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    Making A Difference: How Being Your Best Self Can Influence, Inspire, and Impel Change
    Making A Difference: How Being Your Best Self Can Influence, Inspire, and Impel Change
    Making A Difference: How Being Your Best Self Can Influence, Inspire, and Impel Change
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    Making A Difference: How Being Your Best Self Can Influence, Inspire, and Impel Change

    By Yvette E. Pearson

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    "Think about the last 'place' you left. This could be a job, a relationship, a place of worship, or another situation. Did you leave it better than you found it? Did things end the way you wanted?"


    From award-winning engineering educator and host of the podcast, Engineering Change, this compelling book

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherThe PEER Group
    Release dateFeb 7, 2023
    ISBN9798987548714
    Making A Difference: How Being Your Best Self Can Influence, Inspire, and Impel Change
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    Yvette E. Pearson

    Dr. Yvette E. Pearson is Vice President for Diversity, Equity and Inclusion at The University of Texas at Dallas and Founder and Principal Consultant of The PEER Group, LLC. Her university-based and consulting efforts have led to over $40 million in grant funding to support projects focused on the engagement and success of students from minoritized and marginalized identities. A Fellow of the American Society of Civil Engineers (ASCE), her work has led to changes in policies and practices to advance equity and inclusion in ASCE and other global organizations. Dr. Pearson has been an invited speaker for events hosted by organizations such as the National Academy of Engineering, the UN Foundation, Brookings Institution, the American Association for the Advancement of Science, the World Federation of Engineering Organizations and numerous universities. She has been featured or quoted in media outlets such as Media Planet, Dallas Morning News, Houston Chronicle, and Diverse: Issues in Higher Education.A registered Professional Engineer, Dr. Pearson's awards and honors include ASCE's Professional Practice Ethics and Leadership Award, ABET's Claire L. Felbinger Award for Diversity and Inclusion, the Society of Women Engineers Distinguished Engineering Educator Award, and ASCE's President's Medal. Her podcast, Engineering Change, has audiences in over 80 countries on six continents.

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      Making A Difference - Yvette E. Pearson

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      All scripture quotations, unless otherwise indicated, are taken from the Holy Bible, New International Version®, Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica, Inc. Used by permission of Zondervan. All rights reserved worldwide, www.zondervan.com. The NIV and New International Version are trademarks registered in the United States Patent and Trademark Office by Biblica, Inc.

      Although the publisher and the author have made every effort to ensure that the information in this book was correct at press time and while this publication is designed to provide accurate information in regard to the subject matter covered, the publisher and the author assume no responsibility for errors, inaccuracies, omissions, or any other inconsistencies herein and hereby disclaim any liability to any party for any loss, damage, or disruption caused by errors or omissions, whether such errors or omissions result from negligence, accident, or any other cause.

      Making a Difference

      Copyright © 2022 Yvette E. Pearson

      All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form or by any means—electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording, or otherwise—without the prior written permission of the publisher.

      Printed in the United States of America

      Requests for information should be addressed to:

      The PEER Group, PO Box 56, McKinney, Texas 75070

      PEERGroupConsulting.com

      ISBN (paperback): 979-8-9875487-0-7

      ISBN (ebook): 979-8-9875487-1-4

      ISBN (audio book): 979-8-9875487-2-1

      Cover and interior design by KUHN Design Group | kuhndesigngroup.com

      Edited by Helen Kalmans and Jacqueline Prince

      To Geraldine E. Jackson, my greatest influence and champion; Amber Deanne, my why; and Travis Pearson, the best Butta in the world.

      In loving memory of Eunice H. Jackson (ICUN Me), Travy Jackson, Paul Pearson, Terry Jackson, Sr., and Donald Jackson.

      Contents

      Preface

      Introduction

      Avoid Boxes

      Be Comfortable But Not Content

      Find Your Voice—And Use It

      It’s Okay to Get Angry

      Be Mindful of How You Treat Others

      Leave a Legacy

      References

      Acknowledgments

      About the Author

      Preface

      We can change the world and make it a better place. It is in our hands to make a difference.

      Nelson Mandela

      If you’re like me (and millions of other folks), you turn on the news multiple times per day curious about what has happened in the world since the last time you checked. After the first fifteen minutes, you’re sorry you asked. Yet you still watch, you still listen; heartbroken by the pain, divisiveness, and evil that are so prevalent in the world and the resultant impacts on the local community, state, nation, and the global society.

      Thankfully, it’s not all gloom and doom. Later in the broadcast are the feel good stories, which I wish could come first, or at least bracket the bad ones so we could begin and end on positive notes. The stories about courage in the face of adversity, new records being set by athletes, awards being presented to performing artists, new book releases. Then there are the real heart-tuggers by journalists such as Steve Hartman and David Begnaud that celebrate all the good there is in the world; stories that remind us of attributes such as kindness, gratitude, and selflessness.

      One thing these stories have in common is that they all leave me with the thought, What can I do to make things better? I ponder how I can show up to help others mitigate the challenges they face by giving my gifts of time, influence, and resources to make a difference.

      This book compiles lessons I’ve learned and strategies I’ve employed to live an authentic life, embracing who I am and using my background, identities, skills, and abilities to make a difference within my relatively small spheres of influence in this enormous world. It combines stories from my personal and professional life describing how I strive to avoid boxes so I’m not constrained by the norms and ideals of others; how I’ve learned to be comfortable but not content so I can leverage being the first and the only to help others thrive; how I found and began to effectively use my voice, including times I’ve missed the mark; how I navigate anger and use it strategically to impel change; and how I strive to leave things better than I found them in every area of my life, relying on good home training passed down through my elders to treat others well.

      As you navigate this book, you’ll encounter stories—some full of joy and inspiration and others that describe stress and pain. I contextualize some of the stories within constructs such as race, gender, and disability (as appropriate) so my positionality is clear and to illuminate the all-too-often disparate outcomes based on those factors, especially when they intersect. I share these stories with the hope you find them relatable and that they convey lessons that are transferable, if not directly applicable, to situations you’ve encountered.

      If you identify with similar lived experiences, especially the difficult ones thinking, That’s happened to me or I’m going through that right now, I want you to know that you are not alone. And if you’ve shared victories similar to those you read here, I want to celebrate with you. If your lived experience shows up in a different way, as one who has created hurdles or barriers for others, thinking, I’ve done (or said) things like that before, I hope you will reflect and change. And if you have been a bystander who has observed some of the things I describe—good or bad—thinking, I’ve seen (or heard) things like that before, it is my desire that you will find the encouragement and motivation to get involved.

      In all cases, my greatest wish is that through this book, you are inspired to be the best version of yourself and that your ability to influence, inspire, and impel change is strengthened so you are MAKING A DIFFERENCE—a positive difference—in the ways only you can.

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      Introduction

      None of us alone can save the nation or world. But each of us can make a positive difference if we commit ourselves to do so.

      Dr. Cornel West

      I’ve done a lot of self-reflection to figure out why I gravitate toward certain opportunities and not others. It’s something I’ve recognized in my professional life, my spiritual life, and in my personal life, and it shows up in both my relationships and my work. During a moment of reflection, I stumbled upon a memory.

      When I was a child, my cousins and I were extremely close, so much so that we were often mistaken for siblings. We spent a great deal of time at each other’s homes and we helped with chores. I remember being at one of my aunts’ homes and having her ask my cousin and me to do some chore. Whether it was to wash dishes, clean the bathroom, or vacuum the floors—I don’t remember. What I do recall is my mother noting that I was more enthusiastic (or maybe we’ll say I responded more quickly) when it came to doing chores at my aunt’s house than at our own.

      I never realized it as a child, but in that moment of reflection as an adult, I remembered always being able to see the impact of what I’d done at my aunt’s home. You see, my mom always kept our home pristine (except my room and my brother’s, of course), so much so that you could almost eat off the floors (not that I would

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