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    48 Days to the Work and Life You Love: Find It—or Create It
    48 Days to the Work and Life You Love: Find It—or Create It
    48 Days to the Work and Life You Love: Find It—or Create It
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    48 Days to the Work and Life You Love: Find It—or Create It

    By Dan Miller and Dave Ramsey

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    • Personal Growth

    • Career Development

    • Self-Discovery

    • Work-Life Balance

    • Job Satisfaction

    • American Dream

    • Self-Made Man

    • Mentor

    • Reluctant Hero

    • Wise Mentor

    • Hero's Journey

    • Journey of Self-Discovery

    • Underdog

    • Fish Out of Water

    • Coming of Age

    • Entrepreneurship

    • Career Change

    • Job Market

    • Job Search

    • Time Management

    About this ebook

    Learn how to discover your unique talents, establish a clear focus, and then find—or create—the appropriate application for purposeful and profitable work.
     
    48 Days to the Work and Life You Love offers plenty of smart ideas for thriving in today’s changing workforce. This revised edition also includes fresh tips on career search and resume tools, interview skills, negotiating salaries, and more.
     
    According to financial expert Dave Ramsey, “Few categories of our lives define us and grow us spiritually, emotionally, relationally, and as people. Our work is one of those defining areas. Sadly, a ‘j-o-b’ is what most people settle for. But as Dan Miller so powerfully points out in 48 Days to the Work You Love, a calling lights up your life.”
     
    As a leading vocational thinker, New York Times–bestselling author Dan Miller helps readers better understand and organize their God-given skills, personality traits, values, dreams, and passions. In turn, they’ll see clear patterns form that point them toward successful career decisions. 48 Days to the Work and Life You Love is packed with modern insight and timeless wisdom and provides a step-by-step process for creating a Life Plan and translating it into meaningful, satisfying daily work.
     
    “Dan Miller was the catalyst for me finally starting the business that I had dreamed about for years. His coaching went far beyond what would normally be expected. I will be forever indebted to him!” —Patricia Smith, former executive vice president of Wyndham International and founder of The Smith Factor
    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherOpen Road Integrated Media
    Release dateAug 7, 2018
    ISBN9781642799798
    48 Days to the Work and Life You Love: Find It—or Create It
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    Dan Miller

    Dan Miller, president of 48 Days, specializes in creative thinking for increased personal and business success. He is the author of the widely acclaimed 48 Days to The Work You Love and No More Dreaded Mondays. He writes for many popular magazines and web portals, has been a guest on CBS, MSNBC, The 700 Club, and The Dave Ramsey Show, and appears frequently on popular radio programs. Dan has been happily married to Joanne for more than forty-four years.

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      Religious junk. If this was legitimate then you wouldn’t have to apply yourself at all. You could just sit around and pray for whatever you wanted. Good grief.
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    48 Days to the Work and Life You Love - Dan Miller

    INTRODUCTION

    Very early in life we begin to determine what we want to be when we grow up. You remember the childhood nursery rhyme: Rich Man, Poor Man, Beggar Man, Thief, Doctor, Lawyer, Merchant, Chief. We add other titles to that and begin to imagine the life as a Fireman, Teacher, Entrepreneur, or Dentist. But as we begin school and start to grow up, there is a subtle yet significant transition from Who do I want to be? to What am I going to do? We are defined and valued in America by what we do. Unfortunately, the path to doing something often bypasses the basic questions about being something.

    This book will address who do you want to be as the starting point for what do you want to do. Yes, planning your LIFE comes before planning your WORK. Even if you work for a company and have a boss, you want to make absolutely sure that you’re the boss of your own life. The more you know yourself and the life you want, the more confidence you can have about doing work that fits you. And the more you know about yourself the more you recognize the choices you have in choosing work that is meaningful, purposeful and profitable.

    Having the freedom to choose our work means we can choose from the popular models—employee, independent contractor, consultant, contingency worker, free-lancer, temp, entrepreneur, self-employed, and more. Interestingly, the theory behind most governmental systems is that the people do not want freedom. They want guaranteed paychecks, medical benefits, workmen’s compensation, fringe benefits and a retirement plan. And in exchange for those outcomes, people give up the freedom to find or create work that is a blend of their talents, dreams and spiritual calling. For many people, work has become nothing more than a paycheck and benefits. It’s an accepted stance to hate our jobs and to belittle the boss and the company, while patting ourselves on the back for being responsible providers for ourselves and families. Give up your freedom and you’ll have two cars in the garage, a fine house, a nice vacation once a year, and you will no longer have to suffer the agony of choice.

    But wait a minute. Isn’t that what growing up is all about? Doesn’t every responsible person forget about dreams and passions in exchange for getting a paycheck? Absolutely not! Let me assure you that it doesn’t need to be this way at all. Each of us, no matter what age we are or what kind of work we’re doing now, can learn to bring the same excitement to our work that we experienced as a child at play. I believe each of us can pursue work that is a reflection of our best selves—a true application of our calling in life.

    Recognizing the freedom we have to choose our work also brings with it the responsibility to accept the results of our work. The sense of fulfillment our work brings, the paycheck provided and the assurance that our work is making the world a better place are all ours to choose. No one is trapped in today’s workplace. We get to choose.

    For many of you, 48 Days to the Work You Love will present a process of waking up the dreams, passions, and visions you had as a child. For many people, the mergers, downsizing, firing, forced retirement and other forms of unexpected change in the workplace in the last few years have served as a clarion wake-up call for dreams that had gone dormant. Many of you have been given the opportunity to take a fresh look at Who am I and why am I here? The moment you express a desire for something more than repetitive, meaningless work, something more than simply punching the clock, the moment your realize that meaningful, purposeful, and profitable work really is a possibility, you’ve already taken an important step toward reawakening the dreams and passions you may have had as a child. All of a sudden, complacency and comfortable misery become intolerable. The idea of putting your calling on the shelf becomes intolerable. Not only do we have the opportunity, we have the responsibility to spend our working hours in work that will elevate us to our highest calling and transform the world around us.

    I was raised on a dairy farm in rural Ohio. My father was a farmer and the pastor of the small Mennonite church in our one-caution-light town, which gave me a unique perspective on the world. Fulfilling God’s will meant honoring my father and mother, attending church at least three times a week, not swearing like my town buddies, and keeping my word. Going to ball games, swimming pools, proms, dances, and having free time were out. Fancy cars, TVs, current fashions, and other worldly possessions were absolutely forbidden. Work was a constant, seven-days-a-week activity. Cows needed to be milked twice a day, 365 days a year. Corn needed to be planted, hay needed to be mowed, and chicken coops needed to be cleaned.

    I had little freedom to consider what kind of work I wanted to do or was called to do. Any wishes, desires, dreams, or passions were squeezed around the realities of life—work had to be done just to survive. The luxury of enjoying work was not discussed. Wasn’t work only something we do to pass time through this earthly life until we reach our heavenly reward? Doesn’t the Bible tell us that work was the resulting curse to Adam for eating from the Tree of Life?

    "The ground is cursed because of you.

    You will eat from it by means of painful labor all the days of your life.

    It will produce thorns and thistles for you, and you will eat the plants of the field.

    You will eat bread by the sweat of your brow until you return to the ground, since you were taken from it.

    For you are dust, and you will return to dust."

    Genesis 3:17–19 (HCSB)

    Now, I understood that sweat of your brow part—only physical work mattered. Those people who worked in town in banks, offices, and shopping malls had soft jobs and were separated from real life. Yet, out in the fields nothing could stop my mind from wandering, imagining a world I had never seen. I wanted to do more, go more, have more, and be more than anything I was seeing.

    And as I continued to read Scripture on my own, I began to notice a new perspective on work. If work was a punishment for evil, why does the Bible continuously tell us to enjoy our work? Even Solomon in his most pessimistic moments told us it is also the gift of God whenever anyone eats, drinks, and enjoys all his efforts (Ecclesiastes 3:13). In Colossians 3:23 we are told Whatever you do, do it enthusiastically, as something done for the Lord and not for men. And God even seems to be promising work as a reward in eternity. Surprise! The saved will build houses and live [in them]; they will plant vineyards and will fully enjoy the work of their hands (Isaiah 65:21–22). And in Genesis 8:21 we find that after the flood, God removed that curse of the ground we read about in chapter three.

    The Lord smelled the pleasing aroma and said in his heart: Never again will I curse the ground because of humans, even though every inclination of the human heart is evil from childhood. And never again will I destroy all living creatures, as I have done." (Genesis 8:21)

    This is important to note—the ground is not cursed. Our work is not a curse. We have been given the beautiful opportunity to once again tend the garden and enjoy the results!

    Although I was expected to continue in the family farming when I completed high school, my own desire for work that seemed a better fit for me led me to college to broaden my options. The disadvantages of a poor, legalistic upbringing were helpful in forcing me to look beyond familial expectations for a more fulfilling life. I began a path of relentless personal study alongside academic requirements for multiple degrees in psychology and religion. I wanted to see if I could blend a life committed to God with a life of meaningful work.

    And what an exciting journey that has been. Along the way I worked as an adjunctive therapist in a psychiatric hospital, taught psychology at the university level, sold cars, owned a 4,000-member health and fitness center, built an auto accessories business, painted houses, mowed lawns, counseled at a church, ran a cashew vending machine business, and sold books and informational products online.

    But those experiences gave me the preparation for working with people going through their own inevitable career changes. For the last 25 years I’ve had the privilege of working as an author, speaker and career coach. The foundational principles you will read come from personal experience and many years of studying and coaching with those who, like I, have found their calling.

    Getting started

    48 Days to the Work You Love outlines a new process of looking at what you are going to be when you grow up. How has God uniquely gifted you in (1) skills and abilities, (2) personality traits, and (3) values, dreams, and passions? From these areas you will see clear patterns from which to make career and job decisions. These patterns create a compass, providing a sense of continuity in the midst of inevitable job changes and workplace unpredictability. Looking inward provides 85 percent of the process of finding proper direction; 15 percent is the application to career choices.

    Work is not a curse of God but one of the benefits of living on this earth. Finding the work you love is not a self-serving goal; it is a required component of fulfilling our true calling.

    You may be asking, "Why 48 Days?" Well, the Bible is quite clear that God considers 40 days to be a spiritually significant time period. In fact, in the Bible, anytime God wanted to prepare people for something better, He took 40 days.

    •Noah’s life and the world were transformed by 40 days of rain.

    •Moses was a different man after spending 40 days on Mount Sinai.

    •The Israelite spies scouted the Promised Land for 40 days.

    •Elijah ran more than 200 miles in 40 days on one meal to get to a place where he could hear from God again.

    •Goliath spent 40 days challenging the Israelite army while God prepared David to confront him.

    •The people of Nineveh were transformed in 40 days after God’s challenge to change their ways.

    •Jesus was empowered for ministry by spending 40 days in the desert.

    •The disciples were transformed by spending 40 days with Jesus after the Resurrection.

    •There are 40 days between Ash Wednesday and Easter (not counting Sundays).

    I’m giving you eight free days in the process to create your own plan. Take a break on Sundays and a couple of Saturdays. Don’t knock yourself out; just stay committed to this time frame to avoid the usual procrastination. (And, I chose 48 Days because I grew tired of hearing people who were going to change their lives—after the kids grew up, after they completed a degree, after the mortgage was paid off, or when the contract expired. I wanted a time line—long enough to work through a process, but short enough to keep us motivated.)

    The next 48 days can transform your life. And yes, I do believe that 48 Days is an adequate time frame in which to assess where you are uniquely gifted, identify your strongest characteristics, get the advice of competent advisors, consider the options, choose the best path for meaningful and fulfilling work, create a plan of action, and ACT. (See www.48Days.com/worksheets for the famous 48 Days Schedule to walk you right through your own 48 Days plan.)

    This is a book where you get to tell the ending. You get to decide if the main character is a victim of circumstances, unable to rise above the oppressive forces of his/her upbringing, current family expectations and the limitations allowed by the government and the company. But you also get to write the ending where the main character designs a life complete with work that matters, has money far beyond personal needs, builds relationships that nurture the soul, and leaves a legacy for the rest of history. While it may not be finding a white horse and riding off into the sunset, it’s actually better. You get to choose.

    Believing that I have been created with a purpose, I commit the next 48 days to a new clarity and a plan of action for finding—or creating—work that is meaningful, fulfilling, and profitable.

    CHAPTER 1

    Do I Have To Work?

    The master in the art of living makes little distinction between his work and his play, his labor and his leisure, his mind and his body, his information and his recreation, his love and his religion. He hardly knows which is which. He simply pursues his vision of excellence at whatever he does, leaving others to decide whether he is working or playing. To him he is always doing both.

    ~JAMES MICHENER

    Is work that necessary evil that consumes the time between our brief periods of enjoyment on the weekends? Is it primarily a method of paying the bills and showing responsibility? Or a way to prove to our parents that the college degree was a reasonable investment? Or the shortest path to retirement? Or is it more?

    It seems some people believe that work is a tradeoff for enjoyment. That work is only done to produce a paycheck. And here’s another common myth: that the more income a person makes, the higher the stress level. No, when work and passion are combined the money flows much easier. You may be making $10/hour and be very stressed or you may be making $123,000 a year and love what you’re doing. The issue is not how much money is being generated but rather, how much does the work fit you.

    The Encarta dictionary defines work as

    1.paid employment at a job,

    2.the duties or activities that are part of a job or occupation,

    3.the place where somebody is employed, or

    4.the time that a person spends carrying out his or her job.

    We seem to contrast this definition of work with play. Surely we can escape work to spend time in play.

    The same dictionary defines play as

    1.to engage in enjoyable activity,

    2.to deal with a situation in a particular way to achieve a desired result, or

    3.to take part in a game or a sporting activity.

    To work is to carry out the duties of a job; to play is to do something enjoyable. But what if you found something you truly enjoyed that also supplied your needed income? Would work and play actually become one and the same? Is it unreasonable to expect our work to be an enjoyable activity? Is that really such an impossible idea? What would happen to your plans for retirement if you were doing work that was meaningful and profitable now? Isn’t our idea of retirement to be able to quit this stinking job and be able to do something enjoyable every day? What a novel idea.

    People often ask me if I’m living the life I’m talking about. And I tell them to come spend a couple of days with me and then decide for themselves. On the back side of our property we have an old barn that we’ve redeemed and converted into my office, an event center, and guest quarters. My commute in the morning is free of traffic lights, horns, bad roads and angry people fighting to get to their place of work. Outside my office window I see a waterfall and bird feeders that attract colorful birds and wild turkeys all year long. I also see the platform for a zipline we put up a few years ago that runs 350 feet from my office down over the nature trail, past my little red barn and right to the back door of our house. My grandchildren are free to come and play at any time.

    Finding or creating the work environment that fits you is a very individualized process. Depending on your personality you could easily be bored with my workspace. I think, dream, imagine and write as my work. If you are a social, gregarious person my work environment would likely make you feel lonely and isolated. That’s the beauty of knowing how we can shape our choices to fit what we know about ourselves. You get to choose what blends your talents, personality and passions.

    What if we check out a couple other words that are thrown in with work and play? Leisure is time during which somebody has no obligations or work responsibilities, and therefore is free to engage in enjoyable activities. The word comes from a term in an old French dialect—leissor, which means permission, or literally to be allowed.

    Leo Tolstoy, struggling in his search for godliness, looked at the lives of his privileged class and the lives of the plain folks who were their laborers. He determined that whatever their hardships, the working folk rested at night in peace and confidence in God’s goodness, while those in royalty frequently complained and were unhappy about their lives. He renounced his wealthy class and set out to work in the fields alongside the peasants. He proclaimed that the greatest error of the leisure class was the erroneous belief that happiness consists in idleness. In A Talk Among Leisured People he asserted that we must return to the recognition that work, and not idleness, is the indispensable condition of happiness for every human being.

    Let’s look at how our common phrases confirm that work is something we have to do, while play is something we get to do. Thank God it’s Friday reinforces the idea that at last we can escape the evil of work and do something we truly enjoy. Oh no, it’s Monday clearly reinforces the message from the Mamas and the Papas’ 1966 song that we can’t trust that day. Our anticipation of retirement implies that finally we can quit this thing called work and spend our time doing only what we enjoy. But that raises the question: What would you call your daily activity if you actually enjoyed it? Would it cease to be work? If the only goal of our working is to accumulate enough money to quit working, then it confirms the picture that work is just a bitter pill to be endured until the moment you can escape it. But as you move into work of your choosing and design, work that integrates your strongest talents and gifts, you will experience a joy not commonly connected with work. And you’ll find that your desire to quit and move into the blank state of retirement will diminish significantly.

    What if you were allowed to do what you most enjoyed every day? Do you think you’d still want to retire?

    The definition of retire is

    1.to stop working willingly; to leave a job or career voluntarily;

    2.to stop engaging in daily activities and go to bed;

    3.to leave a place, position, or way of life and go to a place of less activity; or

    4.withdraw something from service.

    Isn’t that what is implied when people talk about retirement? When can I stop this stupid job and start doing what I really enjoy? Do you really want to stop engaging in daily activities? Or withdraw from service? Instead, why not expect enjoyment in your daily work?

    The fruits of a fulfilling life—happiness, confidence, enthusiasm, purpose, and money—are mainly by-products of doing something we enjoy, with excellence, rather than things we can seek directly.

    In his popular book The Millionaire Mind, Thomas J. Stanley, Ph.D., looked at the characteristics of America’s wealthiest people, attempting to identify their distinguishing traits. Was it their IQ, GPA, college major, family’s opportunity, or business selection? Surprisingly, none of these topics seemed to predict their extraordinary success. The one characteristic the millionaires did have in common is they were all doing something they loved. Dr. Stanley concludes, If you love, absolutely love what you are doing, chances are excellent that you will succeed.

    In a commencement address at Stanford University, Steve Jobs said this: "Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great

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