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    ADHD Raising an Explosive Child: Guidebook for Parents to Help Children Self-Regulate, Build Social Skills, Focus, Organise and Gain Confidence
    ADHD Raising an Explosive Child: Guidebook for Parents to Help Children Self-Regulate, Build Social Skills, Focus, Organise and Gain Confidence
    ADHD Raising an Explosive Child: Guidebook for Parents to Help Children Self-Regulate, Build Social Skills, Focus, Organise and Gain Confidence
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    ADHD Raising an Explosive Child: Guidebook for Parents to Help Children Self-Regulate, Build Social Skills, Focus, Organise and Gain Confidence

    By Selma Evans

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    Do you feel overwhelmed when it comes to understanding and addressing your child's ADHD and its associated challenges?

     

    Do you find yourself anxious when your child is at school or with friends, fearing they may be ostracised or ridiculed due to their unique needs?

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherSelma Evans
    Release dateMay 16, 2023
    ISBN9791281498082
    ADHD Raising an Explosive Child: Guidebook for Parents to Help Children Self-Regulate, Build Social Skills, Focus, Organise and Gain Confidence

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      ADHD Raising an Explosive Child - Selma Evans

      INTRODUCTION

      Raising a child with ADHD or attention deficit-hyperactivity disorder can be exhausting. It's vital for parents of these children to know that there are many different ways to parent. Regardless of how they choose to raise their child, parents should be aware of the facts.

      Most children with ADHD are not hyperactive most of the time. However, the symptoms, such as hyperactivity and impulsivity, can be quite demanding and difficult for parents, teachers, and children to manage.

      There are some parents who see raising a child with ADHD as being more of a challenge than parenting without this diagnosis. Some people see ADHD as a disability, and they see it as their role as parents to compensate for the disability. The child may benefit from medication and therapy. However, the child will never be cured.

      ADHD is an extremely common disorder, and it can affect any child at any time. Parents need to raise their children with guidance that fits their family values and beliefs. Parents of children with ADHD should always try to parent without prejudice or judgment of other parenting styles; there are many different options available for parents to choose from. If raised correctly, children with ADHD can become successful members of society.

      This book is based on the present-day research available on ADHD. It focuses on research gaps and asks questions about certain aspects of ADHD. This book is a practical guide to raising children with ADHD, for parents who want to improve their understanding of how they can help their children learn to cope with their disorder.

      Parents play an important role in the development of their child's behavior. Proper parenting can positively affect a child's behavior. However, the stress that comes with raising a child with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder can make it difficult for parents. The social stigma associated with raising children with ADHD can be emotionally toxic for parents. Parents may feel that they are failing to live up to their parental duties and responsibilities. Thus, the child's behavior is likely to be affected by this stress.

      Many people believe that raising a child with ADHD means raising a child who suffers from this disorder and therefore must be taught to cope with whatever problems they might face. But the idea of first identifying the child's problems and then teaching them about coping is an outdated concept that does not take into account the strengths of the child. A child with ADHD does not need to be told how to cope with his or her behavior. Children with ADHD do not learn how to cope with their emotions; they learn how to manage them. All of us, including children with ADHD, learn by trial and error. To teach children coping skills is tantamount to telling them what is wrong with them and what they must do instead of allowing them to discover new ways to manage their issues through trial and error.

      One of the biggest myths is that children with ADHD are impulsive. Research shows that children with ADHD are more likely to use thought processes of avoidance rather than impulsivity. Many parents are misinformed about their children's hyperactivity. A child with ADHD may be hyper because he or she is actually learning how to overcome the challenges of moving around in a new setting, sitting still for extended periods of time, or controlling impulses. When a family first begins raising a child with ADHD, they often believe that this disorder will affect every aspect of the child's life. However, this is not always true.

      It is true that a child with ADHD may have difficulty learning in school, but the child's behavior in school does not necessarily affect his or her behavior outside of it. When a child with ADHD faces difficult situations at school, he or she may display difficulty coping. In other situations, the child will exhibit prosocial behavior. This demonstrates that all children with ADHD can be happy and successful members of society if they are raised correctly. With proper parenting, all children can develop into successful adults who are capable of operating effectively within society.

      All parents of ADHD children need to remember that there is no one right way to parent, and every child deserves the best care and attention.

      PART 1 - UNDERSTANDING ADHD IN CHILDREN

      CHAPTER 1: EXPLORING ADHD: UNDERSTANDING THE DISORDER AND ITS IMPACT

      ADHD is a condition affecting behavior, mood, and executive functions. Simply put, people with ADHD have a constant need for stimuli. Outgoing, reckless, and restless behavior is mainly seen in young children. ADHD can be diagnosed in adults as well, though it takes much longer for the symptoms to surface.

      ADHD is not a disease but a disorder of brain wiring. ADHD is genetic and hereditary. It is caused by the way different areas of the brain communicate with each other. Sections of the brain associated with behavior, emotion, and executive functions such as planning and organizing do not communicate well with each other. Rather, these sections of the brain work independently from each other.

      The condition is more prevalent in boys than girls. It is also more prevalent in children whose parents or relatives have ADHD or show symptoms of ADHD. It is said that 20% of adults living in the US have ADHD.

      ADHD is a neurological condition characterized by a lack of control in the presence of overwhelming stress. Individuals with ADHD have a hard time with tasks that require strict adherence to rules. High levels of external input, such as excessive noise and movement, can overwhelm the ADHD brain, resulting in behavioral outbursts and irritability. Many children with ADHD prefer noise and chaos to deep, quiet thought or reading.

      There are three types of ADHD:

      1. Predominantly Inattentive Type

      People with the predominantly inattentive type of ADHD may be very disorganized and forgetful and may frequently lose things and misplace them. When they do remember things, they tend not to hold on to them long. They can be easily distracted, even by small noises or faces that they see on television. They discover new information very slowly and need more time to finish tasks. They are impulsive, often careless, and may make poor choices.

      2. Predominantly Hyperactive/Impulsive Type

      People with the predominantly hyperactive/impulsive type of ADHD may be very impulsive and restless and may frequently interrupt others or simply get into things they shouldn't. When they remember things, they tend to hold on to them less than people with the predominantly inattentive type of ADHD. They can be easily distracted by their thoughts and can move quickly from one activity to another. They tend not to finish tasks and frequently interrupt others. They may be seen as bossy and smug by others, and they may ask many questions.

      3. Combined Type

      People with this type of ADHD may be moderately inattentive or hyperactive/impulsive, depending on which is more dominant at any one time. This brings about some very nervous behavior such as fidgeting and squirming (hyperactive) and peculiar shyness (inattentive). Often they will be both, switching back and forth between the two. They lose things easily and may be clingy with their parents. They seek out and get into trouble (hyperactive/impulsive). They can't seem to sit still and tend to move around a lot more than most people do.

      Although all three types of ADHD cause problems with the areas of the brain that control attention, there is very little research on remedial medications for people with the hyperactive/impulsive type of ADHD. The medications used to treat people with the combined type of ADHD can also be used for many people with the predominantly inattentive type of ADHD, but this is not what the inventors recommend.

      It is usually easier to tell if someone has an attention problem than it is to tell if they have the predominantly hyperactive/impulsive type of ADHD. However, both conditions can be very hard to treat because so many things may be triggering the symptoms, making it very hard to break out of the cycle. A person may need to be constantly distracted by outside stimuli such as loud noises, the latest news on the television, and ongoing activities such as sports or video games. The more obvious triggers that can be removed from an individual's life, the easier it will be for them to concentrate and finish tasks.

      ADHD is different from dyslexia, ADD (attention deficit disorder), emotional problems or learning disabilities. This is because:

      ADHD is not an emotional problem; there is no relationship between ADHD and emotions such as in anxiety, depression, or anxiety disorders;

      ADHD is not epilepsy or a seizure disorder;

      ADHD is not aggression or oppositional behavior;

      ADHD is not caused by abuse, neglect, lack of discipline, poverty, lack of love in the home, poor parenting, too much television or video games;

      ADHD is not easily cured. If someone seems to be cured of their ADHD, they are simply controlling it more effectively than they were before.

      ADHD is not related to drugs, alcohol, or illegal behavior;

      ADHD does not lead to anti-social behavior.

      What Causes ADHD?

      There is a wide range of theories as to what causes ADHD, but the scientific consensus has linked it to a common gene that affects the prefrontal cortex development. This part of the brain is responsible for attention and impulse control and sustaining a healthy mood.

      Deficiencies in this area of the brain can be found in many adults and children with ADHD.

      There is also a genetic link to the condition. More than 80% of children with ADHD have a family member with the condition. The gene that causes ADHD has been found on chromosome 7. There are three major areas that can be affected by this gene:

      1. Dopamine – The release of dopamine is one of the most important parts of a child's brain development. When the dopamine level is normal, attention, concentration, and memory are all enhanced. When dopamine levels are abnormal due to birth defects or damage from alcohol or drugs, it can cause problems with behavior.

      2. Norepinephrine – This neurotransmitter helps in paying attention to detail. ADHD symptoms may appear when the level of this chemical in the brain is too high or too low.

      3. Serotonin – This neurotransmitter is responsible for mood control in the brain. When it is out of balance in children, they can become depressed or even suicidal.

      All three of these chemicals are important for healthy brain development and function. Disturbances in serotonin levels cause changes in cognition and emotional states. Low serotonin has been linked to the malfunctioning of the areas of the brain that control concentration, mood, and sleep patterns.

      Scientists have found that in some people, dopamine and norepinephrine are too active in the frontal lobe. This means that they travel through the brain in abnormal patterns causing a constant need for external stimulation. As these chemicals are released, the neurons in this area of the brain become less powerful and less able to concentrate or control behavior. Stimuli, such as stress or strong emotions, can trigger strong reactions of frustration within this region of the brain. Without these chemicals, the frontal lobe is less able to control behavior and emotions.

      Studies have found that less than 1% of the population has a gene that produces a deficiency in dopamine or norepinephrine, leaving most people with these chemicals constantly switched on. In some cases, this can cause ADHD due to constant overstimulation. In other cases, it has been found that these dopamine and norepinephrine levels are constantly low enough to cause serious damage to the frontal lobe of the brain.

      In rare cases, these chemicals are missing entirely.

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