The Art of Intentional Thinking (Second Edition): Master Your Mindset. Control and Choose Your Thoughts. Create Mental Habits to Fulfill Your Potential
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Your mental models and mindsets will determine your life. Harness and control them to achieve the impossible.
All we can control in this life is our thoughts, which lead to perception and action. If your thoughts are running amok, it will throw your life into chaos. The life you want comes from the way you think - you need to learn how to think intentionally.
Discard unconscious, harmful beliefs and embrace your true power.
The Art of Intentional Thinking is a guide on transformation. Your actions, behaviors, and perspective of the world stem from your thoughts. Unfortunately, this may be harming you rather than helping you. This book takes a deep look into how people tend to think, what exactly how they should subtly re-frame their thoughts to feel confident, powerful, happy, and in charge of their own life.
Intentional thinking is your vehicle to get from Point A to Point B - Point B is the life you want. Every chapter has actionable advice to implement today. The changes are small and simple, but they have huge implications.
Change your thinking to change your life.
Peter Hollins has studied psychology and peak human performance for over a dozen years and is a bestselling author. He has worked with a multitude of individuals to unlock their potential and path towards success. His writing draws on his academic, coaching, and research experience.
Learn to reshape unhealthy thought patterns and think clearly.
•How to seize agency and control of your life.
•Gain perseverance and willpower quickly.
•How to think in terms of taking action and motion.
•How to think big, yet with realistic steps.
•Embrace gratitude, humility, and thoughtfulness.
Peter Hollins
Pete Hollins is a bestselling author and human psychology and behavior researcher. He is a dedicated student of the human condition. He possesses a BS and MA in psychology, and has worked with dozens of people from all walks of life. After working in private practice for years, he has turned his sights to writing and applying his years of education to help people improve their lives from the inside out. He enjoys hiking with his family, drinking craft beers, and attempting to paint. He is based in Seattle, Washington. To learn more about Hollins and his work, visit PeteHollins.com.
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The Art of Intentional Thinking (Second Edition) - Peter Hollins
Potential
The Art of Intentional Thinking:
Master Your Mindset. Control and Choose Your Thoughts. Create Mental Habits to Fulfill Your Potential.
By Peter Hollins,
Author and Researcher at petehollins.com
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Table of Contents
Chapter 1. Mind Over Matter
The Inner Voice
Self-Fulfilling Prophecies
The Power of Thoughts
Chapter 2. The Mindset of Agency and Control
Fixed vs. Growth Mindset
Adjust Your Locus of Control
Self-Efficacy vs. Helplessness
Chapter 3. The Mindset of Perseverance
Turn the Obstacle Upside Down
A Long-Term View
The 40% Rule
Chapter 4. The Mindset of Action
Thinking vs. Doing
Solution vs. Problem Mindset
From Motivation to Action
Chapter 5. The Mindset of Belief
Think Big
Systems vs. Goals
The Alter Ego
Chapter 6. The Mindset of Gratitude
Create Perspective
Positivity and Optimism
Chapter 7. The Mindset of Humility
The Beginner’s Mindset
I Know It All
vs. What Don’t I Know?
The Echo Chamber
You’re Never There: Perpetual Progress vs. Achievement
Chapter 8. The Mindset of the Present
Moving Beyond the Past
Accepting an Uncertain Future
How to Live in the Present
Summary Guide
Chapter 1. Mind Over Matter
Courage versus fear. Comfort versus worry. Faith versus doubt. Confidence versus uncertainty.
These are battles fought every day—battles of mindset. And the arena in which they fight is contained within our brains. Whichever set of thoughts you allow to win will rule the day and your actions, and that is not a positive experience when disempowering thoughts win.
Indeed, for a few of us, the battles are one-sided. People who experience nearly constant success (or think they do) may be more able to disregard the negative or naysaying sides in the clash. Others who face mounting, daily struggles through an extended amount of time don’t trust the positive voices.
We may perceive our mindsets as things we can’t change or affect. We envision them as products of an external environment, circumstances, or history that are far bigger factors than we can proactively transform. The truth is that you have great capacity to modify your mindset. Goals and accomplishments that might seem impossible in an entrenched
mindset can be attained much more practically than you may realize, just by reorganizing your way of thinking.
Is it easy to change your mindset? Of course it is! Except when it isn’t.
Changing one’s mindset is easy
because there’s no heavy lifting or manual effort. It’s not a physical procedure that requires too much exertion. You could be doing it while sitting on a couch without anyone knowing—all you have to do is think something into existence and it becomes true. If you were to ask someone if they’d rather think different thoughts or work in a coal mine for 10 hours, it’s not going to be a close decision.
But the ability to think a certain way on a consistent basis involves self-discipline and focus to the highest degree; changing a mindset is hard and can be frustrating because your effort won’t directly translate into a different type of thought. You can always hit the gym harder, but thinking harder doesn’t necessarily do anything. There is really no correlation between an input and an output.
Changing your mindset is especially tough if it involves countering what you’ve been taught all your life. A complete rewiring of your thoughts and mindsets is daunting at best but imperative to creating a life you feel happy to wake up to every day.
Like it or not, our mindset is our internal lens to the world around us. Our thoughts, opinions, beliefs, fears, and hopes get projected onto everything we see. We use those inner convictions to interpret everything that happens in the world and to us.
People who have attained the success you desire have all manipulated their mindsets in specific ways. You could argue that other factors—education, upbringing, luck, timing—produced their great achievements. It’s easy to use those as an excuse for your lack of action, but the real-life evidence doesn’t tend to support that. Is everyone rich simply lucky and rich to begin with and everyone poor simply lazy and apathetic?
Two children from the same middle-class family, who grew up in the same circumstances, can wind up in wildly different situations. One child with a positive mindset might turn out to be hardworking and wealthy. The other one could be consumed by a jealous mindset and a predisposition to failure and might wind up in a thankless job with low prospects.
The only difference between you and greatly successful people is in the mindset. It’s your view of the world, its challenges and rewards, and how you navigate through all of them.
The Inner Voice
Mindsets can be as varied as any given segment of the population. Here are just a few different mindsets you might possess to varying degrees:
Productive mindset. Someone who is task-oriented and driven to complete what they’re working on—and then move on to the next thing. They’re a hammer, and everything looks like a nail. They are always in motion.
Creative mindset. A person with unique abilities and inventive approaches who can solve problems in ways very few others can. They always seek unconventional methods to accomplish the same goal.
Confident mindset. Someone who’s happy with themselves and projects conviction, ability, and leadership. They naturally end up in charge and taking action first. They feel that anything is possible.
Dreamer mindset. An individual who can see the big picture and is able to inspire others to take a broad and beneficial approach toward the future. They think big picture in lieu of details and procedures.
These mindsets affect and change someone’s perception of the world. A productive mindset might see what needs to be done in their immediate environment, whereas the dreamer mindset might see its potential in an emotional or altruistic sense.
These are just some of the good mindsets. There are also mindsets for jealousy, anger, fear, greed, and the opposite of all of the mindsets above.
Self-talk—the commentary, criticism, and judgment we tell ourselves about ourselves—is one channel
that your mindset tunes into, whether it’s out loud or to yourself. Just think of it as your internal dialogue that never goes away, for better or worse. It narrates your life, but the perspective it narrates from is completely up to you. You can be your own biggest cheerleader or critic.
Each statement you think or say constructs your inner monument of self-belief, brick by brick. And we probably give a little more credence to negating self-talk since it’s easier to believe we can’t do something if we haven’t yet tried. I’m not smart enough to learn complicated math concepts,
I’m not physically gifted enough to run a 10-kilometer marathon,
I’m not attractive enough to have someone interested in me.
Another aspect of your inner voice is the narrative: the never-ending story that you tell over your entire life about who you are and what you’re capable of. It explains what happens in your life and why you do certain things that you do. It often addresses themes
or recurring events that occur in a lifespan. It usually isn’t very accurate, especially if you tend to feel bad about yourself. Self-talk and the narrative have a chicken-and-egg relationship.
For instance, those with a victimized mindset claim that they were the patsies of people despite their best intentions. You claim you were fired from your job because your supervisor didn’t care for your personality, but it might have been simply that their budget got a whopping cut and you had to be let go.
This isn’t to say that your self-talk and narrative don’t contain elements of truth or are completely unfounded. But it’s important to check them with reality as much as possible. The more you can control your thoughts and inner voice, the more enabled you’ll feel to make positive changes.
Self-Fulfilling Prophecies
The stories we tell ourselves through self-talk and narrative create a series of mental boundaries that can influence our lives dramatically. In fact, what we believe often comes true. This is called the self-fulfilling prophecy: something that becomes true because you’ve willed it into existence by telling yourself it exists. Your inner voice tells you a given outcome is so certain and absolute that, eventually, it becomes so. You almost give yourself no other option but for the prophecy to become real.
Technically, a self-fulfilling prophecy could be positive—but way more often, it’s not. When a negative self-prediction manifests itself, that’s the sign that your mindset needs improvement.
The phrase self-fulfilling prophecy
was invented by American sociologist Robert K. Merton. Merton drafted the concept from an idea called the Thomas theorem, a hypothesis devised by fellow sociologists William and Dorothy Thomas in 1928: If men define situations as real, they are real in their consequences.
The theory declares that our subjective feelings or perceptions about a certain circumstance are more powerful than objective reality. To that end, real results are more often determined by interpretation than literal factors.
The idea behind the self-fulfilling prophecy is that a person’s beliefs about a given situation affect how they behave. If one is absolutely certain of their understanding of the pending situation and its meaning, their external behavior about that situation will follow suit. That behavior, in turn, causes the emergent reality to unfold exactly to their expectations. This is called the behavioral confirmation effect.
A classic illustration on the self-fulfilling prophecy is Oedipus Rex, a Greek tragedy that gives a wildly different take on the concept of family values.
The characters in the play are all driven by a shared obsession with a dire prediction. One by one, each member of the family commits or endures horrifying consequences because they’re convinced the prediction is inevitable.
Lauis, the king of Thebes, receives an oracle that informs him that one day his son will kill him and marry his wife (the son’s mother). The king is so spooked and certain about this fortune that he abandons his son—Oedipus—and leaves him to die, figuring that will keep the whole sordid mess from happening.
But Oedipus survives and is raised by the king and queen of Corinth, who he naturally assumes are his real parents. Then he gets a prophecy that he’s going to kill his father and marry his mom, so he takes off from Corinth to prevent that ugliness. Oedipus goes to Thebes, where he gets into a fight with a stranger near some crossroads and kills him. Guess who that stranger is? Yep, it’s Lauis. But Oedipus doesn’t know that he’d just killed his own father.
Oedipus, who’s a little tortured by nature anyway, is eventually comforted by a woman named Jocasta, who thinks fortune-telling is kind of a sham and he shouldn’t be so concerned about it. After all, once a prophet told her that her husband would be killed by his son, but instead he was killed by a