5 Simple Steps to Releasing the Real You: How to become more confident, energised and healthy
By Anne Iarchy
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About this ebook
Are you always asking yourself:
- What is the best diet for me?
- Why do diets seem to work for others but not me?
- Why am I 'good' at following diet plans for a few days, only to give up by Thursday?
If you're frustrated with dieting and it's now starting to affect your confidence, energy and heal
Anne Iarchy
Anne Iarchy (ex-Haribo addict) is a weight loss and healthy lifestyle coach. After struggling with her own weight loss and confidence issues while working in the corporate world, Anne has made it her mission to help busy people break free from the diet trap. More importantly, Anne enables them to put a system in place to regain their confidence, energy and health so they can perform at their best.
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5 Simple Steps to Releasing the Real You - Anne Iarchy
Introduction
My name is Anne, and I’m a Haribo addict, in remission…
I was never a slim child. On top of the healthy meals we ate at home, I spent a chunk of my pocket money on sweets and bakery goods. In primary school, I was very active. I loved sports and exercise. Being so active meant that the full damage of my sweet tooth wasn’t properly visible.
From high school onwards, my activity levels dropped. After university, I started my career in the hi-tech industry. Regular hours weren’t really part of my life for many years, and frequent work travel made adopting a routine nearly impossible. Airport, aeroplane, train, hotel and restaurant food were the norm, in addition to client entertainment with some drinks to top it off. Nights were cut short due to travel, which led to me being perpetually tired. A great excuse to stop exercising, except for my weekend golf games when I was at home.
My fridge at home was always empty. After all, what’s the point of coming home to rotten fruit and vegetables, and lumpy milk? Takeaways when home or just eating out with friends was the easy option. To combat the tiredness, I filled up on Haribo for quick energy. Nurofen kept the headaches at bay and helped me to relax.
As you can imagine, that lifestyle wasn’t conducive to a healthy weight, which crept up slowly but surely. I tried many diets during those years, but as most were so restrictive, they were impossible to follow long-term with my lifestyle. Over the years, I spent lots of money on gym memberships I rarely used, even with good intentions to go when I wasn’t travelling.
I kept on asking the personal trainers for advice on how I could lose weight with my hectic, unstructured life. Unfortunately, none managed to come up with a plan. For them, it was all or nothing.
One day, I signed up once more at another local gym and was offered five sessions with one of their personal trainers to get me kick-started. During our chat, she asked me about my goals, my exercise background, and my eating habits. I explained to her that I was leading a hectic lifestyle including lots of travel, and very proudly, I mentioned that during the last few months I had really tried to be good
and reduced a bit of the sweet quantity.
I was shocked by her answer. Unless you’re going to take it seriously and be fully committed, it’s just not good enough.
I didn’t even know how to respond and switched off for the rest of our chat.
After our session, I ran straight to the shops to buy a few bags of Haribo… I never saw her again for the other four sessions.
I wasn’t happy in myself, my confidence was low, and I didn’t like what I saw in the mirror or in pictures.
On a fun
afternoon out with work, I fell and tore the ligaments in my knee. I have always been interested in the human body and how it works. (My dad still thinks I would have made a terrific doctor.) I was intrigued by the rehab process – how the muscles worked, and how to strengthen certain muscles that would take over the function of my ligaments.
I eventually looked for a personal training course that I could combine with my more than full-time job. Although I completed the course in 2007, it was only at the start of 2010, after some management changes in the company I worked for, that I made my big career change.
I wanted to help busy people just like me to lose weight, gain confidence and feel happy within themselves.
Quite quickly I realised that, as a regular personal trainer, I would only get my clients very limited results, just as I’d got when I used personal trainers. I had to offer a more complete package, so I added nutrition to the mix, together with training. My clients started to get better results.
However, many still didn’t keep to their eating plans for the usual reasons/ excuses. There was more to weight loss than just eat less, move more
. And that although, at the end of the day, being in calorie deficit is what is going to provide weight loss, the way to get to this is not as straightforward as diets describe it to be. It’s never just your diet.
I looked at habits, mindset, sleep and stress, which were the recurring issues my clients brought up as reasons why they didn’t stick to their plans. And over the past 10 years, I have developed a 5-step system that gives my client consistent long-term results. My hope is that, when applying the system, you as a reader of this book will get the results you always wanted.
If you’ve been struggling with your weight, and have tried many diets, or potentially the same diet over and over again, without long-term results, then this book is for you.
If you’ve been struggling to juggle the pressures of life, work, family, social life, hobbies, and anything else that is keeping you busy, and use those as a reason/excuse for your struggle with weight, then this book is for you.
If you feel that the lack of willpower and/or self-discipline is what is holding you back from achieving your weight loss goal, then this book is for you.
If you are ready to be open to new ideas, and to explore new methods, while forgetting everything you’ve ever learned on previous attempts, then this book is for you.
This book will give you the tools to achieve weight loss for life and become totally awesome! You will finally understand that there is much more to weight loss than just eating less and moving more. Diets are so yesterday
!
Together, we will work through the 5 simple steps of your weight loss journey. We will go in-depth into each step, and I will give you tools and exercises to use and do at home, so that you can get a real feel for each step and how it can be applied to you.
I will be sharing many of my clients’ stories to show you how the steps have been used and implemented in different ways, to suit different lifestyles.
We are all different: we all live differently, and have different backgrounds, traditions and commitments. This means that each step will look different for you than for your friend once implemented in your life.
There is no one size fits all
. Get the basics right, and you will see results.
As you work through the exercises in each part of this book, you will define your own personal plan, and feel empowered to act upon it. The changes you make will have a much bigger impact than just on your weight. Every change you make in one of the steps will have a ripple effect on the other ones. But more importantly, it will have a ripple effect on your environment and the people around you.
The way you look at your life and your health will be different. You will feel empowered, in control, and in charge of your health and weight for the rest of your life.
Over the years, major and life-changing events will happen. They will require you to adapt and change to maintain your results. Grab hold of the book again, and work through the exercises and steps once more from where you are at that moment in time.
There will be ups, downs and plateaux along the journey. It’s part of the process, and something you will learn to embrace. I wish I could tell you there was a magic pill you could take which would make you slim, fit and healthy overnight. Unfortunately, there isn’t.
Try to read the book in the order it has been written in.
You have probably heard some of the points made in the book before. What makes it different and powerful is the combination of the 5 steps. All 5 steps are interlinked. Work in small chunks on all of them, and you will see big improvements all round.
If you focus only on one of the steps, then as with most traditional diets you will keep on getting stuck. Trust the process. It’s one that has worked for my clients over the past 10 years and continues to work.
Do the exercises as you go through the book to prepare your own individualised plan for the slimmer, fitter, healthier, more confident and happier you.
You can download all the exercises here:
https://anneiarchy.com/5-simple-steps-companion-sheets/
I would like to invite you to join my online community on Facebook, where you can ask me any questions related to the book, share your journey, share your ‘aha’ moments, and chat with like-minded people on their own journey. https://www.facebook.com/groups/ItsNotAboutTheScales
Let’s do this together!
PART 1
THE PROBLEM
Weight Loss in Numbers
Coronavirus, Diabetes and Obesity
Diets Don’t Work – Here’s Why
Society and Media: Pressures and Expectations
Fast Weight Loss?
The Holy
Scales
figure WEIGHT LOSS IN NUMBERS
Numbers are never exciting, but it’s important to realise how much of a problem obesity really is today, and will be in the future, and this is even more important in the aftermath of the coronavirus pandemic.
In February 2018, the World Health Organisation (WHO) reported that obesity worldwide had nearly tripled since 1975. In 2016, more than 1.9 billion (39%) adults, 18 years and older, were overweight. Of these, over 650 million (13%) were obese. Worryingly, 41 million children under the age of 5 and over 340 million children and adolescents aged 5-19 were overweight or obese.
NHS England reported in May 2019 that 29% of the adult population is classified as obese, an increase of 26% on the number in 2016, while 20% of Year 6 children (age 10-11) are also obese. Those numbers are going up globally. As a result, Type 2 diabetes is on the rise as well.¹
In the UK, diabetes costs the NHS £10 billion each year. It accounts for about 10% of the NHS budget with 80% of these costs due to complications of the disease. The overall costs of diabetes are set to grow over the next 20 years, when they are projected to account for 17% of the entire NHS budget. Diabetes will also increase the costs of social care due to complications.
There are around 3.8 million people in the UK with diabetes. That’s over 1 in 20! Of these, 3.2 million have been diagnosed with either Type 1 or Type 2 diabetes. The rest have undiagnosed Type 2 diabetes, which is a dangerous situation to be in.
Each year in the UK, 24,000 people with diabetes die early. Diabetes is the leading cause of blindness in people of working age in the UK. Over 100 amputations are carried out every week on people with diabetes because of complications connected with their condition. Up to 80% of these are preventable. The cost pressures facing the NHS will not go away in a couple of years and expenditure on diabetes is rising.²
Type 2 diabetes is fully preventable and reversible if not left too long, through a change in lifestyle and by adopting the 5 steps outlined in this book.
At the same time, the weight loss market is growing each year. In February 2019, the US weight loss market was worth a record $72 billion.³
With thousands of diets and slimming products on the market, all promising fast weight loss, you wonder why the obesity numbers are still on the increase. There is probably a diet for every taste and flavour. Every few years, a couple of diets are at the forefront. Right now, it’s the ketogenic diet, intermittent fasting, and even veganism is being branded as a weight loss diet. If you’re reading this book right now, there is a large chance that you’ve tried at least one diet in your life.
Most of the people that reach out to me for help, especially women, have tried many diets, and often have tried the same diet a few times, because it has worked
for them in the past. I did too. None of them work long-term though.
figure CORONAVIRUS, DIABETES AND OBESITY
If the coronavirus pandemic has taught us one thing, it is that having an underlying condition, such as diabetes or obesity, has a direct impact in the severity of implication of catching a virus such as Covid-19.
We don’t know enough yet if people with underlying conditions are more likely to catch the virus, although the assumption is that it most probably is due to a compromised immune system. However, what is already known is that most of the deceased, as well as those that needed to be put on ventilators and/or had severe reactions, had underlying conditions.
An underlying health condition is a chronic or long-term illness, which in turn weakens the immune system. This reduces the body’s ability to fight off infection or illness, so the symptoms and impact from infection can be greater.
People who already have diabetes-related health