The Magical Sex Book: Create and sustain amazing sex in four simple steps
By Frank Wiegers and Judith Claire
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Have you been longing for better sex but don't know where to begin? Put an end to the mystery and learn how to regularly create intimate, meaningful, magical sex.
Is being unfulfilled in the bedroom hurting your relationship? Know the passion is gone and want it back? Afraid you're too old to enjoy the exciteme
Frank Wiegers
Frank Wiegers & Judith Claire, love, sex, and relationship experts who teach how to create and sustain amazing sex. Magical Relationship=Magical Sex
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"[The] author strikes that right balance of instruction and energy that’s missing in so many other books and seminars. Combining the methods of turning sex into a spiritual connection leads the reader right to the treasure of learning what’s missing, and the authors provide action steps to solve disconnection problems.
[The author gives] equal time for male and female points of view, plus inclusion making readers of all gender identities feel addressed. The sex after 50 section is a standout. Impressively, well done."
Judge, 9th Annual Writer’s Digest Self-Published E-Book Awards
"Regardless of your age or time you’ve spent with your partner, The Magical Sex Book is a must for all couples. Not only will it guarantee a better sex life, it will also help you deepen your understanding of your own needs and your partner’s desires. Well-written, helpful and engaging, it comes highly recommended."
Chick Lit Café
"Not just another fluffy spiritual sex testimonial! Magical Sex is a rambunctious romp into how to set the stage (Pre-Play), engage in the necessary prep (Fore-Play), find playful ecstatic sex (The-Play), and delight in lasting bliss in bed and beyond (After-Play). Written in an easy-to-access voice, this book relies on the wisdom and humor of a real Top Gun fighter pilot and knowledge and experience of a seasoned relationship counselor. Plus, the authenticity of an older couple who have discovered the secrets to living from their passion while defying aging. This book is a practical map to intimacy that incorporates the body/mind/spirit to heights that we all deserve to visit every time we unite with our partner."
Patti Britton, PhD, Clinical Sexologist, Author of The Art of Sex Coaching: DrPattiBritton.com or SexCoachU.com
"The Magical Sex Book is a masterpiece. We cannot deny that sex is a huge part of our lives as humans and people destined to procreate. It is to be enjoyed and not endured. The first step to having this enjoyable sexual relationship with your partner would be to read this book. It promises to be worth every penny.
Based on my love for this book and all that it stands for and is set to achieve, I rate this book 4 out of 4 stars."
OnLineBookClub - Ify Babe
"The Magical Sex Book is an inspiring instructional for anyone desiring intimacy that positively enhances their relationship and life. Appropriate for all ages, this book provides valuable lovemaking techniques that benefit young (and young-at-heart) lovers, vital hormone information to assist older beloveds, and sex magic techniques that create the connected and transformative intimacy we all crave. Very well-written in a downto-earth (and often humorous) style, this joyful read offers deep wisdom, tried-and-true technologies, and new ways to dazzle your partner and delight in your relationship."
Meloney Hudson: Author, Sexy, Spirited and Strong: Becoming a Positive Energy Woman, PositiveEnergyWoman.com
"The Magical Sex Book. Indeed it is. The instructional writing is very direct and concise, at the same time being sensitive to all of the nuances of the sexual experience. The book is certainly comprehensive, not missing a beat in the life-long learning process that great sex demands. There’s so much to learn but the book gives the reader many fast tracks for success. There are highly informed insights into what works and doesn’t.
This book is especially important for men, and it would be an especially sexually rewarding gift to a husband or lover. I guarantee that orgasms will be rediscovered at a whole new level for both partners."
Beck Peacock: Author: Learning to Leave: A Woman’s Guide, Director: Petals: Vagina Dialogues
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The Magical Sex Book
Copyright © 2021 by Frank Wiegers & Judith Claire
All rights reserved. This book or any portion thereof may not be reproduced or used in any manner whatsoever without the express written permission of the publisher except for the use of brief quotations in a book review.
For inquiries, contact:
FrankWiegers
310-337-2701
Printed in the United States of America
Cover Design: Tatiana Vila, Vila Design
Page Layout: Carla Green, Clarity Designworks
ISBN paperback: 978-0-9911622-0-8
ISBN ebook: 978-0-9911622-1-5
ISBN audio book: 978-0-9911622-2-2
Contents
Preface
Chapter One. Introduction: The Quest for Magical Sex
Sexual Revolution to Sexual Evolution
Is This Like Tantra?
Fighter Pilots and Lovers
Why Men Need This and How Women Can Coach Them
From Ordinary Sex to Amazing Sex
Then there’s Sex Magick.
Unlock the Power of the Four Steps
Create a Vision of Your Love Life
Sex as a Spiritual Practice
How Practicing Sex Is More Fun than Practicing Almost Any Thing Else
Chapter Two. Communication for Lovers
In to Me You See Leads to Magical Sex – Intimacy
Easy Rituals that Deepen Intimacy
Daily Do’s
Limbic Resonance
How to Get What You Want in the Bedroom
How Some Men Are
How Some Women Are
What Women Need to Learn
What Men Need to Learn
Create a Loving Conversation about Loving Sex
Going Deeper
Ladies First
In Bed
Exchanging Ideas
ROI
Chapter Three. Male Orgasm Training
Multiple Orgasms and Prolonging Orgasm for Men
Orgasm Training
Premature Ejaculation (PE)
Chapter Four. Step 1: Pre-Play
What is Pre-Play?
Before Pre-Play
Date Night
Calendar Sex
Desire Follows Arousal
Setting the Scene
One Example
Sex Magick Ceremony Preparation
Getting in Tune for Magical Sex
Verbal Communication
Non-Verbal Communication
Go, Slow, or Stop?
For Women
What to Do During Pre-Play
A Very Important Part
Chapter Five. Step 2: Fore-Play
Fanning the Flames of Arousal to Create Desire
Kissing
Fore-Play Scenario
Breasts
Vulva
Clitoris
Passion
Women’s Erogenous Zones
Lubrication
Fore-Play for a Man
Bondage
Make Agreements
Set the Stage
Costumes
Bondage Play
Spiritual Sex
Chapter Six. Step 3: The-Play
Oral Sex
Cunnilingus: Oral Sex on a Woman
Cunnilingus Scenario
Nipple Play
Focus on the Clit
Use a Finger
G Spot
Continuing Cunnilingus
Breath Connection
Reaching Orgasm
Fellatio: Oral Sex for Men
Fellatio Scenario
Partner Intercourse
Woman Astride
Using the Breath to Circulate Energy
Variety
Chapter 7. Step 4: After-Play
Deepening the Loving Connection
Sex Magick
The Law of Attraction
Sex Magick Ceremony
Create a Sigil
Chapter 8. Sex After Fifty
About Men Over Fifty
What is Andropause?
Partner Support
Low, or No, Sexual Desire
Sex
Common Male Issues that Can Be Resolved
About Women Over Fifty
What Is Menopause?
Will She Want Sex?
What Can You Do?
Hormone Replacement Therapy
Her Low Libido
The Good News
Appendix I. Anatomy
Female Anatomy — Secrets of Her Lady Parts
The Clitoris
G Spot
Bartholin’s Glands
The Vagina
The Cervix and Fornix
The Perineum and Anus
Pelvic Nerve Endings
Women’s Orgasms
Male Anatomy — How to Get His Magic Wand to Make Magic
Exterior Genitalia
Interior Elements
Appendix II. Step 1: Pre-Play Exercises
Physical Exercises that Bring You into the Moment
Hip Thrust
Ecstatic Dance
Spiritual Exercises to Connect You to Your Lover
Eye Gazing
Synchronized Breathing
Hand-on-Heart
Alternate Breathing
PC Contractions
Appendix III. Step 2: Fore-Play Techniques
Fore-Play Techniques
Fore-Play for Women
Hands and Arms
Head and Neck
Legs and Feet
Anus
Breasts/Nipples
Mons, Vulva, Labia, and Clitoris
Fore-Play for Men
Resources
Related Studies
Helpful Books
Relationship
Sexuality
Women’s Sexuality
Tantra
Sex Magick
About the Authors
Preface
I’ve been passionate about this work for over 35 years, and I’m so excited to share it with you. Sexual fulfillment came late to me because I grew up in a sexually repressed environment. After leaving a passionless marriage in my forties, I had something of a spiritual awakening and began an intensive study of love, sex and relationship. I read every book I could find and studied with teachers from Europe, India, and the U.S., including a Native American shaman. Wow! That opened a whole new world for me.
I always had this sense that sex could be very spiritual, and the more passionate it was, the more spiritual it was. I would get random experiences of Oh My God
quality sex but couldn’t predict when it was going to happen and didn’t know how to make it happen on a regular basis.
As I continued my study and training, I was able to get to that place more frequently, but still not on what I would call a sustainable, repeatable experience. Then I met my wife, Judith, and I found I was able to match what I had learned to what she had learned—not just about sex, but about how to communicate and connect, how to treat each other, how to love. It was, and is, magic.
Service is a key value that she and I share. That’s why I was a fighter pilot, and why I have coached love, sex, and relationship for 30 years. Judith has been a successful personal, career, and relationship counselor and coach in Los Angeles for over 40 years. We are both dedicated to helping others improve their lives, just as we have improved ours. So, of course, we’d want others to benefit from everything we know about how to create magical sex.
Judith has been my biggest supporter,