From Anguish to Hope
By Jody Schloss
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Following her accident, Jody worked hard to pursue the life that she had always dreamed of, being a teacher, and working with children. She has always been very adventurous, and she manages to participate in my many exciting sports . Jody plans to write a second book to continue her story.
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From Anguish to Hope - Jody Schloss
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21737.pngFOREWORD
I first met Jody in 1987 in Toronto when we were 14 years old. I had just emigrated from South Africa with my family. We met at a riding stable, where Jody kept her horse, and we became fast friends.
Our teenage years took us in many different directions, until we met again in Vancouver at the University of British Columbia after Jody returned from Cambridge University in England. Our friendship has endured more than 33 years so far.
After her accident, we were all very shocked and devastated while we waited for any sign that Jody would wake from her coma. Her mom, Gail, refused to give up and in true Jody form she proved the doctors wrong. Recovery was a long road for her, yet we started to see a drive and tenacity from Jody that began guiding her healing and her comeback. She never took No
for an answer from anyone or any situation, instead finding a way to do whatever she set her mind to. I started admiring the way she persisted to attempt and re-attempt whatever she wanted to until she succeeded with her signature brave yet very kind spirit. She skied, sailed on the ocean, travelled to Thailand and South Africa, continued to ride horses - there was nothing and I mean nothing that deterred Jody in any way.
One of my favourite stories that I always remember occurred on a trip to South Africa. Jody was determined to go Bungee Jumping off a bridge and I was absolutely petrified and not willing to go. I was totally relieved when she decided that maybe it wasn’t a great idea. Nonetheless, she did a Safari in a Game Park, went Micro lighting in Durban, danced the night away in Sun City, shopped at markets and sailed. There simply is no hurdle too big for Jody and there is nothing she won’t try.
To further her Equestrian career, we attended 2010 World Equestrian Games together and it was during a dressage competition that Jody decided to ride for Canada. In 2012, with hard work and dedication, and a new horse named Inspector Rebus, Jody represented Canada in the London Paralympics. Jody’s schedule was rigorous, she rode daily and worked out while still doing her daily tasks. Jody chose to do everything herself and it was her attitude and determination to succeed that inspires so many people around the world.
Jody has continued to reset her goals, dreams and aspirations for as long as I have known her and continues to defy what other people see as limitations. For Jody, that would simply be another challenge she will overcome, one way or the other. Jody flew out to my wedding in Vancouver 2015 and danced and celebrated with me, my family and friends. Yet again, I saw how nothing can stop Jody to pay tribute to our friendship.
You are holding in your hands another goal Jody set for herself to write a book. She did it. She wrote a book!
This book is not just an achievement and another goal achieved by Jody. It is a testament to Jody’s character, persistence and her belief that you can do anything you want to in your life. Nothing can stop you if you have faith and belief in yourself. She is the true definition of a fighter and a go-getter.
Her fascinating story written with both poetry and prose will draw you in to the life of a remarkable person. Her story will challenge you to rethink and recalibrate what could be possible for your life.
You are in for a treat with this book.
You may be moved more than you are ready for.
Embrace it, as Jody embraces her life every day.
Jody, you remain my inspiration and my very dear friend.
You have proved nothing is impossible.
Vanessa Kursan
Vancouver, Canada
2020
1%20Jody%20and%20Vanessa.jpgVanessa & Jody, 2004
South Africa
21737.pngDEDICATION
For my mother, Gail, who always believed in me.
21737.pngCONTENTS
FOREWORD
DEDICATION
CHAPTER 1: THE STORY BEHIND THE STORY
CHAPTER 2: WHY WRITE?
CHAPTER 3: NEW BEGINNINGS
CHAPTER 4: CHILDHOOD MEMORIES
CHAPTER 5: THE ACCIDENT
CHAPTER 6: GIVING BACK
CHAPTER 7: TRAVELS AND HOBBIES
CHAPTER 8: GRANDPA HYMIE BALTZAN
CHAPTER 9: FROM ANGUISH TO HOPE
REFERENCES:
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
I AM
I am determined not to have limitations set upon me
just because I am different
I wonder if I will achieve my goals
I hear applause every time I do something I was never supposed to accomplish
I see myself with all my hard work delivering the desired ending
I want the desired ending
being able to walk and talk without difficulty
people seeing me as a person first, not a brain injury
I am determined not to have limitations set upon me
just because I am different
I pretend that I was not injured, and am still the person I was
I feel like a stronger person now
I touch what I want to achieve
I worry that the limitations will come true
I cry when I am seen as a brain injury, not unique
I am determined not to have limitations set upon me
just because I am different
I understand that I will never be the same as I was before
I say that my hard work will deliver the desired ending
I dream that I fly everywhere I want to go
I try to do the best I can at everything I want to accomplish
I hope that my wish will come true
I am determined not to have limitations set upon me
just because I am different
2%20Jody.jpgThe first two chapters of the book are co-written by Jody and Ariella. In
the rest of the chapters, Jody tells her story in her own voice.
21737.pngCHAPTER 1:
THE STORY BEHIND THE STORY
The story of Jody and Ariella working and writing together
The story began when Jody asked Ariella, a narrative researcher, to help her write her life story. Ariella does not have a title in Jody’s life, nor a specific role. She helps her to think about herself as a person, not as a brain injury, to tell her story from her perspective, not a perspective she is supposed to have. She helps Jody be true to herself. At times Jody feels that her life is not hers anymore. She is expected to feel and behave