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    Smart Skills: Persuasion
    Smart Skills: Persuasion
    Smart Skills: Persuasion
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    Smart Skills: Persuasion

    By Patrick Forsyth

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    Book 6 of the Smart Skills series: practical guides to mastering vital business skills and techniques. Using proven strategies from business experts, these essential smart skills can empower anyone with the tools to get ahead.


    Maximise your opportunities by mastering the art of persuasion 

    The underappreciated skill of persuasion is vital not just for negotiations, but in every aspect of business life. Taking on more responsibility, motivating your team, getting that big promotion: everything is possible once you've mastered the art of convincing people. By following these simple steps you can learn first how to recognise your power in any professional situation, and then how to harness that power to your advantage. The key persuasive tactics covered in this concise Smart Skills guide include:

    • Mastering persuasive language
    • Personalising your pitch: “the tailored approach”
    • Conveying credibility
    • Handling and overcoming objections
    • Dealing with “maybe”

    Take advantage of every opportunity, starting today. 

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherLegend Press
    Release dateSep 28, 2018
    ISBN9781787197930
    Smart Skills: Persuasion
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    Patrick Forsyth

    Patrick Forsyth has worked for many years as a business consultant and management trainer. Linked to this he is the author of more than fifty business and management, personal development, self-help and career books (for example, Successful time management and How to write reports and proposals, both published by Kogan Page.In recent years his writing has expanded into broader areas. He has had a humorous book published about miscommunication, Empty when half full, described by one reviewer as “hilarious”. In addition, he has had short stories published and also writes about writing for Writing Magazine for which he also pens a monthly column.He first travelled to South East Asia some thirty years ago, and has visited regularly – especially to Singapore, Malaysia and Thailand - for both work and holidays every year since. His travels have produced two further published books: Beguiling Burma and Smile because it happened about Thailand (both are published by ReThink Press).He lives in the United Kingdom, in Maldon in Essex, where he writes looking out over the River Blackwater.

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      Smart Skills - Patrick Forsyth

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      PREFACE

      ‘I wish people who have trouble communicating would just shut up.’

      Tom Lehrer

      This is a good book. Read it.

      If only persuasion was that easy, but it involves more than just telling. Some people seem to have the knack as it were. As the banker and author Herbert Prochnow said of sales people: The best we ever heard of was the one who sold two milking machines to a farmer who only had one cow. Then this salesman helped finance the deal by taking the cow as a down payment on the two milking machines.

      Sometimes being persuasive is very simple. The café owner saying, Another coffee? is selling. More often it is more complex and, whatever inherent feeling someone has for persuasion, most must work at it – many things must be got right or, however pleasantly a conversation may progress, it will not be possible to close (closing – securing agreement – is just one specific technique that must be acquired) and you will fail in your intentions. But it can be done. You may not always get agreement, but you can increase the likelihood of things going as you wish by going about it the right way.

      Persuasive communications is a main role for some people; it may be referred to as selling and the recipients are normally clients or customers; whatever terminology is used. For most people working in organisations of any sort, and who are not or do not see themselves as sales people, persuasion is still important. You may need to be persuasive with colleagues, staff or your boss, or people more senior than you, with people who are potential collaborators, and many more – from someone on a committee you sit on to someone external like a supplier.

      Whoever you must persuade and whatever you must persuade them to do, you must go about it in the right way if you are to have a chance of being successful. This book sets out practical, proven approaches to making your persuasive communication successful. It presents powerful methods, concepts and techniques designed to win agreement and prompt action from other people.

      Overall, it sets out to:

      •     Demonstrate the nature of communicating persuasively and show how it can be approached successfully and how any difficulties can be overcome.

      •     Review the techniques of persuasive communication and focus on key aspects of the process in which the right approach makes being successful more likely.

      •     Highlight techniques to differentiate you from other people and allow you to create a powerful case.

      The ideas are presented in an accessible way and will link easily to many everyday situations in the workplace. If getting your own way is to be possible – or at least made more likely – then you need to gain agreement from other people and doing so is not about blackmail or brute force. We all want people to go along with our ideas willingly and this is not so easy to achieve.

      If I tried to persuade you to cut off one of your fingers, no form of argument is likely to persuade you to do so. Yet if you have read this far then it may well mean that something persuaded you to buy this book. Persuasion may not be easy, but often it is possible.

      The techniques that make it possible to get agreement are not themselves complicated. By and large they are pretty much common sense (or how else could I write about them!). The complexity comes in orchestrating the process in a way that deploys the various techniques appropriately, integrating them into a flowing conversation. Your final chosen approach must be acceptable to the other person and yet also present a persuasive case – one that prompts the desired agreement.

      There is no magic formula and, though some overall approaches are certainly important, success is to some extent in the details.

      Note: those aspects of the techniques discussed that have a disproportionately positive effect on the likelihood of success are highlighted as we proceed.

      A firm foundation

      Overall, the key to being persuasive is to see what needs to be done in the right light. Whatever you may want, the focus must be on the other person and what will persuade them. Whoever they are – staff, colleague or boss – if you make a good case, then they will perceive the advantages of agreeing with you as outweighing reasons for not doing so. You have to make a case to them in their terms. You must put matters over to them clearly and in a logical manner: the logic describing what may be the many and various advantages of them taking a particular action; while at the same time you must address and minimise anything they may see as a snag.

      It is not a process to be underestimated. It needs care and preparation, and often there may be a great deal hanging on what happens: you want the Board to fund a project, agree that your section needs more staff – or that you should be promoted!

      Language that persuades

      One thing that must pervade every aspect of a persuasive conversation is appropriate language. Simply saying what you want is not enough. When I wrote above: read it, then you might well reject the thought out of hand – shan’t. But if I say that reading this book might just help you get your next proposition accepted rather than rejected, then you are more likely to begin to take interest because that sounds like it might help you. This illustrates the first principle. To be persuasive you must offer people reasons to agree or act that reflect their point of view, not just say why you think they should do something. Such an approach demands empathy and must allow people to identify with it and with you. It also needs a systematic approach, one that is given some thought before you open your mouth and that proceeds through, building a case in a logical fashion.

      To do this you first need to understand what you are trying to do; that may seem obvious – get someone to agree – but understanding how that can happen and what therefore you need to achieve along the way is important. We will start by answering the question – just what is persuasion?

      Chapter 1

      THE CORE OF PERSUASION

      Communicating to help people make decisions

      ‘The ability to express an idea is almost as important as the idea itself.’

      Bernard Buruch

      Clear, well-considered communication provides a sound foundation for anyone wanting to be persuasive. It avoids misunderstandings and others may well appreciate the clarity of it; it can enhance the profile of the communicator in a way that impresses and can certainly act to increase the likelihood of ultimate success in getting agreement. Conversely, it is all too easy for something poorly communicated to be marked down: badly presented = bad idea. That said, let me be more dogmatic about this: persuasion is a specialist form of communication. It presents its own challenges and will be seriously handicapped or jeopodised by any failings in basic communications. The importance of achieving understanding is returned to later; here bear in mind that this underpins any more specific techniques.

      There is a danger that persuasion is undertaken without sufficient care. It can seem easy: after all, if you know what you are suggesting, and believe (know?) it is good, surely all you have to do is tell people about it? Not so, as we will see. For example, a department head, intent on conducting an orderly and effective meeting, might want to sell people on sticking strictly to a published agenda. Sensible enough surely, but a brief request simply to do so may still prompt argument. Why? Because with no reasons given people may draw the wrong conclusions: it will curtail what I have to say, it will stop us dealing with X. They may react in a hundred and one different ways – all of which fail to easily agree to do what is wanted. Matters may work out to be worse still if the manager was condescending, or in any way inappropriately abrupt or demanding.

      This danger is a very real one too and disaster is almost guaranteed if you take the wrong view of the persuasion process. It is not to be regarded as something you do to people. That makes the process seem inappropriately one way, when it should be a dialogue.

      A USEFUL DEFINITION

      The best definition I know of selling is that it is "helping people to buy. Similarly, in non-sales situations, persuasion is well described as helping people to make a decision".

      This may seem simplistic, but it does characterise the reality of the process well. People want to go through a process of decision-making, indeed they will do just that whatever you may do. So, the core of what makes the basis for persuasive technique is a two-way process and both elements start on the other person’s side of the relationship. Always, you must consider the way in which people assess something and come to a decision. Anyone buying products and services illustrates what goes on: they investigate options and weigh up the pros and cons of any given case (and often, of course, they are intentionally checking out several competing options alongside each other); just as you do when you set out to buy a new television or washing machine.

      Whatever decision they are faced with, how do people make a choice? They go through a particular sequence of thinking. One way of looking at this, defined by psychologists way back, is paraphrased here.

      COMING TO AN AGREEMENT

      One approach to this is to think of people moving through several stages of thinking, as if they were saying to themselves:

      •     I’m the one who matters. Whatever you want me to do, I expect you to worry about how I feel about it, respect me and consider my situation and my needs.

      •     What are the merits and implications of the case you make? Tell me what you suggest and why it makes sense (the pluses) and whether it has any snags (the minuses) so that I can weigh it up; bearing in mind that few, if any, propositions are perfect.

      •     How will it work? Here people additionally want to assess the details not so much about the proposition itself, but about the

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