Episode Highlights With StephanieHow a very difficult adult experience led her to the work she does today and how it profoundly impacted her tooWhat a stuck identity is and how they can get in the way of achieving what we wantAn identity is when we take on a point of view to help achieve something and why the stuck identities are the issueWhat happens when we have two conflicting identities at the same timeThe brain doesn’t know the difference between something that has actually happened and an imagined experience of the same thingHow to use the fact that the brain doesn't know the difference between doing an imagining to your advantageThings we can do to help our children avoid stuck identities by allowing them to speak authentically without judgementThe key to integration is to de-identify with individual onesA live demo on me of one of her processes on something vulnerable happening in my life and how you can use this same system with journaling to work through somethingWhy self talk is so important and how to learn how to shift it if this is something that is a struggle for youThree tools that helped her shift her inner self talkWhat mirror work is and how it can be helpfulWhy play is important and how it means that your inner child feels safe - a lightning bolt moment for me… was my resistance to play and games for many years because my inner child didn’t feel safe?Resources We MentionRapidrewiremethod.com (with free resource)Letting Go: The Pathway of Surrender by David R. Hawkins, MDThe Untethered Soul: The Journey Beyond Yourself by Michael A. SingerThe Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz