Child Bully PDF
Child Bully PDF
Child Bully PDF
Bullying
Michael Carr-Gregg Ramesh Manocha
Background
The mental, physical, social and academic consequences of bullying have an enormous impact on human and social capital.
Objective
This article describes the effects and prevalence of bullying on young people and presents strategies for its detection. Strategies for the facilitation of a multidisciplinary approach to bullying in adolescents are also presented.
Discussion
Given the existing high rate of bullying, assessment should be incorporated into a standard psychosocial screening routine in the general practitioners clinic. Effective management is a multidisciplinary effort, involving parents, teachers and school officials, the GP, and mental health professionals. Given the variable effectiveness of schools in tackling bullying, GPs play an important role in identifying at risk patients, screening for psychiatric comorbidities, counselling families about the problem, and advocating for bullying prevention in their communities.
Prevalence
Although bullying has long been perceived an inevitable part of growing up, a recent American survey shows that children aged 815 years rate bullying as a greater problem than racism or peer pressure to have sex or use alcohol and other drugs.6 Australian data appears to reflect this trend; a 1996 study found 1 in 6 children reported being bullied weekly and being bothered by it.7 A recent Federal Government commissioned Australian study surveyed 7000 children from 124 schools nationally and found that bullying peaked in the final years of primary school, with 32% of students stating they
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Table 1. Types of bullying Physical bullying: hitting, poking, tripping, pushing or damaging someones belongings Verbal bullying: name calling, insults, homophobic or racist remarks and verbal abuse Social (covert) bullying: lying, spreading rumours, playing a nasty joke, mimicking and deliberately excluding someone Psychological bullying: threatening, manipulation and stalking Cyberbullying: using technology (eg. email, mobile telephones, chat rooms, social networking sites) to bully verbally, socially or psychologically Bullying is not: mutual arguments and disagreements single episodes of social rejection or dislike single episode acts of nastiness or spite random acts of aggression or intimidation. Source The National Centre Against Bullying www. ncab.org.au/Page.aspx?ID=206 were targeted.8 This data suggests that the prevalence of bullying is increasing and that Australia has one of the highest rates of bullying in the developed world. A recent review9 concluded that the effectiveness of school antibullying measures are modest at best,indicating that bullying is likely to be an ongoing problem.
Early detection
Given the high prevalence of bullying, GPs should incorporate an assessment for bullying into their standard psychosocial screening routine, ideally with every encounter with a young person.17 Young people are often reluctant to disclose that they are being bullied because they are ashamed, think it is their fault, may fear retaliation, or regard disclosure as dobbing. An Australian study18 of 415 high school students found that more than half (54%) would not report bullying to adults. Of those that would report, students more frequently said they would tell a parent, followed by a school friend, and then a teacher. Although young people are unlikely to spontaneously disclose the issue during a general practice consultation,17 parents/relatives or another third party may report it or a school may refer the victim to a GP. Many presentations should prompt consideration of bullying (Table 3). Interestingly, young people who perpetrate bullying are just as likely as the victims to report these types of symptoms, and young people who both bully and are victimised might be at greatest risk.19,20 Young people who bully are also more likely to report alcohol and substance use.21
Assessment
Many adolescents are willing to discuss health concerns with their GP if engaged in an adolescent friendly way. General practitioners are legally and ethically bound to keep information that is disclosed by patients confidential. Concerns about confidentiality are a major barrier for young people,22 so it is important to reassure them that the information they disclose will be kept confidential except in extreme circumstances. (Where, for example, the patients life may be in danger, public interest or mandatory reporting obligations occur.) So, once the young persons mental competence is established, it is important to ensure that at least part of each consultation is conducted without the presence of the parent. Removing the parent from the consultation room can be presented as usual protocol with a statement such as, Well Mrs Jones, before you leave, and I talk to Amy alone, do you have any more questions? Table 2. Tasks for the GP in managing young people affected by bullying Early detection Assessment of the severity and impacts Counselling and support Encouraging the young person to disclose the bullying to parents Developing an action plan with the family Appropriate referral Broader roles as required such as: advocating on behalf of the young person to school officials or other community agencies encouraging parents to engage their children in positive school and community activities helping other adults to recognise the physical and psychological symptoms associated with bullying
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The HEADSS (Home, Education and Employment, Activities, Drugs, Sexuality, Suicide/depression) psychosocial assessment strategy17 is a common method of establishing a meaningful rapport between the GP and the young person. It is a useful clinical tool, can usually be completed within the scope of most consultations, and provides a framework for GPs to effectively assess for bullying (see Resources). The GP should ascertain the type of bullying, ie. physical, verbal, psychological (social exclusion, rumours, putdowns), sexual (which can be physical or verbal) or cyber, and determine if mandatory reporting is necessary. If there are concerns about online behaviour that involves sexual exploitation of a child this should be reported to the Australian Federal Police Child Protection Operations team (see Resources). Further practical strategies to facilitate disclosure are described in Table 4 and 5.
Table 3. Common clinical indicators of bullying29,30 School refusal or excuses for school avoidance (eg. feeling sick) Wanting to go to school a different way (eg. changing the route, or being driven instead of catching a bus) Being tense, tearful and unhappy before or after school Talking about hating school or other children Suspicious bruises or scratches Damage to, or loss of, personal belongings Sleeping difficulties including nightmares and enuresis Social withdrawal Refusing to discuss what happens at school Somatic symptoms such as headache or abdominal pain
Table 4. Useful questions about school1 What do you like about school? What are you good/not good at? How do you get along with teachers and other students? Is there an adult you can talk to at school about how you feel? Have your marks changed recently? Many young people experience bullying at school or at home via the net or mobile telephone, have you ever had to put up with this?
Table 5. Example of a bullying history The many young people technique allows sensitive questions to be asked in a nonthreatening way I have heard that many young people your age, experience bullying at school or at home online or by phone have any of your friends ever had to put up with this? Remembering what we said about confidentiality, that this was just between the two of us, can you tell me whether you have ever experienced this sort of harassment at school or at home online or by telephone? What type of bullying was this (ie. is it cyberbullying, physical, psychological)? Have you told anyone about this? How often has this occurred? (assess intensity) How long has this been going on for? (assess duration) (If cyberbullying) did you save any of the messages on your phone or computer as evidence? How many different places or relationships does the bullying occur in?
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about what you have had to put up with, but in my experience, it is very helpful to let them know what has been going on. We can do this in a variety of ways: you can sit in while I tell them whats been going on; or you can wait outside while I let them know and then bring you in; or you can tell them in front of me.
harmful effects of their actions, the unacceptable nature of their behaviour and the development of a monitored plan to remediate the situation (see Resources).
Peer mediation
Peer mediation is a process in which students resolve disputes and conflict among their peers. Peer mediators are chosen by their own peers and receive training to work with both the bully and the victim to arrive at a nonaggressive, constructive solution. It has been used successfully with children in a number of school settings.27
Shared concern
Simple disapproval and punishment of bullies may not prevent bullying. The shared concern approach is based on the assumption that bullies typically are insensitive to the harm they are doing to the victim (see Resources). This is because of their involvement in a group which gives legitimacy to bullying, reducing their sense of personal responsibility. This model uses the fact that bullies commonly feel uncomfortable with their own behaviour. An adult mediator uses specific techniques to demonstrate the impact of the bullying on the victim. Although the method involves a nonblaming approach, it does not seek to excuse or condone bullying and has been found to be effective in many settings.28
Conclusion
Bullying is emerging as a significant but preventable mental health risk factor for young people. Once detected, a partnership involving the Table 6. Important parental dos and donts Do NOT Tell the young person to ignore the bullying as this often allows the bullying and its impact to become more serious Blame the young person or assume that they have done something to provoke the bullying Encourage retaliation Criticise how your child/teenager dealt with the bullying Contact the bully or parents of the bully Do Listen carefully. Ask who was involved and what was involved in each episode Empathise and reinforce that you are glad your child/ teenager has disclosed this Ask your child/teenager what they think can be done to help Reassure your child/teenager that you will take sensible action Contact the teacher and/or principal and take a cooperative approach in finding a solution Contact school authorities if bullying persists and escalate your communications up the chain of command
Restorative justice
A form of conflict resolution which involves a mediated meeting between victim and offender aimed at making them understand the
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child, the parents, health professionals, teachers, and schools is more likely to lead to a positive outcome. The GP can play a central role in the detection, facilitation of a multidisciplinary approach, and ongoing management.
Resources
For GPs HEADSS: www.rch.org.au/clinicalguide/cpg.cfm?doc_ id=11710#headds Shared concern method training: www.readymade.com.au/method/ previews/index.htm Australian Federal Police Child Protection: www.afp.gov.au/online_ forms/ocset_form MoodGYM cognitive behavioural therapy training: moodgym.anu. edu.au/welcome National Centre Against Bullying provides useful resources and tips for health professionals, parents and young people: www.ncab.org.au Generation Next seminars and resources for health professionals, parents and teachers: www.generationnext.com.au Thorsborne M, Vinegard D. Restorative Justice Pocketbook. Alresford, Hampshire: Management Pocketbook Ltd, 2009 For patients and parents/carers/teachers What should I do if my child is being bullied?: www.deewr.gov.au/ Schooling/NationalSafeSchools/Pages/whattodo.aspx Cyber(smart:) provides activities, resources and advice to parents and children on using the internet safely: www.cybersmart.gov.au National Centre Against Bullying: www.ncab.org.au Reach Out information on mental health and wellbeing resources and services: http://au.reachout.com/find/articles/kids-help-line Bully Blocking information and resources, including a newsletter and books in different languages: www.bullying.com.au.
Authors
Michael Carr-Gregg PhD, is an adolescent psychologist, Victoria. [email protected] Ramesh Manocha MBBS, BSc, PhD, is Senior Lecturer, Discipline of Psychiatry, Sydney Medical School, The University of Sydney, New South Wales. Conflict of interest: none declared.
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