The Gift of Forgiveness: A Magical Encounter with don Miguel Ruiz
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Olivier Clerc
Olivier Clerc is a translator, an editorial consultant, and the author of six books, including Lessons from a Frog: Seven Life-Enhancing Metaphors and Modern Medicine: The New World Religion.
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The Gift of Forgiveness - Olivier Clerc
THE GIFT
OF
FORGIVENESS
OLIVIER CLERC
© Olivier Clerc 2010
The right of Olivier Clerc to be identified as the author of this work has been asserted by him in accordance with the Copyright, Designs and Patents Act 1998.
Published in 2010 by Findhorn Press, Scotland
ISBN 978-1-84409-190-4
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Contents
Introduction
1 An Unforgettable Encounter
2 The Crystal Jaguar
3 The Gift of Forgiveness
4 Afterthoughts on the Gift of Forgiveness
5 How to Use the Gift of Forgiveness
STEP 1:
Creating a Space for Yourself
STEP 2:
Reaching Inner Stillness
STEP 3:
Ask for Forgiveness from Others
STEP 4:
Asking for Forgiveness from the Devil and from God
STEP 5:
Asking for Forgiveness from Oneself
STEP 6:
Expressing Gratitude
6 Questions and Answers
Q: If, during this process, I ask for forgiveness from someone who has done something really wrong to me, am I not letting them get away with it?
Q: How many times or how often should I practice the Gift of Forgiveness?
Q: I neither believe in the Devil nor God. What do I make of this part of the process?
Q: How do I know whether the people from whom I ask for forgiveness really forgive me?
Conclusion
The Two Counteragreements
FIRST COUNTERAGREEMENT: Take everything personally
SECOND COUNTERAGREEMENT: Make lots of assumptions
Acknowledgments
About the Author
Recommended Reading
Introduction
You’ve got a new book to write now!
said Toltec spiritual teacher Don Miguel Ruiz, his steady gaze meeting mine. It was September 1999. We were sitting in the lounge of Villa Teotihuacan, one of five lovely Villas Arqueológicas small hotels adjoining Mayan and Aztec ruins in Mexico. The unique atmosphere of this ancient setting only served to add to the surreal quality of our conversation.
At the time, I didn’t quite know what to make of this sweeping, unexpected pronouncement from Don Miguel, a spiritual teacher who interested me greatly but whom I had met for the first time just four days ago at the start of a workshop. It’s true that those four days had been filled with life-changing events, and we had shared powerful experiences. Even so, as we met for one last time, the last thing I expected was for Don Miguel to make such a sweeping statement about my future. But, then, I had come to expect the unexpected with Don Miguel.
First, a little background.
I am a longtime Swiss author and translator. At the time of my meeting Don Miguel, I was also the editorial director of a Franco-Swiss publishing house, based in Geneva, Switzerland. It so happened that, while I was in Mexico, the original French version of my latest book—Modern Medicine: The New World Religion: How Be liefs Secretly Influence Medical Dogma and Practices, as it is called in the English-language edition—was just coming off the press in France. Ten years had elapsed since I had last published a book, so I was rather proud and happy to have this new one coming out, and I gladly shared this thrilling news with Don Miguel while we were both enjoying a drink. Needless to say, my next book was about the farthest thing from my mind at that moment.
Picture, then, my reaction when Don Miguel dismissed all of my most recent accomplishments in one swift and enigmatic declaration: "That’s already the past. You’ve got a new book to write, now!"
A long, strange route had brought me to Mexico that day, where I was just one of several French-speaking participants at a Toltec workshop led by Don Miguel and his long-term apprentice Maud Séjournant. A French native, Maud was a longtime resident of Santa Fe, New Mexico. It was in Santa Fe that she had met Don Miguel just as he was starting to share his Toltec teachings, and had worked closely with him for a number of years.
At the time of the Mexican trip, I had known Maud for eight years. We initially met in 1991 when I was chief editor for a magazine on spirituality based in Toulouse, France, and hired her to write some articles about Native American wisdom and shamanism. Seven years later, I was working as editorial director for a publishing house in Geneva, Switzerland,