Changing the Narrative! The Journey from Fatherless Son to Man in the Mirror
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About this ebook
Have you felt the pain of growing up without a Father?
Rejected?
Abandoned?
Insecure?
Searching for meaning in your life?
You are not alone!
In my third book, I share the burden of being a Fatherless son and deep impact it had on my life.
Follow my journey to witness the progression I made to now supporting other men who have grown up without a Father.
You too can experience the same freedom to move on with your life!
David Daniels
David N. Daniels, M.D. (August 30, 1934 to May 29, 2017) was a world-renowned Enneagram author, teacher, and thought leader, co-founder of The Narrative Enneagram and the International Enneagram Association, and Clinical Professor of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences at the Stanford University School of Medicine. As one of the founding fathers of today’s Enneagram, David N. Daniels, M.D. brought credence, rigor, and scientific validity to the Enneagram. In 1994, he led efforts to host and sponsor the first International Enneagram Association conference at Stanford University. In 2000, he released a Stanford University based scientifically validated Enneagram test, which still remains the only scientifically validated test today. David N. Daniels is the lead-author of the Enneagram bestseller, The Essential Enneagram (Harper Collins) updated and revised with vital new material in 2009, lead-author of The Enneagram, Relationships and Intimacy published in 2018 with co-author Suzanne Dion, and co-author with Daniel J. Siegel, M.D. of the upcoming book, Nine Paths to Wholeness to be released in 2021 by Norton. He also co-developed the outstanding DVD, The Enneagram: Nine Paths to a Productive and Fulfilling Life and The Enneagram in the Workplace. In private practice for over 40 years, David also taught the Enneagram system at Stanford University, in the community, and internationally on every continent for 30 years. David brought his knowledge of the Enneagram to individuals, couples and groups, and to a wide range of applications in clinical practice and the workplace. He has developed many innovative workshops, including The Dynamics of Vital Relationships, Anger and Forgiveness, Loss and Grief as Transformers, the Enneagram’s Gift to Love and Life, Intimate Relationships, Love and Will, and The Enneagram’s Gift to Mastering Conflict Constructively and Compassionately. His work is being carried on at www.drdaviddaniels.com.
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Changing the Narrative! The Journey from Fatherless Son to Man in the Mirror - David Daniels
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Below are the ways you can stay in touch with me:
Website – www.shymanspeaks.com
Social Media – @shymanspeaks
Email – [email protected]
CONTENTS
DEDICATION
To Popee
This may be the hardest part of this book that I write.
Although I didn’t fully know you, I dedicate this book to you. Your love of the written and spoken word lives in me.
Maybe one day, I’ll be able to call you Dad in Heaven.
Maybe you will respond and call me Son.
Rest in Peace
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
Thank you Sarah Napier for the amazing book cover!
CHAPTER 1 – A FATHERLESS SON
In England there used to be a weekly television show called Top of the Pops, which would showcase the latest music that was released for the public to buy. I remember watching this show with my mum and dad in their bedroom as a young child. Or, at least I think I did. Isn’t it a sad thing when you don’t even know if the only childhood memory of your dad is real?
Apparently, my dad left England to return to the country of his birth, Ghana 2 weeks before my youngest brother was born. I would have been 5 at that time. I think I could consider myself as a fatherless son
, given that I only ever saw him on 2 occasions after his departure. More on that later.
Life was incredibly hard for me growing up without a dad. Although I have a fantastic mum and a large wonderful family, I always felt that there