Tangoed up & Blue
By Patrick J. Cole and Barbara Merlotti
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It is divided into three sections to convey the passages from "innocence" to "self-absorption" to "acceptance".
It is filled with words and art that will hopefully provoke the reader to smile or frown, recognize or disagree, and ultimately, consider dancing as a way of expressing feelings that cannot always be put into words.
Patrick J. Cole
Patrick J. Cole is a management consultant and poet that finds delight in Nature which is often pointed out to him by a canine companion while he attempts to walk mindfully through the woods. Cole mixes his psychology background, perennial wisdom practices, and poetry to deliver his simple message: there’s joy to be found if we know how to look for it. Oh, he’s not the calm, cool, Zen cucumber you might expect. He still feels a range of emotions as he attempts to maintain his PBS practice. What’s PBS? His Zen Buddhist mentor explains that it means Pause, Breathe, and Smile – or, if that doesn’t work, Peanut Butter Sandwich. Both can help avoid negative knee-jerk reactions that often only make life more difficult. While practicing PBS, Cole lives with his wife in rural Missouri relatively near St. Louis. 11/30/2021: Patrick J. Cole is a management consultant and poet who finds delight in nature, especially the hidden wildlife often pointed out to him by a canine companion while he attempts to walk mindfully through the woods. Cole mixes his psychology background, perennial wisdom practices, and poetry to deliver his simple message: there’s joy to be found if we know how to look for it. Oh, Cole might look calm, cool, and collected, but he still feels a range of strong emotions as he attempts to maintain his PBS practice. What is PBS? His Zen Buddhist mentor explains that it means Pause, Breathe, and Smile—or, if that doesn’t work, Peanut Butter Sandwich. Both can help avoid harmful knee-jerk reactions. While practicing PBS, Cole lives with his naturally beautiful wife in rural Missouri, relatively near St. Louis.
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Tangoed up & Blue - Patrick J. Cole
Copyright © 2008 by Patrick J. Cole
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For me, to dance is to be awake, aware, and attentive. It is moving meditation and the healing balm of therapy encapsulated in the touch and look of my partner.
So this book is dedicated to all my dance partners, and
especially to my favorite dance partner and wife, Linda Merlotti.
Without her none of this would exist.
Contents
Introduction
Starting Out
First Love
New Love
Secret Names
Signs of Love
If Only Once
Muscle Memory
Struggling
Don’t Leave Home Without Me
Communion
Father’s Fav’rite Boy
Why We Dance
Time is Nobody’s Friend
One Way Private Road
Contra-Body Motion
Letting Go
This Time
Love Lessons
Dance Proficiency
Too Stubborn to Die
Embracing CHANGE
Love Questions
The Passion and the Shark
Natural Beauty
Epilogue
Introduction
Traditionally, a woman is expected to follow her dance partner. That is to say, when a