What is Self-Awareness?

Tips and strategies for improving your childs Self-Awareness skills.

What is Self-Awareness?
Tips and strategies for improving your childs Self-Awareness skills.
What is Self-Awareness? What Self Awareness skills are all about, and how to tell if your child needs to improve them.
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Improving Self-Awareness Tips and Strategies for Improving your childs Self-Awareness Skills
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Self-Awareness and Academics How developing strong Self-Awareness skills can help you child succeed in the classroom.
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Self-Awareness and Digital Play How healthy and responsible digital play can help improve Self-Awareness Skills
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What is Self Awareness?

Kids With Good SelfAwareness Skills:

1. Recognize the needs of younger children, such as holding their hands while crossing a street. 2. Have an awareness of how their behavior impacts others. 3. Display an ability to understand and articulate their feelings. 4. Use self-instruction, such as, First, Ill do this; next, Ill do that. 5. Are able to identify what they must learn in order to complete a task successfully. 6. Understand their personal strengths and weaknesses. 7.

Self-Awareness is the thinking skill that focuses on a childs ability to accurately judge their own performance and behavior and to respond appropriately to different social situations. Self-Awareness helps an individual to tune into their feelings, as well as to the behaviors and feelings of others. For example, a child successfully uses self-awareness skills when they notice they are talking too loudly in a library where other children are trying to work, and then adjusts the volume or their voice to a more considerate level. Self-Awareness is vital both to a childs academic success as well as their social and emotional growth. This thinking skill facilitates a childs ability to accurately judge their own performance and behavior, as well as their ability to appropriately respond to different social situations.
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The thinking skill of selfawareness is associated primarily with Dawson and Guares executive skill of metacognition. In the LearningWorks for Kids thinking-skills model, we have added the component of social thinking, which reects an individuals capacity for understanding others feelings and motivations. As an executive function, selfawareness refers to the capacity to understand the impact of ones behavior on others, as well as the capacity to connect and empathize with individuals in their environments. Self-awareness helps children to be reective and think about their actions and behavior, as well as to step back and consider what others in their environment are experiencing.

Self-awareness facilitates the capacity to learn from ones mistakes, accept criticism, and listen to and understand the feelings of others. Assessing the executive function of self-awareness in children involves seeing how effectively they understand themselves and others. The Learning-Works for Kids Thinking Skills Assessment is based on the Executive Skills Questionnaire, which measures self-awareness primarily by childrens capacity to explain the rationale for their decision making, accurately assess their performance, and their capacity to take on other peoples perspectives.

Kids With Underdeveloped Self-Awareness Skills:

1. Have difculty understanding nonverbal cues and body posture. 2. Are unable to understand other peoples perspectives. 3. Are in frequent conict with others due to misunderstandings. 4. Engage in inappropriate behaviors without recognizing how they impact others. 5. Have difculty being accurate in their selfassessment, such as in describing their academic or athletic performance. 6. Are unlikely to double check their work and often make simple mistakes, such as adding instead of subtracting.

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Improving Self-Awareness
These are some general strategies and ideas for helping kids to improve their Self-Awareness skills.
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1. Develop checklists to help children determine how well they have completed a home-based chore or activity. Use a grading system and give praise for accurate self-evaluation. Have them rate themselves as you rate them for the same task then compare and contrast scores. Describe your methods of evaluation and ask them to do the same. 2. Encourage estimation and prediction skills. Ask children how they might do on a test at school, how long it might take them to complete a task at home, or how they might perform in a game or sport. Have them record their estimates and then step back later to determine the accuracy of their predictions.
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Younger children may benet from visual reminders of their sets of strengths and weaknesses.

3. Express yourself: Model self-verbalization skills by expressing your thoughts and problem-solving strategies aloud. For example, verbalize statements such as, This reminds me of the time when we tried to do this, or I need to think about what worked and didnt work the last time we did this. Encourage your child to use similar self-instructional strategies to help them in their own problem-solving tasks. 4. Estimating how easy or difcult a task might be will assist your child to gage her ability to complete the task. It can also be helpful to consider potential barricades to completion of a goal. Ask questions that encourage thinking about what might hinder, delay or prevent successful completion. 5. Be a friend. Help your child to set up a play date with a friend by talking about the guests interests, anticipating any needs or preparing some activities that they might both enjoy. You might also nd ways to have the child help you to get ready for dinner guests or visiting relatives with similar considerations in mind. 6. Be reporters. Make use of occasional opportunities for you and your child to sit back and observe other

children in small groups. On a bench at the playground, the beach or the mall, take turns reporting on social interactions you can watch live. Make guesses about what might be going on. Then point out any physical actions, facial expressions, behaviors or tones of voice that give clues to support or disprove your imagined story. 7. Be actors. Role-playing or rehearsing lines can be a big help in getting ready to meet new people or enter a new setting. Take turns introducing yourself to each other and asking one or two appropriate questions. As your child becomes more condent with these skills, simply offer a prompt prior to entering a new situation. Describe your methods of evaluation and ask them to do the same. 8. Younger children may benet from visual reminders of their sets of strengths and weaknesses. For example, a collage of pictures showing a social, friendly, but disorganized child smiling with friends, engaged in cooperative play activities, yet also having a messy room. Encourage your child to collect and group the pictures and to talk about her choices.

Self-Awareness and Academic Skills

Self-awareness is an important skill in the capacity to assess ones academic performance.
Carefully checking over ones work in math, taking the time to see that you have spelled words correctly while writing, and stepping back to make connections and inferences about what one has read are all important
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skills, particularly at higher levels of learning. Metacognition facilitates reecting about what one has learned, and not simply memorizing a series of facts.

Reading
Self-Awareness skills are an important part of making inferences and connections about content while reading.

 Self-Awareness helps kids become procient at spell checking techniques, proof-reading, and other revision activities.

Math:
Self-Awareness helps kidsto explain their mathematical reasoning in words. Self-Awareness is vital when self-evaluating and checking ones work for errors. Self-Awareness helps children monitor and assess their comprehension of what they have read.

Writing:
Self-Awareness is an important aspect of understanding ones audience and the type of writing assignment at hand. Self-Awareness helps kids develop a willingness to reect on, and edit their work.

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Self-Awareness and Digital Play

Digital Play is lled with opportunities to improve Self-Awareness.
Playing video games, searching the Internet, trying out the newest app, or Facebooking a friend demands a variety of thinking skills. Prociency with any of these digital tools requires the ability to apply skills such as Planning,Organization, For children, the Working Memory, or Selfattraction of video Awareness. For children, the attraction of video games and games and technologies technologies makes them an ideal makes them an ideal teaching tool for practicing gameteaching tool for based skills and learning to apply practicing game-based them to school and daily activities. Self-Awareness is a frequently applied thinking skill for video game players who are looking to improve their performance or
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skills and learning to apply them to school and daily activities.

simply share their game passions with other players. Players will often ask each other questions, explain their approaches to difcult parts of the game, and reect on new ways they can use their digital technologies to help them in real-world activities. Many popular video games today are loaded with opportunities to practice and develop the skill of SelfAwareness. Beating a game frequently requires that players recognize their own strengths and weaknesses, consider the assets they have in the game, and think about the skills needed to be able to beat a particular level. These reective (sometimes called meta-cognitive skills) and self-recognition skills are all core components of Self-Awareness.

Talk to their peers who have an interest in the same video game or technology. Self-evaluate their performance in order to assess what they need to do in order to be successfuland beat the game. Learn from ones failure in the game, as well as ones success. Develop estimation skills that help them hypothesize how certain strategies may play out.
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Digital play can help kids improve SelfAwareness skills by helping them to:
Plan and discuss game strategies with parents or friends in a Massively Multiplayer Online RolePlayingGame (MMORPG).

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