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    365 Health and Happiness Boosters
    365 Health and Happiness Boosters
    365 Health and Happiness Boosters
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    365 Health and Happiness Boosters

    By M.J. Ryan

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    • Happiness

    • Self-Improvement

    • Relationships

    • Mindfulness

    • Gratitude

    • Self-Discovery

    • Mentorship

    • Transformation

    • Personal Transformation

    • Friendship

    • Adventure

    • Journey

    • Mind Over Matter

    • Love

    • Family

    • Mental Health

    • Personal Growth

    • Self-Care

    • Spirituality

    • Stress Management

    About this ebook

    The Pursuit of Happiness Starts Within

    “By giving us daily happiness activities that touch our hearts and souls, M.J. Ryan empowers each of us to experience the joy of living.” —Jackie Waldman, author of The Courage to Give

    Daily tasks to improve how you feel —mind, body, and spirit —from the bestselling author of Attitudes of Gratitude.

    From M.J. Ryan, bestselling author and international expert on change and personal fulfillment, comes 365 Health & Happiness Boosters to help in your pursuit of happiness, so you can choose to be happy no matter who you are or the challenges you face.

    Develop an attitude of gratitude. When a person thinks happy thoughts, those thoughts project outward and that feeling transfers to others. One third of the population knows the secret to happiness is an inside job —not contingent on possessions, status, or even life circumstances, and research shows it leads to better health.

    We can all choose to be happy. In 365 Health & Happiness Boosters, a book of daily reflections, M.J. Ryan lays a path for the pursuit of happiness by employing a wide variety of spiritual, emotional and practical suggestions.

    Discover 365 ways to experience happiness. Some of the tasks are lighthearted, others quite serious. They all have a positive effect and contribute to inner peace.

    Learn to:

    • Cultivate contentment and change your outlook on the art of happiness
    • Lift your spirit in the moment and build inner peace
    • Address eating habits and develop better sleeping patterns
    • Improve interactions with others through meditating on happy thoughts and doing random acts of kindness

    If you enjoyed The Happiness Advantage, How Happiness Happens, the Happiness Workbook, or other M.J. Ryan books such as Attitudes of Gratitude or Random Acts of Kindness Then & Now, then 365 Health & Happiness Boosters should be your next read.

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherOpen Road Integrated Media
    Release dateJan 18, 2022
    ISBN9781642507645
    365 Health and Happiness Boosters
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    M.J. Ryan

    Known internationally as an expert on change, M.J. Ryan works as an executive coach to senior executives and entrepreneurs around the world to accelerate business success and personal fulfillment. She combines a practical approach gained as the CEO of a book publishing company with methodologies from neuroscience, positive psychology and asset-focused learning to help clients and readers more easily meet their goals. Her clients include Royal Dutch Shell, Microsoft, Time, the U.S. military, and Aon Hewitt. She’s a partner with the Levo League career network and the lead venture coach at SheEO, an organization offering a new funding and support model for female entrepreneurs. She’s the founder of Conari Press, creator of the New York Times bestselling Random Acts of Kindness series, and author of many books including Habit Changers: 81 Game-Changing Mantras to Mindfully Realize Your Goals.

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      365 Health and Happiness Boostersby M. J. Ryan This wonderful collection of meditations, insights, and great ideas is set up in such a way that you can have a fantastic little gem of spiritual wisdom to start your day, everyday throughout the year. I find the format to be easy and the messages wise and wonderful. I am totally in love with her suggestion for July 7th, because she says that today is a day to do nothing, to just kick back and ponder what things you wanna do to do nothing. Awesome topics like herbal teas, sunlight, art, road rage, love, and so so so much more. I feel that having something to focus on when I get up in the morning really helps me to start my day and keep my day on track. I would recommend this meditation book to anyone and as a gift for anyone who enjoys learning, growing and feeling there best throughout the year. Thanks M. J. for sharing another one of your special literary gifts with us. Love & Light,Riki Frahmann

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    365 Health and Happiness Boosters

    M.J. Ryan proves it again—this time better than ever: the brief, simple, and genial way to self-improvement is the most effective. You’ll treasure this practical guide to building the happiness habit, one enjoyable day after another—especially if your ‘happiness quotient’ needs a boost.

    —David Kundtz, author of Everyday Serenity

    My heart lifted as I held this little book full of wisdom and positive insights. The book allows you to gently reflect on the good things in your life and set your sails, with greater confidence, for the new shores you wish to explore.

    —Mary Ellen, author of Expect Miracles

    By giving us daily happiness activities that touch our hearts and souls, M.J. Ryan empowers each of us to experience the joy of living and, ultimately, the joy of being alive, no matter what.

    —Jackie Waldman, author of The Courage to Give and Teens with the Courage to Give

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    365 Health and Happiness Boosters

    Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data

    ISBN: (print) 978-1-64250-763-8, (ebook) 978-1-64250-764-5

    BISAC category code SEL011000, SELF-HELP / Mood Disorders / Depression

    Printed in the United States of America.

    Life is short and it's up

    to you to make it sweet.

    Sadie Delany,

    coauthor of Having Our Say

    A Little Course in Happiness

    What we nurture in ourselves will grow; that is nature’s eternal law.

    —Anonymous

    Happiness, the sheer joy of being alive, is something we all long to experience. Indeed, it is such an important shared value that the Declaration of Independence identifies it as one of only three unalienable rights: life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.

    I’m relatively new to the pursuit of happiness. Or rather, I may have pursued it all my life, but only recently have I begun to experience it on anything that could be considered a consistent basis. That’s because, like so many of us, I wasn’t taught how to be happy. In fact, like most of us, I was misinformed as to where happiness lies. I was led to believe that some people were born happy and others were not, and there wasn’t anything you could do about that. I was taught that happiness came from doing well in school, having the right job, the perfect mate, the dream house, the $30,000 BMW. I was taught to focus on all that was wrong in my life, all the ways I had been victimized and abused, instead of paying attention to what was working, what was right about me. I was trained in if onlys—if only my mate would come home from work earlier I’d be happy; if only I made $20,000 more a year I’d be happy; if only I didn’t have to work I’d be happy. I spent my time trying to make my if onlys come true and complained bitterly if they did not.

    Then one day I decided that I was sick and tired of being depressed, negative, and miserable, and I went on a campaign to learn how to be happy. You’re holding the results of my ten years of learning. It contains all I know—from the completely frivolous to the profound—about being happy. I offer it in the hope that it will help the practice of happiness to spread.

    Because I’m not alone. According to research, about two-thirds of us don’t know how to be happy. In 1957, in the United States, a study was done in which people were asked whether they were happy with what they had in life. Around 30 percent said yes. The study was repeated in 1992 and the same percentage said yes, despite the fact that the standard of living had increased dramatically in that time. What this shows, besides that possessions can’t make us happy, is that about one-third of the population knows the secret to happiness—that it is an inside job, and is not contingent on possessions, status, or even life circumstances. Whether from inherited temperament, early childhood training, or conscious cultivation, those people are happy. Fortunately the rest of us can learn.

    That is the assumption behind this book—that you can be happier, no matter who you are or what challenges you face. A great deal of how to be happier has to do with changing your outlook, but it also has to do with what you eat, how you interact with others, even how well you sleep. Most of the other books on happiness are some person’s theory of what you need to do to become happy. This book is different. Rather than theory, it offers 365 concrete things you can do, just for today, to experience happiness. The reason I’ve structured it this way is that I believe that we need to experience happiness on a daily basis, rather than just as peak moments on special occasions—our wedding, a trip to an exotic place, the birth of a child. Indeed, research confirms that the best path to happiness is a daily one. As Edward Diener, a University of Illinois researcher specializing in happiness, said recently in the Santa Barbara News-Press, Happiness is how frequently you’re happy, not how intensely.

    Hence the daily format. Some of my suggestions involve attitudes that we can change to create more happiness overall in our lives; others are concrete things we can do to lift our spirits in the moment; still others are environmental changes or nutritional supplements we can try. Some are lighthearted, others quite serious. All will have positive effects on our minds, bodies, and spirits. That’s because our minds and bodies are not really separate, and as science has begun to demonstrate, experiencing positive emotions such as happiness strengthens the immune systems, which enables the body to resist disease and recover more quickly from illness, through the release of endorphins and other compounds into the bloodstream. Not only are endorphins the body’s natural painkillers, they also stimulate dilation of the blood vessels, which leads to a relaxed heart.

    Conversely, negative emotions, such as worry, anger, and fear, reduce the number and slow the movement of disease-fighting white cells in the bloodstream, and contribute to the development of stroke and heart disease by dumping high levels of adrenaline into the blood. Adrenaline constricts blood vessels, particularly to the heart, raising blood pressure and potentially damaging arteries and the heart itself.

    In a landmark overview study, Howard Friedman and S. Boothby-Kewley analyzed 101 studies of the relationship between mood and disease. They found that people with a predominance of negative emotions were twice as likely to get sick as those who had more positive attitudes. In fact, they found that chronic negative emotions were as big a risk factor in developing disease as smoking and high cholesterol. So the more we can cultivate happiness, the healthier we’re likely to be!

    All my suggestions are things that can be done right now, in this moment or at least in the course of a normal, hectic day. (I hate those books with unrealistic ideas—ones that are too hard to do, too complicated, or too much to tackle; who has time to track anything for a month?) You can use the book in one of three ways. Each suggestion is dated, so you can follow one a day throughout the year. Or you can just open a page at random and do what appeals to you. Or you can use the index in the back to pursue certain issues: methods for sleeping better, for instance, or dealing with fear if that is blocking your happiness. I call it a course in happiness, because if you even do an eighth of these 365 suggestions, you will learn how to be happy.

    Many of us think of the pursuit of happiness as a selfish one, that to choose to be as happy as possible will mean that we won’t care about the world or its problems. Of course, the opposite tends to be true. As proof, all you have to do is answer the question that Dennis Prager asks in his book Happiness Is a Serious Problem: Do you feel more positively disposed toward other people and do you want to treat other people better when you are happy or when you are unhappy?

    That’s the most wonderful thing about practicing happiness—it will come back to us tenfold. For our happiness ripples out into the world, creating even more. As Barry Neil Kaufman says, If just one of us changes our beliefs and teaches happiness and love, then that attitude or information goes out into the connective tissue of the community and enhances the aptitude for happiness of the entire human group. So not only are we learning to be happy for ourselves, but for our families, our friends, our work groups and neighborhoods, and the world as a whole.

    May happiness continue to grow in ourselves and in the world.

    January

    I

    What Matters to You?

    The great political and spiritual leader Mahatma Gandhi once said, Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony. On this first day of the new year, it’s a good time to take the opportunity to look at your values. What is most important to you? Do you express those values in how you live?

    When I ask myself those questions, I realize that kindness and gratitude are very important to me, but I don’t express them as much as I would like. Today I make a commitment to myself to practice gratitude by saying a blessing before dinner, and to look for occasions to be more kind to others.

    What about you? The deep sense of joy that comes from living our values is a priceless gift.

    January

    2

    Mark Your Calendars

    I always love the beginning of the year when I get a new planner and transfer over all my phone numbers, birthdays, and upcoming meetings. I guess it’s the sense of starting fresh in a brand-new year.

    This year, as you mark your calendar with the dates you need to remember, pick at random four, just four, days and put a special symbol on those days—a star, a smiley face, whatever. Then, when you come to them during the year, give yourself a treat.

    This will bring you fivefold happiness: the four treats and the smile it brings now in anticipation of what’s to come.

    January

    3

    Pray for Happiness

    Prayer works, so why not use it on behalf of our happiness? There have been many studies done recently on the efficacy of prayer. The one that impressed me the most was done on 393 heart attack patients; 192 were prayed for without their knowing it; the rest were not. All other treatment was exactly the same. Of the group that was prayed for, there were fewer fatalities and more rapid recoveries.

    So pray for happiness. And be sure to ask directly—we usually want what we want because we think it will make us happy, but we forget to ask for happiness directly. Today, ask for whatever will make you happy, without assuming you know what that is.

    January

    4

    Understand What Happiness Is

    We all want more happiness—but do we even know what it is? Happiness is a feeling we experience in our bodies. In that way, it is always self-generated—we experience it internally. But many of us think of happiness as a feeling of pleasure based on some external happening—we got the raise we wanted, we just ate a fabulous meal. But true happiness isn’t contingent on circumstances. It is a sense of contentment that exists independently of the good fortune that might find us. Proof of that comes from a study of lottery winners. Just six months after winning, they report they are no happier than they were before their windfalls.

    We find true happiness from a sense of contentment that we experience when we let go of our judgments and accept ourselves, other people, and life as it is, no matter how imperfect. Try it just for today. When you notice yourself judging someone or something as bad (the screaming baby, the insensitive coworker, your own frustration), pause, take a breath, and say to yourself, They are (or I am) doing the best that they can. At the end of the day, notice whether acceptance has brought you more peace and contentment. Remember, as Leonard Sweet says in A Cup of Coffee at the Soul Café, Our duty is not to see through one another, but to see one another through.

    January

    5

    Look at Difficulties as Temporary

    Research on optimists and pessimists has uncovered the fact that pessimists believe that whatever bad thing is happening is immutable, while optimists view the same thing as only temporary.

    Boy, does that ring true for me, the reformed pessimist. When I was in my early twenties, I hurt my back and spent over a year in bed. Finally I went to a pain center, where I learned a variety of things. Perhaps the most useful was to rank my pain from one to ten every day, with one being mild discomfort and ten agony. Why was it so helpful? Because I understood that it changed. Before that, I would say it hurt the same every day; once I began numbering, I saw that some days were eights, but others were fives. Sometimes I hurt more, but other times less. I remember the day I thought to myself, if it can go down, maybe it can go away, at least for a little while. And by changing my thinking about my problem—believing that it could get better—eventually it did. I still experience pain, but my relationship to it is completely transformed.

    What in your life could benefit from a reframing as only being temporary? A job you don’t like? A problem with someone in your life? Feeling stuck is what causes most of the misery.

    January

    6

    Use Good Scents

    Smells can be mood elevators. Here are some ways to bring good scents into your day:

    Light a candle with a favorite scent before you go to bed. It will perfume the room. My favorite is Casablanca lily. Jasmine is a good choice too—it induces

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