to anyone who doesn’t first understand the mathematical concepts of addition, subtraction and
multiplication; because it is in the understanding of these math concepts that the foundation is
laid for an understanding of numerous other mathematical principles, including that of long
division. In like manner, there are a few fundamental concepts which will aid you in your
understanding of the nature of dreams and the process of interpreting them. So before we jump
into the dream interpretation process, let’s lay a little groundwork first. The groundwork is what
will provide you with a context for understanding how and why this dream interpretation works.

Who You Really Are

You are Spirit. What you see when you look in the mirror is not you, but (in every sense of the
word) a reflection of you.

You are not your body. Your body is merely the vehicle your Spirit uses for expression. You (as
Spirit) infill your body, but you are not your body. You are no more your body than you are
your car simply because you get in your car and drive it.

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You are not your personality either. Your tastes, your preferences, your biases, your
temperament, your interests… all of these things make up your personality. Yet none of these
things are constant. But no matter how much these qualities change, are you not still the same
you regardless of the persona you put on? You may play the role of mother, you may play the
role of daughter, you may play the role of wife, a sister, a friend, a co-worker for any number of
occupations… and you undoubtedly put on a different “face” for each of the roles you play. You
are constantly adjusting your personality to cater to the circumstance before you. But behind all
the many masks of you, there is still that of you which never changes. This is the You that is
Spirit. It is that part of you which is more than your body, more than your personality, more than
your thoughts. It is that part of you which is Real and substantial. It is that part of you which is
beyond mere matter, beyond fleeting moods, and yes even beyond passing thoughts. For your
thoughts, just like the qualities of your personality, are not constant. You are not the thoughts
you contemplate because are you not still the same you that you have always been no matter
what thought you may choose to entertain at any given moment? You are the same you that you
are now and have always been if in one moment you are contemplating what to have for dinner
and in another moment thinking of what to buy your mom for her birthday.

You are the same Witnesser of your thoughts. You are the same Witnesser of your experiences.
You are at the back of all that plays on around you – watching and witnessing. If You were
merely your thoughts, or merely your emotions, or merely your personality, or merely your body,
or even a collection of all these things – then who is that behind all of these activities witnessing
and considering every aspect of your experience? You cannot be both the Witnesser and that
which is witnessed. You cannot be both the Considerer and the thing which is considered.
Thoughts pass before your mind’s eye like a slide show. Emotions swell up and dissipate. You
may alter your personality at will. Your body is constantly remaking itself; even now, this very
second, there are cellular parts of your body that are new to you since just yesterday. Everything
is in motion around You. You are the only constant, the one factor which remains unchanged,
permanent, unaffected by the fluctuations going on before You. This is the you that is Spirit.

You are Spirit.

The Universe Is So Much More Than What You Can See

Of course I’m stating the obvious when I say that there is a whole lot more to the universe than
what is merely apparent to our five senses. It’s just that sometimes we need to be reminded of
this truth. Sometimes when we are asked to consider an idea which we cannot verify by
personally seeing it with our own eyes, hearing it with our own ears, touching it with our own
hands… we tend to mock that idea or be dismissive of it. For example, the whole idea that
anyone has the ability to communicate with “the dead” or with beings from another realm
through something called channeling is utter nonsense according to some opinions. To some,
this whole notion seems as fantastic an idea as the concept of television probably would have
seemed had it been proposed a hundred ago before we, as a society, had an understanding of how
to use our knowledge of frequencies to broadcast sounds and pictures across great distances.

Today our science has decisively established that despite all appearances to the contrary,
nothing in the universe is truly solid. Nothing in the universe is truly at rest. All matter is, in fact,
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science has not yet defined. Therefore we know that despite the definite and concrete appearance
of things in our physical realm, we are (in reality) vibrational beings living in a vibrational
universe. And given our society’s present understanding of vibration and how vibrations interact;
how in order to be receptive to certain other vibrations, an instrument needs to be
sympathetically tuned to that other vibration. (For instance, you would not expect to be able to
receive the television programs broadcast on channel 25 if you set your television to channel 7.)
Given this understanding you’d think we (as a society) would be more accepting of the idea that
some people in our society are mentally tuned in such a way as to render them able to be
receptive to communication from entities who exist outside of our physical space / time (while
other people may not be so tuned). Given our understanding of the real nature of the universe as
not being in any way frozen but alive with all different kinds of vibrations you’d think this would
be an obvious conclusion but it, more often than not, is not. And the reason it is not obvious is
because we all too often forget to remind ourselves of the previously stated truth - that there is a
whole lot more to the universe than what is merely apparent to our senses.

We don’t physically sense every spectrum of vibration the universe has to offer. X-rays are
beyond are ability to physically sense. Gamma rays are beyond our ability to physically sense. It
is only when we were able to detect these vibrational spectrums with mechanical instruments that
we became aware of their existence. And yet we understand that despite our previous
unawareness of these particular vibrational spectrums these vibrational spectrums have always
been in existence. Our discovery of these types of vibrations merely brought them into the scope
of our awareness, it did not bring them into existence. Both x-rays and gamma rays have been in
existence long before we knew anything about them.

The fact of the matter is, is that there is a whole lot more which falls outside the bounds of our
awareness than there is that which falls within it. The universe is so much more than what we
see.

The Law of Attraction

So much has been written about the law of attraction as a late that it seems redundant to go into
explaining it. For those of you who do not understand what it is, here are some of the basics…

The Law of Attraction is this. That which is like unto itself is drawn. Like attracts like. This
testimony, however, seems to fly in direct opposition to the expression, “opposites attract.” But
both assertions are actually true. The expression, “opposites attract,” is really a misnomer. And
this is the cause of the confusion. Opposites are really different degrees of the same thing.
Opposites don’t attract each other, they are each other; merely different degrees of each other.
Think about it. Hot and cold are essentially the same thing. If you ran hot and cold along a scale
could you pinpoint the exact spot where hot ended and cold began? The same is true of light and
darkness, up and down, big and small. You cannot pinpoint the exact spot where one quality
ends and the other one begins. Why? Because there is no real distinction or separation between
opposites. Opposites are like in kind but not in degree. There is an old Hermetic axiom which
says, “Everything is dual; everything has poles; everything has its pair of opposites; like and
unlike are the same; opposites are identical in nature, but different in degree...” It’s called the
principle of polarity. Turn this axiom over in your mind from every angle you can come up with,
and you will see that it holds up as fact. So you see the Law of Attraction is the dominant truism

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here, even though both proclamations are true. If “opposites attract,” then that which is attracted
is like unto itself. So that which is like unto itself is drawn; this is law. And this law, the law of
attraction, is what drives the creation process. Every soul, without exception, is subject to this
law. Every soul, without exception, creates the reality of his or her own world by virtue of this
law.

The law of attraction creation process as explained in the book “Ask and It Is Given” by Esther
and Jerry Hicks sums it up nicely. It is as follows:

“Step 1: You Ask

Because of the wonderful and diverse environment in which you are
focused (the physical plane), Step 1, comes easily and automatically, for
this is how your natural preferences are born. Everything – from your subtle
or even unconscious desires to clear, precise, vivid ones – result from the
contrasting experiences of your day-to-day life. Desires (or asking) are the
natural by-product of your exposure to this environment of fantastic variety
and contrast. And so, Step 1 comes naturally.

Step 2: The Universe Answers

Step 2 is a simple step for you, for it is not your work at all. Step 2 is the
work of the Non-Physical, the work of the GOD Force. All things that you
ask for, large and small, are immediately understood and fully offered,
without exception. Every point of Consciousness has the right and the
ability to ask, and all points of Consciousness are honored and responded to
immediately. When you ask, it is given. Every time.
Your “asking” is sometimes spoken with your words, but more often it
emanates from you vibrationally as a constant stream of personally honed
preferences, each building on the next, and each one respected and
answered.

Every question is answered. Every desire is given. Every prayer is

answered. Every wish is granted. But the reason that many would argue
with that truth, holding up examples of unfulfilled desires from their own
life experience, is because they have not yet understood and completed the
very important Step 3 – for without the completion of this step, the
existence of Steps 1 and 2 could go unnoticed.

Step 3: You Allow It In

Step 3 is the application of the art of Allowing. It is really the reason your
(emotional) guidance system exists. It is the step whereby you tune the
vibrational frequency of your Being to match the vibrational frequency of
your desire. And we call that the Art of Allowing - that is, allowing what
you’re asking for. Unless you are in the receiving mode, your questions,
even though they have been answered will seem unanswered, and your
desire will not be fulfilled – not because your wishes have not been heard,
but because your vibrations are not a match, you are not letting them in.”

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“…to the degree you feel blessed and expect good things to flow to you, this
indicates the level of your state of allowing; and to the degree that you do
not feel blessed, where you do not expect good things to come to you, this
indicates your degree of resistance.”

Jesus counseled us with the same directions on how to harness the creative energy of the
Universe when he told us, “…all things, whatsoever ye shall ask in prayer, believing, ye shall
receive."- Mathew 21:22

It is in Step 2 of the preceding instructions that the law of attraction has its application. The
Universe responds Yes to all that you ask for and you draw these desires to you. However, you
ask not with your words but with your Attention. Again, I’ll borrow a quote from Esther and
Jerry Hicks from their book, “The Law of Attraction.”

“When you are focused upon what you want, your Inner Being offers you
positive emotion. When you are focused upon what you need, your Inner
Being offers you negative emotion because you are not focused upon what
you want. You are focused upon the lack of what you want – and your Inner
Being knows that which you give thought to is that which you attract. Your
Inner Being knows that you do not want the lack; you Inner Being knows
you want what you want, and your Inner Being is offering you guidance so
that you will know the difference.

Focusing upon a solution makes you feel positive emotion. Focusing upon a
problem makes you feel negative emotion, and while the difference is subtle,
they are very important, for when you are feeling positive emotion, you are
attracting into your experience that which you want. When you are feeling
negative emotion, you are attracting into your experience that which you do
not want.”

(Here the term Inner Being is synonymous with the same term I will use throughout this writing
to refer to Spirit.)

Now Is All There Is

Time is a perceptual illusion, “a mistake of the senses.” It is not Real. To borrow the words of
William Walker Atkinson (pen name: Yogi Ramacharaka) “Time exists solely in our minds. It is
merely a form of perception by which we express our consciousness of the Change in Things.”

“We cannot think of Time except in connection with a succession of changes of things in our
Consciousness − either things of the outer world, or the passing of thought-things through our
mind. A day is merely the consciousness of the passing of the sun − an hour or minute merely
the subdivision of the day, or else the consciousness of the movement of the hands of the clock −
merely the consciousness of the movement of Things − the symbols of changes in Things. In a
world without changes in Things, there would be no such thing as Time.”

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As Einstein so famously reported, time is relative. The only aspect of what we call time which
truly exists is Now (the present moment). What we call the past is merely experience. What we
call the future is merely possibility or potential. We carry both our past (experiences) and our
future (possibilities) with us in the Now. That which we call Now is awareness or Attention. And
as we just went over in our explanation of the law of attraction, it is our Attention which sets into
motion the creative process. Creation only happens right where we are Now. Therefore, Now is
all there is. Yes, you can reflect on the past. Yes, you can observe the Present. Yes, you can
imagine the future. But you are always doing this reflecting, observing or imagining right Now.

“Thought is the vibration which The Law of Attraction is acting upon.” And you cannot do your
thinking outside of the present moment. Now is where you do your thinking. Therefore, Now is
where you are actively creating. Therefore, Now is the only interval of time which is truly real
and substantial.

Our perception of what we refer to as linear time is an illusion which proceeds from a limited
awareness of reality. Our Spirit, the messenger behind our dreams, is not afflicted with such a
limitation. Spirit is all aware. Past, present, future, to our Spirit, is all the same thing. Now is all
there really is, and the Spirit knows this. The Spirit’s perspective is infinitely broader than that of
the conscious perspective.

The Make-Up of Your Mind

Imagine a person sitting on a boat in the middle of a brook, observing the world around them.
The only knowledge this person has of the world is confined within the boundaries of this brook.
There may be many possible reasons for this person’s confinement. Maybe the person was told
there was nothing beyond a certain point; and as proof of this proclamation someone offers this
person the evidence of his or her own eyes which does indeed confirm that they cannot see
anything beyond a certain point. So the person then concludes that what he or she has been told
is in fact correct. Or maybe this person was advised to not explore beyond a certain point or
awful things would result; and so it is this person’s fear which keeps them confined. Or perhaps
this person is simply content where he or she is at present and isn’t inspired to go beyond a
certain point. Whatever the reason may be, the point is, this brook is all of the world this person
knows. This person’s perspective is a limited one, wouldn’t you agree? But imagine that this
same person one day overcomes whatever it was that had been keeping him or her confined, and
he or she is moved to go beyond where they’d never been before. In this person’s movement, his
or her perspective of the world grows. Where once he or she only knew of a single brook, this
person soon discovers rivers, and one day will know oceans as well as he or she continues to
move passed the self-imposed boundaries they had placed on themselves. And each time this
person continues to move these boundaries back and crosses over to explore new territories, his
or her perspective on the world expands. He or she does not lose what they once knew, but their
understanding of what they knew grows broader and deeper than it had been before. Mentally,
each of us is on our very own boat similar to the one occupied by the person in the preceding
analogy.

The value in this analogy is that it places a useful image in your mind’s eye. Brooks run into
rivers. Rivers run into oceans. There are no real boundaries separating these bodies of water, they
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is no real separation between your unconscious and conscious mind. It is all one mind. The
unconscious mind is merely that which falls outside the realm of your conscious awareness (it is
your self-imposed boundary).

The way your mind processes information is all relative to its perception. And it’s the
environment that you’re in (the physical dimension) which shapes your conscious perception. As
you observe the things around you in this physical environment, if you take the things you see
and experience at face value, this viewpoint forms a distinct perspective. However, the more
your conscious perspective shifts from accepting the things it sees and experiences at face value,
to also observing and considering the aspects which lie behind “the face,” the more the conscious
mind expands to encompass regions of the unconscious realms, and the boundary lines are thus
reset. That which distinguishes the conscious mind from the unconscious is merely perspective;
in actuality there is no real division. It is all one mind; and the different perspectives of this mind
are in constant communication with each other. Your dreams are just one mode of this
communication.

As you observe and experience life, you do so from all your perspectives – simultaneously. Your
Superconscious mind (the higher region of your unconscious mind) speaks mainly in terms of
intuitive-feeling; and your subconscious mind (the lower region of your unconscious mind)
speaks mainly it terms of instinctive-feeling. In other words, feeling is the language of the
unconscious mind, whereas your conscious mind speaks mainly in terms of logic or reason. Your
conscious awareness is fueled by the information you take in through you physical senses. The
process of gathering information, sorting through it and then drawing conclusions about it is the
function of the intellect. So it’s no wonder your conscious mind has an affinity for palpable,
logical, linear communication. But regardless of this affinity, remember that in actuality there is
no real separation of minds. It is all one mind; therefore you are fluent in both languages (feeling
and logic) regardless of the preference of your unconscious or conscious perspectives. You are
bi-lingual, so to speak. You fully comprehend the language the unconscious mind speaks;
therefore, you fully understand the language of your dreams. You’re simply not associating what
you’re “hearing” when the unconscious mind speaks, with a language. This is because it’s such a
natural part of your everyday experience. But this just goes to show you how common
communication is from the unconscious mind; that it could occur so frequently that it goes
unappreciated by so many of us. Our feelings are such an ordinary and natural part of our
experience that we often take them for granted and fail to appreciate them for what they truly are
– communication from our unconscious mind.

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Chapter 2
LEARNING BY DOING
The process of dream interpretation is born out of the fundamental concepts just laid out. It is not
necessary, however, for you to have a deep understanding of these concepts. Nor is it necessary
for you to fully accept them as true in order to make use of this process. These concepts are only
mentioned so that you have some notion as to the basis of how and why this process works.
Sometimes knowing the how and why of a thing makes grasping the what much easier. At least
this has been my experience.

Another thing which has been my experience is that learning by doing is usually more effective
than simply consuming dry data. Therefore, as this dream interpretation process is described, it is
recommended that you select a dream of your own to be interpreted as you follow along with the
explanation of this process.

The Dream Worksheet

Select a memorable dream (the more recent the better) for this exercise. You’re going to describe
your dream using the Dream Worksheet which follows this section. The front side of the
worksheet is in a table layout. Once it’s filled out, reviewing your dream in this format will make
it much easier for you to break your dream down and uncover its meaning at a glance. The table
format also gives you a speedy way to highlight the prominent elements or symbols in your
dream (the people, places, things and activities), with their corresponding time reference.

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The time reference of your dream elements indicates their period origin. This period origin may
be from a past life; or it may be from your present incarnation; or it may point to a future point in
your present incarnation; or the origin may not be based in any of your physical periods at all,
but may be an astral experience. Remember, to your unconscious mind there is no distinction
among past, present and future; physical experience or astral experience. They’re all the same
thing. So as the unconscious mind selectively pulls elements from your experiences in order to
fashion them into a dream narrative, these elements may come from any point in time (past,
present or future / physical or astral). The unconscious mind makes no distinction whatsoever;
however, your conscious mind still needs the ability to recognize where these elements came
from so that it may better understand why they were in your dream.

If you don’t readily recognize an element in your dream (if you do recognize it, it indicates that it
derives from your present incarnation), you’ll need to rely on the feeling evoked by the element
in your dream in order to place it in one of the other time references.

Past Time Reference: Anything which felt completely familiar or appropriate to you in your
dream, but upon awakening this same element seems foreign to you should go under the
classification of Past Time Reference. Many times we’ll have dreams where we recognize
ourselves in the dream, even though we are in a different body. In these instances, the “person”
dream element that is you is a clear Past Time Reference. You are getting a glimpse of yourself
from a previous incarnation. I had a dream once where I recognized myself in the body of a
White man wearing a track running uniform. I had wild black hair and beard that could have
made a fair number of Hassidic Jews envious. It was simultaneously cool, funny and somewhat
disturbing upon awakening as I came to the realization that this was one of the people I’d been in
a past life.

Present Time Reference: Everything that you can identify or associate with some aspect of your
life should be classified under Present Time Reference. If you dream you’re in your house, and
upon awakening you recognize the house in your dream (maybe it’s the house you’re living in
now or the house that you lived in when you were eight years old – as long as you do
consciously recognize the house, or the house very clearly reminds you of a place which you are
consciously familiar with), then this “place” element would be from your Present Time
Reference.

Future Time Reference: Anything which sparks a feeling of genuine surprise or revelation should
be classified under Future Time Reference. Let’s say in your waking life you have a “tin ear.”
But you have a dream where you’re expected to play a classical piano solo at Symphony Hall.
Even in your dream you’re sweating bullets because as far as you know you don’t know how to
play the piano. It’s curtain time, you’re on stage, the crowd applauds and waits for you to begin.
You take a breath, say a prayer and begin pressing keys and lo and behold! It turns out that
you’re actually a fantastic piano player! This “activity” element would be from a Future Time
Reference because it was news to you (even in the dream) that you had the ability to do this.

Spiritual Time Reference: Anything which, even upon awakening, still feels as real to you as the
nose on your face should be classified under Spiritual Time Reference. These are the elements

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that give you goose bumps because they’re so vivid and feel so awesomely authentic. I had a
dream once where I saw the planets of our solar system floating outside my window. It scared
the daylights out of me because it was so very vivid and felt so very real. I had that dream over
twelve years ago and I still get chills whenever I recall it.

Use one of your dreams and fill out the table on the front of the following worksheet. On the
back of the worksheet there are some additional questions. Fill them out in short answer. These
questions will aid you in deriving deeper meaning from your dream interpretation.

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Date: __________________________________

TIME REFERENCE
PAST PRESENT FUTURE SPIRITUAL Emotional
To your conscious Your conscious mind This element evoked a The element resonated an Response
recollection, this element is recognizes and is familiar feeling of surprise, or impression with you Jot down any prominent
unfamiliar; however, in your with this element… seemed revealing in a which was very emotions you felt in
dream this element resonated way… (unusually so) powerful. relation to any of the
as wholly familiar… It felt real. Dream Elements?
PEOPLE
(Names or
descriptions)
DREAM ELEMENTS

THINGS

PLACES /
SETTINGS

ACTIVITIES

Conflict Dreams………………………..…….. Only elements from Past & Present appear in these dreams.
Wish-fulfillment Dreams………………… …..Only elements from Past & Present appear in these dreams.
Problem-solving / Information Dreams….. …..Elements from Past & Present may appear in these dreams; however at least one element from the Future must also appear.
Prophetic Dreams……………………….... …..Elements from Past & Present may appear in these dreams; however elements from the *Future & *Spirituality must be evident.
Astral Travel Dreams…………………….. …..Elements from Past & Present may appear in these dreams; however elements from *Spirituality must be evident.
1. What was the overall plot / story of the dream?

2. Highlight the outstanding emotions experienced in the dream.

3. Were the emotions felt predominantly positive or negative?

4. What was your vantage point in the dream (observer, participant, or both depending on the portion of the dream referred to)?
(If you were in observer, how did you feel about what you were observing? Were you caught up in the events as they were unfolding,
as if they were happening to you; or did you feel more objective, detach from the events you were witnessing unfold?).

5. What was the outcome / resolution of the dream?

(This may reveal tips on how you should go about doing something in waking life)

6. Could you anticipate the outcome of any of the activities in your dream before they happened? If yes, which ones?

7. Did the events in your dream seem to occur in an erratic or random way, or did they seem to unfold in logical sequence?

8. Were there any recurrent dreams symbols (people, places, things or situations which frequent show up in your dreams)?
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Chapter 3
INTERPRETING YOUR DREAM

Let’s Put Your Dream in the Proper Context First

With any type of communication, having some appreciation for the context of the idea being
communicated is just as important as the literal translation of the idea itself. How many times in
a day does someone ask you, “How are you doing?” And how do you generally respond to this
question? Doesn’t your response depend upon who’s asking the question? Even a simple
question such as this one gets interpreted differently depending upon the type of relationship you
have with the person who’s doing the asking of it. If the question came from your best friend, in
comparison to if it came from the cashier at the local grocery store, or your mother, or your boss,
or whomever, do not those same four words conjure up a different meaning for you? In this
example, who’s asking the question provides the context of the idea being communicated. The
idea itself is the actual question, “How are you doing?”

I don’t mean to be over analytical about something so simple because this could very quickly
lead to confusion, but every one of us takes these interpreting considerations into account every
time we hold a conversation with someone. We’re so adept at translating in this fashion that the
process hardly makes a conscious impression; we just do it. Dreams, the language of your
unconscious mind, are no less sophisticated to decipher. With dreams, however, it is the category
the dream falls into which provides us with the context of the message. And it is the elements
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these aspects (the spirit of the message as well as the literal “words”) if we are to clearly
understand what it is our dreams are trying to tell us.

There is no need to ever feel intimidated by this part of the process of interpreting your dreams
because, remember, you already utilize this contextual translation skill numerous times a day
without ever giving it a second thought. To interpret your dreams, you’ll use this very same skill;
the only additional expertise you’ll need is an understanding of how to apply it to the perspective
of your unconscious mind. With this understanding you will easily be able to put your dreams
into the proper context; and after you put your dream in context, clearly interpreting the actual
message your unconscious is communicating will become a much simpler task.

So what are the dream categories exactly and how do we determine which category a specific
dream falls into? Believe me this won’t be all that painful to wrap you mind around. First off,
there are only five dream categories we need to familiarize ourselves with, so it’s not like we
have to set about memorizing the 3,000 plus hànzi (Chinese writing) characters before we get to
the good stuff. The dream categories or dream types are as follows: Conflict Dreams, Wish-
fulfillment Dreams, Problem-solving / Information Dreams, Astral Travel Dreams, and Prophetic
Dreams. The category a dream falls into will give you a general idea of the message it is trying
to convey because, as stated before, it provides the context of the message being communicated.
Referring to your dream worksheet, the Time Reference (Past, Present, Future, or Spirituality)
that the elements of your dream derive from provide one of the main ways of deciphering what
type of dream it is that you’ve had (in other words, which dream category your dream falls into).
Later on we’ll look at how the elements in our dreams (the People, Things, Places, and
Activities) communicate the actual details of the message. But let’s start with acquainting
ourselves with the five dream categories; what they are (or rather, what is the context of their
message), and the distinguishing attributes of each.

Dream Categories

CONFLICT DREAMS
What are Conflict Dreams?
Conflict dreams function as your spiritual progress reports. They’re your nighttime reviews.
Your Spirit is constantly attempting to communicate to your conscious awareness the areas in
your life which you either need to be more attentive to or handle in a more productive way.
Conflict dreams represent your Spirit’s endeavor to communicate this message to you through
dreams. They’re called Conflict dreams because their purpose is to show you where (in your life)
you are in conflict with your spiritual purpose. These dreams play the role of your constructive
critic. We have these types of dreams frequently.

For many of us, the majority of the dreams we recall fall under the category of Conflict dream.
While this type of dream does cause you to feel different degrees of disconcertion, the point of a
Conflict dream is inherently constructive. Most of your nightmares are Conflict dreams, though
not every Conflict dream is disturbing to this extreme degree. Some are more subtle. But all
invoke some feeling of disquiet (from slight anxiety to all out terror).

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We all occasionally fall into the trap of entertaining negative thoughts during our waking hours.
Any thoughts in the spirit of passing judgment (either towards yourself or towards another), any
thoughts in the spirit of pessimism, manipulation, yielding to the idea of limitation, etc. is a
negative thought. Conflict dreams are merely your unconscious mind’s way of trying to make
your conscious mind realize the unpleasantness you are attracting to yourself as result a of the
negative thoughts you have been entertaining during your waking hours. And the way these
dreams get this point across is by highlighting and exaggerating the negative emotion excited by
the negative thought it “speaks” of. For remember, your emotions are born out of your thoughts,
and it is your thoughts which create your personal reality. The more Attention you give a
particular thought, the more intensely you will feel the emotion it incites. Positive emotions
signify thoughts which are in alignment with your Spirit’s intention. Negative emotions signify
thoughts which are misaligned with your Spirit’s intention. It doesn’t matter whether you are
asleep or awake; this “emotional guidance system” works the same way. Your Spirit is using
your emotions to talk to you about what it is you’ve been thinking (and thus creating) which may
or may not line up with what it knows to be in your overall best interest. Conflict dreams are
always about pointing out those misaligned thoughts which are littering your mental aura. They
are your opportunity to recognize (so that you may correct) destructive thinking patterns. The
level of disquiet you feel in a Conflict dream is an indication of the amount of Attention you
have been giving a negative thought. If you obsess over a negative thought long enough, the
result is always a nightmare. This is your indication that you are reaching a spiritual crisis point.
And if you don’t correct the negative thought pattern your nightmare is warning you about soon,
the crisis will evolve into something more dramatic in order to try to get you to realize that you
need to address this disturbance.

What characteristics distinguish a Conflict dream?

− Conflict dreams only draw from your Past and Present memories.
− The emotions you feel during a Conflict dream are always unsettling. The greater the degree
of unsettlement you feel (such as in a nightmare) is an indication of the extent to which your
dream has been trying to warn you regarding the matter it is reflecting. Each successive dream
dealing with the same negative emotion (or misaligned thought) will grow more emotionally
intense if (in your waking hours) you have been failing to effectively deal with the negative
thought which is at the root of the negative emotion your dream is illustrating.
− Conflict dreams have an erratic, random quality about them. This disorder is part of the reason
why they can so effectively exaggerate the negative emotions you feel while experiencing
them. The erraticness of a Conflict dream promotes a sense of confusion, which in turn
exaggerates the core negative emotions you were already feeling. Have you ever noticed that
the more erratic your Conflict dream is, the more intense the negative emotions you
experience in the dream will be? Nightmares are often highly erratic.

WISH-FULFILLMENT DREAMS
What are Wish-fulfillment Dreams?
Wish-fulfillment dreams offer you a window into your desires. They can oftentimes be highly
symbolic. In other words, if you hit the lottery in a wish-fulfillment dream, it’s not an indication
that you are soon going to hit the lottery in your physical reality (this would only be the case if
this were a prophetic dream). Whatever emotions you felt as you experienced hitting the lottery
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undernourished desires your dream is trying to call your Attention to. Wish-fulfillment dreams
are your unconscious mind’s way of trying to point out to you the desires you have been denying
yourself in your waking life. These desires are always in alignment with your Spirit’s intention,
that’s why the emotions felt in these dreams are always positive and invigorating. You would do
well to be more Attentive to the thoughts you have in your waking life which incite these same
emotions. Such Attention would invariably lead to those same positive desires (not necessarily
the literal event in your dream that sparked the desire, but the desire itself) to manifest itself in
your physical reality.

What characteristics distinguish a Wish-fulfillment dream?

− Wish-fulfillment dreams only draw from your Past and Present memories.
− The emotions you feel during a Wish-fulfillment dream are always positive and exciting.

PROBLEM-SOLVING / INFORMATION DREAMS

What are Problem-solving / Information Dreams?
Problem-solving/ Information dreams are exactly what their name implies; they offer
illuminating information or outright solutions to the puzzles which have been perplexing or
harassing you in your waking hours. Problem-solving / Information dreams can serve as the
landscape your mind uses to practice the solution to a problem (working them out
unconsciously); or these dreams may simply reveal the solution to the problem to you without
your having to mechanically work it out in the dream. Either way, the value of Problem-solving /
Information dreams is tremendous. However, a prerequisite for receiving a Problem-solving /
Information dream is that you have to have asked for the information or solution before it will
come to you. And the way you ask is with your desire to receive the information or solution, you
do not necessarily ask with your words. The strength of your desire is the catalyzing factor, not
the utterances that come out of your mouth.

What characteristics distinguish a Problem-solving / Information dream?

− Problem-solving / Information dreams draw from Present memories, and also highlight
aspects of your (immediate) Future.
− Surprise is the key emotion felt in a Problem-solving / Information dream. These are the
dreams that make you wake up and go, ah ha! I got this now!

ASTRAL TRAVEL DREAMS

What are Astral Travel Dreams?
Astral Travel dreams are real experiences that we have while our physical bodies are sleeping.
We are not just our physical bodies, remember. The essence of who we are is Spirit (this is our
likeness in God). Our body is merely the vehicle our Spirit uses to experience life; but our
experiences in life are not limited to the physical plane of reality. Esoteric literature refers to the
dimensional planes which exist above the physical dimensional plane of reality as the “astral
planes” (these are dimensional planes which vibrate at a higher rate than what our physical
senses can detect). And superimposed on our physical body, each of us also has many astral
bodies (bodies composed of matter which vibrates at a rate higher than what our physical senses
can detect). Our physical body, actually our whole physical reality, is merely an extension of that
which is drawn from the astral planes. In fact, without the astral bodies, the physical body could
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them to exist. Before you were born into this physical world, you had an astral body. And that
which we refer to as “death” is merely our Spirit severing its link to the physical body it had
been using. The physical body dies when the Spirit severs its link (for it is your Spirit which
animates and gives your physical body its life in the first place). The Spirit survives “death”
because the Spirit is immortal. And it continues on experiencing life, after “death,” using an
astral body as a vehicle for expression. And as our physical body sleeps, we often take the
opportunity to travel about the universe using our astral body. This is what an Astral Travel
dream is, real experiences that we have in our astral body, while our physical body is sleeping.
In our astral bodies, we can astrally travel to places on the physical plane (sometimes to peek in
on our loved ones, etc.), we can astrally travel to “heaven” or “The Other Side” (sometimes to
visit with loved ones who have passed on, etc.), the possibilities are endless because on the astral
plane, there is no “time gap.” Our thoughts are manifested instantaneously. We can literally think
ourselves anywhere instantly.

What characteristics distinguish an Astral Travel dream?

− Astral Travel dreams may draw from your Past and Present memories, but they must also
highlight aspects of your Spirituality.
− Astral Travel dreams are extremely vivid. These dreams feel absolutely real because in
actuality, they are real. All of us experience astral travel dreams on a regular basis, but it is
the rare astral travel dream which is actually remembered. The more relevant an astral travel
dream is to a concern in our waking experience, the more likely it is to be remembered. If the
astral travel dream is simply a nightly dalliance (a reprieve from the pressure experienced in
the physical dimension), it will oftentimes be forgotten upon awakening.
− Astral Travel dreams are never incoherent; they always unfold in a logical sequence. These
dreams are always in color.

PROPHETIC DREAMS
What are Prophetic Dreams?
As the name suggests, Prophetic dreams offer you a glimpse of the future that is presently
unfolding. The future, however, is not a fixed preset. Prophetic dreams can only tell you what is
to come given that all the presently unfolding variables remain unchanged. Every Prophetic
dream is also an Astral Travel dream. However, not every Astral Travel dream is a Prophetic
dream as well. It might be helpful for you to use your consideration of the square and rectangle
relationship to help you grasp this idea in that every square is also a rectangle, however not every
rectangle is necessarily a square.

What characteristics distinguish a Prophetic dream?

− Prophetic dreams may draw from your Past and Present memories, but they must also
highlight aspects of your Future and Spirituality.
− The emotions you experience in a Prophetic dream are both profound and intense, so
much so that these emotions stay with you even if the events of the dream are consciously
forgotten upon awakening. But the Prophetic dreams that you do consciously recall are
very rarely ever forgotten, and can be recollected with a vividness of detail that may
surpass even your waking life memories, years after having the dream. The emotions felt
in these dreams can either be positive or negative depending on the nature of the
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component of these emotions. It is the surprise emotion element which distinguishes a

Prophetic dream from an Astral Travel dream.
− Because of the Prophetic dream’s relationship to the Astral Travel dream, the two share
this common distinction: Prophetic dreams are never incoherent; they always unfold in a
logical sequence. Prophetic dreams are also very vivid and are always in color.

Refer to you Dream Worksheet. Look at where the elements in your dream were time referenced;
then review questions 3 and 7 on the back of the worksheet. This is all the information you will
need to categorize your dream and understand the context in which it was communicated. Using
what you now know about the distinguishing characteristics of each dream type, take the
information you just gathered from your worksheet and compare your dream’s characteristics to
the distinguishing characteristics of each dream category. The dream you had should only fit one
category. Which one is it? Make a note of it. We’ll come back to it later.

SO I GET THE CONTEXT, NOW WHAT’S THE MESSAGE?

(Can you say that in English please?)

Your dreams do not use words to “speak” their message. Yes, there is often verbal dialogue in
your dreams, but such dialogue is comparable to an accent within a language, and should not be
regarded as the actual language itself. The language of all dreams is Emotion. And seeing as how
this is a language we are all born naturally comprehending, interpreting your dreams is not really
a matter of translation, but differentiation.

For example, I’m from Boston – the home of the drop all R’s accent. Have you ever heard Ted
Kennedy speak, or seen the movie Good Will Hunting? Now of course this is a generalization
because not everybody in and from Boston speaks this way (myself included); but because I was
born, raised and have lived in Boston all of my life, I can readily process the Bostonian accent
without a pause. Whereas when I travel “down south” (to Virginia, North Carolina, or wherever),
there are moments when I find myself repeating what someone has said to me in my head before
the words they spoke make clear sense to me. It’s not that I don’t understand the words a
southerner speaks or know what the words mean, it’s simply that (because I’m hearing words
spoken in an accent which I am, in general, unaccustomed to) I sometimes process the words a
little slower. I understand the language, but I’m not used to their particular accent of the
language; therefore, I sometimes need to go over the words a southerner speaks in my mind in
order to differentiate them. I’m sure many of you have had similar experiences, and I also think
most of you would agree that making this type of “language adjustment” is not a big deal. In like
manner, figuring out what your dreams are saying to you is also no big deal; you already know
the language spoken by your dreams, you just need to learn to get passed the “accent.”

So what is the dream “accent” exactly? The “accent” of your dream has nothing to do with
enunciation or inflections. The “accents” in your dreams are the symbols or elements in your
dream (the people, the things, the places, and the activities) and whatever dialogue is spoken. All
of these occurrences (the people in your dreams, the setting of your dream, the things in your
dream, the activities in your dream, the dialogue spoken in your dream) are orchestrated by your
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dreams is trying to get across; the symbols and dialogue in your dreams merely add flavor to the
story.

The Practice of Emotional Overlaying (Getting passed the dream “accent”)

The practice of Emotional Overlaying simply involves matching up the emotions you feel in
your dreams with the emotions you feel in waking life. When you are dealing with Conflict,
Wish-fulfillment, and Problem-solving / Information dreams there will always be an exact match
between your dream emotions and your waking emotions. Any lack of success you have in
determining where a match is does not indicate the absence of this match, it merely means you
simply have not recognized it yet (kind of like hunting for that last backwards spelled word in a
word puzzle). Maybe you haven’t recalled enough of your dream to make the recognition of an
emotional match clear to you. Maybe you are still in denial about certain emotions you’ve been
feeling in your waking hours and this is why you can’t see a match. If it is the latter, your dream
has just imparted to you an opportunity to have a “get real” moment. If you haven’t been being
honest with yourself about something going on in your life, and you have a Conflict, Wish-
fulfillment, or Problem-solving / Information dream that you can recall in detail but for which
you have failed to find an emotional match to in your waking experience, this tells you that you
are in denial about something going on in your life. That understanding, in and of itself, is a
valuable message. Again, however, this scenario only applies to Conflict, Wish-fulfillment, and
Problem-solving / Information dreams because in the case of the Prophetic dream, the practice
of Emotional Overlaying takes on a slightly different context. As it applies to the Astral Travel
dream, the practice of Emotional Overlaying is wholly unworkable and thus obsolete.

Astral Travel dreams are the most literal of all your dreams because in an Astral Travel dream
you are literally creating and participating in a new experience while you are sleeping – as
opposed to merely reviewing your waking experiences while you are sleeping (which is what
you are doing in a Conflict, Wish-fulfillment, or Problem-solving / Information dream). So since
you are actively creating and participating in new experiences in an Astral Travel dream, the
emotions you feel in these dreams won’t necessarily coincide with the emotions you experience
in your waking hours. How could it? It’s all brand new. That’s why the Emotional Overlay
procedure does not apply here. With respect to Prophetic dreams (which are also Astral Travel
dreams as you remember), the Emotional Overlay procedure does work, but not in the same way
that it does for Conflict, Wish-fulfillment, and Problem-solving / Information dreams. Oftentimes
(for remember, the future is not a fixed preset) you “grow in to” the emotions that you
experience in a Prophetic dream because the events being prophesized in the dream haven’t yet
occurred in your waking life. Therefore, you haven’t yet experienced those dream emotions in
your waking experience. The Emotional Overlaying procedure with regard to Prophetic dreams
merely verifies the accuracy of the Prophetic dream you had. For if the event in your Prophetic
dream does come to pass in your waking hours, the emotions you felt in that dream will mirror
the emotions you will experience as you physically live through the event. This is why our
Prophetic and Astral Travel dreams can oftentimes feel somewhat “other worldly,” for in them
we are actually experiencing real events outside of the physical dimension, so of course it feels
extraordinary. Now that we understand why we won’t be using the Emotional Overlay procedure
on Prophetic and Astral Travel dreams, let’s look at how-to carry this process out on Conflict,
Wish-fulfillment, and Problem-solving / Information dreams.

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Emotional Overlaying is not at all a complicated procedure. The biggest thing you have to do in
order to be a successful practitioner of this procedure is be attentive to your emotions, both in
your dreams and as you’re going about your day. If you do this, the two step process of an
Emotional Overlay procedure will seem like child’s play. The two step process is as follows:

Step 1: Identify the emotions you felt in you dream.

Step 2: Examine your waking life emotional experience until you find an exact match to the
feelings experienced in your dream.

It’s that simple. Emotional Overlaying is simply about overlaying your dream emotions on top of
the equivalent waking emotions you’ve experienced; and through this superimposition, you gain
the gift of viewing your thoughts and emotions from a different perspective (the perspective of
your unconscious mind). How cool is that!

To get you started on the practice of performing this procedure, refer back to the Dream
Worksheet you filled out. Review the feelings that you listed in the Emotional Response column,
and the feelings that you listed under question 2 on the back of the worksheet. The emotional
experience in your dream should resonate with an emotional reaction you’ve had in your waking
experience. Finding this match tells you where exactly, in your waking life, your dream is
referenced from. And bear in mind that the term “waking experience” does not merely refer to
the events that happen to you while you are awake, but also the thoughts you give your Attention
to while you are awake. For example, let’s say you had a dream in which you felt lost, powerless
and frustrated. And as you reflect on the emotions you feel in your waking hours you recognize
that these same feelings (feeling lost, powerless and frustrated) match exactly how you feel when
you are thinking about the direction your life is heading in. From this Emotional Overlay
procedure, you now understand that your dream is talking to you about the thoughts you’ve been
giving your Attention to as you consider your life’s direction. Do you see how this works now?
It’s just that simple.

Putting it all together (the context and the message)

Let’s take the preceding example of the dream where you felt lost, powerless and frustrated (all
negative emotions) even further. Let’s say this dream also seemed erratic and incoherent; and
that the elements within the dream came from your Present Time Reference. This information
tells you that this was a Conflict dream. And we know Conflict dreams are always about pointing
out to us where our thoughts are out of alignment with our Spirit’s intent. So in this example,
your dream is trying to shake you. It is essentially saying, “Stop thinking about the direction your
life is moving in, in the manner in which you have been thinking about it because these thoughts
are not serving you well; these thoughts are not in your best interest. Did you feel just how
intense those emotions in the dream were? Well this is the same power of intensity you are
imparting to these thoughts which are out of sync with what your Spirit knows to be best for you.
And as a result, look at what you are creating and inviting into your experience if you do not now
change the way you thinking about your life’s direction.”

So do you see now how the context of your dream and the dream message itself works
collaboratively to provide you with your unconscious mind’s perspective on your waking life
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sent, to do so only muddles the intended meaning of the dream and invites confusion and
inaccurate interpretations of these priceless messages from your unconscious.

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Dear Readers,

Please excuse the abrupt end to this material. This version of Breaking
the Language Barrier: Learning to Interpret Your Dreams is actually a
working draft. Hopefully I have provided you with enough information in
these opening pages to make you realize that, with a little practice,
understanding the meaning of your dreams can very well become an ability
which is second nature to you. If the dream interpretation technique outlined
in this book has been helpful to you, I invite you to share your stories of
success for possible inclusion in the final draft of this material. Tell me, what
was your dream about? And what category did you determine this particular
dream best fit into? Where in your life (in the case of conflict, problem
solving and wish-fulfillment dreams) did the emotional experience in your
dream seem to mirror an emotional experience in your waking life? Share as
much detail as you feel comfortable with as you explain what it is you
interpreted your dream to mean.
In addition to your stories, please feel free to send me any questions
you may have about the subject of dream interpretation. What would you
like to see answered or explained better in the final draft of this book that
you didn’t see presented here in this draft of the writing?
It truly is a delight to read all of your stories and receive your
constructive feedback. I thank you for it. You may address all your
correspondence to [email protected]. And here’s to not
only always remembering your dreams, but to also remembering their value.

Sincerely,
Evette Gardner