Shownotes   Why pure play is so important in healing The importance of trusting the pace of your body A simple practice to make emotions conscious Why relational wounding is healed in relationship How to access your partner’s deepest magic What you can do to become more magnetic   Bio   Starielle Hope is a relationship and intimacy coach who specializes in working with people who have found success in their careers, but struggle to find the same success in relationships.   She grew up in a constant state of loneliness that she thought was normal because it was all she had ever known. After feeling terribly isolated because connecting with others didn’t come naturally to her, she experienced a wakeup call in her early 20s when I learned that, not only was this not normal, but she could actually learn how to connect more deeply with others just as she could learn any other skill. So she set out to reverse engineer connection and intimacy for herself.    Along the way, she discovered that she has a unique talent for taking abstract emotional concepts and breaking them down into tangible, step-by-step processes that those who are more comfortable in their logical/rational minds (like Starielle) can understand and adopt.   Learning how to connect more deeply with others has improved her happiness and well-being more than anything else she’s ever done, and she absolutely loves sharing what she’s learned along the way.   Starielle has been doing this work for over a decade now and loves every minute of it. She currently shares the knowledge she’s gathered through one-on-one coaching and online courses and will be publishing her first book later this year.   Discover more of Starielle’s work and connect with her on her website. Timestamps   00:02:01 - Guest introduction 00:03:55 - How Layla and Starielle first met 00:08:30 - Starielle shares a powerful example of magnetism from Layla’s birthday 00:09:40 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:10:28 - Why pure play is so important in healing 00:11:34 - Starielle shares about her personal growth path 00:13:05 - True play is the opposite of trauma 00:18:13 - Feeling your feelings allows you to sparkle 00:23:24 - The importance of trusting the pace of your body 00:23:49 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification  00:28:14 - Starielle shares a simple practice to make emotions conscious 00:34:00 - Relational wounding is healed in relationship 00:37:37 - 3 stages of dependence 00:43:11 - How to access your partner’s deepest magic 00:44:10 - Discover MOOD™ Sexy Supplements 00:45:19 - Get Layla’s free Orgasmic Breathwork Practice for deeper pleasure 00:46:30 - Reach your full pleasure capacity with Men’s Sexual Mastery 00:49:13 - The different energies of anger 00:52:43 - Men are meant to be warriors 00:56:20 - Expand your pleasure potential with Obliss Women’s Sexual Masterclass 00:59:52 -  Why reading women’s signals is so important for men 01:05:50 - One of the biggest issues Starielle sees with men 01:09:15 - What you can do to become more magnetic 01:11:36 - Starielle shares her experience in VITA™ Coaching 01:15:10 - Conclusion