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    Wedding Toasts 101: The Guide to the Perfect Wedding Speech
    Wedding Toasts 101: The Guide to the Perfect Wedding Speech
    Wedding Toasts 101: The Guide to the Perfect Wedding Speech
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    Wedding Toasts 101: The Guide to the Perfect Wedding Speech

    By Pete Honsberger

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    Write and present a memorable wedding toast with this light-hearted, humorous guide that gives you all the tools you’ll need for a successful speech—the perfect gift for any best man or maid of honor.

    As much as it’s an honor to be chosen as the best man or maid of honor at a wedding, giving the perfect speech can sometimes be nerve-wracking. Delivering a crowd-pleasing toast at the reception that has the right amount of humor and sentimentality is a daunting undertaking, no matter how advanced your public speaking skills are.

    Pete Honsberger’s guide to giving the perfect wedding toast provides even the most nervous of public speakers with all the tools and advice they need for writing and presenting the best toast ever. After witnessing speeches both good and bad, Honsberger shares a few bits of wisdom he’s learned along the way, providing building blocks to creating an unforgettable story along with helpful speech prompts, and the perfect checklist that will turn a potentially scary obligation into a golden opportunity.

    Wedding Toasts 101 presents a fun and simple way to write a successful wedding toast without all the stress so you can spend less time worrying and more time celebrating the happy couple.
    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherSimon & Schuster
    Release dateNov 12, 2019
    ISBN9781507210772
    Wedding Toasts 101: The Guide to the Perfect Wedding Speech
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    Pete Honsberger

    Pete Honsberger has been a serial groomsman, speaker, and wedding toast advisor for most of his adult life. When it comes to wedding toasts, he's seen just about everything. He has a BA and MA from John Carroll University and resides in Cleveland, Ohio with his wife, Jenna. You can learn even more about weddings (and life) at WeddingToasts101.com.

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      Wedding Toasts 101 by Pete Honsberger, Adams Media

      DEDICATION

      This book is dedicated to you, who won’t take this honor and responsibility lightly. Have some fun with it too.

      INTRODUCTION

      The first look, the vows, the dances…the toasts. If you are reading this, there’s a good chance you’ve been personally selected by a friend, family member, or even third cousin twice removed to speak at this important event in their life. Maybe you’re the best man. Maybe you’re the maid of honor. Or maybe you’re a longtime family friend. But no matter who you are, your name will be eternally embossed on the wedding ceremony program, and what you say (and how you say it) matters.

      Starting to feel a bit nervous? Take a deep breath and fear not; you’ve come to the right place! Wedding Toasts 101 is your all-inclusive guide to creating and executing an unforgettable wedding toast. You’ll discover everything you need, including:

      Questions to ask yourself as you write your toast

      Prompts to get your creative juices flowing

      Tips on dealing with reception annoyances, like bad lighting and echoing acoustics

      Case studies on specific toast challenges and themes

      The five critical cogs of a great toast

      Main takeaways at the end of each chapter

      A complete wedding toast checklist

      You’ll also find an appendix with examples of great toasts, so you can see how real wedding guests have honored, amused, and affected family members, friends, and strangers alike.

      Your speech, your audience, and especially the happy couple deserve the very best that you have to offer, and with the tools and practical advice in this book, you’ll be sure to deliver on that promise. So are you ready to get started? You’ve got a wedding toast to give!

      Part 1

      SO YOU’VE BEEN ASKED TO TOAST

      We’re engaged! You receive the news over lunch, during drinks, or maybe via a surprise phone call, and suddenly a loved one is taking a big step in their life—and they want you to toast the occasion. This is great news! So how do you feel? You’re probably excited and honored to share in their special day, but soon a sense of responsibility comes over you. In a few short months, you (who may not particularly enjoy speaking in front of, well, anyone) will be standing in front of a crowd of wedding guests, with all eyes fixed on you. You find yourself wondering, How can I truly honor this person? How do I give an unforgettable toast?

      In this part of the book, you’ll discover the answers to these questions and more. You’ll learn why great toasts can feel difficult to write, and what challenges you may face when the time comes to deliver your speech. You’ll hear stories of challenges real people have dealt with, and also discover the key dos and don’ts of a great toast. Here, the groundwork for your toast is laid out—you just need to turn the page.

      CHAPTER 1

      Toasting Ain’t Easy: Main Challenges

      Regardless of who you are, and your level of writing skill or speaking competency, delivering a wedding toast can be pretty intimidating. Aside from the actual moment you stand up to speak (you didn’t notice how many people were there until now, did you?!), there’s the content of your toast, all of the different personal stories and ideas you want to squeeze into it, and the simple fact that you get only one shot at this honor. A major part of your success is knowing what is toast-worthy and what isn’t: Would the groom want you to share that embarrassing (though admittedly funny) anecdote from a college party? Would a crowd of people be interested in the lengthy background story of your working relationship with the bride?

      This chapter lays out the different kinds of stories you should share with your audience, as well as the ones you should keep to yourself. You’ll also explore other challenges you may not have considered before, such as reception hall acoustics and audience restlessness. You’ll be able to turn past experiences with the toastee(s) into a compelling narrative that’ll have everyone talking—even after the special day. After all, when the cake has been eaten, the DJ has packed up their gear, and the guests have started shuffling out, these are the memories that will remain.

      IT’S PERSONAL

      A big part of why the wedding toast can seem so daunting is because it is personal. You will be standing up to express how you feel about the couple in front of you, and sharing in a truly special event in their lives. And what could be more personal than a moment shared with people you love? It’s why you see tears during the bridal procession and misty eyes throughout the first dance. It’s why friends and family members throw engagement parties and bridal showers, travel great distances, and do whatever it takes to be a part of this momentous event.

      Whether you are a family member or friend (or both!), this person has chosen you specifically to speak on their special day. Because of the nature of your relationship with one or both members of the happy couple, you have a unique perspective—and great stories to tell. Who else knows the details of the seventh-grade dance that produced photos of objectively terrible fashion choices? Who can recount better than you the day the bride or groom told you about meeting the future love of their life?

      CASE STUDY Childhood Mischief

      In the rhyming toast I gave at my brother Dan’s wedding, I included the following:

      Dan’s been an outstanding big brother; I couldn’t ask for any more.

      Though he did once try to build a campfire in his bedroom and burned a hole in the floor…

      This brief tidbit came from an experience in our childhood, when Dan thought it would be a good idea to use baseball cards to start a miniature campfire in his bedroom. This story illustrated Dan’s curiosity and love for the outdoors (and bringing it indoors), worked into a fun rhyme that kept the audience engaged. His wedding was the first time that many of his wife’s family members met him, and while very brief, this story humanized Dan and provided a way for them to relate to him. After all, just about

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