Farm Kids: Stories from Our Lives
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Meals in the field, combine rides with Grandad, picking fresh berries out of the garden and building forts in the bales.
In her fourth book celebrating farm life, Billi J. Miller examines what farm life is like -- through the eyes of children. Only not just interviewing "today's"
Billi J. Miller
Billi J. Miller is an author, photographer, speaker, and writer from east-central Alberta, Canada. Previously a city-living, 9-5 Government worker, Billi moved to the country to marry the man of her dreams in 2010 and traded concrete and traffic for life on a 100-year-old prairie farm. Since then, she's created a successful business as an author, photographer, and speaker. She's written four books (so far) celebrating farm life with candid interviews and stunning photographs, and a children's book. Billi speaks at conferences and other professional and personal events regularly, where she delivers a powerful talk on the magic of farm life and about her own experience overcoming adversity and "blooming where she planted."
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Farm Kids - Billi J. Miller
www.billijimiller.com
Farm Kids: Stories from our Lives
Copyright © 2022 by Billi J. Miller
All rights reserved.
For permission requests, writr to the Author at the address below.
E-mail: [email protected]
Billi J. Miller
RR #2
Kitscoty, Alberta TOB 2P0
Canada
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directly at the address above.
No part of this publication may be reproduced, distributed or transmitted in any form or by any means, including photocopying, recording, or other electronic or mechanical methods, without the prior written permission of the Author, except in the case of brief quotations embodied in critical reviews and certain other non-commercial uses permitted by copyright law.
Farm Kids/Miller. –1st ed.
ISBN
978-17774186-4-8 (Paperback)
978-1-7774186-5-6 (e-book)
Quotes
Teaching kids how to feed themselves and how to live in a community responsibly is the center of an education.
– Alice Waters
I sure want to say hi to those cows, but I don't want to interrupt their yummy silage
– Kate Miller, 4 years
(While driving with Mom in the car)
There aren’t enough farms in the city.
– Benny Keddy, Nova Scotia, Canada
A Note on the Text & Interviews
The interviews for this book began more than two years before its publication. Therefore, the age
of the interviewees refers to their age when they answered the questions.
Many interviews occurred during the pandemic, so many were written or held virtually, or in the case of young kids, conducted by their parent(s).
Interviews are edited only slightly to suit print publishing. The text is kept as intact as possible to retain the tone and personality of the subject.
The individuals chosen for this book are random selections of people I’ve met in real life, virtually, or people referred to me. Interviewees span across Canada and into the United States.
Dedication
For you – who wants to remember.
For you – who never wants to forget.
For you – who wonders what it’s like.
And for Gail Verleysen,
April 17, 1991 – September 10, 2021
The truest farm kid there ever was.
Contents
Part 1 - The Author’s Story
Part 2 - The Farmwives Books
Part 3 – Why tell the story of Farm Kids
Part 4 – The Interviews:
Kate Miller – present: age 8
Bob Stone – Childhood: 1940s
Claire Nagel – Present day teen
Karen Fawcett – Childhood: 1980s
Gary Miller – Childhood: 1960s
Kaitlyn Kitzan – Childhood: 2000s
Sam Purser – present: age 8 ½
Ceriel Mauws – Childhood: 1930s
Carson Green – present day teen
Rianne Boekhorst – Childhood: 2000s
Wes Froese – Childhood: 1960s
Lily, Addie & Leyla Faber-present day: ages 5, 7 and 9
Amy VanderHeide – Childhood: 1990s
Edith Paul – Childhood: 1930s
Tracy Desmarais – Childhood: 1980s
Max Merrild – present day: age 6
Elaine Froese – Childhood: 1960s
Vernon Marlatt – Childhood: 1920s
Madeline Miller – present day: age 10
Jacquelyn Davidson – Childhood: 2010s
Carys Purser – present day: age 10
Jean Hunter – Childhood: 1920s
Charlie & Benny Keddy – present day: ages 6 and 8
Shane Jones – Childhood: 1980s
Part 5 - What we want you to know
Part 6 – In the End
A Final Note
Acknowledgments
About the Author
Other Books from the Author
The Author’s Story
There's an old oak tree that you can see outside the bedroom window of the farmhouse I never imagined I’d be calling home.
I wanted it that way when we renovated. The tree is slightly crooked but interesting. I chuckle as I think that maybe we have that in common. The story goes that my husbands’ grandma Peggy fought with the tree for years to get it to grow. But somehow now – it flourishes.
In case this is the first book of mine you’ve read; I have fallen deeply in love with farm life. I live on a 111-year-old mixed cattle and grain farm in the Canadian Prairies with my husband and our two daughters.
I came here (to the Earlie District in east-central Alberta) to live in 2010. I had met my husband the summer before while on fishing trip at a lake in Northern Saskatchewan. We were both 34 when we met.
I like to think I enchanted him with my fishing skills, then I let my sense of humour do the rest. Teach a man to fish, they say… okay, that’s not entirely true, but we did fall for each other quite quickly.
I had been living in the city for sixteen years before my move to the farm eight months after meeting him, so you could say farm living was certainly not in my prior plans.
Since about a month into our relationship, however, he and our relationship became the plan.
Dean Miller was a farmer. But not just any farmer. He’s a born-in-a-plaid-shirt, sure of-his-life’s-path, never-questioned-where-he’d-spend-his-life kind of farmer.
We married in October of 2010, and since that time, I’ve settled into life on the farm and have made it my own. The beauty of being 34 when you meet your significant other is you already have a strong familiarity of yourself to know what you would like in your life to be happy.
I’ve carved my own role here to be a mostly
comfortable mixture of caring for our two girls, our life, and running the business I started in 2012 as a freelance and contract writer and photographer. Since becoming an author, I’ve added the role of event speaker, too. On top of that… there’s farm life.
Most days, I revel in the fact that I have a family I adore and a career I’ve always dreamed of.
Our farm now was the family’s original homestead. Dean is a fourth- generation farmer, and this land was settled by his great-grandad in 1911.
This yard where we and our kids now live is well-established by spruce trees planted by my father-in-law and his sisters following their mother while she led. Another row of spruce trees was planted by Dean and our neighbour Charlie (who, coincidentally, is responsible for introducing us).
Our home is a complete renovation of his grandparents’ 1965 new build. In this house, Dean and I have built our own vision and dreams.
Behind our house is a huge grove of maple trees where our kids play amongst the treasures left behind by generations before them: bottles, old rusty cans, and whatever else was deemed fit in their imaginations.
I’ve become so attached to this place. Not just our yard, but the neighbourhood
too. I’ve become close to many in this community over the years.
As of now (summer of 2022), I’ve lived here twelve years. This is longer than I have lived anywhere – ever.
I really have never had a home
to go back to from my childhood. My family of origin changed on a number of occasions (due to several parental divorces), and so home
and family
has been something I have had to create for myself.
Living in this place has filled holes in me that I never knew existed. Getting used to people being there for me, our family, and my children has been balm for my soul. And, allowing it to become the home
I’ve always wanted has healed me in ways I never knew I needed.
The Farmwives Books
I used to dream of writing books. Well, that profession alongside a traveling photographer with National Geographic.
When I was a kid, I would write books that I’m sure were more of a re-write of the Sweet Valley High
novel I was reading at the time than a work of original art. However, I wrote them nonetheless,