The Farm: A Love That Lives On
By Sandra Wolfram and Emma Riedl
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Sandra Wolfram
Sandy Wolfram and her granddaughter Emma Riedl collaborated on their first writing endeavor to share Sandy’s memories of her life and her beloved farm, where Emma was raised. Sandy has worked in financial services most of her life but was also a teacher straight out of college. She is now jokingly dubbed the Farm Manager but really she is a well-respected business woman, loving mother, and doting grandmother. Sandy loves her donkeys & cats and gardening is her passion. She lives on the farm (in a restored barn) along with her daughter, son-in-law and their four children. Emma is currently a senior at the University of Illinois, Urbana-Champaign. She grew up on the farm, in the farmhouse next to Sandy’s refurbished barn. Emma and her siblings affectionately call Sandy their “Gigi”, a name that Emma began calling Sandy at the age of two. Emma graduated from a high school class of 29 students and will graduate from college in May 2021 and begin a full time position in Chicago.
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The Farm - Sandra Wolfram
Copyright © 2021 Sandra Wolfram And Emma Riedl.
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ISBN: 978-1-6632-1599-4 (sc)
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Library of Congress Control Number: 2021900487
iUniverse rev. date: 01/13/2021
Contents
Foreword
History
A Love Affair
Stubborn Determination
The Hobby Out of Control
A Tough Year
A Time for Starting Over
My Amazing Life
Love in Its Present Form
I dedicate this book to my late husband, Duane E. Wolfram—a man with an amazing vision and who loved living it. And to my family, who made this all possible: my daughter, Rebecca, and her husband, Doug; the children, Emma, Anna, Matthew, and Claire. Without them, none of this would have been possible. A very special note of gratitude and love to Emma, who spent the summer of 2020 working with me on putting together this amazing memoir. Thank you, Emma! And to my other two granddaughters, Anna and Claire, who designed our cover: thank you both for your beautiful addition to this book.
Foreword
A s two people fall in love, they start to share a life. From the very beginning of this book, you will read about love between two people, love for a family, and love that fueled a divine passion. As this book was taking shape, there was a choice to decide on what exactly this book should encompass. The story is not necessarily one that is very conventional. In fact, this story is about creating the life you want with persistence and, most importantly, love for all things life brings you.
I am Sandra’s oldest granddaughter, Emma. Although Sandra, or Gigi to me, had expressed interest in sharing this story with people, it was not until years later that we made this a reality. I saw it as another opportunity that I was so fortunate to share in the beginning, but it turned out to be that and much more. She and I would find ourselves sitting in our current farmhouse kitchen area multiple times a week for hours at a time. Sandra would walk me through the property and tell me stories. There was always a theme to her stories, and two were very common: preservation and sharing. This passion that my grandma and grandpa shared was one that started between the two of them as a hobby, turned into a lifestyle, and was eventually shared with family and way more.
The farm holds a special place in all of our hearts. I find trying to describe or pinpoint the meaning of the farm one of the hardest to put into words, but it has been my life and an amazing one at that. I am confident that no matter where I am or at what point I am at in my own life, the farm will always be home. I am excited to share my grandmother’s story on this piece of land in a rural town in Northwestern Illinois, where I and many others can find a sense of home.
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27265.pngW hen most families look for a weekend home, they often look for homes in warmer states or on the water or in the mountains. This was not the case for our story. My husband, Dewey Wolfram, and I had purchased a beautiful two-story farmhouse on a special piece of land. The property originally set for a country retreat turned into a preservation project and holds a beautiful antique collection. This story is not an easy one to tell because, besides every property having family history and so many of those stories, this one also has stories of the past, told through antiques and restored buildings.
Before the Oak Hill Farm entered our family, it had been owned by the McFaddens dating back to the mid 1800s. They owned three hundred acres of land, which was plenty of room to raise their family of ten children. They had five girls and five boys. The McFaddens had quite a variety of farm animals, including cows, chickens, horses, sheep, and pigs. It was a typical nineteenth- and twentieth-century old-fashioned farm with some tillable land used for crops such as corn and wheat. When they lived on the property, they lived in the farmhouse, where my daughter and her family currently live. The farmhouse has two staircases, the reason being that one was used for the girls to go upstairs and the other was used for the boys to go upstairs, as they were not allowed to use the same stairs. As the McFadden family grew old and had families of their own, there were two daughters and one son who had never married and lived in that farmhouse while they performed the farm’s upkeep.
Eventually, they decided it was time to sell the farm. The three hundred acres were sold to Frank Gabel, who was married to Antonio Gabel, or Mrs. Gabel. Mrs. Gabel was strong and hardworking. She always had her hair pulled back to keep it out of her eyes while she worked, even on the day we first met her. In fact, she was such a determined lady that one day, her car would not start, and she needed to get to town for a hair appointment. That led her to walking into town, about three miles, for a haircut, leaving the car behind. Frank’s children never lived on the farm. Only Mrs. Gabel’s daughter did in a makeshift apartment in the upstairs of the farmhouse. Frank Gabel had several children before