Podcast #480

HAVING RELATIONSHIPS WITH CONFIDENCE







Dating gets better results when you date with confidence, curiosity and courage. Marriage is better when the relationship is approached with confidence, curiosity and connection. Get coaching on how to add the spark of confidence to the relationships in your life, either the relationships you already have, or the ones you hope to have. A life with confident, life-giving relationships is a life well lived.

In this episode of The Confidence Podcast, we're talking about.



Dating with confidenceKnowing your standards, creating a relationship you love (how to have confidence in your own relationship with yourself so that you can have confidence in all of your relationships)Marriage with confidence


 
WORTH WEEK:



Annoucing WORTH WEEK.



Five days live with me, February 21-25th.



I'll teach you the 5-step framework to feeling worthy, loved and called to greatness - it's a week where you will learn to see yourself how God sees you, how to drop the baggage and trash thoughts that are holding you back and how to live a life of extraordinary enthusiasm, confidence and impact.








 
REVIEW OF THE WEEK:



I don't know how I stumbled across Trish's podcast but I thank God every day that I did. Her content is so real and relatable.



-Mariela Coleman



 
DATING WITH CONFIDENCE



Let go of the pressure.



Be open to the adventure.



Be yourself, be yourself, be yourself.



Accept that some people don't like chocolate covered strawberries.



Demand respect.



Don't settle



Pray over your future spouse.



Trust God's timeline, not your own.



Shift from "do they like me?" to "Do I like them?"



Take the initiative- you have the ability to choose



Keep an open mind - what matters in the long run



Don't ignore red flags



Live your life as if you'll  never find the one



Address any false beliefs about your worth



Own your style and feel good in what you like



Neutralize rejection as simply part of the process



Remind yourself that you are fabulous



Practice, be proactive, ditch the pickiness


www.trishblackwell.com/479 How to Stop Settling and Playing Small





 
CONFIDENCE IN YOUR OWN RELATIONSHIP



You can only have a relationship with others to the measure in which you have a healthy emotional relationship with yourself.



Make the time for yourself.



Take ownership of your emotional responsibility.



Love the person God made you to be, and be excited about who you are becoming.



Guard your thoughts from comparison, criticism and cynicism



Value what you bring to the table so you know your standards.


 
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MARRIAGE WITH CONFIDENCE



Date your spouse.



Create joint vision together.



Put each other first.



Decide to have a different type of marriage.



Know your spouse's love language.



Refuse to settle into complacency.



Communicate, communicate, communicate.



Talk about sex, pleasure and joy.



Have marriage meetings.