Glimpses
By Pat Fowle
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Most of one's life is not always memorable. I spent a fair amount of my past just chasing the wind, however, I can recall certain events, some of which I will share. I'll stick to glimpses.
This is what could be described as a fragmented autobiography; a story told through noteworthy events that have occurred during a colourful life.
Some are mystical, some inexplicable. Short stories that involve humour, but most of all love, like threads of gold that run through a lifetime.
Pat Fowle
Pat Fowle spent almost all of her married life travelling to different parts of the world and meeting interesting people, and considers herself fortunate for having done so. This was enabled by her husband’s exploration work.
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Glimpses - Pat Fowle
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This book is for my nine grandchildren.
Contents
Glimpses
Cupid’s Dart
The Wedding
The Group
Eve’s Incense
Scotland
Oil Rig
Avebury
Planets
The Chimney
Etna
Capri
A Letter From my Father-in-law
Sister Anne
Israel
No Brake Fluid!
The Electrician
Las Vegas
Durango
Back Problem
Wishing Away Time!
Parting Gift
Dot of Light
Padre Pio
St Teresa of Ávila
Faith
Dream
The Dress
Sikh Shrine
Guardian Angels
Summing Up
Glimpses
This is a glimpse into what I consider to be noteworthy memories. Most of one’s life is not always memorable. I spent a fair amount of my past just chasing the wind, however, I can recall certain events, some of which I will relate to you. I’ll stick to glimpses, since I do not intend for these recollections of my life to read like a diary.
I will start at the very beginning and recount briefly, my earliest memory. I was sitting outside my house in a pram, aggressively objecting to anyone who passed too near. In contrast, I remember looking down at our cat lying close to the pram and feeling affection towards it. Not an exciting first account, but there it is, first memory! I have fleeting memories of my infant school in Cambridge, which I recall as being on the whole enjoyable. The second strong memory is of my maternal great-grandmother, known to the family as ‘Little Granny’. She was very old. My grandmother told me she was one hundred years old. Apparently, she had never been ill and had never had to see a doctor. One fact remained clear to me – she loved humbugs. Round-shaped sweets with stripes running through like rock! Popular in those days. One very cold and frosty day, Little Granny decided to make a trip to the nearby corner shop. She had run out of humbugs and the corner shop she knew supplied them.
The pavements on that day were dangerously icy but unperturbed. Little Granny set off for the short distance to get her one indulgence: humbugs. With the icy conditions making walking on foot treacherous, she soon slipped and fell, breaking her arm in the process. An ambulance was called and the last we ever saw of Little Granny was (and this is what I clearly remember) of her smiling and waving cheerfully with the good arm. It was seeing her seated alone inside the dark, old-fashioned ambulance, smiling so bravely as the doors closed and she was driven away, that affected me deeply. I’m trying to remember what I felt at the time; affection, yes; compassion, I don’t know. I didn’t think then that she shouldn’t have gone unaccompanied to the hospital – I was four years old! I do now. Little Granny died a few days later of pneumonia. No antibiotics then. I recall now that my grandmother always found it difficult and sad to say goodbye. I remember her chin used to wobble without fail when saying goodbye to anyone and everyone.
I don’t remember that I spent a great deal of time at Addenbrooke’s Hospital, Cambridge, when I was a baby. Glandular problems, possibly due to unpasteurised milk. I also had a long stay once again at four or possibly just five. I was put into the children’s ward with scarlet fever and, due to it being the contagious ward, it followed on with measles and a few other unwelcome diseases. I do remember some of my time there as being happy, thanks to the wonderful nurses and doctors, especially on Christmas day when Father Christmas arrived on the ward and gave everyone a present. Because it was a contagious ward, no one was allowed to have toys to take home and my teddy bear was removed and, I was told, destroyed. One of my less happy memories.
In 1940 I went to London with my mother and her lover, to live. I was just four when the second world war broke out, experiencing what all children at that time did: rationing, air raids, nearby shelters to run to. I recall a bombing from time to time and yet my childhood was for most of the time, happy! I should mention now that due to my father’s kind heart, my whole life was changed forever. It was during a short leave from the army that my father met, on a train from London to Cambridge, a lonely young man. He invited him to stay at our home for the weekend. Poor fellow,
my father had said to my mother. Make him feel at home.
Those were the parting words from my foolish father, as he left to return to camp. Well! My mother did. She was very young, twenty-three and very attractive, and the tall, dark, handsome man was charming. They started an affair and soon fled to London, taking me with them. I was then five and it was 1940. Some months after, my father was given compassionate leave to find me, which he did effortlessly. Thanks to my grandmother, who had the address, he swiftly deposited me at my maternal grandmother’s small house and there, thank God, I remained for the rest of my school days. My father was an unassuming sort of man, ill-equipped for this world, but I hero-worshipped him.
The next vivid memory which has stayed with me was on my seventh birthday. I remember standing close to a vegetable patch in my aunt’s garden. I remember smiling with great concentration at the box camera my aunt was holding – click, as the mechanism went into action. I clicked into a sudden awareness at the very same moment. I am seven and I am in this world. The realisation of this thought flooded over me for the first time in my life. There was something else I felt and almost knew in that instant. I hovered on the threshold of a stillness, waiting. I held my breath in an effort not to think or breathe. The strange feeling passed almost in the same second. I smiled now at my aunt and not the camera. I asked if I could keep the photograph to put in my album. I didn’t in fact have an album at the time, but my aunt nodded anyway. Aunt Gladys was my mother’s sister and was an extremely organised person with a good, solid character. She made most of my clothes as well as for her two daughters. The youngest of whom I had, and still have, a great affection for. What I most admired about my aunt was her ability to knit and read at the same time. As for my grandmother, she was a busy, industrious woman who struggled cheerfully to make ends meet. I know that she was fond of me. It was just that she didn’t have the enthusiasm, or perhaps the energy, to show it. One didn’t show much outward sign of affection in those days!
She was small and moved quickly like a nervous bird. Her nose was slightly hooked. She had small, dark eyes that were set quite deeply in her tiny, wrinkled face, brown from hours