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    Nevertheless: The Resilience of the Modern Woman
    Nevertheless: The Resilience of the Modern Woman
    Nevertheless: The Resilience of the Modern Woman
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    Nevertheless: The Resilience of the Modern Woman

    By Jillian Giberson

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    In 2019, women held only 28 percent of global managerial positions. Just 18 percent of Chief Executive Officers are women; and, on average, women spend 2.5 more hours of their time in unpaid care and domestic work than men. 


    Nevertheless: The Resilience of the Modern Woman tells the stories of anything-but-ordinar

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherNew Degree Press
    Release dateDec 12, 2020
    ISBN9781636761695
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      Book preview

      Nevertheless - Jillian Giberson

      Contents

      Introduction

      Chapter 1

      Making and Taking Up Space

      Chapter 2

      Women Supporting Women and Other Mantras

      Chapter 3

      The Powerful Moments are the Powerless Ones

      Chapter 4

      ...Aliens?

      Chapter 5

      Trauma, Survivorship, and Empowerment

      Chapter 6

      Last Hired, First Fired

      Chapter 7

      Course Codes and Dress Codes

      Chapter 8

      At the Intersection of Feminism

      Chapter 9

      At the Intersection of Feminism Part 2

      Chapter 10

      you Belong Here

      Conclusion

      Grit, Grace, and Gratitude

      Acknowledgements

      Appendix

      Who run the world? Girls.

      - Beyoncé

      Introduction

      Content Warning: This book contains descriptions of sexual violence, self-harm, misogyny, and racism.

      Let us be elegant or die!

      -Louisa May Alcott, Little Women.

      I can’t tell you exactly what compelled me to take up a professor’s offer to join a program that helps students get published, but I can point to exactly when I decided to write the story I am about to tell: I had just finished watching Greta Gerwig’s Little Women on New Year’s Day. In a sense, I grew up with the March sisters. I read Louisa May Alcott’s novel obsessively and fell in love with Katherine Hepburn’s performance of Jo in the 1933 film adaptation. When I was eight, I toured Alcott’s home where she wrote the novel and made it an annual tradition to watch the 1994 adaptation with Winona Ryder’s award-winning performance—which has never ceased to inspire me. So when I found myself stuck trying to write a book that I felt I had no place writing, it seemed almost like fate that Alcott’s chronicle of four sisters’ confrontation with ambition, social norms, and womanhood would reinvigorate my drive to pen a book of my own.

      In a time when discussion surrounding gender relations and feminism has become a trending conversation across social media platforms and at family dinner tables, it would seem that a book such as this is simply unnecessary. I had the privilege to grow up surrounded by trailblazing women who taught me the importance of independence and equality. My mom brought me to political rallies while I was still in a stroller. I was raised with women like Hannah Szenes and Rosa Parks as examples of strong female figures who stood up for what they believed in.

      Women’s voices are being increasingly heard and gender equality is becoming more widely accepted. We’ve had a woman candidate of a major political party run for president. There are more women with bachelor’s degrees than men between twenty-five and twenty-nine years old.¹ So why continue to beat a dead horse? For any woman who has felt the reverberating effects of a patriarchal society, the answer seems obvious. My own realisation of this came to a head when I was preparing for confirmation at my synagogue. My Rabbi had edited all of our speeches that we were to give at the end of the ceremony that Shabbat. To be honest, I can’t really recall what I wrote about. But what I do remember is getting my edits back from my Rabbi and seeing he circled with a comment next to it, that read, really? I was taken aback. I was writing as I had seen countless others write before me—using he as a generic pronoun. I’ve never forgotten that moment and, with everything I’ve written since, that really? has remained inscribed in the back of my head.

      In her book Living a Feminist Life, Sara Ahmed writes of a similar experience and explains, patriarchal reasoning goes all the way down, to the letter, to the bone. I had to find ways not to reproduce its grammar in what I said, in what I wrote.² Part of the project of this book is to help others challenge this omnipresent patriarchal reasoning in their day to day experiences.

      Gendered discrimination is alive and well. But what is it? It is important to highlight the difference between gender and sex. Sex is biological, referring to the physiological characteristics or male or female anatomy.³ Comparatively, gender is a system of culturally defined understandings of men, women, and other identities.⁴ Consequently, my experience as a cisgender woman, meaning my gender identity is the same as my sex at birth, shapes my worldview of gendered issues. I cannot speak on, or write for that matter, the experiences of transgender and other gender-identifying individuals in a way that would do their stories full justice. For those interested in reading further on gender identity and restrictive gender norms, I cannot recommend Kate Bornstein’s book A Queer and Pleasant Danger enough.

      Sown as seeds from the time children can walk and talk, gender-based social distinctions grow into pertinent questions of self-doubt, in even the strongest of women. At just five, an older boy told me to take off my dress. I was already taught that sometimes bad men will try to touch you or harass you. I knew to say no. I learned the importance of standing up for myself, like when a boy in my second grade class told me he was smarter than me because his dad was a lawyer and I was just a girl.

      It took me a while to realize that it was exactly the perpetuation of this self-doubt preventing me from continuing to write this book. I would spend hours writing a sentence, deleting, and then writing it again. More times than not, I would delete that one too. I questioned my validity as a writer, a researcher, and a future author. I was uncomfortable explaining my writing to even my closest friends; I felt like a fraud, worried that they would think it was strange, arrogant even, that I thought I could author a book. So, when I saw Little Women that New Year’s Day, it felt as if Meg, Jo, Beth, and Amy had been speaking directly to me. It is exactly the lived experiences of ordinary women who struggle with their identity, ambitions, and endeavors that are the important stories to tell, and why shouldn’t I be the one to write them?

      What follows is a chronicle of my own journey writing this book in my final year of university. It is equally the story of the women in my life whose stories need to be told. It’s for the girl who doesn’t know if she should go to college, for the survivor who is working to take back her power, for the student whose college years went by in the blink of an eye and is now on the cusp of the rest of her life.

      1 Alana Semauls, Poor Girls are Leaving Their Brothers Behind, The Atlantic, November 27, 2017.

      2 Sara Ahmed, Living a Feminist Life (Durham North Carolina: Duke University Press, 2017), 4.

      3 Lori Heise, et al. Gender Inequality and Restrictive Gender Norms: Framing the Challenges to Health, The Lancet, May 30, 2019.

      4 Lori Heise, et al. Gender Inequality and Restrictive Gender Norms: Framing the Challenges to Health, The Lancet, May 30, 2019.

      Chapter 1

      Making and Taking Up Space

      I raise up my voice—not so that I can shout, but so that those without a voice can be heard. […] We cannot all succeed when half of us are held back.

      - Malala Yousafzai

      What the hell am I doing here, I remember thinking from my seat as I watched the other women file in, stopping at the front table to grab a name tag. For anyone who has participated in sorority recruitment, you’ll understand what I mean.

      I would be remiss if I didn’t mention just how impactful joining a sorority was on me. It was not something I ever

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