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    Patient Parenting - Effective Anger Management for Parents to Help You Keep Your Cool When Your Kids Are Acting Up
    Patient Parenting - Effective Anger Management for Parents to Help You Keep Your Cool When Your Kids Are Acting Up
    Patient Parenting - Effective Anger Management for Parents to Help You Keep Your Cool When Your Kids Are Acting Up
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    Patient Parenting - Effective Anger Management for Parents to Help You Keep Your Cool When Your Kids Are Acting Up

    By Kara Lawrence

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    Studies show that the more you yell at your children, the worse their behavior will become.

     

    It's a dreadful cycle that causes stress for parents and less effort from children. However, you have the power to break it once and for all!

     

    We all knew raising a teenager wouldn't be easy, but is it supposed to be this hard? Are you a parent who's slowly running out of patience and would like to use patient parenting skills to transform and strengthen your relationship with your kids? Well, this book will answer these questions for you!

     

    Not only is the adolescence phase challenging for a parent, but it is just as frustrating for teenagers. Through this informative guide, you'll be empowered with crucial information that will give you the ability to be calm, no matter the situation.

     

    Inside Patient Parenting, you'll discover:

     

    • Four calming techniques you can start implementing now for positive change
    • How to see things from your children's perspective and understand them better
    • Ways to manage your anger by identifying your triggers
    • How to lead by example by teaching your children empathy and set them up for success in life
    • Strategies you can use to make your child feel safe and trust you more

    You're about to step into an impressive phase that is going to allow you to have the relationship you've always yearned for with your child.

     

    No more shouting, feeling unheard, or compromising your relationship with your children.

     

    Are you ready to be the best parent you've always been destined to be? Then Patient Parenting is for you!

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherKara Lawrence
    Release dateJan 25, 2022
    ISBN9798201701192
    Patient Parenting - Effective Anger Management for Parents to Help You Keep Your Cool When Your Kids Are Acting Up

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      This book missed some serious editing before being published. The lack of editing not only makes it difficult to read through but has portions that make absolutely no sense.
      One portion addressing anger says to get rid of it by “assassinating your children with rage.”
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    Patient Parenting - Effective Anger Management for Parents to Help You Keep Your Cool When Your Kids Are Acting Up - Kara Lawrence

    Patient Parenting

    Effective Anger Management for Parents to Help You Keep Your Cool When Your Kids Are Acting Up

    Kara Lawrence

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    The content contained within this book may not be reproduced, duplicated or transmitted without direct written permission from the author or the publisher.

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    Please note the information contained within this document is for educational and entertainment purposes only. All effort has been executed to present accurate, up to date, reliable, complete information. No warranties of any kind are declared or implied. Readers acknowledge that the author is not engaged in the rendering of legal, financial, medical or professional advice. The content within this book has been derived from various sources. Please consult a licensed professional before attempting any techniques outlined in this book.

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    Table of Contents

    Introduction

    Chapter 1: Patient Parenting

    What is Patient Parenting?

    Can Anyone Parent Patiently?

    Benefits of Patient Parenting

    Repercussions of Losing Your Temper

    Chapter 2: Understanding Your Kids

    Teenagers Get Overwhelmed

    Identify Their Problems

    When They Seek Attention

    Chapter 3: Setting Boundaries for Yourself and Your Children

    What Are Boundaries?

    What’s the Point of Setting Boundaries?

    How to Define Your Boundaries.

    How to Set Boundaries

    Chapter 4: Identify and Manage Your Triggers

    The Nature of Anger

    Expressing Your Anger

    What Are Your Triggers?

    What Happens When You Express That Rage?

    Manage Your Anger?

    Chapter 5: Calming Techniques

    Staying Calm

    Breathing Methods of Calming Down

    Chapter 6: How To Control Your Emotions

    Managing Your Emotions

    Putting Everything Together

    Chapter 7: Show and Teach Empathy

    Being Empathetic

    Ideas for Practicing Empathy

    Teach Empathy to Children

    Chapter 8: Lead by Example

    You’re the Mirror

    Chapter 9: Make Your Child Feel Safe

    Your Child Feeling Unsafe

    Chapter 10: Growing With Your Child

    Setting Expectations for Your Child

    Conclusion

    References

    Introduction

    It’s that moment when the teen doesn’t listen.

    You’re doing a lot of talking, but it doesn’t seem like your teenager is doing a lot of listening. It’s starting to feel like you’re selling a lifestyle to your teen that’s the opposite of their desires! You’re slowly becoming the drill sergeant in their life. You’re repeating the same command (sometimes in the language of shouting) day after day, and when you think they’ve heard you loud and clear, it turns out they found a cleverer way to work around that command.

    This is the part we never thought of before having kids. Or maybe we did? I used to have such a meticulous strategy that included all the mishaps I pictured may happen. I imagined what my response would be based on what worked (and didn’t work) with my own parents. I even took notes of my friends raising their kids. Whenever I overheard a dilemma, I would think to myself, Well maybe if she listened to her daughter more, she would’ve gotten the truth, or they should’ve started early with that habit.

    I knew raising a teenager wouldn’t be the easiest thing but I wasn’t unprepared.

    But that’s when reality strikes.

    I’m standing in the kitchen, catching a couple of breaths before every sentence because my daughter is so boldly staring at me as if she had nothing to do with the three Ds in her classes, staying out late last night and rolling her eyes five times during this whole talk.

    You’re probably thinking this situation is the worst of the worst but fear not! You are not alone in your difficulties.

    There is a way to communicate to your teen and actually be heard. The key word is ‘communication’ and to be ‘heard.’ These words require the utmost imperative principle in the world of parenting: Patience.

    Yes, it’s easier said than done, but very possible with step-by-step guidance! You’ll know the difference between things like:

    ●  Talking to vs. talking at

    ●  Listening vs. waiting for the speaker to finish talking

    ●  Reacting vs. responding

    If you’re a parent, or soon-t0-be parent, patient parenting takes practice. Don’t for a second believe it’s too late to start. It’s never too late to reach your teenager. May be hard to believe, but they want to get along with you. You’re on two different pages right now but that doesn’t mean your child doesn’t want you in their life.

    Take the opportunity to strengthen your relationship with your teen(s).

    Chapter 1: Patient Parenting

    It’s that thing we know we need to practice but wouldn't mind a little reminder from time to time. Patience. When your son or daughter was a toddler and they ignored your Please don’t touch that request for the third time, patience took a giant leap out the window.

    Yet still, the majority of parents express a wish to become more patient with their children (Rowden, 2021).

    What is patience, exactly? Is it tolerating bad behavior? Is it turning the other way, pretending not to see it? Many people, including myself, believe that patience involves keeping cool in the face of a child’s excessive acting out behavior. Don’t underestimate the power of a passive reaction.

    It entails keeping your emotions under control so that you can answer wisely and efficiently rather than shouting, swearing, or saying things you may later come to regret.

    Honestly, however, is it really possible to be so patient in the first place? I mean, it’s conceivable that it will happen at some point, but is it a realistic goal?

    Look at some of the usual circumstances in which parents wish they could be more patient with their children:

    It is the hundredth time that your daughter begs for something that you have previously denied her, prompting you to exclaim an emphatic ‘NO!’ that can be heard throughout the house.

    You ask your kid to pick up his dirty dishes (again, for the umpteenth time) and find yourself speaking in a tone that betrays any sense of calm or composure you may be attempting to convey.

    When you wake up Monday morning, the last thing you want to do is rush to get yourself and everyone else ready to go to work on time.

    You’ve just returned home after a hard day at work. As you struggle to get supper on the table, you’re simultaneously mediating a fight between two of your children and assisting another with his homework.

    Parenting is difficult, and the scenarios described above are unavoidable. When it comes to parenting, there will always be challenges. Following on from that thought, here are four things you may do to improve your capacity to be patient.

    What is Patient Parenting?

    FIRST, WE NEED TO UNDERSTAND what it means to be a patient person. No one can turn on patience like a light switch. It must be within us if we’re going to do one of the hardest jobs on the planet (yes, parenting is way up there).

    When it comes to virtues, patience is a quiet one. It is a shift in way of life that will provide a plethora of advantages (I will go further into them a bit later).

    It’s often shown behind closed doors rather than on a public stage: a parent reading his third bedtime tale to his children, a dancer waiting for her injury to heal, and so on. Impatient people are the ones that draw our attention in public: vehicles honking in traffic, disgruntled consumers waiting in long queues. A movie on patience would be a bit of a snoozer, but we have epic movies extolling the qualities of bravery and compassion, so why not make one about patience?

    However, patience is crucial in everyday life—and it may even be the key to living a happy existence. Because patience is defined as the ability to remain calm in the face of irritation or hardship, we may practice it almost anywhere there is frustration or adversity, which is to say, almost everywhere. The ability to maintain tolerance can be the difference between irritation and serenity, being concerned and relaxed, whether at home with our children, at work with our colleagues, or at the grocery store with half of our city’s population.

    Throughout history, religions and philosophers have extolled the virtue of patience; now, scholars are beginning to do the same. Recent studies have shown that, indeed, good things do come to those who are patient and patiently wait. Some of these scientifically proven advantages are discussed in further detail here, along with three suggestions for cultivating more patience in your life.

    It seems that there are common methods for developing patience as well. According to recent patience study, the following are some recommended strategies:

    ●  Change the way you think about the circumstance. It is not just an involuntary emotional reaction that makes you feel impatient; it is also a result of your cognitive ideas and beliefs. If a coworker is late to a meeting, you may either be upset about their lack of respect or take advantage of the additional 15 minutes to catch up on some reading. Because patience is associated with self-control, actively attempting to moderate our emotions may aid in the development of our self-control muscles.

    ●  Make use of mindfulness techniques. A six-month mindfulness program in school was shown to reduce impulsivity and increase the willingness to wait for a reward in one study of children. Christine Carter, of the Greater Good Science Center, also encourages

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