The Plan:: How to Have Sex Tonight with a Gorgeous Woman In 69 Easy Steps

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STEP 1

Have the Right Attitude

Confidence is the most important trait to develop.

Confidence means you feel comfortable

approaching any woman, anytime, anywhere.

There are two components of the right attitude: being confident and having no fear of rejection. I’m going to go over both right now.

Confidence creates success; it is the most important trait you can develop. Confidence is your best friend and ally. Confidence means you feel comfortable approaching any woman at any time. Confidence means knowing this girl wants you to talk to her because you are the perfect man for her. She just doesn’t know it yet.

Are you the perfect man for her? Of course. She will have more fun being with you than anything else she could possibly do in the next ten hours. It is a fact that most people are bored out of their mind. They keep looking around for someone else to make their boring lives more interesting. Well, you are going to be exactly the person to liven up her night and that’s exactly why she’ll be more than happy to meet you.

A successful man never wonders if he’s good enough for a woman; he wonders if the woman is good enough for him. Think this way: I’m not trying to sell myself; I’m trying to find out what this woman has to offer. Nobody wants to deal with a pushy salesman; you have to let the product (you) speak for itself. How? By talking about her. Project the focus onto the woman and you’ve already turned the tables in the game of seduction.

Don’t worry if you try this new attitude and it doesn’t work the first few times. Why? Because it’s going to fail. A lot. Do you really expect to seduce every woman you talk to? Of course not. Wouldn’t you be happy with half the women? Or even one in every three? Or one in every four?

The second key to being successful with women (or anything, really) is to be able to handle rejection. Don’t let a bad experience get you flustered or destroy your confidence. Instead, think of rejection as a positive. Every time you get rejected, you learn something. Every time you fail, you’re that much closer to being successful the next time. Take a cue from Thomas Alva Edison. Although it took him thousands of attempts to get the light bulb to work, he never viewed those unsuccessful attempts as failures. In fact, in his opinion, the thousands of tries that did not work only brought him closer to finding the solution that would work.

Did I say fail? Well shame on me, because there is no such thing as failure. In addition to bringing you that much closer to success the next time around, if a certain encounter doesn’t end the way you’d like it to, then she’s the one missing out. She’s the one who failed your test, not the other way around.

STEP 2

Forget About the Attitude

Now that you know about confidence ... forget completely that you’ve ever heard the word. If you have to think about feeling confident, then you probably aren’t.

Now that you know about confidence ... forget completely that you’ve ever heard the word. If you are thinking about feeling confident, then you’re not really confident, you’re nervous and unsure of yourself. Your goal is to be so positive about a sexual encounter that the word confidence never crosses your mind. Feeling so good and natural that you never have to think about confidence is the most confident act of all. Concentrate on feeling relaxed and positive, and you’ll project an air of confidence every time.

If you’ve never felt that confident in life or when interacting with women, you’d probably have to start out by acting as if you do. As they say, Fake it ’til you make it. If you’re not confident, act as if you are. If you’re not that funny, act as if you are. Sooner or later, you’ll forget the act and switch to auto-pilot and before you know it—you are what you wanted to be without even trying!

If you need a little boost to approach a beautiful woman, do not tell yourself: Be confident, be confident, be confident. Instead, repeat this mantra: I am the best thing that has ever happened to this girl. I am the perfect experience for this girl. Now think of the goosebumps she will get because of the way you make her feel inside and if you’re frisky, imagine for a split second all the ways you can make her cum. Don’t dwell on it, though. Go and offer her the experience of a lifetime!

STEP 3

Look Good

Never be afraid to ask a good-looking woman—store employee, friend, stranger—for advice on clothing and style. And the better looking that woman is, the better.

There’s one in every crowd. The guy who thinks to himself: But I’m ugly. No woman will want to have anything to do with me.

First of all, you’re not ugly. Ugly is a state of mind, and a state of mind can be changed. The more confident you are, the better looking you become. Really, it’s true, because the way you carry yourself—the way you walk, talk, smile, and style—is more important than the shape of your nose or the size of your chin. Every guy who slouches and looks at the floor is ugly; every confident guy looks good.

Okay, okay, some guys are ugly. Really ugly. It happens; life’s not fair. If you happen to fall into this very small percentage of people (maybe 1 in 1000, so unless you are the ugliest person you have ever known, this is not you!), don’t worry, looks are only a small part of the equation. Women care a lot more about how you make them feel than how you look, so never use your looks as an excuse not to approach any girl you want. Ever. I mean it.

You wouldn’t believe how many good-looking guys are unable to get dates, let alone have sex with a woman. How come? you may wonder. Certainly good looks will grant the pretty boys a bit more initial attention from the ladies, but if they are unable to hold that attention, they will be dismissed in a hearbeat (and don’t worry about how to do that, it’ll be discussed later in this book).

But while your looks may not matter, your clothes certainly do. Designer names and an expensive look is one way to up your ratings, but you don’t even have to be the best-dressed guy in the room as long as you are dressed smart. Ask a friend who you know is successful with the ladies to accompany you to a store to help you trade up your wardrobe. Better yet, ask a stylish woman to come along with you and give you advice—women love to give style advice.

If you’re a novice to the clothing game, don’t go trendy or over the top. Keep your look simple, classic, and elegant. Let your personality do the talking, but always appear clean and pressed. If you want to have a personal style, always go for the expensive look. There is no downside to looking well dressed, well groomed, and well off.

Notice I said expensive look, not expensive clothes. If you have the right person (usually a woman) to advise you, you can go to a second-hand store and walk out fifty dollars later with an absolutely stunning rack of expensive looking and stylish clothes.

As a last-ditch effort, you can hire an image consultant—some may be available for hire for double digits and some may even be available for free, courtesy of the department store.

Never be afraid to ask a good-looking woman—store employee, friend, stranger—for advice on clothing and style. And the better looking that woman is, the better. Remember: Every situation is a seduction situation and its always on.

The last word on clothing: Always be comfortable in your skin. If the clothes you are wearing make you self-conscious or embarrassed, then they aren’t the right clothes for you.

STEP 4

Always Be Prepared

Before you head out that door, remind yourself that you are about to meet a beautiful woman—at the grocery store, at work, crossing the street, everywhere—and be prepared to do something more than stare at her rack or behind while hoping not to get caught.

The Cub Scouts have it right: Always be prepared. With that attitude, those guys must be chick magnets.

Meanwhile, if you’ve been to a club, you’ve seen those guys standing or sitting on the side of the dance floor, looking at the girls but not making a move, waiting for something to happen. Their mindset is, If I stand around long enough, maybe a girl will notice me. What a sad bunch. That herd is known as death row, and I don’t have to tell you that death row is not the place you want to be.

So why are you standing there on death row like someone waiting to be executed? I’m not talking about the night club; I’m talking about everyday life. Are you even noticing all those beautiful women you pass every day? Are you making eye contact? Are you saying, Hi? Are you trying to do something more than stare at their bodies when they’re not looking and looking away as soon as they glance in your direction?

Some guys call this being oblivious, some guys call it being scared, but either way, you’re on death row. If you’re not taking advantage of the fact that you are surrounded every minute of the day by beautiful women, then you’re no better than those chumps alongside the dance floor. Like them, you’re going home alone, remembering all the beautiful girls you saw, and sleeping with your hand.

If you’re in a club, the obvious answer is to hit the dance floor, bar, or chill-out areas and engage, engage, engage. Nothing’s gonna happen unless you make it happen. The same is true in everyday life. Before you head out that door, remind yourself that you are about to meet a beautiful woman—at the grocery store, at work, crossing the street, everywhere—and be prepared to do something more than stare at her ass while hoping you don’t get caught.

STEP 5

Be in the Right Place at the Right Time

A bar is the worst place to pick up a woman. You’re much better off trying to pick up a woman at the library or the coffee shop or just walking past her on the street. If you’re a Cub Scout—always prepared—you’ll find your success ratio is two to three times higher in the coffee shop than it is in the bar on Friday night.

Now that you’re prepared to meet women, let’s go out to the local bar and try to meet some.

But before we walk out that door, let me make a disclaimer: This book presents a scenario. It is set in a bar because that is the easiest place for the average man to understand. After all, bars are full of women. These women may have lowered inhibitions, and at least some of them are probably looking for a man. Plus, everything I have to teach you about picking up a woman in a bar can be used in any other situation where seduction takes place.

But remember this: A bar is the worst place to pick up a woman. You’re much better off trying to pick up a woman at the library or the coffee shop or just walking past her on the street. If you’re a Cub Scout—always prepared—you’ll find your success ratio is two to three times higher in the coffee shop than it is in the bar on Friday night.

Why? Because women in bars expect to be hit on by men. They therefore have their bitch shields up, ready to deflect unwanted advances. It is not because they are bitches inside—it is just that they get hit on in bars all the time and in the end it becomes physically impossible for them to be nice and kind and gentle to the umpteenth guy who comes to talk to them. It is nice to get noticed but too much of a good thing is never a good thing. So if you decide to go and fight an uphill battle in a bar environment, just keep in mind that it’s nothing personal if a woman shoots you